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writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. He knew I was a virgin so we took things slowly. We didn'thave sex until the 6 month. Recently, he's expressed his wanting to perform oral on me. But I just can't imagine or let anyone kiss me down there. Am I overreacting? Is it normal that I feel this way?I don't want to be selfish. But I find it hard completley letting myself go and having him in control. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010): My wife was the same way. She tried it one time and she changed her mind about it real fast.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 It is normal to feel this way, but you should definitely give it a try. Oral sex is one of the best ways to reach orgasm. Most women feel self-conscious down there, so try taking a nice long bath or shower so you don't have to worry about it (even though the smell is a turn-on for most guys). As well, have him try just being between your legs and touching around there. Like kissing your inner thighs, rubbing around the area. And have him start slow, like breathing on the area and gently kissing only the outer labia. It's OK to just do that for a bit until you're accustomed to the sensation. It can be hard to just let go, but the rewards for doing so are worth it.
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