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*rincess _008
writes:i am presently single. it so happen that one of my cousin has fall for me. he also proposed me but i refused him because i don't have any feelings for him. even though he continue running after me. he is always sending me text messages with ' i love you'. whenever i am at his place he always looks for opportunity for us to be alone. and he always push me towards the wall so that i don't run away. once his mum saw us in this position. i was really scared. however later on he told me that his mum approved our relation. Once he tried to kiss me but i managed to push him away. that day he was very angry and told me that he promised he will make me his one day be it with my consent or not. am very afraid when i meet him especially when i am alone. i do think he really loves me because he always do things in my favour. but i don't love him. am afraid that my family come to know about that. since he maintains the good boy title in my family i think they will be really happy to marry me with him. i like him but i don't love him.. please help
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reader, Princess _008 +, writes (22 September 2010):
Princess _008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your reply. i really wish it works
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Your cousin is infactuated and lustful for you it is not a good place to be. He does not love you, love takes time and comittment to build up. He is being nice with you to get his own way.
He also sounds a bit unstable so you must try and avoid contact with him.
If you have to visit his house or he visits your house, dont go alone with him stay with your mum or other adult and dont let them out of your sight.
He is telling lies about his mum approving, I really find that very hard to believe.
Just take care yourself, if he tries anything with you use your knee to hit him right between his legs and do it as hard as you can. Even shout at him if you must.
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reader, dyna_tow  +, writes (22 September 2010):
Your cousin sound like a dangerous person. Anyone who would be with you without your consent does not love you, they see u as a possession. And your family shouldn't approve of this. You have to take care of yourself. Give that person a warning, that they should stop all advances towards you as u have no interest and will alert the authorities if they threaten you. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Stand up for yourself!
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reader, xX_Kitty_Xx +, writes (22 September 2010):
You should really tell someone about someone that your close to because it sounds like he is sexually assaulting you ie. Pushing you up against the wall to try and make his move :/... Trust me you should tell someone your close to maybe your parents or a close friend but if you don't he might end up doing something that could leave you scared for life....
Hope everything works out x x
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