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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know we'll be married and have kids one day, but not yet for goodness sake!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know my girlfriend is the one for me. I know someday she and I will be married and we'll have kids together. I can feel it in my bones and I just... KNOW. Problem is... Both of her best girl friends are married; one even has a kid on the way, her cousin just announced h... (131 words)

Does she like me? She smiles and her face turns red

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im a guy lesbian and i like this girl but we are just friends because she has a boyfriend but everytime im around her she smiles at me and her face turns red so does this mean that she likes me... (42 words)

He's either upset with her and trying to keep me out of it or he's trying to break things off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am having a hard time figuring out what is going on with a guy I have been getting to know over the past 5 months. We met through an online dating site, and we live a few hours away from one another, so we don't see each other very often, but we have both visited ... (434 words)

Am I wrong to be in love with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really need your help it's about me and my bestfriend of 4 years. We first met in middle school and it was love at first sight we immediatly clicked after months of talking we began dating. We dated on and off through middle school and each time we would br... (142 words)

It seems like I'm always the one initiating the conversation. Does he like me? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I'm gay, and I recently met someone online who is two years older than me. When I went to meet him, he told me that we have actually known each other for a very long time. He told me his full name and I was in shock, and I immediately became comfortable around h... (514 words)

Why isn't he interested in phone sex any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is now thoroughly disinterested in phone sex and instead makes it into a joke. He used to love it. What's changed? I'm worried. ... (25 words)

How can you justify looking at violent or rape porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't just mean like being beaten and screaming, I mean the stuff where the woman gets her head shoved in a toilet, where the guy does anything until she cries or gags, etc... Why is that OK to get off on so long as it's not child porn or bestiality? I just want to know guys ... (66 words)

Why text me still when she isn't interested and we've only known each other a few months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I told this Girl I've known for a couple of month that I liked her and this was her response: i don't want anything at the moment with stuff going on and I don't want to lead you on and I don't expect you to like be waiting around for me to stop being weird We texted abi... (162 words)

Is porn cheating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't no weather porn is cheating but every time I find out he is doing it he lies to me and says am inscure but when he promess he wouldt haw does he excpect me to react ????... (39 words)

How do you know if they felt the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love opinions from guys and girls about this: when you kiss someone, and it makes your stomach do flips, makes you feel on top of the world, how do you tell if it's having the same effect on them? When I kiss my new bf, that is exactly how I feel, and he always says ... (110 words)

I need help in this situation!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year, and i have maked up situations that i can talk to her, but i dont want to get her to know that I like her, cause if this doesn't work, I still want to be her friend. ... (246 words)

Really upset, not sure what to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex told me to back off and to give him peace because he's thinking I brag about my art. But I don't.. I was trying to talk to him about something. I sent him a quote and he came out saying he's sick of me or something, so I'm going to leave him alone. I don't even know where ... (86 words)

We texted each other all summer but I don't want to be "real life friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy going to my college facebook friended me over the summer. I accepted his facebook friendship, and then he began to chat with me on there. He gave me his number and told me to text him...I felt bad if I didn't text him, so I did just to be nice. We texted a lot over the ... (143 words)

I've lost my sexual self

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) age - I a 48 years old male. I have been married for 25 years. But my marriage is in crises,because I lost my sexual self. I m really ashamed,but I dont know what to do. I lose my erections right when I enter,also I have zero sexual desire. I went to medical checkup.... (144 words)

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not stupid, I know that an 18 year ... (159 words)

Boyfriend says he'll never get back with me again because I lost his trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past year, a close friend of 6 year... (281 words)

Should I stay positive and confident or accept what is happening.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 years just moved out and i find out last night that there is no chance that "we will get back together right now". She says she still loves me but she doesn't know if she is in love with me right now. We were engaged at one time but we called it off to work ... (196 words)

My ex is really starting to creep me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - not so long ago i wrote about not being able to broke up with my boyfriend because he wouldn't let me, he would start crying and begging and that broke my heart and made me unable to do it. then a week or two ago i finally did it. But now i have a bigger problem: He won't ... (235 words)

Do I cut him off? Try to ignore his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a some what complicated dilemma. Me and a guy friend were fwb i suppose you'd call it for maybe 6 months or so, this was last year and it also ended last year as he got a girlfriend but we agreed to stay friends. Basically a few months ago we ended up sleeping together, ... (316 words)

Lost my erection, and she's not happy about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - {Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined} 1.) ok, so this is the thing: sometimes when alone with my girlfriend i'm not getting an erection!!I do in the beginning when we start kissing each others lips and neck,but when we get naked i lose the erection and i fe... (177 words)

Do guys get surprised when the see what the breasts are shaped like without the bra?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are you ready for a nontraditional question? Do guys get pleasantly/nonpleasantly surprised (you decide) when the bras come off their girlfriends? Girls wear all sorts of push up bras, lifting bras etc. that I'm curious if guys get surprised at their gf's real breasts shape. ... (47 words)

When is it too late for romantic stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey every one! Just wondering, if you've been with a guy 8 months, is it way too late for him to do romantic things like bring you flowers etc? And how would you even get him to do these romantic things without bluntly asking? ... (44 words)

No reply to my text -- is this the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, We have a casual relationship lasting for several months. From january we used to talk everyday. He was the one initiating it and he was always very into me. Both of us we know this could never be a "real" relationship but both of us accepting it. Last time i saw him h... (182 words)

I don't care about the age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I've completely fallen for someone who is 7 years older than me. He means the world to me and im so lucky to have him in my life. The thing is is he is giving me all the right signs that he likes me, like letting me cuddle up to him, falling asleep o... (199 words)

How do I express my feelings too her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been txting a girl since 3 days... And she doesn't know me well n I know her v. well and she wants to meet with me as soon as possible, I know If go and meet her, I won't hve anything to tell her, because I'm kind of shy at times.. and this migth change evrything.. I ... (168 words)

She still calls, but less often.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I meet this girl online about 2yrs ago. And every day we talked all night long as much as we could on the phone. In things where great she had a 8 yr relationship with a other guy when we meet in she was still going out with him. So about after 3 months she got rid of him for ... (416 words)

Do you think she will come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old college students and my ex is a 16 year old in high school. We dated for a little over a year and we were inseparable. While at college we missed each other a ton and it hurt a lot. Over the summer she dumped me because she said it hurt to much when I'm gone ... (134 words)

Have you ever fallen for someone you didn't get along with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, have you ever fallen for a girl you did not initially get along with?... (15 words)

I need help coming out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I really hate that I'm gay, but I want to come out and let everyone know. I'm really scared of how people are going to react because most of the people in this town are pretty homophobic/stereotype about gay people. I've never told anyone and i want to badly... b... (62 words)

Do I dare tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So I just turned 18. I have a question for everyone. I would do this not as anonymous...but I kind of want no one to know who I am....ya I know that's weird. Here goes. Once again I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had guys like me and I didn't like them. I've kind ... (460 words)

His parents wont accept me as thier daughter inlaw

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf yesterday informed me that he cant marry me since his parents wont accept me as their daughter-in-law since im elder to him by 3 yrs and divorcee (no kids though). we are seeing each other for past 1 yr, we started off as friends and then fell for each other. He s... (201 words)

I'm not a mistress. or am i? I'm fed up with feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What do I do? I've been with my 'boyfriend' for almost 5 years. I love him and he says he loves me! But, and it's a big one...I've never met his friends, he seens to 'jump' when his ex says 'jump'. This I understand as they have three children together, however I feel so let o... (137 words)

I said harsh things that led to our breakup

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I orginally posted a question, but for some reason the moderator(s) rejected it for being inappropriate, which does not make sense to me as I have seen so many similar questions being posted. Anyway, I will repost this without a lot of details, and if anyone wants to know more ... (389 words)

Guys are so hard to read!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So...I've been wondering about this. I am a female college freshman..I've been here for about six weeks now. I have been loving college so much, and I am thoroughly enjoying nearly every experience so far (I say nearly..not every class is fun lol). Anyways, my real question... (525 words)

Advice on getting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok right im 16 years old and ive never had a boyfriend im not hidius looking and im a bit on the chubby side but all through high school no boys have ever really been interested in me i dont know what to do and how to get a boyfriend please help me and can i have any tips or ... (68 words)

What's more important ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies! what's more important to you a man or money? Gentlemen! what's more important to you love or hanging out with your friends? :) thinks carefully ladies and gentlemen!... (29 words)

I regret it all, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

Whats wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband n I have been together for 13years married 8 an I feel he don't care for me any more. We don't talk, we have sex maybe 3xs a month, an I caught him looking up a girl on the internet that we work with that he was accused of sleepn with. He said he did it because he ... (194 words)

I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im not sure if i love my boyfriend anymore im .t years still living with my parents a college student and i have a part time job. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years n im not sure wether or not i still love him..hes the only guy i have had an intimate relationship ... (114 words)

One night stand with my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week i made a big mistake , i had a 1 night stand with a male friend of mine. Since that night he has asked me to move in with him, told me he will treat me like a queen. I really don't know what to do?... (50 words)

I think my doctor likes me

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?... (29 words)

He's leaving the wife!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it'll be all my fault and I'll be... (89 words)

How do I console him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with a guy since middle school. We haven't talked much for a couple months because of some issues involving work, friends, and a fight. Today he told me that his dad died three days ago. i had no idea what to say to him. What can I do to make him feel be... (59 words)

My girlfriend had sex with another guy because of me!! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with my girlfriend for almost 1 1/2 years, i got real drunk, some girl jus had 100% intention on doing everything with me, i barely spoke to her the entire night. I still dont know to this day why i followed her up to her room. We had sex. My girlfriend found out through ... (292 words)

Do boys like emotional girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very shy, sensitive and emotional girl. boys please answer. do you like emotional girls.if she share with you her problems and wants you to help her about anything like friends, family etc.and if she cries too much??... (39 words)

I want to remove myself from these one night stands and just be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me out with this...I know I've screwed up, don't know what to do to fix this. I met a man about 8 months ago, it was only intended to be a one night stand on both our parts. And we never saw each other again for 5 months, then for whatever reason we got back togethe... (164 words)

Need some help on where to shop in sydney?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a question about love or a relationship but I'd like to have some help please. I am going to be moving to Sydney in Australia by the beginning of next year (hopefully) and I would like to know if anyone would be able to help me. I want to know what shops... (135 words)

Is it too soon to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok what gives? Recently I've been hanging out with this guy and I'm just not sure if hes into me or not. Sometimes i think he is and sometimes i think otherwise. Hes invited me over to his place just him and i and hes invited me to come hang out with his close friends as a ... (193 words)

Is drinking occasionally SO bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are having very hard time in our relationship. My wife is very loose temper and gets upset very easily. We are married from last 7 years and have 2 kids. In last 7 years we are having fight almost once every month or so. Whenever we have any disagreement on ... (256 words)

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we were best friends, but now ... (397 words)

What is this guys deal? is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, a little over a week ago, i met this guy in my history class at college. we made a little bit of small talk before class started and even after the lecture started, he kept whispering stuff to make me laugh. then, he passed me a note to introduce himself and ask ... (292 words)

Is this being intimate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, Are you being "intimate" If you cup your ex g/f face in yr hand when saying goodnite and giving her a kiss on the cheek and a hug?... (35 words)

How can I overcome my trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've had trust issues for a very long time, from a very young age i can remember being reluctant to trust anyone i didn't know very well. when i was 10 my father left but continued to visit me, then after he got a new house i visited him for the whole weekend. he used me ... (883 words)

Wife's sexual habits have changed, does this mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has always been very conservative in the bed, but lately she has done dirtier things in the bed and I don't know where she gets the ideas from. She deepthroats, she spits on my tool when going down, she asked for a facial the other night, etc. I like the renaissance,... (75 words)

My girlfriends mom is so hot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys im 26 and my gf is 20. we have a baby together and everything is good. but the problem is her mom is 36 and is SO HOT. i mean hot hot hot hot! what do i do?? i stare at her constantly when im over her house. im trying not to get into creep mode but shes THAT hot. how ... (68 words)

Anal skin tag

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this is embarrassing.... I have a skin tag on my anus (im a girl btw) Its just a loose piece of skin, nothing else. Woukd this bother or freak them out? I know the whole 'if he likes me it wont matter' bla bla bla etc, but seriously, is it something that can be over... (65 words)

My girlfriend hates my mother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody, Well here it goes. I currently been with my gf for 3 years now and we have had a ton of ups and downs. In my opinion high school drama. But we had a kid together shes the best thing that ever happened to me. shes 17 months now and just plain out awesome. she... (375 words)

He says we are not compatible sexually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How important is sex in a relationship. My boyfriend of 3 years says he loves me but that he thinks we are not compatible sexually and that sex is really important to him. I like that he may end the relationship because of it. Im not sure what I can do- he says that when w... (174 words)

I like my boss, but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day, I went in for an interview, and the guy who interviewed me seemed to be close to my age or a couple years older, with a very attractive face and pleasing manners. He seemed quite friendly and easily amused. I however get the impression that he might be some kind ... (540 words)

Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ... (50 words)

Something just doesn't feel right about our sex life! Is he gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age - My husband is a great guy. He is very Affectionate but.. I wonder sometimes If he could be gay, he is overly concerned With his looks and cleanliness, hates To get dirty. When we have sex, he only Wants to orgasm when he enters me from Behind. He hates giving me oral se... (164 words)

Star signs and love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This a rather strange question but I'm very curious about this specific little subject :) A lot of people turn to the zodiac for tips on love and relationships. When I tell men I'm a Scorpio, they either think sex fiend, or possesive, jealous psycho :p Only the first may be ... (89 words)

Sex is very uncomfortable or my girlfriend and that is the last thing I want for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 10 months now. We've had sex a few times but it is very unsatisfactory. We were both virgins going into the relationship, so it's not like we're unhappy at each other, it's just frustrating. The thing is, my penis is quite b... (167 words)

Boyfriend is just TOO big!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Ok. So i'm new to this whole thing. But - i have a problem and i'm hoping theres some people out there that are going through the same thing. So my new boyfriend and i started sleeping together last week. He's Black. and he is HUGE. I sometimes feel pain because he is so... (98 words)

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just recently he revealed to me that ... (93 words)

My insecurities about his ex wife are causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age - I have a boyfriend who has 2 sons ages 19 and 25. I have moved in to their home with my son age 25. As far as our living situation everything is working out just fine. I am having trouble accepting the fact that the ex-wife (Mother of the children) involves my boyfriend and ... (401 words)

Does my boyfriend want kids or is he just being silly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 26 and do you think he wants kids or is just being silly? these are things he has said to me: once we drove past a new playground and he said "we should have lots of kids so we could go to the playground all the time". we were discussing what i would do ... (183 words)

Will my boyfriend ever stray or get bored of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. will my boyfriend ever stray? were together a year now we see each other nearly every day. will he get bored of me? i dont want him to i love him to bits it just worries me sometimes. is it just me been paranoid? we get on great were always laughing and joking, were goi... (73 words)

My girlfriend can't cope with problems or stresses... Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

- My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years, living together for 1. Most of the times we get on really well. We do lots of stuff, we have fun, we have a normal, healthy relationship in all aspects. However, my girlfriend has a problem. She can't cope well with s... (378 words)

In a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but might have screwed up our future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but I might have screwed up any future for us. I was gone on a trip for my internship for a couple of months. I ran into my boyfriend's ex who told me that my boyfriend was done with me because he was seeing her while I was ... (192 words)

Am I the only afraid of living in an apartment building?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody I know this might be a bit of an unusual question but am I the only one or is there anybody else who is afraid of living in an appartment building? Up until now I've always lived in houses and I'm about to move into a building with 7 flats. For several rea... (165 words)

I am confused, and wondering if I have scared him off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - You guys have been helpful in the past...please help again. Right, I have moved on in my life. Relocated, new job, starting again. Recently a friend of mine called me and invited me to a dinner party. It was local to where I am now living and he said I would know ... (458 words)

I am too scared to meet him because of age differences

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been overweight my whole life. I'm used to rejection and being told no guy would ever want me. Recently I've been talking to a guy who is about 17 years older than me. I am attracted to him and he is attracted to me, we've planned to meet a few times but I always bail out ... (132 words)

Too much talk of sex ruining relationship

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - NOTE: Self Titled by asker. I'm in a relationship for about a year with an amazing girl that I have so much in common with. We are beginning to make wedding plans, but I don't feel totally ready for a few reasons. First, I am still getting used to my post-divorce life and... (369 words)

My gut says she is hiding something

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30 September 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Ok so im somewhat seeing this girl latetly she has been going out and drinking a lot she has a lot of guy friend and everything plus she is still inlove with her ex. she allways seems to treat me like crap after she sees him and its like she is embarassed being with me. I have ... (123 words)

I feel he is not making the effort

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues from early in the relation... (240 words)

Unrequited love......

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you think of one sided or unrequitted love? Well it doesn't have to be "I love him and he doesn't" but "I love him and he doesn't know about it. I can't tell him because I am married or so on." Have you had a similar experience? How do you deal with it?... (59 words)

I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me!

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me. we've been dating a year and in that time he has only been out once round the bars and nightclubs with his mate. He goes to see his friend once a week on an afternoon when he finishes work early. Once in a blue moon he will play p... (300 words)

Should I move to my ex's city like I had planned while we were together?

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broken up we were together for a year and it was mainly a long distance relationship. When we were together I was planning on moving to her city and whenever I would visit her city I fell in love with the city and could ... (135 words)

In love with a visitor from the past

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this girl who used to be the girl friend of my younger brother's buddy some 5yrs ago. They breakup back then and she suddenly left town. We've chatted a couple times on the internet throughout this period albeit casually. She came to town and we had a couple of ... (85 words)

Coping with Guilt and Lost Love, Please Help

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been about six months since the end of my relationship and I am still in agony. Get got very close and very deep very quickly. Everything feel apart so fast I had whiplash. I loved this person with my whole soul. When we met I didn't want a serious relationship and... (1591 words)

Does he like me or did he just want sex?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have known this guy for about a year now and he comes to visit my brother in law and sister, and he knows i like him, i told him myself. we stayed up one time talking til like 5 am and we started talking about me liking him and he told me if he did not like me he would ... (198 words)

I'm going out with my step-mums grandson, is this right?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have just started going out with my step-mums grandson he is 14 and im 13 but i dont know if it is right or not we're not blood related so that doesnt matter but i dont know wheather its right or not help me please!... (46 words)

Still Broken Over Break-Up

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last May (2010), my boyfriend of a little over a year broke up with me. It came out of nowhere, and completely destroyed me. He broke up with me right before we both Graduated, and said that he was tired of not being able to do what he wanted. However, I know he just wanted to ... (283 words)

Married in love with another man

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old. I got married in 2006 after me and my husband lived together for 5 years.. Prior to my marriage when I was 13 I meet my first love davey at church camp he lived a little over an hour away... Well we started dating talked on the phone but since I was 13 the ... (355 words)

I want out, I don't love my husband

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 2 years and I got to the point where I don't know if i love my husband anymore...we were a couple for 2 years before we got married, long distance relationship, since then we've had lots of problems. He's jelous, immature, he's hit me more than a couple of ... (270 words)

I told him I love him, but he's making plans he won't commit to, with me.

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and gay. A little over a year ago I fell in love with one of my best friends. I told him how I felt about him in November and I know he avoided me for a long time. Whenever I would ask if we could get together he would tell me that he didn't know if that day ... (686 words)

How will I ever regain his trust?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I really messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Needless to say we have had many ups and downs over the years. Recently I began talking to an old friend who I used to have feelings for and have slept with. I know he has feelings for me which is why h... (719 words)

Tips on finding someone in my situation

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - does online dating work? I am finding myself more and more socially awkward/self conscious around girls ever since my ex treated me horribly and left without reason over a year ago (she has since apologized and we are still friends), I think it is mostly out of fear of it ... (162 words)

She broke up with me and was with another guy three days later

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I recently broke up, and just 3 days after she started dating this guy that she met when she was still involved with me. The feeling has just been so incredibly painful, I don't know what to do when she told me this I was literally in shock for a few hours. ... (132 words)

Blow jobs?? how do I do it?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you give ''head'' or blow jobs?? i mean i have had sex and stuff i have never given head before though?! help mee out please!!... (27 words)

My husband wants to watch me with another man and I'm thinking about it. Need advice pls.

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 6 years and he has always had this fantasy of watching me with another man. Before I've always said no and he never pressured me, just dropped hints every now and then. But this year I've started to indulge him with his fantasy during our ... (255 words)

My (ex?) wife's schemes

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30 September 2010 (M)

age - My wife gets big ideas and they cost a lot of money. These ideas involve significant amounts of risk and also breaking the law sometimes. I'm just a regular guy and I object. As a result she told me we're getting divorced and she's paying me out. She's paid me out and I've ... (95 words)

My best friend's brother seem interested

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with this girl since kindergarten, and we are now in 11th grade and I have been getting different vibes from her 9th grade brother, I think he might like me. He has not told me or anything but I just have this feeling because lately he is acting more ... (122 words)

Why is everyone I work with so difficult?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I work as a manager for a small office. I've always tried to be pleasant with my staff (all women) by saying "Good morning" asking how they're kids are doing (when they've been sick) occasionally saying, "Oh, I like what you've done to your hair" when they come in with ... (408 words)

Sometimes he seems to be into me and then other times, he ignores me!

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so there is this guy that I met and we go to school together. I am not sure if hes into me, because I introduced him to my friends and he sometimes hangs out with us at lunch, but he doesn't flirt at all with me, but he has complimented me many times on my looks, etc. H... (181 words)

We split because she said we didn't do anything specal together. Any advice?

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my gf split on amicable terms...i thought things where on the mend and improving she says she split because we didnt do anything special, i spoilt her too much and we spent too much time together...she also got tired of my anxiety disorder..she says she finds it dif... (270 words)

He tells me he doesn't want to get married again! Should I stay with him?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with a man that is 17 years older than me. This is not a problem at all for me or him either, I am very happy, I just cant tell if he is or not. I have two children and I do not want them to get hurt if I am in a relationship that is not going to go ... (225 words)

I need a man's point of view on this one!

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - From a male's perspective, do men as a general rule feel uncomfortable dating a woman who is separated and in the process of divorcing? If so will you explain why?... (31 words)

I just want my Mom back the way she used to be! Help me!

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've already sent in a plea for help a few months back. I got wonderful feedback, but I'm still having trouble. This has something to do with my mom. This is a really hard topic for me, and I apologize in advance if I write a lot. I just want to warn, because I need to tell ... (1407 words)

She's married and unaware I love her! What can do about this?

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a woman who is married I have known her for about 7 years she was single when I met her but had no feelings for her she has been married for only 4 months and about 5 days ago I had a dream about her (I won't say what happend in the dream as this is not a ... (137 words)

Is this true about military men?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it true that some men who have served in the army for a number of years have difficulty in knowing how to treat a woman? and always seem to divorce and marry multiple times?... (35 words)

Am I gay, straight or bi?

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am straight but I like to go on gay porn somtimes and I do like girls but I want to no if I'm gay straight or bu... (29 words)

Her Mom dislikes me...should I move on?

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30 September 2010 (M) age 26-29 - I've fallen in love with this girl that I enjoy spending timw with, and when I asked her out to homecoming she said yes. The problem I'm having is that her mom hates me for being "lazy" (when ever senice i knew that i loved her i've been trying my best at school when ever she ... (173 words)

Woman says she is pregnant with my husbands twins!

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my husband for ten years we have three kids together ages 3,4,8. and he amitted that he cheated on me with his manager . He said he slep with her three times he claim he dont remember when because he was really drunk and she agreed that he was drunk because i ask. ... (72 words)

Am I getting played by my ex?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past couple of weeks, my ex-boyfriend and I have been acting like we did when we were dating and have expressed our feelings towards each other with flirting and suggestions, etc. However, the few times that we have tried hanging out, something has happened that makes ... (106 words)

Do I vanish or tell him how I feel?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi....I liked this guy G for a while. We dated unofficially....then he hurt me a lot and I ignored him....I still like him a lot. I just found out he has an official relationship.... Should I just "vanish" and do what I do to supress my feelings or tell him I like him still?... (55 words)

How can I show him I'm interested?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently reconnected with an old friend online. We comment back and forth daily and have recently started sending messages. Thing is the messages are mostly about movies we like, things we've done over the past 10 yrs., etc. How do I step it up a notch to show I'm ... (66 words)

How do I get the spark back into our marriage? she wants a seperation!

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have known each other for 17 years. We were together for 13 years; married for 11 years. We have five kids together; our oldest is 10. Very recently (six days ago), she sat me down for a private dinner while the kids were in various locations (friends', their ... (256 words)

I want to tell him I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but how?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always been told that in an emotional sense you should never give a guy more than you're getting from him. What I mean is by telling him how you feel about him and so on...you know, let him be the first to say I love you, and so on. This is all understandable w... (242 words)

How can I make myself trust him?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so first of all i have had a really bad past and childhood with all my guys and my mom guys cheating. so i have a huge guard up when it comes to not trusting! there is a new guy that im talking to and have been for 2 months, he is so good to me! he treats me perfectl... (129 words)

Tips for Phone Sex

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so im in a long distance relationship with my GF and was wondering if i could get any tips for phone sex. When we were together we had sex quite a bit and when we talk on the phone we reminisce on the times spent together. So yea any help or advice for phone sex, i know she ... (94 words)

I need to get over my ex so I can move on and give my heart to my new guy

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i dated a guy for 2 1/2 years! i did everything for him. bought everything, just showed him my love, gave him my whole heart.but he did nothing for me. never held my hand or told me how pretty I was, and he was controling. so i broke up with him... it broke his heart. h... (213 words)

My friend never laughs at all

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - my freind is a girl and i dont think she has a funny bone in her. what i mean is that she never laughs at all.. for EXP: my fat asain funny guy (we all know one)was with me when i was with her, while we were talking about knotts, and he said "im not paying 50 bucks to have ni... (89 words)

Truly in love with married man

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 21 years and with my husband since I was 15. i have changed alot over the years and my marriage is one of best friends more than lovers. 8 months ago I began chatting with a guy on a social network site of a interest we both share. We have since ... (185 words)

Is he gay and just not comfortable with coming out?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf of 2 years and I were friends in primary school, and we reconnected via a social network site. I hesitate to use the term "soulmate" but that's certainly what it feels like for both of us; and we feel very lucky to have found each other again and have such a huge love ... (402 words)

Have I Orgasmed?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if i've had an orgasm. I've had a few boyfs and we've had sex, and there's been a massive build up, he's been down on me or whatever, and it's like build up build up build up and then it's like a little explosion but only 'downstairs'. Some girls on here g... (116 words)

I don't want my sister inlaw and brother in my life anymore!

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - 2 months ago my 9 year old nephew was bugging me to come down my home so i just said yes without figuring out my bills Iwas supposed to pick him up 2 weeks later but never did do to my mortgage being due .My sisterr in law had a fit and hasnt spoke to me since if she doesnt get ... (166 words)

How can I get my mind off of my male teacher?

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30 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13, and my band director is male, and is married to a woman. He looks to bein his 40's, and just had I child. I've had a crush on him for a few years, and I know I'll never get a shot, because it's illegal, and he isn't gay, but ... What can I do to get my mind off of him?... (63 words)

Should I tell her who I don't like?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my friend and I were talking about other people that thought we liked them but we just acted that way to be nice. There is this person that used to be really mean to me and now I don't like them but they think I'm their best friend. I metioned this without telling ... (168 words)

He wants me to talk during sex?

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30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend often asks me to tell him naughty stories when we're having sex. Is the fact we're having sex not good enough for him? I don't require him to speak. Plus I find it really hard. I just want to enjoy it not have to speak and think. ... (49 words)