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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are we dating or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my friend reconnected after so many years, we went out in high school for like a month, purely innocent. So now, we have gone out to the movies twice he has treated and he is such a gentleman. But, we text like 24/7 and tells me that he doesn’t text much, but with me he can ... (189 words)

Friendship into more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked this question once before, but now, I'm asking again, with more details, so it's more understandable. How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship? ~~~~~~ In detail: She's the average, silent, "I am keeping to my work, and p... (950 words)

My ex wants us to be friends yet barely talks to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I broke up about a week ago and wants to be good friends even after our breakup. Yet she rarely talks to me anymore. It was a long distance relationship that put a huge strain on our relationship. Do I need to give her some space before we can actually ... (70 words)

How to get my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Readers, I would like to have some advise on how to convinced my girlfriend to have a sexual intercourse with me... Since she is still a virgin, it is extremely complicated to convinced her.. She always tells me to wait and wait and wait... I do not want to force her. I ... (147 words)

Wondering if I should leave my boyfriend but I have nowhere to go if I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I recently posted about some issues with my bf. Now I'm wondering if I should leave him. I have nowhere to go if I do. My family isn't an option and all my friends live too far away. I'm trying to get a job but it isn't going well, so I can't get a place of my own. ... (80 words)

22 year old guy who's never made it to third base!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and I'm still a virgin.Hell I've never even made it to third base.I'm just getting so tired of waiting. I really wanted to wait until I had some one I loved, I even prayed to God to send me someone but either he doesn't care or is saying no, neither of which ... (206 words)

What is this man's intentions toward me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What does he want with me? Here is the situation. I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 15 years and have three beautiful children. I have little experience with other men because of my long term relationship so I am having problems determining what this mans ... (423 words)

I'm too dry while having sex! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello when having sex with my boyfriend i become very dry i was never like this before until i got a mirena coil put in its a type of contraception just at womb, we use lube nearly all the time and after a while it goes and i become dry again its wrecking my head i dont wan... (121 words)

My online guy friend proposed to me, and we've never met!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an internet friend for over 6 months and we came to know each other well.I never met him ,though he insisted to.He was just an online FRIEND on yahoo chat site. Everything was going well between us , we had many chats, but then suddenly he proposes me, out of my shock .I ... (163 words)

She was like a trapped bird who needs to fly, but I still want her back

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, and had a great summer living together, but once we got back to our normal school routine, and she got a new place with new roomates, she started to seem really distant. We started having way less sex, and she would sometimes ... (492 words)

Lust... or love???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello can anyone please tell me what to do when i was younger there was a girl that most of the boys were after and no one could get her, she would flirt with all of us. Me and her didn't really talk that much when we were younger but when she would stay over her friends ... (273 words)

I have met a wonderful man... but he's married to someone else!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 months ago I met a wonderful man. He is kind, considerate and he treats me like a princess. There is just one problem : hes married to someone else. He has been seperated from his wife since febuary of this year after he found out she was having an affair with one of his ... (408 words)

My boyfriend called me a bitch last night and I can't get over it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

18 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend called my a Bitch last night. I can't seem to get over it ever though he's apologized many times. He's never cursed at me before and this really hurt me. He was frustrated because he was trying to do something on his computer. He threw the computer cord and I told ... (171 words)

What to do for the best... Should I try to get my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of three and a half years and I broke up recently because our relationship had been going south for awhile (mostly because of my actions). She told me she wanted a break, lied to me for a week, then revealed that she was in fact leaving me completely for someone ... (359 words)

I feel totally played by him! How could he do this to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok my main reason for posting this is i am very confused. my now ex partner and myself have known each other for 10 years now, we lost contact for a few years and ended up catchin up on a social network site were we continued to speak on a regular basis. after about 4 months of ... (633 words)

My ex came back after 4 years, begged for me, then left. How do I stop loving her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My situation is all over the place and I am torn apart inside. 4 years ago we broke up after a great 2 year relationship. We were young. We broke up when I was 19 and she was 17. She started hanging out with the wrong crowd, doing drugs (mostly weed, which is just not my thing) ... (1582 words)

I want to know how do I ask my husband's brother to satisfy me as his brother is impotent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need your advice. I am a beautiful 23 year old married girl. Its been almost 2 years now that I am married. My husband is impotent. He cant satisfy me and I am still a virgin. I cant share this with anyone as my parent are dead and so is my mother in law. I do not have... (282 words)

How do I get her to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so theres this girl that i have liked for a while. We used to get in arguments over stupid things but then we became friends. we have been friends for a while now. i will wave at her and smile when i walk by her in the hallways at school and she always smiles back. On the ... (162 words)

My girlfrend and her brother tried to attack me when walking away at a bar after an argument.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend attacked me when leaving a bar. I was at the bar celebrating my good friend, who happens to be my girlfriends(ex) brother, and we were having a great time. Well, after bar hoping we end up at a bar and my girlfriend and i get into an argument. She says things ... (523 words)

Why would an ex text after 2 months of no contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex of 6 months broke up with me almost half a year ago over one argument and many accusations that he had against me and then said that he had lost some interest and needed some space. He once said that I was the most well composed girl he ever met and I was so good to him ... (287 words)

Losing weight...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a relationship problem but I really need some advice, please! It's about my weight. I was absolutely disgusted with my appearance and determined to lose some weight, so I signed up for a gym. I've been faithful to the gym and I've seen some success, but I s... (455 words)

Help! In love... or just another crush???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i have recetley started college and i have met 2 great guys and the other day they introduce me to one of their friends who when to their school and i thought that she was cute. i have gently started to have feelings for her. we saw her yesturday at col... (180 words)

I feel I'm stagnating and I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm fed up. I'm 22, I graduated from university last summer, struggled to get a job. I am now working, I love the work, but the hours and money are terrible. I work harder than most people in the office, but I'm paid the least. I can't afford to move out so I'm stuck ... (146 words)

What do I do about his threatening remarks if I were to leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, ive been with my boyfiend now for ten months. I started seeing him two weeks after a relationship break up of 5 and a half years. Everything was great for two months, now its on and off, i dont know what to do. Hes really insecure and suffers from depression. He keeps ... (189 words)

Am I a weak man, or is there seriously something wrong in my marriage or compatability?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I'm glad I found this site because I have a serious problem. I have been married 2 years, with the same woman for total of 9 years. We were high school sweethearts. I have never cheated on her, not even once, not even kissed another woman. Yet as of late (the las... (591 words)

He doesn't want to admit we're a couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my bf and me, have been going out for like a month now, and there are some things that he does, that i absolutely detest, and i dont know if i have the right to or not. For example, he wants me to pay for everything, i once caught him looking at a girl, he doesnt hold my ... (103 words)

I don't like being a mum... I want all my freedom back!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

- Hey guys. Thanks for looking at my dilemma! And I will keep it short.,.. Basically, I'm 27 years old, single mum to a beautiful 5 month old boy. The father is my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant, he is still around for our son and is a great dad however we wont be getting ... (411 words)

I'm not sure if I'm taking what he said in the worst way...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been broken up for 5 weeks and we were together for 2 years. We hung out this past Tuesday night for 5 hours, talking. It was amazing and he poured his feeling out to me and he told me how much he misses me and how much he thinks about me. He said he hasnt put ... (380 words)

Is it age difference or what's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i am having problems in my relationship right now! I am 21 and my boyfriend is 29 we started dating 4 months ago but we have been very good friends since i was 15, I moved to Chicago a year ago because i was offered a scholarship by The university of Chicago, i stayed ... (488 words)

Awkward!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I really like this guy and my friend tricked me into telling him. Now things are akward; He doesn't say hi, look at me, talk to me, but he said hi finally for the first time since the telling. But I like 2 other guys, but they don't like me at all!! But they know I do, ... (113 words)

How do I set things straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'll paste what's happened and then furnish it with details afterwards: Ok, so: I met this girl online years ago (Please let's not focus on the online aspect, it's all good) we fell for each other recently and I have travelled to her university town for the summer o... (558 words)

I am fourteen years old and I am seriously in love with this guy in my school...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - please please help!! I am fourteen years old and I am seriously in love with this guy in my school. We have talked a few times but I feel sparks and everything else whenever I see him or hear his name. my friend has known him since like kindergarten and has said that whenev... (89 words)

Is he getting sick of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and we always have our downfalls, usually me being paranoid that he longer loves me because he doesn't reply back to my texts. But in the end everything's okay, until the next encounter. We're both 15 and totally insane a... (269 words)

Wife cheating on me and planning on leaving me. How do I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently I found out that my wife is cheating on me with some other guy. Though, I think they have not slept yet but she is madly in love with him. We have been married for almost 15 yrs now and have kids. Our marriage has not been the best in last 15 years but I still lo... (233 words)

Wouldn't you know if you've had an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When people say there not sure if they've had an orgasm does that usually mean they haven't had one? I'm just starting to question myself if I've actually had one. The way you hear people talk about it...its mind blowing, but what i think was an orgasm was just pretty average.... (160 words)

Am I making him want me less by being available?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I dated for about 3 months - like two people deeper in love than I've ever experienced in my life and I've been married and dated several guys. He was married but his wife left him and he went overseas. Then I got really sick and he changed. He became distant. ... (305 words)

What is that feeling, when you meet someone and it feels right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is probably going to be really stupid. I am a grown woman, but I have come across a feeling ive never had before and its made me feel like a teenager again. I met a guy a couple of years ago and there was an instant attraction. I felt like I had been hit by a tr... (228 words)

Relatives criticizing me for what I wear around the house

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my question is regarding wearing below navel low on hips. i am a housewife live in karachi. i wear sarees or salwar kameez suits. at house i avoid any under garments. i feel comfortable wearing any bottom below navel low on hips and at home without under garment. i am hurt when ... (157 words)

Was I used for money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy 12 mths ago on an internet site, we got really friendly and ended up meeting up for a chat. He told me he was in a long term relationship but said he only stayed there as he was going to leave before and it devasted his children. One thing led to another and he ... (351 words)

My ex and I are cheating and he has a girlfriend with 3 kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been apart for 9 years now. We have a 9 year old son together. My ex has been with his girlfriend for 9 years and they have 3 children together. In September of 2009 my ex and I started talking again about our past. I also informed hi... (270 words)

She broke up with me after one day and now wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so confused about ex girlfriend. She dump me about 10 months ago and our relation had only lasted for 1 day. After she had dumped me, I still kept trying to get her back because I really loved her due to some personal reasons but after 5 months of hard work I gave up b... (146 words)

Too much masturbation leads to less sperm later on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Don't know how to start but I keep on watching porn and masturbate frequently, like once a day. I am worried that the more I masturbate the less sperm I will be able to produce later in the years And for some reason I am not as aroused as i used to be. Any advice will be g... (63 words)

I passed gas while on a date and now I'm embarrassed to see the guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 18 and I really like this guy who's 29. I ended up working in a physics department where he works as well. He's really sweet and nice, and he saw me looking at him continuously again and again, I just go red and turn my head the other way, but one time he winked at ... (284 words)

Can my now married ex really be comfortable with us working at the same place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My situation is rather complicated (i'm sure that's not the first time your heard that) but please I am seeking sincere advice not abusive comment. I am asking the ladies what they think. I started a relationship with a female around three years ago and we had good and bad ... (725 words)

Boyfriend talks badly to me, won't see me, why am I putting up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i been with boyfriend for 4 months he used to be really sweet, texts saying i love you and on the phone saying how am part of him and he wants our relationship to grow stronger. recently all that stopped, his become distant and change in his voice has changed. couple days ago i ... (727 words)

He's keeping me at arm's length

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm so confused about my boyfriend I need to sort things out as its affecting my life and don't know what to do anymore. On the surface everything is going well..we have been dating for 4months and he wants to see me and thinks of me, but I feel like he is keeping me at ar... (289 words)

My friend is seeing a married man and I don't see things working out, how do I tell her and make her see things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is seeing a married man, they had a brief fling when his wife was pregnant with their 3rd child. Since then it has transpired to something more serious and they have now been continuing a LDR meeting every couple of months or so for a few days in his ... (156 words)

I'm liking my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been going out with my bf now for almost 6 months and in 9th grade. suddenly i started falling for one of his best friends and i have a feeling his friend has some feelings for me cuz he flirts with me alittle but not over the top . heres the thing. i love my bf and ... (127 words)

Husband stole over a grand from my bank account

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 3 years now, and have a 3 year old child. My husband has had problems with drinking and gambling and was out of work for 2 years. He recently started working again, I had to give up working due to being seriously ill. The main problem is he has in the... (263 words)

Every time I think of him I will see her right next to him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been dating this guy for almost 8 months now....and 2 years ago my best friend used to date him, we werent friends back then so its like okay im dating her ex, yesterday while i was talking on the fone with him,i brought up my friends name, he's like dont remind me of ... (178 words)

Why can't he just talk to me rather than going off by himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. So this is how it all started....I was talking to my boyfriend earlier, and at the very beginning of our conversation I got aggravated at him for something really little. Inevitably, my little aggravation slowly became bigger and bigger, and by the end of me ... (401 words)

Is this boy dirty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am from Pakistan. In our culture elders use to hug and kiss children for blessing. It is a normal and routine practice. About a month before I hugged and kissed my 16 years old nephew and for the first time (never happened before) when I was kissing his lips he pressed my ... (113 words)

How do I help my bestfriend break-up with his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend whose been my best guy friend for almost all my life. We talk on the phone we talk about life, were just really close. Recently hes wanted to break up with his current girlfriend he told me things werent working out so i tried to be there for him, the pro... (588 words)

I am trapped in this marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for 3 n half years and hv a 7mnth old son. On several occassions my husband beat me up and forced on me. B4 having baby he made me undergo pregnancy termination twice and md me pregnant recently by forcing sex without protection bt i had a miscarriage. I had a good ... (215 words)

How can I solve these issues and reduce my interest in sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I decrease my desire for sex? I have been in a relationship just over a year now and I very cautiously asked my girlfriend about having sex (I was cautious because I didn't want to put on any pressure and because of what has happened in our relationship - w... (418 words)

Event with ex girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship but we've recently broken up and decided to remain good friends. The problem is that we have an event scheduled two months from now and are planning to attend it. We've bought the tickets already but the arrangements ... (88 words)

My best friend chose his girlfriend over me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my bestfriend and he told me he likes me back. But he has a girlfriend whom coincidentally hates me because she knows i like him and she thinks i am a slut :/ One day he told me he loves me then the next day it is like nothing ever happened then he says to ... (103 words)

He's 400 miles away from me, how do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has moved 400 miles away to University. Even though he's been gone just a few days and we've talked on the phone every day, I still miss him so much. The thought of only seeing him a few times a year makes it worse. (I may see him more next year when I finish my ... (83 words)

Why does he not communicate? Why does he act that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very confused and I just need some direction.I've been seeing this guy for about 10 months now and this is our second time around. After first 4 months into our relationship. He felt I didn't cared about him/relationship. And that he was tired and emotionally hurted and ... (1243 words)

What to do about weight bias in the work place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am one of the largest persons in my office---the only other person larger than me is severely older, and doesn't interact much with the public or clients. I have a few co-workers who treat me differently, and talk down to me quite often. I am not a genius, but people do sa... (523 words)

Wife gone into hiding. Need to obtain divorce.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi My wife and i've been separated for almost 18 months. We have not seen each other since the separation. I've filed for a divorce. Ever since the initial divorce petition was posted to her, she has stopped accepting any recorded/registered mail (i've tried sending cards), ... (194 words)

Are my symptoms ovulation or pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I'm 21 and have been trying for a baby with my partner and am having no success. We've been trying all the time. I'm currently ovulating and am still trying over this period although I'm experiencing cramps and feel really sick. Is this due to ovulating or could I be ... (71 words)

Can a relationship like this last?

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She is in a relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. She broke up but patched back with him a couple of times with him. She always falls for his words and gives him another chance thinking he might change but in the she ends up tearing and emotionally hurt. She tells me he ... (121 words)

We set up a date, he cancelled, and now he's ignoring me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was working this last summer as a cashier. and on labor day weekend i end up working with this guy who was also working the summer, i just hadn't met him yet. i thought he was cute and decided to talk to him. things went pretty well and one week later i asked him out. he gave ... (166 words)

Should I pull away to see if he has withdrawal symptoms from my affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I sometimes find that in my relationship that I am the one that is the more affectionate in terms of giving more hugs asking for little kisses and he likes it, but I am growing tired of always being the one to initiate cuddling when watching tv, or asking for random affection, ... (192 words)

My virgin girlfriend wont have sex with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a virgin and so in love with this girl who is also a virgin,recently i talked to her about having sex but she wont give in,she belives in no sex before marriage and it rilly bothers me coz she is only 16years.she lets me touch her private parts now and again nd and it rily ... (84 words)

Truthfulness and difficulty with arousal...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently begun having sex with my girlfriend, and although I am both physically and sexually attracted to her, I notice that I am not responding to full arousal by her body type (she has a more petite figure that I guess doesn't resonate heavily with me in a sexual sense). I ... (215 words)

Could he be cheating again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my bf have been together a year and a half. he cheated on me and i took him back bc he got a job to move out here for me. he worked monday threw thursday and today is friday adn he said his boss called him in. he said it was home comming and noone eles would work. he ... (84 words)

Why does he think I'm delusional and crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and G, an ex friend, got into a big fight a month ago over him thinking it was okay to have sex with a girl since he thought it was an open kinda thing...we dated and yeah, it was closed. So I ignored hin until yesterday when A, my bf, told me to tell the guy off. I told G w... (114 words)

Learning to trust again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago, I posted something on here about whether or not I would be an idiot to get back together with my ex-boyfriend [who cheated on me...it was a long, long story]. As time has gone by and I've distanced myself from the actual act, I have changed my mind about getting ... (290 words)

Seeing a married man ....

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a married man for six months. At first, I didn't think that is was going to stick and I was just lonely and looking for friendship. He was very charming and over time I fell into his trap. I feel that I am doing the wrong thing and I need to get out of it. He ... (143 words)

My boyfriend told me his ex is better in bed. Should I leave him?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this great wonderful guy for close to 8 months now. I'm attractive, intelligent and well liked. I have never been single or had problems getting dates. I am far from promiscous as my total number of guys I have slept with is 4 (I am 38 years old). I have a ... (251 words)

She insists on the same routine, even though it doesn't satisfy her

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18 September 2010 (M)

age - When my wife and I have sex I try to give a lot of foreplay but she always stops me and rolls me on top of her(missionary position)and then takes over and does not let me move much. She rubs that sensitive area on me and I cum within a minute or 2 and she doesn't orgasm. Thats ... (121 words)

How soon is too soon for a guy to give his number?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How soon is too soon for a guy to give his number? If hes interested in you should he give it to you in the first few days after you met (were in the same class together)? Thanks for any answers!... (42 words)

I'm worried that his girlfriend may get the wrong impression about us!

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a senior at my school and he's really kind to me. I know he has a girlfriend which I feel really good for them both. He sometimes appear to me that he was lonely. I don't understand why. I have never met his girlfriend before but I have a feeling that she ... (289 words)

My husband's sister may be abusing her kids -- and she's writing a book on parenting!

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my husband even though I don't approve of his family situation. The biggest problem I have is his sister and her family. She smoked pot and drank alcohol while she was pregnant with all three of her children. These kids are all under the age of 7: the last two were ... (348 words)

Best friend and I are both gunning for the same guy!

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a few days ago i was at the park with my best friend, and a guy from her old school was there too. she stopped him, and the three of us went to her house. we were talking, hes funny and really sweet, and me and him really hit it off. i like him a lot, but so does she. her on... (197 words)

He won't stop texting other girls and is addicted to porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

18 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for a 1 1/2 years now. I just moved in with him two months ago. He has been texting other girls. I know I looked on his phone. I don't feel good about it but I did. What I found was, pics of porn, messages to other girls, text ... (415 words)

Do you think I should stay with him, or leave him?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so to start off with my boyfriend is moving over 1000 miles away. im so upset over it and its breaking my relationship apart with him. he wants to stay together but I have trust issues so what's a long distance relationship without trust? right? he says we can make this wo... (521 words)

My wife wants to turn gay!

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - why does my wife want to turn in a gay lover and do not want any part of me .We have one child she some time talk to me nice and thentalk to me like a pig .We been with each other for 15 years and now she do not love me . can anyone tell me why ? i still love her with all my ... (67 words)

I asked a coworker out and was turned down, now I feel awkward around her! Should I carry on as if nothing happened?

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys I wonder if you can help me. About three months ago I started a new job and started working with this lovely women who I got on with really well. We would share jokes with each other and have general conversations about everyday stuff. We started flirting with ea... (207 words)

Family and friends are on my case about these two men, what should I do??

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How to choose? I feel better now that I know there are so many girls with the same problem. I broke up with my x of 15 years and starting dating his friend. It is a secret. It's been 3 years now. 2 years ago I tried to work things out with x and have been this whole time ... (141 words)

He stroked my hair, is he flirting with me?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a man strokes your hair back behind your ear? Is it a flirting gesture? He has never done it before. He has always teased me, which someone said was a sign that he was trying to flirt, but it wasn't until this week that he has ever stroked my hair, ... (153 words)

Broke up with his gf, we started dating, he wanted space, will he be back??

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I met this guy about a year ago and he was really really into me. I didn't feel the same so we just became friends. He's had girlfriends since but I know he's always really liked me. A couple weeks ago I started to have feelings for him. We flirted at a friend's house a... (461 words)

Still in pain over her after 6 years, what can I do?

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - It took me a long time to get a girl from my past. SHe broke up with me on prom (or she give me hints that she'd break up). It's 6 years later, and I see this facebook picture of her. She's pretty. it just breaks my heart to see how she has a bf. I think she'll be engaged ... (82 words)

My husband is into porn and ignores me, what should I do?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem... my husband is no longer intimate with and me but yet he finds time to watch all the porn he can. I dont understand it. Am i boring him? Am i not attractive to him any more? Its making it real hard for me especially since ive got these raging hormones ... (137 words)

Proper to ask if ex-gf is seeing someone??

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I have broken up recently and have given each other some space to just let things settle for a little bit. We decided that we would remain very good friends and would try and talk to each other. However, I was wondering can I ask my ex girlfriend if she's ... (67 words)

Have a bf but attracted to another guy, how do I forget the other guy?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a relationship since 3 years. i love my boyfriend he means a lot to me and i could never do anything to hurt him. But.. There is this guy that im opsessed about since 2 years (pretty much time huh??) when i dont see him i aforget that he exists but once i see him i cant ... (167 words)

Should I confront my dad about the relationships he is having?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents divorced when I was small so it never bothered me much. He moved abroad so spending time with him once a month was always a treat. Since before he was with my mum, however, he has never been single. They are always long-term relationships, but it began to bother ... (597 words)

Am I wrong to think of past dates with my ex?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and he was calling me and begging me to come back but I moved on with a nicer wiser choice and was ignoring him. My new boyfriend I have been with for a month and half. Im totally happy with him and my parents love him. He’s trying to see me ... (194 words)

Should I stay at college or take a year out and do something?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I left school at 16 with good exam results and decided to go to college to study Acting and Performance as I was keen and eager to move forward in my education. I gained an HNC whilst applying to university and was made 5 university offers, one of which I accepted - Writing, ... (329 words)

My girlfriend always has an attitude and doesn't seem to care about us anymore

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys so I posted a question a while ago that my gf seems to not care about the relationship and treats me like crap. Well I ended up talking to her and telling her how I feel. For about four hours she changed after that conversation and currently she's back to being rude ... (149 words)

How can I get my wife to dress sexy for Halloween?

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18 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What is the best way to get my wife to wear a super sexy hallowen outfit? For the last few years, we have gone to the same adults-only Halloween party, made up of neighbors and friends. The "adults only" part is not as racy as it sounds. We all have kids, so it simply means ... (327 words)

I'm awkward with conversations, so how do I talk to this guy?

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18 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have absolutely no dating knowledge, even though I'm 18. I'm a shy and timid thing, and to be honest, I'm not the best looking thing (and I'm not trying to be humble or modest, I'm just telling the truth). There's this guy who works various positions in my college's ... (234 words)