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*mi..22
writes:hi,my name is amrita.I am married for 6 months and i am now pregnant,but when i ask my husband questions,like whats his monthly payment or whats his password for yahoo he dont wanna tell me these thing.I gave him my password to my yahoo cause i love him and i dint want him to feel that i am hiding things.please help me i need answers to my questions. Reply to this Question
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reader, ami..22 +, writes (22 September 2010):
ami..22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys,i dont know much abt married,i am just scared that something was not going right,i love him and he loves me and we had a love marriage.Its just that he should be able to trust me,and because he lied to me a few time,sometimes i feel he is up to something.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Not everyone is quite as willing to share how much they make or their e-mail passwords. In fact sharing the e-mail password is actually asking for too much, in my opinion - what if it's used for something work-related which he is contractually obliged to keep confidential - just a possibility, y'know.
As for how much he makes - well, maybe he'll get around to telling you when he trust you a little more. Is yours an arranged marriage? It takes time to build up trust in those sometimes.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Just because you're married, doesn't mean that you have to "meld" together and become one person... its important to have time to yourself and keep being the wonderful individual that attracted your partner to you in the first place.
You may view it as secretive and as a reason that he's hiding something, but honestly- I would never give any partner my bank details or any of my passwords. Even if I got married, I still wouldn't... its unreasonable to ask someone to give up every ounce of privacy... and I know many people would be the same.
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