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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to be close to him, but I don't want him to think I like him more than friends yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this guy whos actually my friends brother, we get along well, we think the same , and we are very happy together. I want to be close to him, but i dont want him to think i like him more than friends yet. So should i tell him that we should be friends.... (60 words)

Why wont he give me oral sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well, here's the problem. I have been with the same guy for 8 years...he's my first. we have literally done everything together and lately he hasnt been recipricating the favor....I give him oral sex regularly without question and he asks for it. I asked him why he hasnt given ... (92 words)

I'm tired of getting pushed aside. Why is my self-confidence so low?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm some what of a nice guy. Im a lover not a fighter. For me, all my life it seems as though I have no back bone. Im friendly, but at times im rude. My friends somewhat take advantage. They thing they are better than me. What should I change about myself. What is causing me to ... (161 words)

I'm just terrified that this girl is gonna steal another one of my crush's hearts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 11th grade girl. A boy in two classes of mine and me are pretty good friends. I've liked him for a couple of months and I think he likes me back (?). For example, he thinks everything I say is hilarious and always seems really happy to talk to or see me. In class, h... (362 words)

One night stand's statement really turned me off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just writing to ask for people opinons concerning a one night stand. I met the guy in a club and we quickly ended up back at mine and half way into sex he said "im not going to come inside you". i dont know why but i felt ashamed and pushed him off. Why did he say t... (90 words)

I thought he was my dearest friend and lover..and he threw away 22 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't even know where to start and yet feel better just by starting. This man is or rather I thought that we were the best of friends and that we would see each other through any and everything. We have been friends over 22years or at least that's what I believed and lovers ... (342 words)

How to move things forward with him without looking pushy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! Hoping you can help me move things forward a bit with a guy I am interested in. It was about 3 months ago that I went on a date with a lovely man, 4 years older than myself - but we got on absolutely great and there was definitely some chemistry there. The date... (249 words)

Anxiety attack, all went wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need some advise i hope you can help, im a 26 yr old male living in the uk, my problem is this, ive just started seeing this gorgeous amazing girl that im crazy about but i seem to have developed some sort of anxiety, when we became intimate at the weekend, it just all ... (101 words)

I'm heartbroken! I found naked pics of him and a guy he was texting to on his phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My phone got damaged on holiday and my bf gave me his spare phone to use temporarly so I put my card in his phone. Needless to say I was browsing the phone to see if anything from my phone's memory card was saved, and I came across a few messages and opened them to see if t... (459 words)

Why would she want to talk to a guy who stood her up twice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the story: 19yr girl meets 41yr old man as a virgin. She goes on a date with him to try and forget 33yr old guy who enchants and frustrates her. 41yr old and her kiss for an hr straight. But then, he asks for a 2nd date and stands her up. So, she hopes he falls headfirst ... (196 words)

My asian girlfriend hides me from her family

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my girlfriend and its really making me frustrated and confused. We have been together for four months now, i'm white and shes asian. I have brought her around my entire family and introduced her to all of my closest friends. As for her..shes not allowed ... (291 words)

What do I say to express what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - okay, its long. i am 15 years old just to let you know. basically, i was at my bands gig the other day, and my best friend, whos a girl, was there, and we started to get really close. hugging loads, etc. she has a boyfriend, and she tells me that she wants to dump him, and... (114 words)

I want my lover's wife to know about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age - hi i would like to know how to get y lover's wife to find out about our affair without her knowing it is me he's having the affair with. I don't want him to know either. the reason is the more unhappy he is at home the more time he coes to me. ... (55 words)

I'm in love with my sister-in-law's brother and everyone in my family is against it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am 17 and i am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with this guy thats 24 and he tells me that he is MADLY in love with me but....my ENTIRE family is against him he is my brothers wifes brother and omg he is amazing...he has a gf that is a couple months younger then me he just got ... (200 words)

Cheated on and he got her pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for about six years and I found out that my boyfriend had cheated on me about six monts ago. I forgave him for what he did because he confessed, but he also included the fact that the girl is pregant. So im furiated at the fact there is no a baby ... (140 words)

My husband and I are like roomates, should we stay for the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I finally told my husband how i was feeling, he said he's been unhappy for a while but never told me this. We have no sex life, maybe once every two months? The last time we had sex was when I realized he's not just tired from working,the kids, etc. He just doesn't ... (413 words)

How can someone just suck you in and then 3 months later spit you out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I just broke up after 3 months. In the first 2 months he told me that he was crazy about me, and loved to be with me, always called me, and I thought we were both very happy. We have a lot in common and we both wanted a long term relationship. Well after 2 ... (251 words)

Am I just worrying too much about the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 months ago, I met someone at a friends party and we started talking alot the day after and he asked for my number. We started talking literally all day, everyday. He made a lot of effort to make conversation with me as well. Throughout the 2 months, we have seen eachother w... (335 words)

I didn't bleed, and it didn't hurt my first time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i never did not a drop of blood, nd ... (100 words)

My online guy wants to be with me but can't leave his ex because she is ill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there this is going to sounds on but on when on website and found a man and we are texting away but have not met yet but he told me he had a child and that he had split with his e.x but was staying in the same house untill he got money together to move out once he had ... (224 words)

Someone told me he cheated and there was a condom wrapper on the floor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going crazy out of my mind. I have been scared to ask anyone for their unbiased opinion because I fear that I may come off as a nutcase, but here goes nothing... In April 2009, I began dating a guy who I'd known since I was 9. We were separated when we were 10 and reco... (685 words)

Does he deserve this last and final chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved him and how much i cared ... (829 words)

Totally devastated. How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend and I broke up and today I found out she's already dating someone else. As you can imagine this is really painful for me right now, it feels like someone just ripped out my heart. Can someone please tell me what I can do to make myself better?... (54 words)

Is there a scandal here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've used this site before and found it really helpful so here we go again. I have been with my partner for eight years now and he's great to me a really nice guy. Two weeks ago i met someone while i was out a friend of a friend ans he was really nice to me he walked m... (126 words)

We've broken up but he still looks at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I got dumped just about a month ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationship, we got on very well and he did not dump me because of a bad relationship, but because he felt we were very different. He still loves me and meant everything he said. He is very complicated and ... (211 words)

My 1st time wasn't horrible and there was no bleeding why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

He's threatening suicide unless I marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was a fourteen year old freshmen, I met a boy who was absolutely gorgeous, and was a senior. He and I started dating a week after meeting. It was a really great relationship until he cheated on me so I broke up with him. He threatened suicide and went as far as taking a ... (165 words)

Svelt fast weight loss pill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone knows about a weight loss pill called Svelt fast? :)... (12 words)

Has she lost it? I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, well here's the deal, I'm 15 and I going out with a girl who's almost 15 (14 tuning 15 next month). She's pretty awesome, I used to like her before we dated. She used to avoid me, but then she said she liked me because how she states "I'm really nice, and mature both ... (190 words)

Convincing my boyfriend of 3.5 years to marry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relation with a guy since 3 n a half yrs.he used to be my lecturer in college.he is a very good guy and cares a lot about me.both of us are from different places and from different castes {in my country some families are quite orthodox about caste}when i talk ... (235 words)

He's been in juvi, but we really care about each other!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, well I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is what you would call a "juvinille delinquent" I guess. But i love him soo much! My parents dont approve because now he is in juvi. We've had sex alot and I really care about him. I know he would never do anything to hurt ... (78 words)

Can our relationship survive my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now, we met at university and promptly moved in together when she finished her course. After I finished uni I was between jobs and unemployed for a while whilst she supported me... (366 words)

She kissed him, so he says. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.... I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault..."she kissed him and he pulle... (169 words)

In love with my cousin: Love or Lust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am deeply in love with cousin. i am 16 and he is 21. he also is in love with me. however our family does not yet know about that. i believe that we are one of the most perfect couple as we barely have fights. in fact our likings is so similar that there is no way for ... (174 words)

Would a womanizer/player ever change if he met the right girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy in my class whose a notorious player. He's systematically made out with like every girl I know, and has no reservations about being completely physical with a girl he just met. He's cute, charming, and has a killer sense of humor, so it's no wonder he's always ... (255 words)

Reasons for vanished sexual drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) age - Is this possible,that a previously highly sexual man,just stops having sexual desire all together? Not for me,his wife, or any other woman/? Can someone have no sexual feelings altogether? Or it is just covering some issues? What could be the explanation for vanished sexual ... (45 words)

Why can't I lower my standards in datiing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, how do i get her off my ... (536 words)

I don't know how he feels and I don't want to make a fool of myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I do not know how i got myself here but it is a bit late to complain. We didn't started as fwb, we liked each other and we made everything in our hands to be together. We travel to see each other (we live in different countries) and he seemed really into me. He was ... (355 words)

My sister hooked us up, why won't he call now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys just wondering if anyone can shed some light on this situation as i am going crazy thinking about it... right so my older sister is in a theatre production and asked me and my cuzine to come and watch it and we did... now there was this really goodlooking guy in it ... (270 words)

Why is he cheating on me with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid,i have a boyfriend of one year and six month. we never had sex i am still a virgin, his cheatin on me with his fomer girlfriend who cheated on him with his little brother. i dont know what to do. is it possible that his triyin to hurt her back or his stil love ... (67 words)

Why is my boyfriend pushing me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now.I wouldn't say that it is true love yet.He is very down to earth and understanding material.At the beginning we were very sexually active,in fact i met him through a 'one night stand'.I'm not denying the fact that he is good in ... (227 words)

I can't get pregnant but I'm afraid to ask my doctor why

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so my and my fiance have been together for 6 years and we are trying to have a child but have had no luck. We have sex all of the time so timeing is not one of my concerns. We know that he is fertile because he got a previous girlfriend pregnant when he was 16 but they ... (96 words)

I want to apologize to him but I'm unsure if I should

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Almost 2 years ago,I got involved with a man who was in Europe for business. He would stay for 6-7 months so I didnt consider our relationship serious. He would tell me he likes me a lot,we used to spend time together but didnt have sex....he would complain about how I don't ... (313 words)

I feel so used and so jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

- I feel like i really hate myself. Im in a really dark place. Basically, Im 27 years old and single mum to 5 month old baby. I dont know whether its cos I spend quite a bit of time alone and have a lot of time to think about things and Ive just started to hate myself and ... (263 words)

I want a large family, and I want to start when I'm 19. Is this a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Before you answer this question, could you PLEASE understand that, I know I may be talking about being young to do all these things, but I believe that if I'm ready for it, I shouldn't sit and wait around. I should do it. My parents don't know this FULL story, but they know the ... (303 words)

Should I sleep with him if I don't want to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I continue to sleep with my boyfriend if he has asked for sex which I don't want to give?... (20 words)

Could I have HIV?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am 38 years old female and had two sexual encounters 9years ago, i am really scared i might be hiv, generally i have been in good health, odd cold/flu generally accompanied by a cough(im a smoker), chest infection x2 in that time, but over the past 3 years i have had ... (122 words)

Is this a lost cause??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age - For the past several months, I have had an ongoing "thing" going with a fellow colleague. We are both Senior Managers, both married, and yet whenever we meet, there is a clear spark. The way he looks at me is unsettling, and I find myself also giving him very suggestive looks. ... (161 words)

Is he trying to tell me he wants a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 26 and iam 20, i may be wrong but this is what is on my mind. we've been together for a year and a bit and quite recently he's made hints about babies. there have been a few occasions where he's mentioned this: once we drove past a new playground and h... (207 words)

How to discuss my sexual fantasies with my partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my husband for 8 years and married for 4 years.We have a great relationship and sex is good but only lately I have been having outrageous sexual fantasies like the desire to be heard while having sex, making out at odd places etc.I once asked him to do a nude ... (268 words)

Will she ever be ready, or is she just teasing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I dont want to come off as a jerk so please don't hate on me. My gff is 19 and a virgin, am I 22 and not one. We have been dating for 3 months and she says she still sin ready. I DONT pressure her, I don't want to hurt her in any way BUT it is killing me! We are together all ... (275 words)

How could I have hpv this long and not know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been with my boyfriend for 14 years. He is the olny one i been with. On May 2010 my DR call me to tell me that I have hpv. I know he gave it to me. my question is could I had hpv for 14 years and not know it.... (51 words)

Did I say something wrong by saying I wish we can be friends when we have not even gone out on a date yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I said someting stupid, do I still have a chance? I met this guy online and we started mailing, texting and eventually talked on the phone, he already asked me out on a date. Everyting was going great we exchanged pictures. He sent me a text saying I was pretty a... (241 words)

My boyfriend lied to my face& up to now he is still hiding it from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just this summer, I saw that my boyfriend had one of this girl's number on his recent texts, meaning he was recently texting with her. Oh and he knows that I hate this girl so much. So I asked him about it and he told me that "probably someone was using my phone"... then I ... (165 words)

After our 3some and 4some I am wondering if I should continue the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome before and because I am ... (407 words)

Should I stop sleeping with him before I get hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've slept with an old friend a few times and I really like him. The only problem is that he is really bad at keeping in contact. The last time I saw him, I told him that he was pretty rubbish at keeping in touch with me and he told me that he was afraid of getting hurt and ... (153 words)

Is it too early for those three special words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've dated and had my share of hookups. I've only ever loved one person and he was my boyfriend for about 8 months. I started hooking up with this guy about 2 months ago. He says he likes me a lot and I believe him. I'm starting to love him. He always tells me to tell him ... (94 words)

Does he really want to get back together this time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend split about three weeks a go. He told me he didn't want to be with me at first and it was a definate no, then we met a couple of days later and i asked him again and he didn't he didn't think so, but he didn't know whether we were going to get back ... (239 words)

I have no idea what happened that night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my question what the hell happened this night? so i am 16 and it was a saturday night and me and my freinds decided to go out into town (clubbing) becasue i had a free house so then we could come home when we wont too. When we were in town shelley met up with this... (302 words)

When do friends become something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf said he has no male friends he only has a female friend he see every day cause they work in the same place and if we are in a discussion and she come into the his line of site he then wont let me finish telling him my news he will focus all his attention to her and go on ... (163 words)

He is Always in my Mind, but I can't have him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm a college junior who could use a helping hand in relationships. I've only had one boyfriend and I was a freshman when I met him. We were so happy being together our first year, but when sophomore year came around I felt myself outgrowing him. He was always ... (287 words)

Husband texting girls saying iinappropriate things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , im 33y .I'm married for 8 y now. i have 2 kids. i got married from a nice person who loved me since Highschool . After we get married i really loved him alot . but recentlly he changed alot . he starts to go out with his friends girls and boys and i discover he text alot ... (113 words)

I want my virginity back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had premarital sex wid my xbf.he used me to said he ii marry me.now i get a guy who luvs me and marry me.but i dont want to marry him like dis .i want my virginity back plssss help me...is there any treatment for that?...thnk u ... (47 words)

I feel like such a loser!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like the biggest loser in the world. I'm 18, have recently started univeristy and I feel completely alone. Everyone around me in my old town seemed to be in a relationship, and here at University everyone seems so confident when talking about them. I've never really h... (139 words)

Complicated relations with girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is gonna be a long question...I fell in love with my best friend's girlfriend and I mean...completely. Never felt about someone that way. She's beautiful and has a deep personality, which I think doesn't fit with my friend at all. Don't get me wrong, I like everything ... (1084 words)

I want to leave for all the wrong reasons

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M)

age - Hi there. I am a 47 year old gay man in a gay relationship for the past 17 years. Ever since I was young I knew I was gay and built my life around being gay. However in recent years I found myself being attracted to the opposite sex and to follow this through decided to try a ... (1100 words)

I don't want to trap him, I just really want a baby!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 29, really keen to have children. I have a new bf of a few weeks. I really like him and things are going great. I'm so broody, though, I'm thinking of trying to get pregnant without telling him. If he wants a baby, great, if he doesn't, that's ok, too. I have a ... (92 words)

Lacking stamina in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How long should a girl be able to go for before she gets tired during sex? This is nothing to do with coming, but more like physical exhaustion. I can go on top, but I can only go for a few minutes before I'm exhausted. My boyfriend can go for ten times what I can, and much ... (111 words)

I'm just not sure how to work him out, and how long to hold back on having sex with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'd love your opinions (esp. from guy readers) as I'm confused about a new relationship I'm in. I've been seeing a lovely guy from work for a few weeks, having spent a month or so talking to each other before that. He has arranged some really amazing dates for us. He is ... (376 words)

I can't put the ring back on until we worth things out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am reposting w/more recent info in hopes of getting an answer.No replies last time. I broke off my engagement but I am having second thoughts after seeing him again.? After a terrible month of really bad communication and him blowing up and disrespecting me and my family in... (432 words)

My boyfriend is acting weird, did he do something he shouldn't have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend wen out this friday to a college party at his school he commutes....and i leave about 4 blocks from his school he invited me but i decided not to go cuz i just wouldnt feel comftorable there....anyways the next day he gets home around3 in the afternoon i let it ... (326 words)

Are men good at reading women?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, you know women are meant to be the masters of reading body language and emotions, etc? I have to say, I've never once been wrong about who is and who isn't interested in me. I'm pretty good at sussing people out. But what I want to know is, are men any good at it? Because a ... (206 words)

It always happens when your making other plans....

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been single for about 3 years now, mainly because I've been flat out busy and not really looking at all, I'm comfortable with that. Anyways I've been planning to go overseas on a holiday for a month which I leave for in a few weeks. Two months ago I met a girl who has ... (227 words)

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

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27 September 2010 (M)

age - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the babysitter of his 4 children... (218 words)

Should I be patient with my boyfriend?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He is really sweet and absolutely wonderful to me. But he keeps telling me he's confused about his life. He was married for 15 years and it ended last year. She was well off financially so he never worried about finances when they ... (245 words)

Caught between my father and my boyfriend who are both strong willed

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I and my boyfriend seeing eachother from last 3 years. i am 25 and he is 26. my parents wanted me to marry now as its my right age to get married. so i told them about my boyfriend, who is from culture. as i am north indian and he is a south indian, we differ in every way, our ... (273 words)

My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... i felt sick.. disgusted.. and ... (194 words)

It's so hard waiting, when will I get my blessin'?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what it is, but I feel like the only thing I'm missing in my life is a husband, I understand that marriage is hard work well so is long term relationships, sometimes I feel like if will never come and other times I feel like its so close I can touch it, I'm ... (71 words)

Although I am usually chatty when he is around I just freeze up!

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help. there's this guy and is OBVIOUSLY too good for me. i really like him. all my friends think i should just talk to him. but i cant seem to bring myself round to it. im usually the most talkitive person ever. i talk to EVERYONE, but when he comes, its like im... (78 words)

I don't know if he is interested or even it it WAS flirting!

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feel as though I'm going crazy as I just can't get my martial arts instructor out of my mind. I've known him for nearly 3 years and we've always got on, but recently we've been talking more and he's getting me involved in the teaching side of things (which is fair ... (261 words)

I know I need more than good looks to get me through

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I m 26 years old girl with many issues.I have amazing boyfriend,good,tolerant,calm,very rich,I get almoust everything what I want, but I never feel satisfied.I ve been surfing the net in search for help to my overcontrolling and agressive nature,even the most stupid things ... (286 words)

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last few years and always came ... (653 words)

Getting married in 6 weeks but can't get over my insecurity and self-esteem issues!

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Im 23, getting married in 6wks (wow!) and i cant get over my self esteem/insecurity problems! My fiance is wonderful, always telling me he thinks im beautiful and the most gorgeous woman in the world etc etc, but most times i laugh or tell him that im not. He sometimes ... (595 words)

Trust? I'm not sure what to think about this situation but I don't want to go down that road again!

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Major Trust Issue. Ok. So here is the issues. Yesterday my bf who i've been seeing for the last 4 months was arranging drinks with a girl that he has told me in the past that he is good friends with. The issue is that he messaged yesterday to say that he was having a few ... (326 words)

Is it wrong to love who she is, but be uncomfortable about her past?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has been feeling increasingly distant the past view months. We have been on a smooth relationship until now, but I sometimes wonder if she's started to stray elsewhere in her mind. I feel somewhat responsible, because she seem unhappy deep down. She had a boyf... (142 words)

Scrotum hair removal?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to remove the hair from his scrotum. What is the best way to go about this? He's also worried it will be itchy when it grows back.... (30 words)

I'm so confused... my girlfriend doesn't want a relationship but she still loves me?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK the weekend just gone has been rather rough on Saturday night my girlfriend told me everything was moving to fast.. i can understand what she means as we've only been together for a month... but Saturday night i thought we sorted everything out but then Sunday she broke up ... (125 words)

I'm feeling really bad that we touched each other just for fun.

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - we are not a couple but we touched each other that night in a scool club's camp(we'r both 21). it all started when she got close to me as she liked me or something so i thought id respond(cause i like her). so she took me to bed says that she wanted me to sleep with her(just ... (169 words)

How do I move on from a drug user that I love so much?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody how can i move on from a drug user that i love so very much ...We always said that we were always going to stay together no matter what but it hurts so much seeing him killing himself with the drug and all the lies he been saying i cant anymore so i take change ... (120 words)

What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I'm an ugly bloke (I think so anyway) and I have never had a girlfriend before, and I want an honest answer on this question...What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking? Most guys who are not good-looking grow up to be bitter and twisted (like me... (109 words)

Need help with my life with girls, badly

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, ok here is the thing, i have a big china wall infront of me when it comes to starting conversation with a girl. We are talking a wall up to the sky, i feel like my brain is just empty , nothing there i cant come up with a single word when i want to approach, i mean... (513 words)

Why is it that I am having this strong feeling that I am still being thought about by a former partner?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it that I am having this strong feeling that I am still being thought about by a former partner? I would admit that I am the type who could easily let go but this does not seem to be the case with my former partner. For some reasons, I can just strongly fee... (186 words)

Do you think my wife could have lesbian desires?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - well this may sound strange i have always thought my wife is attracted to very good looking women. Recently a friend of her'S and me supposedly committed suicide and we finally were able to verify that .Long story short she used the tub twice today and i listened at the door it ... (132 words)

I'm worried about my guy and my sister!

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27 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i m in problem ,totally confused,i love some one(rahul) by heart eariler we were good friends and that boy used to like my sister but she rejected his proposal first,and know when i and rahul are together she wants rahul back,but rahul says that he just loves me and he just ... (79 words)

Should I be mad at my best friend?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyyy!! I just want to know should I be mad @ my best friend if she told her mom ( which is whom we both work with ) that I don't have my diploma? I really really trying to get my GED ( for 2 years ) and I've known my best friend since the 10 grade ( we are both 19 ) but I ... (274 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to get stuck.

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - When my girlfriend is having an orgasm i feel like something is sucking my dick and she becomes very tight.is this normal for i fear i might get stuck.... (29 words)

I've tried everything to get my ex back. Is it possible she loves me still?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok I've tried everything to get my Ex back. Even after almost a year I can't get her out of my mind. I want to know if she loves me. She told me the other night she did. She introduced me to her family (including extended). She has discussed the future with me and when ever I ... (106 words)

Am I lesbian? Does thinking sexually about a woman make me a lesbian?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm 17 almost 18. I have some big doubt about my sexuality, it's something that's killing me. Ok, I currently have a boyfriend and all my life I've had relationships only with men. I'm both emotionally and sexually attracted to men, but also I'm attracted only sex... (367 words)

Gf wanting to get married to use my gi bill

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so ill just get straight to the point im 19 and in the Marine Corps my mos is mp and im also working on my bachelor degree in criminal justice my gf is still in highschool and she lives in a small town in the country and the only way kids that live there go to collage is if ... (172 words)

Jealous, insecure or do I need help?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 22 year old female. I have been with my husband for almost 6 years now. We have two little girls 4 and 2 and a half. We love them and eachother very much, words can explain it. But i often find myself jealous. For example i don't like to watch tv with him or ... (172 words)

How can I make him appreciate me?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. I feel as if I give our relationship my all but he doesn't give anything. I feel like Im not appreciated. We spend a lot of time together and fight, but when we are apart all i want to be is with him. (Cant figure out ... (128 words)

Boyfriend being cold and distant, is it related to stress?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, thanks for taking time to read my question. Ok, so um I need help like urgently. The best relationship I ever had is about to collapse and I want to do something before it's too late. Here's the situation, I've been seeing this guy for almost 2 years. I love h... (407 words)

How long does a women's prime last?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early 20s. I feel better about ... (75 words)

Wife and I are more like roommates--do we stay together for our kids?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - HI, I have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids. My wife and I argue from time to time (I would say it is fairly normal) but thereis no abuse of any kind. I would desribe us as upper middle class and our kids are really great and they mean the world to both of us. They... (485 words)

Husband looks at young men pornography..has he turned gay?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My hubby and i have been together for 15 years and now he has turned to porn and looking at gay site if he is doing this does it mean he is gay or is their mor to it cause i dont understand why he would do this. we have children and he looks at pictures of young men and i ... (81 words)

How can I make anal sex a clean experience?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone:) My BF has been asking me to try anal.. But I keep on saying NO!! I'm really scared, terrified you can say! I'm afraid it's going to turn out really disgusting (definately know what I mean).. he never tried it before, and I really want to make his day at least on... (97 words)

Boyfriend likes rough oral sex?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never had a problem getting a guy off with my mouth. Infact I like to think I pretty good at it. The thing is, my bf now likes it rough. I am talking teeth slidding down the shaft, I have sucked him so hard I cracked a filling, and that he says is just getting into ... (107 words)

Trouble having anal sex

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend really really wants anal sex from me, but every time we try, I can't follow through because it hurts SO much. He hasn't even gotten his cock all the way in yet. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to make this better? He's done it before, and I really want to ... (64 words)

Window for the "Previous Sexual Partners" talk has passed... what do I do?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello World, I had sex with my girlfriend on our first official date, and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place with finding out her previous sexual history. I was a virgin when I slept with her (and was blind-sided by the whole experience at the time), so she fo... (322 words)

Will I ever have a boyfriend in my life?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 years old and i never really had a serious boyfriend, ive had guys intersted in me but i wasnt in them.Sometimes i like being single because a lot of my friends have boyfriend and there always getting in fites and telling them what to do and stuff but i wonder if ... (69 words)

I'm afraid he's going to leave me for someone else

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a fantastic relationship for a year now. He's absolutely wonderful and treats me so well. But I am quite insecure. He's never done anything to hurt me or make me think he'd leave me. He even called me the love of his life the other night. And yet, I am still scared ... (217 words)

Still Not Over Breakup

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I got out of a bad relationship in July. And I'm still not over it. I have hooked up with a couple guys but I haven't felt anything with them really. I get depressed after I hook up because I think of my ex and my relationship with him. He got a girlfriend a couple ... (147 words)

Boyfriend beating me--is there any safe way out of this?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been with this guy for 3 years, and he's been hitting me for a while now. A long time actually. After we were together for only 6 months he started to hit and it has continued these past three years. I had the option of course, like every other girl to leave him but ... (290 words)

Cheating with married man, why do I feel its all my fault?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a situation where-as-though I messed with a married man. My intentions wasn't to get seriously involve but I did. I was told he was separated and lived by his self but all that was a lie. He made it so believeable because he always talked to me in front of her ... (229 words)

How do I overcome the feeling of not being good enough during sex?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just meet a really lovely guy who is 10 years older then me. he says that he has been praying for someone like me and thinks im perfect just the way i am. sex is really big to us both and deep down im extreamly sexual, the problem is that when i am with him and we are ... (164 words)

My girlfriend moved out after 3 years... I love her!

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27 September 2010 (M) - well im back after 4 years.so i have been with my girlfriend now for three years we actually split up a year ago but i guess i felt we worked it out because nothing changed we still slepted in the same bed had sex did everything couples do.so she told me 6 months ago she was ... (297 words)

Do I tell her and risk ruining my new life or hope my feelings go away?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my friend (a girl), I forced a fight between us because I got into this *huge* fight with my ex-boyfriend and it was really scary and (oh the irony) my friend and ex look almost identical!! So anyway, for a few months now, I've had a *major* crush on my friend but ... (140 words)

Is there any way I can keep the space I love and keep a guy interested?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 26 year old female, and I've never had a boyfriend. I've barely been on a date! I've had guys interested in me, but usually I'm never interested in them. There are only 2 guys that I regret dismissing before we really started anything, and now one is married and the other ... (151 words)

Is it realistic for me to hold out for the day that he isn't selfish?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has always been quite selfish. Not in a terrible way. But he does continue to put himself first. Even when I really really need him. I asked him to come over the other day as I had had an awful day and just needed comforting. He had asked this on previous occasions ... (123 words)

How to be honest with my homegurl without hurting her feelings?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a homegurl who I call my sister. I knew her for years but we are so different, from the way we dress, to the guys we meet and date. I'm pregnant now and she claims to be the god mother and suppose to be the host of my babyshower. She hasn't once brought anything for the ... (281 words)

Are her parents holding us back?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love and started a relationship with a girl 12 years my junior. i'm 31 and she is 19. We get on so well, we can talk to each other about anything, we share similar interests, we enjoy each others company. we both feel the same about each other and we just ... (391 words)

Anyone had any results from Kegel exercises?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,has anyone had great results from kegel exercises?... (8 words)

How do I react to my girlfriend's actions?

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my GF about 4 years ago, at first we just talked a bit but I kinda fell for her pretty fast, I asked her out but she refused, I was a bit upset but she was important for me so I stayed a friend for her (and I was REALLY a good and caring friend) even when she dated other ... (685 words)

Gf living life of riley, while I work to making a home - fair?!

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27 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - dear all, my gf dosent see a future in me, because i have 15k student debt! we where making out after a session of sex, and i asked her how she slept, as she seemed to be having nightmares. she didnt want to tell me at first, but after persuasion, came out with it. sh... (339 words)

The language of love, is this flirting or just making friends?

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a culture-related question about flirting versus making friends. My boyfriend gave out his phone number to 3 girls he said were flirting with him. When I told him I didn't like it he claimed that this is how he makes new friends. Now, I have asked several friends ... (221 words)

I watch porn so I'll be ready for sex

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27 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl teen virgian and i like to watch porn so when i do have sex ill be ready is that weird and is in normal to masturbate?... (30 words)