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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband is trying to make out I'm crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid... my husband lies in every single thing and makes me feel that I'm going crazy that he never said things or never does anything. i think he is cheating on me and i know he never loved me but i do love him so much. I dont know what to do...... (55 words)

I Don't Feel Pretty Enough To Be With Him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So..I'm dating this guy, and he's really sweet and nice, and I think he's really hott. But I just don't feel pretty enough to be with him. I asked him if he could change anything about me, what would it be, and he said he'd make me have bigger boobs and a better butt. ... (105 words)

Is it a good idea to go back out with your ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, i am a 14 year old male and in year 10, i was never really too interested in girls .. until i got into high school, when i had a transfer day to high school (a day just to see what i was like) i 'loved' this girl, and i knew she 'loved' me .. i never believed in the saying ... (251 words)

Older boyfriend doesn't want sex so much and its making me feel insecure

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating an older man for almost a year. I am twenty seven and he is forty five. He is a good man as far as paying the bills and helping me raise my daughter. Our sex life has been dwindling lately and every time I try to talk to him about it, he gets angry and ... (158 words)

We want to have a baby but my husband drinks way too much!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband and I want to have a baby. here is the Problume. He is 52 I am 32, he Drinks WAYYYYY too much, not drunk every night, but he drinks a bottle of wine a night. He had a heart attack and noooo that didn't stop him from Drinking or smoking...alway the excuse. NO he is ... (114 words)

How do I keep our friendship from falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend who i have been friends with for 3 years now, has just left my school. shes only going to another school at the other end of my town, but I'm going to really miss her! We've been best friends through out. But the thing is the new school she is going too is really ... (190 words)

If he lied about cheating, couldn't he be lying about other things as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years an have a 2 yr old daughter.i just found out that he cheated on me.when i asked him about it he lied over an over an after i got all the clues he told me yes but he did not have sex with her.plus i have been looking though his phone an ... (105 words)

After life threatening illness husband distances himself from me! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. prior to an illness in late February of 2010, we were best friends and lovers. I developed a life threatening health condition called Venous Sinus Thrombosis (blood clots in my brain) and spent some time in the ICU. Nothing could ... (244 words)

I get the feeling that I just annoy my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my boyfriend for 22 months. Everything was good until about u year ago he told me he didnt have any feelings for me, even though he said he didnt mean it, i just cant believe it. Lateley i just get the feeling that i jus annoy him. He just gets irratated when i ... (195 words)

When I asked her out she said no... but all my friends are saying she really likes me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, I really like this girl. Everyone has told me that she likes me, but when I ask her out she says no. She says that she doesn't like me "any more" but one of her friends tell me that is a bunch of bull. What can I do and how can I win her back???... (56 words)

Do you think I am his rebound girl or do you think he may really be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice PLEASE ! I met this guy Paul about 6 months ago at a party, we were both in a weddign together, him the best man be the maid of honor. Over the next few months we became friends, mainly just chatting and organizing things for the wedding. I found out he was 3... (341 words)

Sharing my wife... playing with fire?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to know if anyone has ever played around with this – I am a 41 year old man… recently married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We are very much in love…trying to have a child together. We have a great sex life…but we are both on the adventurous side sexuall... (404 words)

How can I show him that I wanted that kiss to happen???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I've met this guy and we went on a night out on Friday where he gave me a lift home. There was some awkward chitchat, but didn't end up with a kiss goodnight. Felt a bit disappointed but the awkwardness in the car sort of gave me the feeling that that wasn't the way he ... (88 words)

Sex with another guy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and it's killing me. I just want to know how do people usually deal with the fact that she won't be sleeping with me anymore and will probably have sex with another guy in the future? any techniques or just things that I can do to ... (58 words)

Should I muck around with my pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently started taking an oral contraceptive pill and I'm coming to the end of my 21 day course of them. The problem is that, because I managed to lose two of my pills (down the sink - clumsy, I know)I'm finishing my pill two days earlier than I should. When my ... (138 words)

Spicing things up for some birthday sex!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been with the same man for 20 years, and I am still horny for this man. I am 44 years old, and he is 52. I want to spice up the relationship because our sex life has gone down. I know that our age difference may play a big roll, but I am missing out! I need t... (106 words)

When do you think he will move back in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I was wondering if anyone could help. My boyfriend moved out of my house last december firstly after sayin he was down then sayin i made him unhappy. We got back together and he says will move back when time is right. In mean time all his things are here and i.m left ... (235 words)

I know we are not a couple but I thought we were friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We are having this 'casual' relationship for months now. I know this can never be a real relationship and maybe i would be happier if it finishes. It is a long distance thing so we set up our 'dates' where we can. And we do fairly often. I saw him last week and i was a bit ... (348 words)

"Friends" don't say I love you... do they???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A close-ish guy friend of mine just said 'I love you' to me on MSN. I'm pretty sure it was sincere, as he's that sort of guy and he's been being very complimentary and sort of overly lovey the last few months. Thing is, I really don't feel that way about him, and the more he ... (128 words)

Friend dilemma... what do I do, I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i met this guy i really really like and i was so into him but he had a girlfriend and i had a boyfriend so i never expected that there could be something between us. We both go to the same school and our significant others go to different schools. About a week ago... (624 words)

How can I make him mines again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he said he wasn't sexually attracted to me anymore and has been seeing me as a friend. I still love him and want him back. Is there any hope of winning him back? What can I do to make him mine again?... (50 words)

How do I deal with what I heard through the grapevine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I were separated but now we are trying to get back together. We have children together and we have been together more than 10 years. I found out that while we were separated that my husband told a woman he slept with that she was the best in bed after she told ... (161 words)

How do I handle this situation? I'm so confused about it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33, my boyfriend 51. We were together for four years. He helped me get out of an abusive relationship, helped me financially and promised to marry me and start a family. He took me to look at rings four years ago but never proposed. Its been excuse after excuse. Four months ... (284 words)

Why has our relationship become so awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I have been so stressed out and crying and been so emotional thinking too much about our relationship failing or him leaving or me not having feelings for him anymore...I dont know where these feelings have come from or why but I cant handle it anymore...I am very much ... (158 words)

She has a boyfriend, what are the possible courses of action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Some 7 months ago I was having serious problems with my girlfriend and met this gorgeus super sweet girl. Our connection was instant, and we started hanging out a lot. All of a sudden she tried to kiss me, opening a Pandora box. It was difficult to resist the attraction, but ... (231 words)

How on earth can I find out if he really does care about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound odd and might not make sense but im gonna give it my best shot. Basically is there anyway of truly finding out how a guy cares about you? I mean as a friend. I know they are strange creatures who deal with things differently but i've had a tough and weird time ... (347 words)

Online love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there guys. I have a kind of weird feeling. Please don't judge as i have mo own reasons why i choose this type of love. So first thing is there is this guy i met online in April, and he is form an other country. we started as friends, but soon enough we both fell for each... (477 words)

I'm 15, he's 13... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm 15 and I like this boy, he is in two years below me in school so he's 13, i'm starting to like him and we flirt a lot and we are married on facebook (which is not real.) We talk a lot online and talk a bit in school, he does show signs that he likes me sort ... (92 words)

When is the right time to become more intimate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi friends, I'm a typical indian girl and I've been with my partner for the past 5 years. How far should I go with respect to being physical with him? Very confused... please help!... (37 words)

What's the score with my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so basically this is one of those silly teenage girl- teacher related questions. I want to know for sure what is happening here.... Okay so in science my friends have been "observing" my teacher. They say he looks over at me an awful lot and he seems to smile a lot ... (244 words)

How to stop the boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dear Cupid, I just had a quick question for everyone, who may be able to help me out? We all know how once you've been dating someone a while stuff in the bedroom can get overplayed, and boring. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to spice it up in t... (65 words)

Is my best friend probably in love with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm terribly having a problem with my NOW-EX-BOYFRIEND. We've been together for more than two years. We were classmates during high school. We were close friends that time. And got developed when we were both in our 1st year in college. Since high school, I alread... (605 words)

Should I trust that he won't cheat if I'm lying in his bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 8 years. 5 of those years have been long distance (seeing each other 5 times a year for a week at a time). recently I found out that he has been cheating for 3 years mainly with one girl, he says he doesnt/didnt love her, just used her. I did ... (166 words)

Would he never consider dating her,because she is a bit taller?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best friend just started high school last week and we try to befriend our classmates, but it seems she already has taken an interest in a guy. he looks and stares quite often at her, and when she catches him, he doesn't look away, he just keeps staring. when she's ... (285 words)

My boyfriend can't cum from oral...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a good deal of experience in sex and have been told by all my past partners that I give a great blow job. The thing is I haven't been able to get my boyfriend to come from one. He wants to, I would love him to, but I just can't seem to get him there. I've tried every ... (167 words)

Wife's story doesn't make sense

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - should i belive my wife when she tells me she only had sex with one other partner than me, but let 4 other guys put there penis up to her vagina and just rubb the outside, i am having concerns she is running around now ... (47 words)

The girl is messing with my head--she may or may not be pregnant..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

- Dear Cupid, I've got a really massive problem and I could be doing with some advice. I meet this girl and we got on really well, she was on the pill and we had sex a number of times unprotected and I'm discusted with myself. The last time we slept together she told me th... (410 words)

Drama queen!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a drama queen, cant stay without a fight for three days what can i do to be normal, its really affecting my marriage. I fight over everything and am sooo insecure, i feel all men are no good because of my broken family experience, my dad was a player and all that ... (117 words)

What is up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and things have been great for us. It's my first and his first real relationship as all previous girlfriends have not really liked him. One of the many highlights to why he loves me is because I love him. But lately he's bee... (404 words)

What are the chances of being truly happy with someone after cheating occurs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the statics of this relationship lasting? 1. You are unhappy to begin with because of a break-up from a long term partner. 2. You rushed into another relationship 3. You cheat on the new partner after 2 months 4. Your unhappy at 8 months with yourself and w... (262 words)

Suddenly having problems maintaining an erection with the women I am seeing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a male, and I was in a long term relationship (7 years) that had a very bad ending a few years ago. The break-up, which I dont really want to get into left me emotionally drained, badly wounded and hating the world. Part of the blame of the breakup lies on me, which made ... (826 words)

I have small breasts--should I get surgery?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have small breasts, and I feel very insecure. Should I get surgery? Men have teased me about it, even an ex said big breasts were better. Even hear on DC I've read guys post that guys do tend to prefer big breasts (even though they don't hate small ones or would turn them ... (345 words)

Friendly? Or he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I tell if he is being friendly or if he likes me? I have a friend who I hang out with weekly. We do things as a group with our friends and we have BB Q'S together and laugh. He always approaches me to talk. he says he loves my sense of humor and lately I noticed ... (248 words)

Help!!! How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked this question once before, but now, I'm asking again, with more details, so it's more understandable. How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship? ~~~~~~ In detail: She's the average, silent, "I am keeping to my work, and putting ... (923 words)

1000 texts late at night...work related?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age - I had recently caught my wife of 18yrs deleting phone calls from her cell phone to a coworker so I intercepted the phone bill and discovered she had sent 1000 texts to this guy over one months time, some of these were in the middle of the night after i had gone asleep.When i ... (115 words)

Could my husband have a cheating addiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have sex all the time. i have never turned him down and i am willing to explore all kinds of dif. things.. i am very in shape take real good care of my appearance. he likes a tanned toned body long hair i have all that ... the problem is when we are out ... (277 words)

We used a condom, then took it off, 10 minutes later had sex. Could I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day my boyfriend and i had sex. He removed the condom and about 10 minutes later we had unprtected sex.. Would the sperm have died by then? Is there any chancce i could become pregnant? Please answer, i'm really worried. Thankyou, x... (54 words)

Strange pain is making me miserable...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I know this is a relationship site, hence the name, but I have a question about the relationship between my body and mind and miscommunication. Sarcasm aside, lately I have been having strange pains. My knees hurt, muscles in my back I never knew the existance of hur... (160 words)

The novice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This question may seem rather strange, but here goes: I'm 31, had no serious girlfriends, one just wanted me for sex, and the other lived at the other end of the country! I've never had sex, or even kissed (peck on the cheek) anyone! When I finally do get a girl, how do... (82 words)

Internet dating confusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been single for 10 years. (aged 33) I have found it difficult meeting guys so I have been trying internet dating on and off for years. I am getting very concerned that I am going to remain single long term. My concerns are from arranging dates with guys from these ... (161 words)

How far should the shaved area go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Ive recently decided to start shaving my penis, balls, and that general area. My question to the ladies is how far should the shaved area go? Do I shave my thighs too? I know it's up to me but I'm seeking ideas. Thanks to you!... (46 words)

Do I have reasons to be concerned or am I just crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age - I have been married for over 15 years when I found out that my wife, then girlfriend, had an affair when we were dating (exclusively). The main hurting point of the whole incident was not the affair, which I was very positive it happened when it happened and still married her, ... (270 words)

Could the plan B pill still be screwing up my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to be on birth control for about 2 and 1/2 years, but when I graduated from college...my health coverage ended through my parents. I finished my last pack of BC in february. My boyfriend and I hadn't had sex since the beginning to middle january and continued not ... (365 words)

Do I have the baby or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pregnant, of the guy who i have been having sex with, we have only been going out for awhile, bt we rarely used condom, nn he knows, ii didnt use proteccion of any sort. Now the problem is, doo I have the baby or not? Bec the guy who I truly love, which is not the soon to ... (79 words)

Is this an affair with a married man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy who is 38 years old and I am 27.. It had never crossed my mind that I would like him.. U ignored him initially.. Than later due to his many attempts of asking me out, I agreed. The whole process takes bout 1.5 mths.. We started to be very close to each other. H... (329 words)

I know his love is real but is it enough for me to be treated like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Good evening Baby E here so i've done it after 3 yrs of my life which i've now wasted i've been seeing this guy his got a hectic schedule for this year we only saw each other thrice... saturday night he surprise visited me but i was upset with him as i keep asking him to tr... (329 words)

We're sort of in an open relationship but I don't want him sleeping with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was invited to a wedding with this girl that likes him...............? and he just told me yesterday that they will be staying in a hotel after the wedding just to let you understand a little better we are sort of in an open relationship but weve made an agreemen... (124 words)

Only married 6 months and already problems!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for only 6 months and already we seem to be having problems. He says mean and hurtful things and when I confront him about it he acts as if there's nothing wrong. Some days he's the kindest, sweetest man I've ever met and others he's ... (204 words)

How can I convince my wife that an occasional non emotional sex night is not cheating or a threat to her?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am happily married. I love my wife very much, and would never contemplate having an affair. No interest. However, I really miss seeing and touching other womens naked bodies. The newness the excitement. It's just more exciting than the same old same old. Don't get me wrong, ... (179 words)

Am I being selfish? Or is my mom selfish for jumping into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom was married when she was 20, and was with the man for 12 years until he cheated on her. I've never heard much about him until almost a year ago now. and I'm almost 19. she had started talking to him in October of last year, and went to visit him across the country ... (352 words)

I've asked someone to marry me... now I'm having second thoughts after we fought!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have met someone and asked her to marry me .... things couldnt be better until we had our first fight ... then 2nd then 3rd , all within 5 days ... now im really rethinking this thing . When we argue it is a nitemare ,,, i try every way i can think of to stop it ... keep it ... (259 words)

How to get my girl to put her nipples out on display?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love it whe women dress so you can see their nipples. Thin tight material, etc. It seems that women love to show their cleavage. It's on display constantly. Why won't more women they their nipples be visible or just prominent under tight clothes ? It just seems weird that ... (136 words)

Age...not just a number? Is he playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Almost in love with my bf after almost seven months...16 hour dates, cooking together, long drives, pet names, always laughing together, sweet moments.we have a 15yr difference in age and that as well as other factors worry me. Our musical tastes are different, I like ... (181 words)

Why won't my nice guy connect with me on a deeper level? I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been with my guy for a little over 1.5 years. He is my first boyfriend, I am his 4th girlfriend. He is 6 years older and has many friends. I am shy and a bit sheltered, and am not so lucky with friends. We are both intelligent people, and we like each other’s company. We ... (493 words)

When wearing revealing clothes, do women want men to look?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - When women wear revealing clothes - like skin tight exercise stuff, or a busty plunging neck line, as two examples - do they want men to notice? Does it make women happy to catch you staring, if you do so discretely? I am a bit confused about this. I see women dressing like ... (122 words)

Fighting all the time, having sex with strangers, no money and 2 kids.......What should I do about this messy situaiton?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a guy for the past 5 years and I have known him 7. The thing is we are fighting all the time. A few years ago we decided because I love sex a lot he allowed me to go off with other males and that is exactly what I did. There were conditions tough which was ... (380 words)

What do you think? Should I ring him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been getting to know this guy..i like him and i think he likes me too..even though he hasn't said anything. i have free minutes and we talk all the time..but i feel like am the one whos always calling him. he texts me sometimes. we are meant to meet up tonight. ... (118 words)

It seems I am doing all the giving in this relationship and not getting much in return.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really feel like im going out of my mind and i dont know which way to turn. I need someone to talk to. This might sound familiar as i have asked for advice previously. I met my partner over 2 years ago. we were long distant. after a year he asked me to move in with him. My ... (634 words)

Feeling rejected........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age - I am 46 and my husband is 47 we have a pretty good marriage.Until about 6 months ago I noticed the sex stopped and I asked him what was wrong.He said he doesnt know.I asked it he was having a affair at work and he said no.I also told him I am stressed,and cant stand the fact I ... (152 words)

Should this man be trusted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok.. I just started dating this man who is 35. I am 24. I have known him for about 2 years but we hadn't dated before, though he had asked me out a couple of times. One of the reasons I did not date him before, aside from me being unavailable, was that I felt like he was always ... (252 words)

Girfriend coming back from a trip after long-distance arguments. What to do?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girfriend is away for a one month language course in Europe. It has been 3 weeks now, and she is coming back next week. Before she left we werent doing very well, fighting and even getting physical once or twice. But we keep getting back together. I have tried to leave her ... (1157 words)

Am I just overreacting to a man with a high sex drive?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive been with my boyfriend for nearly two months now, we've been together before about a little over a year ago, and its safe to say that i fell for him and the feelings just never went. However lately ive been thinking, especially with the fact of me being ... (151 words)

When I say I love you to him sometimes he sounds annoyed?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive been dating this guy for nearly 2 years. he says he loves me but i dont know anymore. hes always mad at me, and never really hears me out even if im not wrong. we fight alot well kindof. but alot of the time hes sweet. i just dont know if hes genuin when he is ... (133 words)

First date today and... I'm not sure I'm attracted to her. She REALLY likes me though and I don't want to hurt her! What can I do?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've met a girl over the internet and today we met face to face for the first time. We've been flirting by text messages and on the phone a couple of times and today was our first chance to see if we're compatible. She's a nice girl, friendly, chatty, lovely p... (220 words)

Is it my boyfriends business my credit card debt?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So confused...... I have been with my boyfriend for the last couple of years. His finances are in order, mine are not. I used to be debt free but ended up going back to school and acquired my credit card debt while I was in school ( not from shopping ). At this time I am ... (394 words)

Girlfriend keeps receiving dirty messages from ex but doesn't want to stop talking to him

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with this girl for nearly 2 years.She says she loves me very much and wants to be with me. Normally we have a good relationship. Before she was with me she had another boyfriend whom she cheated on, with a male friend of hers from her work. After splitting u... (644 words)

I feel angry/sad all the time but don't want to go back on meds

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - 1. I have been on anti depressants for the last 8 yrs, on and off. 2. I haven't had any anti depressants for a few months. 3. I don't know if I'm down because I haven't had any meds or if I'm down because of my day to day life, or if it's because nothing has changed in 8 yrs... (348 words)

Mistake and more mistakes....

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really dont know what is wrong with me..... I cause silly mistakes with my relationship. Just been through a tough time but i really built up the relationship again but i do foolish things to hurt my partner which i did not meant too. Basically I am on twitte... (519 words)

In love with my ex boyfriend's former best friend

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "In love with my ex boyfriend's former best friend" (Names have been changed) I've known my ex boyfriend (Let's call him Jr.) for nearly my entire life and we were dating for 10 years before we split due to his drug problem. We have 4 children together and for the pas... (411 words)

I'm worried we might be getting married too soon, but he has told me he will break up with me if I don't marry him!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age - hi, i really need help with this. time is runing out. i am so in love with my guy.i never had such a deep feeling of love from anyone. we are like magic together. we got engaged on july 4th . i was very happy. we started dating in nov. [8 months] he wants to get maried next ... (179 words)

Where do I go from here?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 25 years. my husband is 14 years older than me and have cheated 5 times during our marriage each time bring home STD's we have no interactions when he;s home he's in one room watching TV im in the other room on the computer. I have asked several times ... (340 words)

She wont talk about what happened! How do I deal with this?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age - we have been friends for 13 years and i fell for her 1 year ago its been awkward,but we manage to stay friends.well she started staying at my place off and on, she would sleep on my bed, and out of respect i would only sleep next to her with no touching or cuduling untill after ... (283 words)

We had never gone more than 3 days without talking to each other but suddenly he completely cut me off! Why did he do this?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 17 year's, now separated 2yrs. still keeps in close contact with me, just stopped every thing all the sudden. It's been over 3 months now since I have seen or talk to him. And It's killing me. He's girlfriend did move in with him about a year ago. And was not awar... (164 words)

Is he using me? why is he being weird??

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 1 month - we had been dating for quite a while and I have known him JUST as a friend for over a year before we became an item and before we ever had sex. We had unprotected sex after getting a bit too drunk together - it was not meant to happen ... (1127 words)

I'm sick of my boyfriend!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Iam sick of my boyfriend of 6 years, I DONT LOVE HIM NO MORE. i been with my man for 6 years and first been great, but he made me to give my child up and my home, my car, a year of the relationship he started abuse me, gripping me back the neck and i rob me of holiday in 2004, ... (305 words)

Why would he lie about having a girlfriend and why is he so persistant on keeping me in his life?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - a guy I've been talking to for 4 months lied to me about having a girlfriend,even though I asked him specifically if this girl was. we're only "friends" but we do have an intamate relationship.. when i found out i told him i didnt want to be his friend anymore..now hes buying ... (103 words)

What is up with him?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] My bf always gets jealous, when i write on a guys wall, or when i comment something. So i told him i wouldnt do it anymore. Now, he is doing it, and i dont understand. What is up with him???????????... (46 words)

Is the loyal boyfriend thing an act to keep her with him so he can mess around on the side with people like me?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello :) Ok, well a guy i know, who but what people have told me has a bit of a reputation, has been sending innapropriate texts to me and a few other people, sexual ones. He has a gf and from seeing photos of him and her, and her family etc... you'd never guess he was doing ... (195 words)

Can you still have your period even if you are pregnant?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for four months and one month i didn't have my period but the beginning of the next month i had it but i still have the feeling that im pregnant. can you have your period even being pregnant?... (46 words)

How do I make her realise that anyone but her ex is a better choice?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now, and we've been on several dates. Everything has worked out well up until now. But last night, she told me that her ex-boyfriend is acting like he wants to get back with her. The breakup hurt her and she felt like trash ... (205 words)

Is this age difference wrong?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old guy in love with a 32 year old woman who loves me back, is that considered wrong or bad? ... (24 words)

My marriage is falling apart after only 2 and a half years!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been married for only two years and a half.but my marriage is already falling apart.we fight and we also physical fight.he looks at other when i ask him he tells me hes admiring their beauty.is he the right man for me.because i think am losing my mind.we have one child.... (52 words)

I never wanted to marry so young but I have come to accept my situation, but my husband is making life difficult plus there is another man......

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes... Mine was arranged marriage.. And I never wanted to marry so early... After marriage I realize that this is life and I have to live like this.. But... People are around me, they are not leaving me to live my life happy... Including my husband... If I wore any nice dre... (188 words)

Getting over my ex? Is it hopeless for me to think we can get back together?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - For starters, i've posted here a little over a week ago about my long distance relationship that i had going for about a year. We were having issues at the time, lots of arguments, lots of stress, lots jealousy(from me) Well the relationship, as far as i know, has come t... (1256 words)

I feel bad for not contacting him, should I say sorry?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked this guy out. He cancelled on me once and we rescheduled for later in the week. Then he ignored my attempts to contact him about our plans. I got mad and sent a text to him calling him an ass. He sent a smiley face back. And then i sent another text to him, to which he ... (97 words)

I think I might be afraid of commitment!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I might be afraid of commitment, but not for the usual reasons people have for fearing it. This morning my boyfriend (of 6 months or so) said for the 20th time that I can leave some clothes at his place. He normally leaves some at mine but I always go home in the morn... (286 words)

Should I put up with her behaviour for the sake of the relationship? Or is this just unacceptable?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend continues to force things I don't like on me after I told her I don't like them [ie I tell her I'm not a cat person/allergic, she keeps dumping her cats in my lap; I tell her I don't like going certain places and she still always insists on going there, etc]. When ... (109 words)

My husband cheated and got the girl pregnant

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a woman that has been married for 3 years just found out that my husband may have a son. I will not leave him but we are both trying to deal with the problem i personally think it was a trap for him because he was being stupid its not ok he saying that he hasnt decided to ... (162 words)

Frustrated with a world of jerks

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why do pretty girls seem to go through more heartbreak. It seems that no one is safe from being used and abused no matter what their appearance. I am not saying that I'm the "Queen of the Universe" but I have always been told I am very attractive. All I meet are jerks.Am I ... (159 words)

Feel insecure in a long distance relationship

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm a 25-year-old girl in Asia and I've been dating my 24-year-old European boyfriend since February. Now, we're in a long distance relationship because he has gone back to his country to finish his school and it's been two months. (Sorry, I don't want to mention the ... (572 words)

It feels nice but I can't get any release from her stimulation

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need a little advice from those more experienced than I. Me and this girl have been dating for around two months or so. Recently she started wanting to pleasure me, so I agreed and let her giving me a hand job. It felt GREAT, I mean, there was no lack of pleasure. However ... (246 words)

Is it realistic to think that she could leave him for good and come with me?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I came across a girl a knew from years back. We started talking and texting. And as time went by we would do it more frequently. At this point I was falling for her but I didnt want to tell her because I she had a boyfriend. Well one day she told me that even ... (208 words)

Did I love him or did I just want to be in a relationship?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just broke up with my bf and i dont feel sad. I'm 18 and im really attractive but i've never had a bf before him. We had been together for five months and he was my first bf. he is the most perfect guy ever, he is sweet, sensitive, smart, funny, and really does love me. he's ... (217 words)

Embarrassed by my father's affair!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My dad has been having an affair for the last 6 months to a year and has now asked my stepmom (whom I am very close with) for a divorce after 18 years of marriage. To make it worse my dad is 59 and his the girl he has been having an affair is 32 years old and married herself ... (264 words)

Did I sound too needy?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, My boyfriend of almost a year and a half cheated on me with a girl 10 years younger (i'm 29, she is 19, HE is 30!!) I threw him out and he is off with her I guess. This question is just a back story as I'm dealing with that better than I thought...I guess it had been... (601 words)

Does wearing a bra to bed, help your boobs grow?

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20 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Ok so usually I wear a bra to sleep. I hear that if u do your breasts won't grow. Mine are not the biggest so I'm wondering if that's true and if not, what are some ways that I can help them grow? Love, A... (49 words)

How do I fix my large labia?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The inner lips of my vagina are very big.. There's alot there. To much skin. I want to get it cut off or something lol what causes this and is there a way to fix it? ... (36 words)

My BF lacks creativity and originality, but I love him. Getting bored fast....help!!!!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a little over one year is 20 (Four years younger than me). We met working for a national park last summer and have been traveling around for the last year. Anywho, my problem is that he has no creativity or originality when it comes to our relationship. I like ... (135 words)

Loving your bestfriend that doesn't love u back

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do if im in love with a guy and he doesnt love me back? plus he was my best friend. I know im in love no matter what, i never thought i could feel this way for someone. no matter how much pain he puts me through i still love him. over the summer i sent him a message ... (196 words)

She's too young..do I lose contact with her or tell her my feelings?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Firstly let me say this is the hardest thing I've ever had to write. I'm 22 years old, and, though it kills me to admit it, I'm finding myself falling in love with a girl of 14. I've known the girl in question since she was 9, when I met her family on holiday (I spent... (391 words)

How do you show a guy you really love him?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you show a guy that you really love him?... (11 words)

What's a cute idea for a gift to buy for my boyfriend?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anything that is cute and not cheesy that a girl can buy a guy to show that misses him. But mind you, I wont take him back until he changes the way he treats me.... (37 words)

Should I give up on her and move on or keep trying?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a serious question. Me and my ex broke up four months after her dad died. She told me she had severe depression and she didn't ever wanna go back to that so she decided to go get help. She also told me that she's an alcoholic. She told me that we needed to tak... (256 words)

Why am I so shy?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Whats the matter with me? Ok im 14-17 and a female im really shy i bearly say a word in public unless im at home.And now im just wondering why im so shy or even more around this one guy hes a year older then me and my best friends brother. I look at him a everyone cantell ... (147 words)

Is it ok to have a relationship with my married boss?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I got divorce recently because my husband cheated on me,anyway, I 'm here alone in USA.(new arrived). I'm working in a company. The manager has some feeling towards me even before I got divorce. he asked me if I'm married or not. now, he knows I got divo... (379 words)

Giving your all and your partner doesn't? Why it it this way?

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20 September 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Why is it that one person give their all in a relationship, and the other person doesn't?... (17 words)

I love him but he makes me crazy!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi. I've been married for six years. This is my third marriage. I didn't want to marry again, but because my husband was not from the USA, marriage was the only way that we could be together. (I did not want to move to his country.) This is his first marriage. My first ... (476 words)

I know he's the one...but not sure if he feels the same.!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This same sorta question probably appears a lot but anyway.. .I met this guy in work just over a year ago and really hit it off we liked all the same music and tv shows and I had never met someone so like me before... Everyone in work thought we were boyfriend and girlfrie... (223 words)

Boyfriend of 3years hasn't spoken to me in a month.. he's making me feel sad and pathetic, what to do?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have not heard from my bf in a month. last i told him anything i said he know swhere to find me bc he kept saying he 'doesnt feel right', cheating or lying has not been an issue with him and i, we have been with on another for 3 yrs. he missed our monthly anniversary last ... (406 words)

I'm afraid he doesn't like me anymore...how can I get his attention?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - SO im 14, and theres this guy ive known for a few years, he sings and plays guitar, just like me. people are always asking me why i havent kissed anyone and one guy said that i was the hottest girl in school but still havent kissed anyone! But i really like this guy, i think i ... (179 words)

I've never had sex because I'm not comfortable about my penis size

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm a 19 year old male, and I've had sex before I just never felt comfortable due to my penis size. Nobody has ever said that it's small or anything but a lot of people try it on with me and I'm always afaid that my penis isn't big enough. My penis is around 5 inches ... (77 words)

He won't be clear with me about our relationship...do I stay or do I go?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now, at the first few months he would ask what would i say if he was to ask me out (as his gf) i replyed i would say yes! ever since then i have not heard anything more about it, just recintly he told me he cant see me anymore ... (215 words)

My family doesn't like my boyfriend...due to cultural differences!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive ended up getting the guy of my dreams!! literally im head over heels for him, weve known each other for like 7 months and only been dating for 1 but hes everything i ever wanted hes sweet, good looking and he thinks the same about me... now hereas my problem... my... (192 words)

Am I being rational if I don't want her talking to the guy she cheated on me with?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i am currently in a long distance rlationship with this girl that i've know since new year's day, 2010. things started out ok, then really picked up in march, april. we broke up in july, but have been dating again since 3rd september. sometimes we get along, somet... (373 words)

Was he just looking for a reason to break up with me so he could date this other girl?

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just come out of an upsetting breakup with someone I was deeply in love with. We broke up over a very silly reason, which I'll get on to in a minute, and yet, though he often told me he loved me, he has a new girlfriend, someone I was previously friendly with, and ... (432 words)

My bf shuld marry his ps3 instead of me

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been having problems with his stupid ps3 because he cant limit himself. he tells me im going to play for a few hours and that turns into 5hrs+ and 5hrs is the least usually he plays 4 8hrs. i was upset cuz thers 5hrs down the drain wel then he has to ... (228 words)

HELP!!!! will she come back to me?!?!

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Im going to be very discreet yet detailed in my situation so all you guys can completely understand everything and give me 100% honest feedback. My ex-girlfriend and I of eight months just broke up a few days ago (Sept. 16). She is 21, beautiful, and a... (529 words)

Should I just be content with what the ex and I have?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my ex contacted me recently she wanted to be friends we have been talking for almost 2 months now and i still love her and out of the whole year that we havent talked i love her the same i was wondering should i try to get her back..tell her how i feel?..sometimes she says ... (130 words)

Relationship is becoming more abusive, police no help!

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20 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been together about 6 years. We have had good and bad times,,, We had a really rough patch where he was physically abusing me,,I never told anyone or called the police,because I love him and I didnt want him in trouble,among other reasons. After a particularly bad ... (338 words)

Sex dilemma!!!

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, posted yesterday about an issue with my girlfriend. Now I got another question about sex in relationships. Is it normal that I want sex once a day if the possibility is there? Is it uncomfortable for the woman in the relationship if the man tries to have sex? A... (139 words)

Help!!! Is she cheating?

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20 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I love my girlfriend so much, but my gut tells me she might be doing something behind my back. Recently she confessed that at one point she was confused on her orientation. Prior to this I had my suspicions, which came true. In the last month she asked me what would i do if ... (206 words)