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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok here goes, me an my partner met 3 years ago she had just had a child and things worked perfect. as time went on we became closer an closer an the child even calls me dad as her real dad is not around. ok so basically we both have no real family so this restricts the one on one time we get and there for we are lucky to get sex once a month.im really struggling with this and cant help but feel im missing out as all my friends have all this crazy sex i get told about and im left frustrated. my partner has even said she doesnt like me playing with myself? wtf!! im 27 and have a high sex drive. i love my little family but i cant help but look at other girls as im not getting satisfied, what do i do??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): Go to a therapist-- not to fix anything, but because they can give some awesome sex related advice that will perfectly help you and fit your specific needs.
Also, consider hiring a babysitter more often.. Or having friends watch the kid. You do need more time together, that is the real issue. Focus on trying to find a way to spend more time doing the things YOU want. It can be hard with kids, but it is never impossible. My parents always managed to have time together and have had a perfect romantic life and they had no family in the city to turn to and very little money. It isn't impossible.
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