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writes: Hi im a 24 year old girl i met this guy in varsity, we were friends for a year and on our second year we started to have sex until i bcame pregnant. he told me he wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy but the child did not survive. he came back we did the same thing found out he had another girl. I tried to get out of the relationship but i was stil emotionaly unstable with the baby thing and all.. now we both working we only 3 hours apart he visits after every 2 weeks we call each other. just found out he is cheating with the same girl again dont want him but he does not stop contacting me! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Let him go and be firm. He is clearly not committed to this relationship. He keeps cheating on you and the second you got pregnant and really needed his support, he ditched you until he found out that you miscarried.
He does not sound like a very good boyfriend, so remember that when he contacts you. Remember how much better you are than him and remember the man you deserve - one who is loyal to you, loves you and supports you even more during the hard times.
When he calls, tell him you're not interested and to not call back. And then, start moving on. Don't open your life or your heart to him again, because it seems that he will just hurt you over and over again. Good luck, sweet!
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 You will have to let him go. He does not seem to be a good person at all. If you do not want to lose touch with him, you will continue to be in pain and stress. Probably you can start with reducing calls and all. As it is your calls is just once every 2 weeks which can make you see his seriousness about you. I dont think he is serious about you. Please think about what you want from this man.
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