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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Dating a RAF man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am re-posting this question, as I just would like some more feedback and I would really appreciate any advice I can get on this matter because I really need to decide what I should do about my RAF boyfriend and I am beginning to realise how hard it is to be involved with a mi... (354 words)

Why do all the guys I like ask out the same girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime I like a guy, he asks out another girl. And not just any girl, for the past 3 years, the 3 guys I've had crushes on have all asked out the SAME GIRL (and it's not me, fyi). The run down on THE GIRL: we DO NOT get along and haven't since 6th grade. I think she's ... (406 words)

I'm scared because I am never hungry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This problem has been going on for about a week or so. I'm really scared..(keep in mind, I think I'm a hypochondriac.) I'm 16 and I feel perfectly healthy, I exercise regularly and everything. But the problem is I'm never hungry. The typical day would be I get up at 530 (for ... (149 words)

Am I just wasting my time? or do I wait and see what happens?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy i've met few weeks ago in a club i havent talked to him so when i saw that on facebook he has gave me a friend request and we talk everyday since. his cute really nice and it seems like he really likes me. he is 5years older then me him being 22 and me only 17. ... (182 words)

I feel bad for hurting two different girls! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I genuinely need help. Sry for long story. I,m 21 male. Long story short,when i was 17 i had feelings for my cousin,it was my first love. I was a late bloomer. I proposed her, she turned me down. And, she also used me with few other stuffs so i was damn depressed. It was a year ... (424 words)

My ex wants nothing to do with our baby and I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody! I really hope you can help me. I'm 9 months pregnant for my x boyfriend of 12 years who left me as soon as he found out I was pregnant. At 6 months pregnant I went to see him and we ended up sleeping together, after that he stopped returning my calls and has ... (306 words)

My boyfriends looking at other guys!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and we have a pretty good relationship and I love him very much. He does a lot of nice things for me and with me and I do the same for him too. We are in a same sex relationship. He has trouble opening up at times whic... (246 words)

Did he just say he liked me to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm in the middle of a really annoying situation just now to do with a guy I really like (let's call him fred). I really like Fred and Fred really likes me but he won't go out with me because he used to like a girl (let's call her Sarah) but not any more but Sarah still ... (107 words)

I'm happily married but still love my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Before I married my amazing husband of 4 years I ran into my ex. All of the chemistry and passion that we had so long ago was still there. Needless to say it through me for a loop when all of these feelings came up and I was about to get married. After debating weither or ... (239 words)

Boyfriend gives me the impression he is disinterested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with boyfriend for a year and a half. I really love him but sometimes I get so irritated with because he always seems disinterested when I talk to him on the phone. He has no enthusiasm. In general he has quite low confidence and he has a problem with smoking weed ... (116 words)

How do I cope with being financially dependent on my partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OP Own Title" I am 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend and I live together and I also work for him. He owns a bar, pub, whatever you want to call it. I get a great salary and am used to being co-dependant on him. Our relationship is great, and just keeps getting better. The thing ... (133 words)

I asked my boyfriend a question should I be mad for the answer he gave me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod note* poster your suggested title was already taken]I asked my man, an "If we were to break up" question. I asked would you still love me? his answer was "probably". But If I was asked this question I would say I def would, without a doubt never stop(just cause of where ... (90 words)

My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and I hate it... what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best friend have known each other for 8 years and have been best friends since then, she's always been a bit jealous of my other friends and how i look but now ive been in a relationship for 5 months with a boy i know from air cadets and its been going great, we ... (145 words)

How can we be together???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My first love has admitted after 9 years apart, that he still loves me and life hasnt been the same without me, i was the only good thing in his life, he said that im the love of his life, but hes stuck where he is because he doesnt want to lose his little one, i cant get him ... (94 words)

How do I approach her to ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i started at college last week and met 2 new friends they're really funny and we went on a trip the other day and a girl who when to there school was going on the trip as well and we both got introduced i think she is cute. i was just wondering... how should i approach her i... (114 words)

If he's not going to cheat on his girlfriend, what's with the texts he's sending to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy friend, maybe "friend" isn't the right word. )We used to have a casual thing last year which has now ended because he's with somebody now and a few other reasons) has recently been sending me text messages that, in my opinion, friends shouldn't be sending one another. So, ... (234 words)

Was it just a drunken kiss???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I really like this guy who I work with. I started the job over three months ago, and within those three months he's been flirty and whatnot. However, we went out in town at the weekend and ended up getting off with each other a fair few times. Fair enough I had a bit to ... (257 words)

Things are going too far too quickly!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for just over a month. I'm 17 and he's 21, we live three hours away from each other, and seen one another three times, but talk all the time. I really like him, I think? =/ The only problem is i feel that he is too serious, hes already telling me ... (101 words)

My girlfriend left after her mum died...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i am 25 and been with my girlfriend for 3 years, i love her so much but on august 17th her mother passed away, her father died when she was young so now she only has me, she was telling me how much she loved me and never wants me to leave her after the death of her ... (305 words)

I am in a fix! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Guys! I am in this really tricky situation! please help me out! I have been in a long distance relationshiop for like 5 years now and i was deeply in love with my boyfriend till i met this other guy who also is in a relationship for quite some time now.. We are in the ... (144 words)

Does he like me... or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - question: how would i know if my guy friend likes me? situation: i am just new in a company that i am working with. the guy that i am referring to is a manager from one department which is somehow corrolated to my work. this guy is so snobish and doesnt really care abou... (375 words)

I'm scared to go to college...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - it all started when i was 14 and in school. i then couldnt be bothered to go but then my friends started to turn their backs on me and every time i went to go to school id have panic attacks and wouldnt go, so i ended up leaving and being homeschooled. now im 16 and have no ... (112 words)

Should I worry on him cheating on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i have this boyfriend, i have been with him since 1st May this year but have known him since last mid-october, we are long distance(about 300m/5 hrs apart) things have been going really well, we have the odd tiff now and then but who doesnt, the only problem is i get ... (558 words)

I can never be alone with my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months and not once have I ever gotten to be alone with her! her friend is always with her! for example she will come to my house to see me and her friend is ALWAYS with her. I didn't mind at first but I'm getting frustrated, I'm ... (89 words)

My good huband hired a prositute while away at Police training.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - MY husband went to Police trainging for a week in another state, the 1st night there he hung out with the other single cops from his job who spoke of prostitutes, he claimed he got him thinking and by night he had a prostitute come to his hotel room for a oral. he said there ... (244 words)

Is there any way to say to someone that you like them but not implying that you want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there any way to say to someone that you like them but not implying that you want a relationship? I've known this guy for a couple of months and I feel it's too soon for a serious involvement but I want to tell him that I like him for starters.... (54 words)

How can I move things faster so we can get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I broke up a month ago and we were going out for 2 years! we broke up because we were bickering about the stupidest things too much (like what movie to watch or where to eat). We ended up talking last week and decided to get together last night. First of all the night ... (1003 words)

The new guy... or the ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The ex I loved for 5 years and the other whom i've been friends and a co worker with for 2 years??? We had good/great/amazing/terrible ect. times together. He cheated 3 times once with one of my closest friends whilst i was beside him asleep. I never did once... But we ... (408 words)

Love roller coaster...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age - Hi, here is my story, I was in a two year relationship with Jeanie, who had a 3 yr old daughter, Joan. Our relationship ended. I maintained a loving relationship with the little girl Joan and with her family. Later, although not together as a couple Jeanie and I had a child ... (961 words)

Growing old vs growing apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - for a married couple to be together forever they should grow together and not grow apart. What is your definition of "grow together" and/or "grow apart"? give examples if possible... (33 words)

Anyone have any insight into ED?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So for the past couple of months my boyfriend has been having trouble maintaining an erection during sex. It won't happen every single time we have sex, but it does happen and its getting really depressed about it. For starters, he's 23 and I'm 20. The problem recently... (187 words)

Does she want me or my music?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This girl, who happens to be an ex, is keen to join my band. But she missed our first rehearsal, saying there was no time specified and she couldn't make it as she'd made other plans. I was annoyed at the time, but didn't bother too much as I decided it wasn't worth my effort t... (279 words)

He's gone from being affectionate with me to being non affectionate again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I am 20 and my boyfriend is 28, older than me i know but we get along very well, we were best friends before anything, he is the person I trust the most I tell him everything! But now I moved to Canada i was offered a scholarship by McGill uni, when I moved we ... (362 words)

How can I pleasure him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, so i have a question that i know will probably make me seem really naive at my age but I really need some advice. Ok so without sounding weird about it, iv got this really good friend and recently our relationship has become more serious and things are ... (114 words)

Was she just trying to make me jealous coming in with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Lady's Jealousy question? K. I work at this restaurant, and I have a regular that comes in very frequently. She has come accross as showing interest in me, but as a server I don't know what to do because it may be innocent flirting. I bought her drinks a few times, and she even... (176 words)

He doesn't feel the same way he used to but isn't unhappy enough to leave our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and lately things have went from great to horrible. When we first started dating, things were amazing! We would talk all day every day about everything, we would spend lots of time together (not too much) and both ... (457 words)

Girlfriend in heavy debt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My 27 Girlfriend is in heavy debt. We've been together for about a year and things are starting to get serious, we are thinking of renting a place and buying a few things together. I wanted to know what place we could afford and obviously set some sort of working budget. ... (170 words)

Why does my husband want me to "whore" myself out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is always after me to reveal my private bits to other people. For example, if we are going out for the evening with another couple, he loves it if I wear a sheer bra and a blouse that gapes open. We went biking on the path and he got me to wear a tank top that ... (331 words)

He was the love of my life and I want us to have a second chance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just need advice on a possible second chance with my ex-boyfriend. We lived together for almost 3 years and were engaged for a year of that. We had great chemistry and I got really close to not only him, but his kids as well. We told each other we loved each other every day ... (593 words)

Why is a woman hitting on my mom (who has been married 14 years)???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My mom was married to my dad for 14 years. Just less then 2 months ago there is a woman who is eyeing mom and is trying to make contact with my mom. And the other day when mom was at the beach she noticed mom and was looking at mom for long periods of time. My mom makes "NO... (124 words)

Returning the favor

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Just a quick Q. If your partner performs oral on you does it mean that you have to return the favour to her ..and does it have to be during the same love making session? ..or can it wait till the morning?...lol... (49 words)

Aids & Bj's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - what is the chance of aids from a blow job... (16 words)

Advice on buying my girlfriend a vibrator

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - So my girlfriend is a bit kinky, and wants to get a vibrator. I thought I'd get her one for fun, but I dont know what to get. I'd ask her, but that would spoil the surprise. They all seem to be pretty small with all kinds of "appendages", or very, very large and pretty ... (135 words)

I'm a male that loves to wear women's clothes but my girlfriend doesn't like it what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i am male when i was a child my mother use to dress me as a girl this went on for about nine years now i am a lot older i have a female partner and i love dressing as a woman it feels so right to me but my partner dosent like it or understand am i weardo like she says she ... (79 words)

Why does an ex act mean for no reason?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when an exboyfriend or exgirlfriend acts mean to you for no reason at all? ... (18 words)

Do I chose the ex fiance or the new guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How to choose between 2 guys I am currently in a similar position me and my ex fiancé were together for 5 years we would have been getting married this November then in may of this year he cheated on me with this woman close to his work he says it is because I was always i... (357 words)

Married man says he needs a "cure" to marry me?? What does that mean?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just came back from turkey i meet a lovely kurdish waiter i spent two days with him before returning home he was lovely to me treated me like a princess he has a kurdish wife and daughter back home in east turkey he told me about his wife he says he does not love her it ... (162 words)

Hubby has his ex on facebook and I don't like it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive always had issues w my hubby and computers. If i am overeacting on any of this please tell me. Last month, he got a facebook and didnt tell me. The only way i found out about it was he was suggested to be one of my friends. No big deal. until i check out his profile, and ... (243 words)

Why can't I conceive yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i and the coil in for 4 years and i got it took out last tuesday this month i had intercourse wit my husband and he came and i done the test on monday but it came back negative can you tell mewhat the problem could be that i can't conceive yet thanks... (54 words)

Frustrating sex life with husband. Thinking of trying anal or becoming bi

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am maried,for 7 yrs and my sex life is not good.my husband dooesnt like sex like me.never had a sex toy cant allow me to have one and same goes for masterbation.lately i have been thinking about anal sex but he refuses saying its wrong is it posible to try it on my own.my ... (79 words)

I treated him like crap but I really like him and I don't know how to tell him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really stuffed up.I really did. Hi there, to all who're reading this.. I became mates with a guy , lets call him Dave and we started texting for ages. We obviously were more than mates.. i.e we texted into the night every day, he asked me how my day was and all etc etc.... (373 words)

My father has disconnected from the family and we are very concerned about him. What can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at odds. .this is really taking a toll on myself and siblings. My parents had recently divorced after 35 plus years. My father had an affair and was drinkibg alcohol on weekends. .the had a great job and good relationships with people in his life..but his ... (369 words)

Boyfriend says he is comfortable with me but not the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need someone to answer my questions and give me some advice on thurday my boyfriend and i had some awesome sex i have never had sex like dat with him before he is my first that night he never called until sunday i knew some thing was wrong.when we spoke he said he don't ... (212 words)

Why won't my boyfriend put on facebook that he is in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf friend, put on facebook that he has a relationship with a girl, sooo then why the hell doesnt my bf dooo that. He wont put where in a relationship. And we have been dating for awhile, and we have had sex. Whats wrong with him??... (47 words)

Why does he wanna do that?? does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy a few months ago.. he seems really different. (nice guy) hes really sweet but is too early to tell so am just hoping.. we are just getting to know each other at the moment. he wants to add my brother on the xbox so he play football with him . he... (128 words)

Stopping your period once it has started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anyway to stop your period from stopping once its started? I got my period today but i need it to be gone by Friday! Has anyone tried anything and it worked for them? Please anyone with any advice! I know it sounds gross but i really need help! My period is usuall... (67 words)

Why can't we just break up and stay broken up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am stuck in this relationship and I don't know how to get out of it! We argue everyday and it's just clear that it never works out. But why can't we break up? It's like, we break up and then a few minutes later we make up again. I'm tired of this up and down!... (56 words)

We've both cheated and I think we're better off not together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He dumped me (again). Now he wants me back (again). ): I love him and want him back but I'm starting to think it would be better if we weren't together! - we've both cheated. It was ages ago, but it's still there, hanging over the relationship. Can our relationship eve... (329 words)

We're staying friends after the breakup but I want so much more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my gf have broke up about a week ago now we have been togeather for 4 years now and she was a bit diff with me so I asked me: are we still bf and gf or just friends Her: she started cry badly and said friends now she said she still loves me and cares fore b... (519 words)

I have killed my feelings of being loved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i m a 25 yr old, average looking guy. i hv a good physique and m graduate. currently i m doing a readymade garment business and m financially sound. i hv a healthy and nice family. my problem is that i never had a girlfriend, never. i mean since childhood i want... (231 words)

Gift ideas for my 15 year old boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hai! i am really confused about what i should gift for my boy friend who is turning 15 now. i don't know what he want's or like's. i am really helpless please help me pls......... (38 words)

I cheated and now boyfriend is still so jealous! Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iN THE past i cheated on my bf various times, n he forgave me, but now, he is extremly jealous, iff i dont call him every day, he gets upset, n if i delete a post on facebook, he thinks im hiding something. What do I do, is this normal?? Enough time has passed. ... (54 words)

Why does my boyfriend only want sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I hangout out more now, bt the problem iss thatt he will only take me to his house, to have sex, and thats all. I know he is busy with school and stuff, bt come on,, only sex. Am i right or no???... (46 words)

Is there any chance of salvaging this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - In May 2004 my partner of 8 years passed away from brain tumours. After a few months I met a woman who has since become my wife. I met her way too early and she was initially patient and then pushy for me to move on, and over time this bred resentment. We decided ... (369 words)

Is it possible to move past this and have a happy marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does marriage get better with age and has anyone sucessfully survived a cheating spouse? I am 24 years old and have been married since I was 21. My husband and I have a child that is 2. My husband was a Marine and he had an affair while he was out of state for duty. I have been ... (469 words)

My boyfriend saw me kissing someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was at a club with a guy friend. We kissed a few times. But there's a problem I was going out with someone at the time and he so happens to be a the same night club as me. He saw me kissing him. Now the guy that was my boyfriend says to me that he needs some time. But he ... (93 words)

I got cold feet and said some really horrible things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I was seeing a wonderful kind loving man from a far away country.We met while he was here on work and it felt like it was meant to be. We maintained this beautiful realationship for awhile and after about 5 months he was talking marriage and all the things that a girl wants ... (479 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to fall back in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and known each other for a long time on the internet before meeting up on 14th of august 2009. We broke up yesterday because of me, i was aruging with him because he never called me when he said he would and didn't get ... (222 words)

How do I control my anger about breaking my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i control my anger and stop thinking my boyfriend is going to break my heart ... (17 words)

21st birthday ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. I'm in need of help.. 21st birthday party?? I'm not sure how I should go about planning the only birthday party I have ever and will ever have.. Its a big day.. I did try and look for items on the net but there is not enough that gets my attention.. Anyone, would you like ... (67 words)

Why do I feel so bad after a bar hookup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do i feel so bad after a bar hook up? And why does seeing the one guy i really liked from a bar hook up a year ago, hurt so much? ... (32 words)

Should I stay with the love of my life and stop the relationship with the little girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age - I was in a two year relationship with Jeanie, who had a 3 yr old daughter,Joan. Our relationship ended. I maintained a relationship with the little girl Joan and with her family. Later, although not together as a couple Jeanie and I had a child James, there is also another ... (879 words)

How accurate is the first response home pregnancy test?

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15 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were afraid that she could be pregnant so she took a first response pregnancy test. She took it 4 days after she was supposed to have her period and it turned out negative. She is now 6 days late and recently moved to another state so the timezone changed ... (94 words)

My friend won't approve of my relationship!

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have developed mutual feelings/chemistry with someone. Our personal relationship has grown well over the last few months, and we are in all technicalities dating/seeing each other. However, I have had a hard time telling my friend as she is somewhat obsessed... (219 words)

I'm afraid my ex called and I missed it, do I call him?

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15 September 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been speaking on and off..we spoke last wednesday and i asked about talking more often and he said ok, no problem woth that..he was sick when we spoke so i said do you want to call when you are feeling better and he said that he can do...i have been away the ... (158 words)

How can I make him stop treating me like a child?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i like this guy who is alot older than me and he has said that he likes me as well. the only problem is that at certain times he seem to just see me as a child still..how can i get him to realize that i am no longer a child?... (53 words)

We shouldn't be together, but I can't bring myself to break up with him!

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, Ive been dating my ex boyfriend again for like a couple of months now. At the beginning of the relationship we were so happy, we used to hangout a lot. then he went to study abroad for a semester (fall semester) and he broke up with me after 4 months of our long distance ... (909 words)

He's moving 4 hours away, what should I do?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year! And we have been friends for like 6 years. We are insanely happy but a few things bother me. He smokes a TON of weed and I'm very against it. I hate it. And also, he is failing out of school and having to move back home ... (93 words)

Is it possible to like 2 people at the same time?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is it possible to like two people at the same time, and if so then how do u chose which one you love more?? cause i still have super strong feelings for my ex and the thought of not being with him makes me cry and i havent been with him for a month and i still love him soo much ... (121 words)

End of marriage, what do I do with everything?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi there. I am divorced, it was not what I wanted, he did. It has been a year. Our marriage was loveless for several years. The 4 kids are all adults and they struggle with it some. My question is this: What do I do with things like our wedding album. Do I take family ... (110 words)

Butterflies in my stomach or pregnancy?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so heres the thing, I'm 13 turning 14 soon, and I just recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend and we kinda didnt use a condom... YES I KNOW MAJOR STUPIDITY!! but we werent planning on it happening, but it did, and he says he didnt cum inside me, he says he took it out ... (127 words)

Disturbing boy in my class

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy in my class who iz always rubbing me.!!!! Rubbing my back legs chest hips butt and trys for my other part also. He trys to put my hand in his pants. He acutualy one stuck his hand down his pants then when I was not paying attention wiped it on my mouth!! ... (84 words)

Embarrassing! mom gives me a curfew!

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15 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Wow this is embarrassing but my mom gives me a bedtime on weekdays. Its really early and I don't get to hang out with my friends. I want to tell her about it but I'm scared to. She never let's me do a lot of things. Please tell me what to do! Please and thank u!... (56 words)

Husband won't return sexual favors

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, everyone. I'm a married woman of 6 years. I love my husband with every fiber of my being. And would do anything to make him happy.Among these things are oral sex. I love to make him happy and keep him satisfied. But I can't seem to want to perform oral on him anymore. He ... (209 words)

I really confused with what I really want in life?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Now I am 28yrs been married for 3years with no kids but that because we believe we still young and not ready yet. Been working for couple years with completely different industry from Tourism industry to education industry. my life have been up and down like Roller Coaster for ... (161 words)

We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else and she knew about me. I ... (144 words)

Did I over-react to the nurses comments?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking she asked my boyfriend who I ... (88 words)

I think I'm spotting...could I be pregnant???

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so today i started spotting well i guess thats what it is if i havent gotten my period i was suppose to get it monday or today but i havent and ive been very worried and stressed cause about a month ago i had sex with my bf for the first time and we didnt use protection and he ... (82 words)

Why do I still get nervious when I'm ontop during sex?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so iv been off and on with my boyfriend for about 4 years, we havnt broke up for about a year 1/2 and we have been having sex for about a year 1/2. When we first starting havning sex i was great and i was usualy on top, i didnt worry about doing something wrong and i ... (166 words)

I want to date a guy that my friend dated before

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, well i have this friend i met at the beginnning of the school year and we've been hanging out and stuff... she dated this guy the first week of school for like 2 days.. and its like the 5th week of school now, and i like him and he likes me and were talkin now, but idk wat ... (93 words)

Does she want to be more than friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so my best friend for the past year and a half is a girl. I have always liked her. I see her everyday. We carpool after school and do all the same clubs. Sometimes she will grab my arm and drag me places. Sometimes she will do it when her hands are cold. Recently I sang ... (83 words)

I don't know which way is which anymore!

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So it started about 4months ago... I was with someone and had an interest in someone else. I've been really good friends with this guy and having relationship problems and I hooked up with him. Well we were just the usually friends with benefits but things started to go ... (144 words)

So there's this guy...

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So its my senior year in school and with the idiots that go to my school I gave up on finding someone. But my first day I met this new guy and we hit it off right away. Hes smart, he has a great sense of humor, and we have a lot in common. We've been flirting since we met I ... (129 words)

Should I trust him? he lied and hurt me!

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy, that I love. And he told me he loved me too, and the problem is this was what he said before we starting dating. We were together for a month, and that was a hard thing because his parents didn't like me, so I did not get to see him, but he said it was working ... (363 words)

Keeping a guy after the first date?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have no problem "realling" a guy in but i have a problem actualy with dating and getting to know them and the right way to let them get to kno me... i usualy go for the "player" types so it makes it even harder do you have any advice on how to keep a guy interested after ... (64 words)

After the baby was born things went down hill for us!

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have being with my bf 4 over 3 years i have a 19month old girl with him. For the 1st year and a half of our relationship things was amazing in everyway once our daughter was born it slowly but surely went down hill in everyway. Ive noticed myself being distant from him but ... (135 words)

I think he just wants sex! how can I change this?

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i just moved to a new area and i met this boy at work and hes completly my type and hes always flirting with me and txtin me but i think he jus wants sex... is there somethin i can do to change that...??? ... (45 words)

Why was this man staring at me?

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15 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - When out to eat the other day with my daughter. We were at aa table in a sandwich shop. This guy sits there and stares at me the whole time never takes his eyes off me. Then he leaves before I do. Then when he gets ready to leave he walks by my table his eyes were still fixed ... (86 words)

Is it possible to combine being gay with being a catholic?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

15 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been raised in a catholic family and have always believed in god, but lately I have become more agnostic. I'm gay and feel like a bit of an outcast in the church. I'm not out, and don't think my family will accept it. As far I know, being gay in the church is ok, bu... (127 words)

She lied and I broke up with her, now I don't know what to do!

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15 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When my girlfriend and I first hooked up, I didn't have feelings at all. She told me about the last guy she's been with and how she gave him head. I didn't care cause I was just hooking up with her. Months later and here I am 9 months later still with her. The topic came up and ... (156 words)

A bad time in the a relationship for the nice guy

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15 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all i want to ask a very diffacult question i am 18 and my gf is 15 turning 16 she is might be pregenet with anothers man kid hu doesnt belive her and since i love her i will take the kid as my own but everytime she gos to guys house to talk about it she gets really ... (78 words)

Is he into me? I really want to know..

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always been terrible at being able to tell if a guy is into me or is just being a good friend, especially when most of my friends are guys I have a coworker that I have become good friends with outside of work. He's five years older than me and we share a lot in common. We ... (358 words)

So confused about my ex

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15 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when an ex acts angry over nothing someone says it means he might still care but is feeling bad that we no longer speak and just isn't man enough to say it. I know I did nothing but be kind to this person so I know I don't deserve it it's just who says Hi in ... (78 words)