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My boyfriend and this other girl!!

Tagged as: The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (22 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So me and my boyfriend have been having problems lately because he's going to be moving back to his hometown which is like 5 states away. and I don't know what to do.

but to top it all off, I saw his messages and he was messaging this one girl who I think is his ex and he told her he missed sleeping with her and stuff. so I'm like what the f***. I'm not sure if he did this when we were together or not. but still. so obviously they have a past.

she lives in his hometown, where he's moving back too.

on facebook I changed my thing to single then I changed it back so it says that were back in a relationship and she "liked" it.

I’m not sure if she did it to be bitchy, or if she actually does like that were together.

I’m really suspicious of them too and I'm just wondering. they have been talking lately so I don't know what the hell to do. I don't want to bring it up because I feel like I might be overreacting but I'm scared when he gets back there, they are going to get together behind my back or something. I need help!

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A female reader, tblondie1826 United States +, writes (23 September 2010):

Confront him about her. Admit you were jealous, sometimes guys like the honesty. If he cares for you he will tell you the truth. And if he moves there and sleeps with her than move on. He wouldn't be worth it, plus long distance stinks big time, I've been there. Goodluck though, and if you stay together I hope your love lasts! Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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