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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Break up and close the book!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So it's been over a week since i had the last episode with my boyfriend flip out drinking session...I have been doing good regarding not drinking...I've aplogized many times to him over e-mail and the last time i saw him over a week when i left his house. He says he needs space ... (149 words)

Love too soon???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here’s my story.. Four months ago, I married my girlfriend of two years. A month later, I found out that she is cheating on me. I was a wreck for a month. And then I met this girl. We have so many things in common - whether it be our interests, our background, our c... (658 words)

I'm feeling very vunerable and needy for somebody!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past year I have lost all my friends to university (they are all far away) and generally drifting away/poor effort to stay in contact. Then 6 months ago i found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for months and I ended it with him. When i split with my boyfrien... (181 words)

My friend might think I'm self centered, help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my friend really likes this guy and never stops talking about him! Like it's always about him, and it's kinda annoying. When I mentioned something to her about her being all obsessed I guess you would call it, she got mad. She told me that I did the same thing months before ... (91 words)

Husband texted over 1000 messages over the last month to another man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age - My husband of 26 years texted over 1000 messages in on month to another man. I saw it on the phone bill.I never saw any of the messages...What do you think? Says was discussing wives, children and problems......... (40 words)

Cheating on b/f fell in love with co-worker but he used me for sex only

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a long time relationship with my bf and almost year ago I fall in love with my co-worker. He has a gf.We had a sex...I think for him it was only sexual, for me...Ilove him so much! Now he is ignoring me and I feel like my soul hurts. I want him back so badly! Please ... (64 words)

Mixed signals? He's so hard to figure out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this guy at school and I've liked him ever since school started back(3 weeks ago).He was dating one of my friends at the time so when they broke up he knew one of my other friends and she got us talking.It turns out he's really funny and sweet,but he's so hard to ... (178 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well 1st off we have only been official for two months, but it feels as if we have been together for over a year. The situation is he use to try to impress me and actually want to come see me and now it seems like a chore. After 2 weeks he told me he loved me...took me a little ... (267 words)

Hard breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's the situation. My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and it's hurting really bad. We were in a long distance relationship of 1 year and things started out fantastic. But towards the end of the relationship she started to pay less attention towards me and gradually ... (188 words)

Please help.. cheating boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some help. My partner of 8 years told me two days ago that he chated on me three years ago when I was living in Russia for 6 months. He was lonely, and resentful and had been drinking and had taken some drugs and so he called a prostitute. Two days ago he said... (272 words)

How can I let my crush know I like him without being to pushy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm really into this boy. I've only just got to know him recently. Hes been in my year since the start of school but I've never really had the chance to talk to him before. We now have been sitting together in maths since school came back. Its great, I've got to know him... (120 words)

My boyfriend is too affectionate towards other females

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21 September 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. When we go out he is always hugging and kissing other women. He also call them his other girlfriend or wife. I need some good sound advice because if I ask him to please stop doing that to me in public he tells me that I'm ... (80 words)

Should I just tell him to go be a slob somewhere else? I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - help! i'm not sure what to do. I've been in a relationship now for 3-4 years with my kids' dad. Right now i cant even look him in the eye. here goes. I am a stay at home mom. He works night shift. when he gets home from work in the morning, he takes the dog out for a wa... (419 words)

We need eachother to move on, opinions please!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and him are just likely as a friend, coincidentally, both of us just get dump by our boyfriend/girlfriend.. so we think we need each other to move on.. after knowing him for about a week n days, on the few time(2 or 3) of our meeting,we already holding hands, hugging a... (71 words)

Is this a test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now. Sometimes if we go out for a meal she will comment on a woman and say she looks pretty and she tells me to have a look. I really dont like doing that while I am with her because I dont want to give the wrong impres... (135 words)

I've been talking to this guy online for a year. Should I meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have been talking to this guy online for a year and half. I have seen him on webcam. I have seen his facebook and myspace. I am not sure if he is tryly interested in me because I am usually the one who starts conversations with him online. I ask most of th... (115 words)

My husband tells me not to move during sex. It's strange.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - In my past relationships, I never had a problem with a man stopping me from moving with him during sex. My husband tells me not to move, and let him do the work. Do anyone know a reason why? It's strange... (41 words)

Am I weak or I am I just really cursed with bad luck?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) age - There is everything wrong in this moment in my life. At the last 10 years was an unstoppable downward spiral. What destroyed me greatly.I m unable to give all details, because, its too easy to recognise them. I can tell you generally. Everything is constantly under attack. I ... (216 words)

Stressed in South Carolina

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21 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I'm married, but not happily. A few months ago I met a woman at a large gathering of mutual friends and we ended up spending the night together. She had been in a long relationship that had ended recently. She wasn't dumped, per se, but she didn't want the relationship to ... (495 words)

Want out but I'm weak

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey ppl.i really have to let my bf go but i cant.how do i move on?he doesnt call me or anything yet i just had his baby last month.he hasnt seen her at all but when i cal he acts like he wna b with us til death.i luv him but i want out.but how?... (55 words)

Why can't I climax from sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is a common problem and still I cannot seem to find the answer I am looking for. Are there any special techniques to help make me come during sex? I enjoy sex so much with my partner and feel fully satisfied after, yet I never climax. Friends all tell me they cli... (263 words)

Love triangle! how can I get this guy to like me and the other guy to stop liking me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well there is this guy, well 2 guys and they are my best friends. Lets just call them Ginger and Elli-wet. Well I like Elli-wet and I have for a while and school has started and its the 3rd week. But last year we were all friends, ginger,elliwet, and my bff in the whole world ... (222 words)

How can I talk to him before it's to late?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi oki tommorow im in this class where i sit next to this really really cute boy and everytime i have that class i tell myself todays the day i have a real conversation with him! and thne i look at him then and i dont no what to say :\ he also told he was leaving school s... (118 words)

Should I let him go or fight for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my bestfriend and i both like the same guy. i know its so original, but i need help. the other night, i he told me he liked us both but that he liked my friend more. i knew that it was coming so i just gave up. i told him that he should be with her not me, obviously i wasnt ... (139 words)

A question for the guys!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I read about this "guy psychology" thing a bit ago, and I was wondering if it's true or just a load of crap.. So guys, please tell me this.... Lets say you have a girlfriend. She's amazing, sweet, kind, affectionate, funny, cute etc. Basically everything you could p... (453 words)

I like this guy but my friend likes him to, what should I do?

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21 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i have this problem i like this guy alot i told him his one of my friends i wanna get with him but he's kinda a player an goes out with one of my homegurlz an i dont wanna hurt her by gettin with him but im not sure i should get with him becuz hes alwayz on some gurl he's ... (97 words)

Why did my husband lie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Six months ago I found my husband on MySace, Facebook, Tagged, Yahoo personals, Fling, and a few more like that. At first he claimed someone hacked his email and it wasnt him. Then he claimed he did not remember and didnt know about them. Finally after I had proof he admitted ... (133 words)

I like this guy, but I don't know if he likes me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - and I dk if he likes me back. When older ladies see us together, they tell me that he really likes me because his eyes light up and he gives me his undivided attention. Yet, sometimes in his conversations he gives a physically description of the type of girl he would want to ... (136 words)

My ex girlfriend, I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my x girlfriend and i broke up a month ago we were together for about a year we had a really close relationship hanging out every day and never got tired of eachother i loved her to death she was the first real girlfriend i cared about so much that i would do anything and ... (612 words)

Love of my life, getting back together with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here it goes gang. Long time reader, first time poster. I recently had a strange even unfold. First I will give some back history. I dated this amazing girl for about 2 and a half years. She is a grade younger than me (only 6 months in age apart though). We started datin... (667 words)

Torn between husband and boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Two years ago my husband left me. After he left I started talking to my ex boyfriend from 20 yrs ago. Ue lives in another country. Last year i lost my job and I am back with my husband. our relationship is very platonic but not marital. On the other hand I am still talking with ... (78 words)

Am I attracted to women or just this one woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am a woman and I am attracted to men, definitely. I like men. But just recently I've met a female who I think I have a bit of a crush on and it's kind of embarrassing. I know that she is bi and once enquired to a friend about my sexuality to which my friend replied that ... (120 words)

What am I supposed to do to be a supportive girlfriend during a rough period like this without allowing myself to be used as a punching bag

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, hope this isnt too long. Some background...my boyfriend and I have been together for one year now. For the past month or so he has been acting rather strange and very distant. He didnt seem to want to spend any time with me, I got the feeling as though my presen... (328 words)

My lover's husband found out about us and beat her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i m in relationship with my friends wife, i had feelings for her but never told because she is my friends wife. after the gap of about 1 year i used to visit their house. their i saw that my friends behaviour with his wife was so rude and he does'nt care about her. he beat her ... (262 words)

I wish I could take the two men and combine them into one! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have my partner and a lover,but I would like to break up with my lover because he is married and my partner loves me very much and to his eyes I'm the perfect woman and I want that to stay like it is so far,but I'm very in love with my lover because he is totally different ... (174 words)

FWB relationship--i do not want to feel like I am just good enough for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a FWB relationship for four months. It is a long distance thing and from the beginning was clear that it will never be a real relationship. He started talked to me every day, chasing me for months and caring about me. He was very sweet and i really liked him... (301 words)

Hes pretty much got a whole porno store should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age - My situation is this....I am 46 and my boyfriend of almost 2 years (whom lives with me in my house) he is almost 41. Little age difference there but not a LOT. Well, the first week after he moved in, I caught him in the office at his computer with a nude girl on the screen, ... (306 words)

.Why would he want to hurt me when he's the one who dumped me twice?

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21 September 2010 (F)

- Me and my ex have had a very weird sort of relationship for the past 5 years. I went out with him and he dumped me for another girl (5 years ago), we didnt speak for a couple of years then he split up with her and we sort of got back together. Then he dumped me again and we ... (286 words)

He put 4 fingers inside of me????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and have been sexually active with him for about 8 months. On Monday we had sex and half way through he pulled out and fingered me for a short while, until I orgasmed, and then we continued. He'd ... (112 words)

My friends are taking advantage of me! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When I started a new school two years ago i was really popular mainly because im the sort of person who looks good but im quite shy around people. so i started off with lots of friends but when the other popular kids noticed i just hung around in the background they started ... (197 words)

Due to circumstance involving this girl I feel like my life is unraveling around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

- Dear Cupid, please can you help me. I'm 31 years of age, I suffer from crohns disease, epilespy, bi polar depression and anxiety, I have 2 sons from a previous relationship who I now don't see and in july I met this girl and we slept together a few times, but unprotected I'm ... (851 words)

My girlfriend doesn't say I love you anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think my gilfriend is scared. She's acting cold on the phone and not saying I love you anymore, she used to say it 10 times a day for months :). She just moved to my country to be with me for the winter but shes studying in a town thats not too close to mine. We havent seen ... (483 words)

One of my close friends likes my boyfriend and its making things awkward between us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I havent got a major problem, just a little one. So il try keep it as short as possible. Last year i started college, as people do all my friends mixed in with the new football boys from other schools, the basket ball boys and the golfers. There was one boy when we ... (555 words)

We had a promising first date but now she barely replies to my texts, what is going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello out there, So I had a very promising first date last week. We went to have dinner and we chatted with each other for about three hours. After our date was over I walk her to her subway stop, she then says I wish you didn't have to work tomorrow because I would like for... (290 words)

My wife decieved me about having an abortion and an STD in the past, and now I am struggling to forgive and forget.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - When my wife and I were still dating she told me she had been with lots of guys. I asked her if she had ever had a STD or been pregnant before, she said no. Two weeks later the told me she had herpes, one week later she found out she was pregnant. Hours before my son was born ... (130 words)

How can I tell this player I don't want to be his bit of fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been fooling around with a guy (kissing and some oral) he doesn't want a relationship just fun, I have always known this, and i don't normally do this sort of thing but i do like him, he wants us to have sex and I really like him but I am worried I will end up falling for ... (120 words)

How can I gain weight after my illness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 yo.. I had a good physique till 15. And suddenly I lost all my weight due to illness. I've been doing exercise and all those stuffs.But do I have any other way to gain my weight faster. Cuz i'm sick of myself.Everyday i look at myself and i'm so depressed.Please help... (64 words)

How can I get my friend to see that she is wasting her time on a horrible guy and he is only going to end up hurting her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

- Ok, my best friend has been in love with this guy for 7 years but theyve never had a relationship. This is because he would rather use her for a one night stand than have a relationship with her. She knows this but every time he clicks his fingers she goes running to him. For ... (316 words)

Having second thoughts after breaking off our engagement....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ugh. I broke off my engagement but I am having second thoughts after seeing him again.? After a terrible month of really bad communication and him blowing up and disrespecting me and my family in anger, I broke off my engagement. I still loved him, but no matter what I did, I c... (350 words)

Why would a man turn a woman down even when he is really horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age - why man turn a women down when they are really horny? is it the woman or is something else???... (22 words)

I don't have feelings for my ex anymore but I feel like we should give things another go for the sake of our child....

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21 September 2010 (F)

- Hey guys, my problems a little hard.... Basically, I have a child, a 5 month old boy, with my ex. We werent together very long when i fell pregnant and split when i was pregnant. But he still provides for our son and is an excellent father. However, me and him have not got... (295 words)

Why do I not last very long in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - when i am going to sex with my girlfriend my sex is no longer.only 1 minutes.can you give me a suggetion.... (21 words)

Why would a man say he likes you as a close friend and then ignore you?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age - why do men say they really like someone as a close friend and then they ignore you like you were never there?... (22 words)

I feel bored to tears with everything in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advice. Have you ever felt bored to tears with everything in your life? Interacting with the kids, my professional life, dinner parties with friends, playing poker with the boys, going on a trip to see a big NFL game - and worse of all, having sex with my own ... (378 words)

Why do men in relationships watch porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age - why do men in relationships have to look at porn sites of women and women as well as men and women and watch sites with other men jerking off?... (30 words)

What are the chances of us working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Have been with my partner for 14 years - have 3 kids and are engaged to be married. We have always had quite q bit of stress and 2 years ago I suffered quite a major depression for 3 months. We were back on track although had started to drift in some areas - not enough time for ... (279 words)

Caught in the middle of a love triangle: My partner is in love with me and the mother of his children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age - Dear readers, I'm presently caught in the mids of a love triangle. the guy that I'm in love with is in love with two women. This was not suppose to happen because she is his long time family friend from childhood. They both got married to other people and it didn't work out... (415 words)

Trouble with the father of my child......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i do someone please help. my daughters father an i are now not together. because he thinks he can lie an get away with it. but what he didnt know is that i find out everything. well now he still wants to hang out and tell me to drop everything bc i messed up our ... (99 words)

Is it all women, or just my wife that have boring sexual fantasies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So, my wife really gets off on hearing about my sexual fantasies. She often asks me to tell her, " what were you thinking about last time you masturbated.". Then I will tell her, WHATEVER it was, be it having sex with our next door neighbor, the Highschool girl that was ... (243 words)

Am I wrong for wanting this relationship with my cousin to continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok - i met a woman one night and we intantly clicked. i fell in love with her, i have unbelieveable feelings for her and when im with her. when we would lay in bed i felt like nothing in the world could touch me. i am 28 she is 41. well i just found out that she is my first ... (285 words)

Will this exercise plan work the second time around or do I need to do more cardio to lose weight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - i want to lose weight before meeting my ex..i know i am not heavy but i think i could afford to lose 5-8lbs if not more. I am in my midtwenties..before college i actually dropped a decent amount of weight and kept it off all throughout college..i think after being in a relat... (158 words)

On average, how often does a woman in her mid-40's want to orgasm per week?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What is the average, or "normal" amount of times a woman in her mid-40's would want to orgasm? I know for me, the " poisons have to leave the building" at least 3 times per week - whether with my wife's help or solo if need be. Do women have a similar number? If my wife and ... (83 words)

Man with mixed up feelings....

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i meet a woman that has same intrest as me and we get along great. we dated for 3 mths and she left me a few days ago. she told her mom and friends that she has never been with anyone as good to her as i am. she went back to her ex who mistreated her and cheated all the time ... (131 words)

Why are his parents so over protective towards us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and almost 17. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. I want a baby and so does he... but his parents say and tell use that we cant do anything till were out of college and a lot older. WE are not allowed to do anything, we are not supposed to kiss. I ... (76 words)

Do I leave him alone and cut him out of my life or do I pursue this "friendship"???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is kinda long so bear with me guys... I'm a gay man and I've been in a fantastic relationship with my partner for over a year and a half and he decides he wants to end it all of a sudden because of a lack of physical feelings after a month long trip in Europe without m... (806 words)

Mediocre sex... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been seeing this guy for quite some time now and i honestly love him, but the sex isnt as good as i imagined, hes about 5-6 inches but i just dont get pleasure unless he slams into me. what can i do to make things better, or even what do i begin to say to him so i dont ... (66 words)

I love him but he lives 500 miles away...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well basically I'm 13 and I dont know what to do.... I met this guy online and he's really sweet and I really love him and he loves me but he lives 500 miles away in Essex and I want to be with him so badly but I can't because he lives that far away Oh yea also another rea... (98 words)

My boyfriend takes ages to cum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend takes ages to cum. We are 16 and lost our virginities to each other. I've heard guys first times last like.. 30 seconds, he was more like 30 minutes! And now he lasts up to 2 hours inside me! I enjoy the sex, but Im just VERY tired and sore by the end of it,... (144 words)

Boyfriend not pushing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my third year of college. My boyfriend should also be where I am but before he met me he was not taking his school serious. so he dropped out. Now he sits around, surfs the web hoping to find work (which I think Is pure lazyness) Recently I gave him a woman's number who ... (133 words)

Help! Is he still in love with his ex wife?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was dating a single man who has 3 children 21 yrs, 19 yrs and 16 yrs. After about 6 mths of dating. The ex wife decided to visit their family house often because the children live with their father and refuses to visit the mother because she left the father for another ... (175 words)

Are women satisfied with average size penis or do they fantasize about bigger penises?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everybody, thanks for the time i would spend in order to answer my question :D mu question is mostly for women who are married to men with average penis size, i just wanna know are the women in this situation really satisfied with their husbands or are they maybe th... (100 words)

How to know if he loves you?

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21 September 2010 (F)

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I still really fancy my ex BF, and want sex with him, but am still emotionally attached!! Help!!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - PLEASE HELP!! I split with my BF after a lot of fall out's over the last few months. He has told me that he is not ready for commitment and that we are over, and he said that I should know this, as he has not slept with me for a number of weeks. We agreed to stay ... (241 words)

Why does he type my name in his texts?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is going to be a little short but I'm very curious of this. When ever me and my boyfriend text eachother, he'll say my name in every text (10 times out of the 34 he sent). Sometimes it'll be a little more often than that and I was just curious as to why he has to ... (74 words)

Should I go ahead and have sex with this guy when he doesn't want a serious relationship?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm stuck and need advice, I have never had a proper boyfriend and I am in my late 20s, I just never feel attracted to anyone or if I do they never feel the same. I feel for someone at work and he said he was interested in me but doesn't want anything heavy, I was qui... (233 words)

I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids too, so please any gay married ... (81 words)

Should I go for a new relationship or fight for my ex and I to get back together?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my one year and a half boyfriend who, I’m not gonna lie, was kind of an asshole. The thing is, our relationship was just amazing and super passionate ( when he wasn’t acting like a beeetch ). So when I broke up with him he f***ing freaked out and said I was a ... (234 words)

How do I deal with my sexuality?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well Hi I've got a messy situation I need some help to fix! Let's start at the beginning, At The end of April I just had this dream that basically a big sign I was gay I woke up wondering just thinking it over if o was gay then I typed 'Gay Kiss' into google images and I h... (329 words)

We broke up years ago but I still miss him

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We've known each other since we were 9 and 10 years old. He was my first boyfriend when I was 13. I didn't even think of sex then but he gave me my first kiss and we showed PDA. I moved to another city and lost touch. When I was in college at 19 he came back into my life but ... (558 words)

Am I being unreasonable?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same girl for about 18 months, and we have had few problems, other then one reoccurring thing. When we first started dating, she lied to me about something saying she didn't do it, and swore to me, only for me to find out that she had lied. Th... (689 words)

In a relationship with a compulsive liar.....

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope somebody can help me. I'm in a relationship with a guy who's a compulsive liar. He bends the truth about issues large and small and will resort to telling lies, regardless of the situation. He is a good person and I love him but I can not live a life with lies and ... (141 words)

After cancelling a date due to illness, should I be the one to make the next move? Or should I wait for him to ask me out again?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone help me please with a quick dating etiquette question? I cancelled a date as I was unwell and now I'm wondering if I should be the one to make the next move and invite him out or if I should I wait to see if he asks me again? I don't want to appear over keen but I'm ... (78 words)

Any aunts specializing in domestic abuse questions?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any Aunts who specialize in answering domestic abuse questions? I ask because I'd like to write in private rather than post on a public board. ... (27 words)

How do I convince him that he is good enough for me?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok,well my bf broke up with me, he broke up with me because he didnt wasnt able to call me 3 times and he feels like hes a bad boyfriend and that i deserve someone better,i KNOW he loves me,i know that for sure,but how do i convince him that he is good enough? i got my future ... (109 words)

Why would my boyfriend lie about something that did not happen?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have this boyfriend, i have been with him since beginning of may, known him since last october(i went to see a friend who lives in his town, they knew each other, she introduced us, i ended up cheating with him on my bf at the time), we are long distance, we love each ... (609 words)

I'm torn, what should I do?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, my feelings are like a ball of yarn and I don't know what to do... I have been living with the father of my two children for over a decade,but we are not married. I met him when I was very young around of 18 years of age, and he was twice older than me and marr... (414 words)

How do I find that spark again?

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21 September 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Only once in my life have I had any significant emotional connection with a woman I've been with. I've been with several women but when we kiss I feel nothing magic, just lips moving. Some very faint connections, and a few light sparks every once in million dates but it qui... (255 words)

Is it normal to miss your ex?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been in a relationship for 5 months now and never been happier. But recently i have found myself thinking and somwtimes dreaming about my ex alot. Not thoughts of wanting to be back with him, but kind of happy memories and times we spent together. I kind of miss him in a... (180 words)

My friend wants to have a threesome!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have these friend that wants me to have threesome with him, but he is married, the party is his friend a male, and I'm confused since I have nt tried it before, so what should I do??... (38 words)

I am married but still in love with my ex fiance.....

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me tell you by ive been married for bout nine months....but before me and my husband got married.. i was previously engaged to my ex and dated him for four years before we split... weve been split up for two years and through those two years he would run in and out of my ... (304 words)

Will telling her what I did win her back?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm mid twenties, and I dated this girl for two and a half years and she loved me SO SO fiercely. We were pretty much joined at the hip, and I loved her, but she definitely loved me more than I did. Eventually this took a toll on her and we broke up. The catalyst was that she ... (787 words)

Is online flirting and porn entertainment... a sort of infidelity?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age - My wife is really upset that I log into dating chatroom websites, sex webcam sites, and porn sites and view the contents and talk to online flirts, such as myself. I see this as a bit of harmless flirting and a diverting form of entertainment. Why she doesn't see it this way is ... (206 words)

Does the fact that we had more intimate sex mean he has actual feelings for me?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, there's a saying that says "actions speak louder than words"....how true is that? The reason I'm asking is because this guy I used to be involved with earlier this year is a lot more affectionate and intimate in bed than he EVER used to be. Before it was all about t... (239 words)

My ex contacted me again - should I get back in touch with him or not?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex just contacted me after having broken up with me for 2 months. We were together for just two months as well, but at the beginning the feeling were incredibly strong. He said he lost feelings for me. That he liked me and still cared about me but didn't want to be with me ... (273 words)

Raised together for the last 5 years, and now we have feelings for each other!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a complicated situation. When I was 11, My parents passed away in a car crash and their best friends took me and my sister. Their best friends have three boys. One of their boys is about a year and half older than me (I'm now 16), And I have romantic feelings for hi... (103 words)

After two years, only twice a month! Why isn't she interested in sex?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, this is my first post and this is my first question. When I first got together with my girlfriend the sex was great... every opportunity we had we did it. It's been 2 years and 3 months now and we are both 18 years old, but now we barely have sex, we have sex... (78 words)

How can I stop acting this way so I can show how I actually feel?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I said something really silly to my boyfriend which I think came across as me not wanting much of a commitment with him. This is far from the truth - in fact he is the only guy who has ever felt right to me. Every other guy I've dated I've known from the start that ... (252 words)

About my ex girl, what should I do?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - She has not called me up for a month after I came home from trying to live with her. Well we talked about a couple of weeks after I got back. But then she started doing more things I would talk to her on the phone in she would just say sry I got to go. In then she would call me ... (291 words)

Confused about email from ex-girlfriend and if we have a chance to reunite

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey. I have been dating a girl for 2 years in a long distance relationship (lives an hour away) and she recently told me she needed a break. I am in the medical profession and for the last 5 months I have been working in a new job and studying at night and weekends for my ... (734 words)

How can we work things out if he is not willing to talk?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are suppose to be working on our marriage/relationship but he refuses to talk about a lot of things that I feel are important and he will become defensive, etc. How do we work things out if he will not talk? We do not live close to each other so counseling is ... (63 words)

I have 4 guys after me! what do I do?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of a long story but I'm gonna try to make it as short as possible. I don't know how but I now have four guys in the equation. Let me talk about the first one. He's my boyfriend, and we've been dating for a little over a month. We had sex twice. The first time we ... (538 words)

How can I find a bi or lesbian girlfriend?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm a teenage girl and I was just wondering how I can find a lesbian or bisexual girlfriend? I'm pretty sure there are no lesbians at my school. Thanks in advance.... (33 words)

He thinks he can have his cake and eat it too! can we someday rekindle what we had?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So this summer I started seeing a friend of mine. He always had a girlfriend but we always spoke when we were out. One way to describe him is.. think of the nicest guy in the world- that's this guy! And it was no wonder why we were friends. Then one night, we ran into each... (438 words)

I lied about what a looked like and now he is mad! how can I get him back?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone one thank you for taking the time to read my question first i want to give you some info...So i met this guy like a week an half ago on the internet an we been talking ever since..We have a lot of chemistry talk every single day for hours..He tells me his soo in ... (206 words)

He's a one minute man! how can I make it last longer?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this guy for some months now. We met in March and we've made out a couple of times, etc. So this past weekend, one thing led to another and we had sex. It was embarrassing. For the guy. So he's pretty well-endowed, but he didn't last more than a minu... (158 words)

Flirty boyfriend!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok well heres the deal. My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months. He's not the best with showing his feelings or pda or really anything. Then there is my "best friend" who he also dated like a year ago. They dated for about 7 months. Now that me and him are ... (164 words)

Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?

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21 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking for just normal porn, anyway i ... (139 words)

I want more than comfortable and friendship in my marriage!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 17 years. The last few years have seemed more a friendship than relationship. Nothing has changed except me, I want more. He is still the same a great friend, great dad, and a comfortable relationship. Sex is the same, but I have changed. I want more ... (125 words)

I don't want to put any pressure on him... help!

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine and his girl broke their relationship off and he is still kinda in recovery, or more he just isn't really interested in anyone. I feel the same way about my ex I broke things off with of many years. He goes to a college that is two hours away so I don't ge... (155 words)

What conversation to have with a guy that is cute but is in a gang??

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i just met this guys recently at a friends party and he thought i was cute and i thought he was cute as well. so then the week after that it was his birthday so i sent him a message saying happy birthday, i dont know if you remember me but i just wanted to wish you happy ... (134 words)

What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?

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21 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass gastric surgery?... (54 words)