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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know we'll be married and have kids one day, but not yet for goodness sake!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know my girlfriend is the one for me. I know someday she and I will be married and we'll have kids together. I can feel it in my bones and I just... KNOW. Problem is... Both of her best girl friends are married; one even has a kid on the way, her cousin just announced h... (131 words)

Does she like me? She smiles and her face turns red

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im a guy lesbian and i like this girl but we are just friends because she has a boyfriend but everytime im around her she smiles at me and her face turns red so does this mean that she likes me... (42 words)

He's either upset with her and trying to keep me out of it or he's trying to break things off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am having a hard time figuring out what is going on with a guy I have been getting to know over the past 5 months. We met through an online dating site, and we live a few hours away from one another, so we don't see each other very often, but we have both visited ... (434 words)

Am I wrong to be in love with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really need your help it's about me and my bestfriend of 4 years. We first met in middle school and it was love at first sight we immediatly clicked after months of talking we began dating. We dated on and off through middle school and each time we would br... (142 words)

It seems like I'm always the one initiating the conversation. Does he like me? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I'm gay, and I recently met someone online who is two years older than me. When I went to meet him, he told me that we have actually known each other for a very long time. He told me his full name and I was in shock, and I immediately became comfortable around h... (514 words)

Why isn't he interested in phone sex any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is now thoroughly disinterested in phone sex and instead makes it into a joke. He used to love it. What's changed? I'm worried. ... (25 words)

How can you justify looking at violent or rape porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't just mean like being beaten and screaming, I mean the stuff where the woman gets her head shoved in a toilet, where the guy does anything until she cries or gags, etc... Why is that OK to get off on so long as it's not child porn or bestiality? I just want to know guys ... (66 words)

Why text me still when she isn't interested and we've only known each other a few months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I told this Girl I've known for a couple of month that I liked her and this was her response: i don't want anything at the moment with stuff going on and I don't want to lead you on and I don't expect you to like be waiting around for me to stop being weird We texted abi... (162 words)

Is porn cheating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't no weather porn is cheating but every time I find out he is doing it he lies to me and says am inscure but when he promess he wouldt haw does he excpect me to react ????... (39 words)

How do you know if they felt the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love opinions from guys and girls about this: when you kiss someone, and it makes your stomach do flips, makes you feel on top of the world, how do you tell if it's having the same effect on them? When I kiss my new bf, that is exactly how I feel, and he always says ... (110 words)

I need help in this situation!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year, and i have maked up situations that i can talk to her, but i dont want to get her to know that I like her, cause if this doesn't work, I still want to be her friend. ... (246 words)

Really upset, not sure what to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex told me to back off and to give him peace because he's thinking I brag about my art. But I don't.. I was trying to talk to him about something. I sent him a quote and he came out saying he's sick of me or something, so I'm going to leave him alone. I don't even know where ... (86 words)

We texted each other all summer but I don't want to be "real life friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy going to my college facebook friended me over the summer. I accepted his facebook friendship, and then he began to chat with me on there. He gave me his number and told me to text him...I felt bad if I didn't text him, so I did just to be nice. We texted a lot over the ... (143 words)

I've lost my sexual self

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) age - I a 48 years old male. I have been married for 25 years. But my marriage is in crises,because I lost my sexual self. I m really ashamed,but I dont know what to do. I lose my erections right when I enter,also I have zero sexual desire. I went to medical checkup.... (144 words)

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not stupid, I know that an 18 year ... (159 words)

Boyfriend says he'll never get back with me again because I lost his trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past year, a close friend of 6 year... (281 words)

Should I stay positive and confident or accept what is happening.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 years just moved out and i find out last night that there is no chance that "we will get back together right now". She says she still loves me but she doesn't know if she is in love with me right now. We were engaged at one time but we called it off to work ... (196 words)

My ex is really starting to creep me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - not so long ago i wrote about not being able to broke up with my boyfriend because he wouldn't let me, he would start crying and begging and that broke my heart and made me unable to do it. then a week or two ago i finally did it. But now i have a bigger problem: He won't ... (235 words)

Do I cut him off? Try to ignore his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a some what complicated dilemma. Me and a guy friend were fwb i suppose you'd call it for maybe 6 months or so, this was last year and it also ended last year as he got a girlfriend but we agreed to stay friends. Basically a few months ago we ended up sleeping together, ... (316 words)

Lost my erection, and she's not happy about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - {Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined} 1.) ok, so this is the thing: sometimes when alone with my girlfriend i'm not getting an erection!!I do in the beginning when we start kissing each others lips and neck,but when we get naked i lose the erection and i fe... (177 words)

Do guys get surprised when the see what the breasts are shaped like without the bra?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are you ready for a nontraditional question? Do guys get pleasantly/nonpleasantly surprised (you decide) when the bras come off their girlfriends? Girls wear all sorts of push up bras, lifting bras etc. that I'm curious if guys get surprised at their gf's real breasts shape. ... (47 words)

When is it too late for romantic stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey every one! Just wondering, if you've been with a guy 8 months, is it way too late for him to do romantic things like bring you flowers etc? And how would you even get him to do these romantic things without bluntly asking? ... (44 words)

No reply to my text -- is this the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, We have a casual relationship lasting for several months. From january we used to talk everyday. He was the one initiating it and he was always very into me. Both of us we know this could never be a "real" relationship but both of us accepting it. Last time i saw him h... (182 words)

I don't care about the age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I've completely fallen for someone who is 7 years older than me. He means the world to me and im so lucky to have him in my life. The thing is is he is giving me all the right signs that he likes me, like letting me cuddle up to him, falling asleep o... (199 words)

How do I express my feelings too her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been txting a girl since 3 days... And she doesn't know me well n I know her v. well and she wants to meet with me as soon as possible, I know If go and meet her, I won't hve anything to tell her, because I'm kind of shy at times.. and this migth change evrything.. I ... (168 words)

She still calls, but less often.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I meet this girl online about 2yrs ago. And every day we talked all night long as much as we could on the phone. In things where great she had a 8 yr relationship with a other guy when we meet in she was still going out with him. So about after 3 months she got rid of him for ... (416 words)

Do you think she will come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old college students and my ex is a 16 year old in high school. We dated for a little over a year and we were inseparable. While at college we missed each other a ton and it hurt a lot. Over the summer she dumped me because she said it hurt to much when I'm gone ... (134 words)

Have you ever fallen for someone you didn't get along with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, have you ever fallen for a girl you did not initially get along with?... (15 words)

I need help coming out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I really hate that I'm gay, but I want to come out and let everyone know. I'm really scared of how people are going to react because most of the people in this town are pretty homophobic/stereotype about gay people. I've never told anyone and i want to badly... b... (62 words)

Do I dare tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So I just turned 18. I have a question for everyone. I would do this not as anonymous...but I kind of want no one to know who I am....ya I know that's weird. Here goes. Once again I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had guys like me and I didn't like them. I've kind ... (460 words)

His parents wont accept me as thier daughter inlaw

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf yesterday informed me that he cant marry me since his parents wont accept me as their daughter-in-law since im elder to him by 3 yrs and divorcee (no kids though). we are seeing each other for past 1 yr, we started off as friends and then fell for each other. He s... (201 words)

I'm not a mistress. or am i? I'm fed up with feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What do I do? I've been with my 'boyfriend' for almost 5 years. I love him and he says he loves me! But, and it's a big one...I've never met his friends, he seens to 'jump' when his ex says 'jump'. This I understand as they have three children together, however I feel so let o... (137 words)

I said harsh things that led to our breakup

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I orginally posted a question, but for some reason the moderator(s) rejected it for being inappropriate, which does not make sense to me as I have seen so many similar questions being posted. Anyway, I will repost this without a lot of details, and if anyone wants to know more ... (389 words)

Guys are so hard to read!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So...I've been wondering about this. I am a female college freshman..I've been here for about six weeks now. I have been loving college so much, and I am thoroughly enjoying nearly every experience so far (I say nearly..not every class is fun lol). Anyways, my real question... (525 words)

Advice on getting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok right im 16 years old and ive never had a boyfriend im not hidius looking and im a bit on the chubby side but all through high school no boys have ever really been interested in me i dont know what to do and how to get a boyfriend please help me and can i have any tips or ... (68 words)

What's more important ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies! what's more important to you a man or money? Gentlemen! what's more important to you love or hanging out with your friends? :) thinks carefully ladies and gentlemen!... (29 words)

I regret it all, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

Whats wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband n I have been together for 13years married 8 an I feel he don't care for me any more. We don't talk, we have sex maybe 3xs a month, an I caught him looking up a girl on the internet that we work with that he was accused of sleepn with. He said he did it because he ... (194 words)

I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im not sure if i love my boyfriend anymore im .t years still living with my parents a college student and i have a part time job. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years n im not sure wether or not i still love him..hes the only guy i have had an intimate relationship ... (114 words)

One night stand with my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week i made a big mistake , i had a 1 night stand with a male friend of mine. Since that night he has asked me to move in with him, told me he will treat me like a queen. I really don't know what to do?... (50 words)

I think my doctor likes me

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?... (29 words)

He's leaving the wife!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it'll be all my fault and I'll be... (89 words)

How do I console him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with a guy since middle school. We haven't talked much for a couple months because of some issues involving work, friends, and a fight. Today he told me that his dad died three days ago. i had no idea what to say to him. What can I do to make him feel be... (59 words)

My girlfriend had sex with another guy because of me!! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with my girlfriend for almost 1 1/2 years, i got real drunk, some girl jus had 100% intention on doing everything with me, i barely spoke to her the entire night. I still dont know to this day why i followed her up to her room. We had sex. My girlfriend found out through ... (292 words)

Do boys like emotional girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very shy, sensitive and emotional girl. boys please answer. do you like emotional girls.if she share with you her problems and wants you to help her about anything like friends, family etc.and if she cries too much??... (39 words)

I want to remove myself from these one night stands and just be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me out with this...I know I've screwed up, don't know what to do to fix this. I met a man about 8 months ago, it was only intended to be a one night stand on both our parts. And we never saw each other again for 5 months, then for whatever reason we got back togethe... (164 words)

Need some help on where to shop in sydney?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a question about love or a relationship but I'd like to have some help please. I am going to be moving to Sydney in Australia by the beginning of next year (hopefully) and I would like to know if anyone would be able to help me. I want to know what shops... (135 words)

Is it too soon to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok what gives? Recently I've been hanging out with this guy and I'm just not sure if hes into me or not. Sometimes i think he is and sometimes i think otherwise. Hes invited me over to his place just him and i and hes invited me to come hang out with his close friends as a ... (193 words)

Is drinking occasionally SO bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are having very hard time in our relationship. My wife is very loose temper and gets upset very easily. We are married from last 7 years and have 2 kids. In last 7 years we are having fight almost once every month or so. Whenever we have any disagreement on ... (256 words)

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we were best friends, but now ... (397 words)