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writes:[MOD NOTE:OP'S OWN TITLE]I can't be the only one...right? My and my husband are looking for a girlfriend to spoil, and enjoy all together. Am I too open-minded??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): With marriage, emotionas are attached for each other. Without marriage, there is a less sense of committment and ppl are less likely to have strong feelings for another. Therefore, this is best done with no strings attached and little or no emotional risk involved, which cannot happen with marriage.The BEST way to do this is to not be married. Good luck.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Too open-minded - maybe, maybe not. Your milage may vary. Make sure that whatever you decide to, you have thought about long and hard, and whoever you decide to do it with, is on the same page as you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): If you don't mind risking your marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): Not at all - If the two of you are into the idea it's great!
I suggest that you go to Amazon and buy "Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy" by Lori Gammon and Bill Strong.
Lot's of excellent advice, and it works!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 I don't think so at all, as long as both of you understand what you are getting into and have really talked about it. For example if there is going to be sex and so on. The hardest part is finding someone because its not exactly the easiest thing to bring up. My gf and I had a threesome over the summer after talking about it for monthes and it was alot of fun for us. Really the only time you run into problems is when you to are not on the same page as to what will go on and if you just randomly jump into it.
If you two do decide to do it I hope you both enjoy yourself and remember to try not to leave anyone out when things get going.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 I understand you might be a bit shy but we might need more information before we can give an honest answer. Personally, I think you are being too open-minded. It is not a good idea to get involved with threesomes because there can be a jealousy issue that might arise. I am not just saying that for the sake of giving a holier-than-thou answer.
I hope you come to your senses though and that you do NOT go through with this. All the other agony aunts might disagree with me, but there you go.
Enjoy the rest of the day.
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