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writes:I'm 19 and this is my second year in college but my first year AWAY at school. I'm really starting to enjoy it, but I'm kind of worried of how I'm putting myself out there. I've been here for about 5 weeks now and have had sex with two guys already. It was both protected but I'm worried I'm going to look like a hoe. But I mean, isnt that what college is for? To experiment and have fun? Reply to this Question
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reader, Serpico +, writes (27 September 2010):
You are of course entitled to do what you wish consentually. That said, dont be the least big surprised when "The Guy" comes along that he may have a big problem with your past......
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (27 September 2010):
Looks like you didnt need our advice anyway,your mind's already made up.If anything,maybe you wanted us to think along the lines you're thinking and encourage you to "have fun".
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@cindy yupp those are the exact memories im talkin about; sry if you didnt have fun teenage yrs. i dnt see anything wrong with hving fun, as long as its safe fun..but thnks 4 ya opinion neway
@gabrielle, yeahh of course. i mean, im 5 hrs away frm home, in a skool surrounded by cows, horses and corn fields. i hvnt lost focus, i definetly KNOW wat im here 4, and i always get my work done b4 the fun even starts...i hve big dreams and im determined to make them come true
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (24 September 2010):
 And here I thought colleges were temples of learning...
Look, unless you're a Trust Fund kid who doesn't need a real job anyway, you need to be focuseed on your studies and conscious of the fact that you will need to have employable skills (unless of course you're doing one of those dreamy courses which provide no knowledge relevant to the real world, in which case the point is moot) when you get out of there.
As long as you are conscious of that, and focussed on it, it doesn't matter who your spread your legs for as long as you're discreet. The unfortunate fact is that sex, partying and all that goes with it is a time-consuming affair that will inevitably distract from your studies.
To sum it up, experiment all you like, have fun too, but don't lose sight of why you're in college.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 "Memories to remember ": what, a collection of random cocks ? Nice memories.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyup i guess so...but i only hve one life to live...and ima live each day like its my last, so whatever i do, its because i want to...when im done with skool, itll be memories to remember
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): just don't forget that there's an end to it all... and you have to live with yourself and your "fun" mistakes
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni had freedom at home...so its nothing new to me. but there was no alchol involved these tymesz, but idk. i DO feel bad about it but idk what to do. i guess i need help learning how to say no. or just avoiding situations like that altogether from the get go..
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (22 September 2010):
Oh yeah sure girl!Do whatever you want and sleep with as many guys as you can!Then you will be called a slut,people will have no respect for you.A bad reputation isnt nice to live with in college,believe me.Live responsibly,dont let the freedom overwhelm you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): If youre looking for reassurance, you wont find it from me at least. College is a time to, at best, date and get to know others personalities to know what kind of mate youre looking for (that is if that is your intention). By experimenting sexually you put yourself at maybe a disease risk and even an emotional one (esp if alcohol is involved which is usually the case among 99% of american universities).
Regards
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): experiment and have fun...is good but not the way you are doing it....
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