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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the house. i work almost everyday and ... (117 words)

Why do I feel like this about teachers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so when i was in year 8 i had this thing for my p.e teacher, yes she was a woman. I dont think it was a crush i just looked up to her, because she was nice and caring. I never told anyone and it wasn't too bad and it soon faded away. But in year 9 there was someone else, it ... (175 words)

Will he give me more time in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for almost 4 months now, and I am really starting to like him. We haven't taken things to the next step to have a title as we both want to take things slow. The problem is with his work and other activities in his life he doesn't have a lot of time ... (188 words)

How do I ask my girlfriend if we can have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am only 20, yet I've not had sex with my girlfriend before. I want to but I need to know how to say it in order not to be turned down. How do I go about this? I need help.... (42 words)

I have a strong feeling he's lying but I didn't tell him that...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf are in a relaition ship of 7 months, i'm christian and he's muslim, he always calls me stupid, he says that all his friends tell him that i'm ugly and he deserves better, he controls what i should say and do. he hate all my friends and calles the sluts, and he made ... (448 words)

I'm scared I'm obsessed with my ex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

- Can someone help me? I'm scared i'm obsessed with my ex. Hes actually not even my ex, just a guy I was talking to for ages and met once but now he's gone back to his ex. If I text him or contact him, he doesnt always reply, I know that he doesnt want me and hes happy the way ... (347 words)

I feel I'll never get over this lad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone just a little question.. ive just broken up with my boyfriend and i know it is over between us but why is it i feel like i will never get over this lad and in the back of my mind i have this feeling we will get back together! even tho i dont want to now i wnt to ... (130 words)

She is so selfish, she's driving my crazy!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ughhh someone please give me some advice!! i dont mean to sound nasty but my friend is driving me mad! she is so selfish... she broke up with her boyfriend over 6 months ago and was having an affair with another man at the same time she broke up with her boyfriend n carr... (183 words)

She is now taking my communication as my weakness.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my wife are in early 40s. I met her 2 years ago. I have been through one divorce before and my marriage lasted 5 1/2 years. My wife has been through 2 divorces before she met me and both her marriages lasted approx a year. I have a son from my previous marriage who lives ... (808 words)

Why does he not want to be my friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy and I expressed an attraction for one another. We flirted a lot and both felt like there was this "something" about the other that drew us to each other but we never actually dated. He ultimately felt like we couldn't do this and I was going through some changes in my ... (169 words)

Do I need to move on from this guy or wait for him, patiently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend of one year and I found each other on a dating web site. He really is not my type but he seemed to be one of the only "normal" guys I had met thus far. Our first date was a concert out of town and it was okay. When we got to my house I invited him in, we kissed ... (1674 words)

I need advice about my stretch marks! Can anyone advise me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi So im 19 year old male. And i have alot of stretch marks. I mean my whole upper body is covered with em! Most of them are fairly invisible and doesnt feel that bad but the sides of my upper body and my whole back (minus the area above my armpits) worries me alot. The on... (798 words)

I really miss my ex boyfriend and want to know how to persuade him to come back to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, recently my boyfriend of two months broke up with me, and I'm absolutely gutted about it :/ I really started to fall hard for him and believe that it was one of the most successful relationships I've had so far. We saw each other very often and were inseparable at ... (267 words)

Is he waiting for someone else or just really wants to take things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this guy at a party and never gave him my number... he searched for me and then asked for my number, we talked for a week and the first time we hung out he tried having sex with me.. I denied him and told him that i thought we were looking for two different things ... (282 words)

Boyfriend is drinking everyday and I am lost here..what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend drinks every day first thing he does is has a beer when he wakes up....just there this evening he vomited for no reason he says it his nose being blocked up making him sick which i don't believe...i have a 2 year old son who dotes on him so i can't break that bond ... (78 words)

Boyfriend is acting like he's lost interest. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We have a long distance relationship, but we're planning to see each other soon. We still talk over the phone and on web cam. So, lately My boyfriend has been acting weird. I'm not ready to end it ... (466 words)

Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a girl. At first i think it's me. ... (255 words)

My ex friend doesn't like me anymore. How do I cope being in 2 classes with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well my x best friend told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore because I apparently brought stress to her life. she has anxiety problems. I really loved her and everything and when she told me this, she really broke my heart and ruined my summer. Im not allowed to ... (144 words)

My boyfriends family does not like me, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having the same problem, im 18 and have been with my boyfriend 6 years, since 7th grade. we are deeply in love and happy together. we've had a lot of ups and downs considering the fact that we only have been with eachother. his family for some reason does not like me.. two ... (257 words)

I don't want to be hurt because he's confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past few months I have been dating a guy that has been seperated from his wife for over a year. There is a part of me that has always been bothered by the fact that he is not "divorced". Everything is going fine and we talk and text everyday. For the past few days he ... (249 words)

She thinks I 'look' at other girls but I don't! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, my girlfriend thinks that I look at other girls, but i dont either that or im not aware of it, but it puts a real strain on our relationship, what should i say to her and what should i do?... (41 words)

I passed the test...thanks for the great advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I just like to thank Dear cupid and the people who answer me before. I write here the time i was really down because of my exam. That i was very scared maybe because im too worried that maybe i will not pass the test. And here, somebody's answer me that i should not worry... (164 words)

My boyfriend is too friendly with the ladies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend continues to greet other females by giving them an embracing hug and an affectionate kiss in front of me, after I have asked him not to.... (28 words)

Feeling guilt about how I want to cheat on my bf..what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep thinking about cheating on my boyfriend and then feeling so guilty afterwards I almost cry. Ive been with him for 3 years and live with him. I do honestly love him and dont know what I would do if I lost him so why do I keep getting tempted? I've got a friend who als... (319 words)

Has my lying ex-bf has returned to torment me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex has come back! I don't know what to do. I had this ex, that I thought I had gotten rid of. He used to lie to me all the time about everything but I gave him a chance anyway :( but it didn't work and I left him. We're nothing but a huge mess but we're still madly in l... (111 words)

She says I'm better even though they were bigger!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ive been with the same woman for 14 years.i just found out that she slept with 3 of my friends four yrs ago.one a really close friend.iam now very insecure and hurt cuz i knw that they are bigger than me in penis size.so i knw she enjoyed it because ther bigger than me.she ... (72 words)

It's over between us but I think I am pregnant...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on him and we are over which its already hard to deal with but on top of it I think I'm pregnant with his baby, I dont believe in abortions but Im scared thats what Im going to have to do, I dont want to make his life more difficult I care about him and love him with ... (98 words)

Stress from moving---or pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Coming up two weeks ago I relocated to Canada, leaving my boyfriend of two months behind. We are very serious with one another and he plans to move out to Canada next year so we can be together. So anyway, we rarely had protected sex because... well at first we were just pla... (323 words)

Hugging someone who is so much taller than you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im about 5 ft 2 and ive recently started dating this guy who is about 6 ft 5 so theres a pretty big height difference there. just wondered if anyone has some suggestions on how to hug him? it sounds kinda weird its just when i give him a hug i never know where to put my ... (122 words)

Cheated on him with his best friend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I made thee biggest mistake of my life! I've never had a real relationship up intell this point and I love him with all my heart! I cheated on the only guy I've every really cared about, with his best friend! I know that sounds soo bad! I dont know what to do I know I messed up ... (139 words)

I'm in Love with a Straight Friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old boy from England. I'm also gay. I have good friends and a nice family. Being gay isn't actually the issue, I've told my brother and sister, and some friends. I'm not open about it, so not many people in my school know. I am pretty much in love with a boy ... (188 words)

Cheating girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for four months and i was aware she was a slut by the time i got involved with her but i thought she was going to change as time goes on but she didnt. I use to call her a slut and she kept on telling me that she was not involve with anyone beside me ... (152 words)

What to do when head and heart are telling you different things?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What can you do when your heart and head are in conflict about your relationship? What can you do when your heart is telling you this is the woman of your dreams, someone you completely love and would wait an eternity for, while your head is starting to tell you she may... (88 words)

Serious dysfunctional family, need advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 year old who was taken away as a toddler when I was 3 years old from my biological family (11 children total). The state of Louisiana put me into foster care and I eventually was adopted out. My foster family was slightly dysfunctional at first. I knew they loved me. ... (307 words)

Help me translate what he meant by his comment!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, so I need some help to translate a comment this guy made. I know him through work, he asked me out at the weekend, had a great time, went to a movie. Then asked me out again last night. Again, had a great time. He sent me a text saying "Thanks. Not just for tonight, ... (81 words)

I am frightened for her safety!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together nearly 2 years. Unfortunately most of the year we are spent separated by 200 miles. She works in a big city where as I live in the countryside, where we both met and are from. I love her dearly, and she loves me. But I am constantly wo... (376 words)

Is she just saying what she thinks I want to hear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this woman for about 6 months now. I liked her a lot from the beginning but that feeling of love wasnt there at first. Over the last couple of months I have fallen for her more and more. Last week we were lying in bed and I told her I love her, her r... (160 words)

Was her behaviour unacceptable?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi , please help me. I met a girl about 4 years back, we met on yahoo messenger chatting room. she is from another country. we kept talking like friends for two months, but after two months i proposed her, and she also accepted. Everything was cool for one year. but after ... (1492 words)

Help!!! What can I say to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

- I met a girl at a house party 2 weeks ago, we got on really well but I never got her number. However I managed to be added by her on facebook (she even sent me a message before I could). I want to ask her out but I don't kow how to when the only way I can communicate with her... (76 words)

Magic Number - 5 too many?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I told a close (male) friend of mine my magic number the other day (5). He seemed to think it was pretty high. I can account for these: 1. first time 2. 3 yr relationship 3. short relationship 4. 1 night stand 5. current relationship. I have a couple of ques... (125 words)

Is it a bad idea to go over there and meet this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the only way out, even though I ... (159 words)

Should I start things up with him again or leave it and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a bit of a problem and I would like your advice. When I was in high school, I had a crush with a guy that I was in the same class with. I confronted him about this and he did not show interest in me. At tht time I was 13 yrs and he was 14. Later that year I transferred ... (394 words)

Help! How do I know if my girlfriend is attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have posted two previous questions and got some good answers, all I want to know now is how do I know if my girlfriend is attracted to me? We have been dating for a month and have been really really close for around 5 months, she asked me out - I don't know why I ... (97 words)

How to get rid of acne quickly and naturally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I am getting really upset about my acne, no girls like me because of it and it depresses me, I wash everyday and wash my face 3 times a day with soap and water, I don't want to use cream etc as I've tried them already, I just ant to know if its possible to get rid ... (68 words)

Want to get rid of this feeling!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a cliche situation but I think I'm in love with my ex-boss! It started from the first time that we started talking on a personal level. I mean from my side I know I started having feelings for him from then on..my problem is that he's married! And happily so! And 11 ... (324 words)

I'm in awe of this guy... Helpppp!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Omg, now I need help lol!! I'm the one that gives awesome advise!! I'm scared now, see I just started college, and I'm in love with a girl, but she has a bf, and she thinks of us as just friends, but recently...I met this guy, he is in my class, our class probably consists of ... (136 words)

How can I spend more time with him without making it too obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I really like this guy who's 16. I used to see him a lot but not so much anymore I dont know many of his friends so I cant just go some place with them and hope hes there and I dont have a cell to call or text him so my question is how can I spend more time with him ... (117 words)

Boundaries in a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Question: When in a loving and committed relationship, are there boundaries when it comes to sleeping over somebody of the opposite sex's house alone, even if you are just mates? If your partner is not happy about it but you think it is fine, should you respect their decision ... (66 words)

Who should propose first... me or her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

7 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi... Me and my girl are having a good friendship for the past 4 months. We know about each other very well and to be frank I Luv her and I know she Loves me too but we never proposed each other. Should i propose her? What if she denies me? Or should I wait for some more ti... (70 words)

He snapped at me and it stung! Why is he like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! Have an issue and any feedback would really be appreciated. I'm 19 and my guy just turned 34. We've been going out 7 months. So we semi-live together, he has an apt. and we'll spend time there, I do laundry, we cook together, clean etc. We have fun together and ... (203 words)

Do I need to just bite the bullet and do this to make her happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, this is an issue thats been bothering me a lot recently. basically, i'm gay and have been in my first proper gay relationship for about 6 months now. our relationship is long distance and sometimes its hard not seeing eachother for a few weeks, but mostly its a... (292 words)

Help! Do you think I should call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5178 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there!, i told my bf that i'm going to another province to visit my family, he didn't even says have a nice trip, when i tell him why he didn't even says nothing he says i like fighting beacause i was complaining, but i was just wanted him to says have a nice trip, sience ... (103 words)

There is nothing sexy happening here. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, everyone. I'm in a situation where there is nothing sexy going on at all. Romance seems to be way out of reach and I really don't remember the last time my girlfriend of ten years and I had sex. It was this year sometime. We have too much stuff for our small apartme... (1569 words)

Am I just a huge fool???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 10 years. During this time he has done horrible things to me from abusing me sexually, beating me, and causing us to loose everything we own twice. This didn't happen until 3 years into our marriage after he started using crack. Back in ... (209 words)

Should I allow this to happen or throw in the towel and start all over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 14 years. In the beginning my husband was in jail and I cheated on him right after we were married. I did tell him because he asked. He knew about my infedelity early and before we had children. We stayed together and I have been faithful since. He ... (159 words)

My girlfriend has had threesomes in the past and it's eating me up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all 1st time here and just looking for some advice. I'm with my girlfriend of 10 years. A few years back myself and my girlfriend broke up for a while. During this time she had thresomes, one with two other females and another two with 1 female and 1 male. The same f... (230 words)

How would people feel about a 40 and 19 year old being together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I need a bit of help here, im a 40 year old man and really like a 19 year old girl. A lot of you might think im only interested in her for one thing but im not although the sex would be great, theres more to it than that. How would people feel about a 40 and 19 year old being ... (64 words)

He's a loner... but I miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused. We have been apart for 4 months. During that period, he have been trying to be friends with me. Wanting to go trips with me, telling me how much I would love the bands he discovered or telling his weird dreams to me. I haven't been healing well with the break up. ... (316 words)

I know I'm in dangerous water here...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this may be stupid but I think im falling in love. I don't know how it happened. One minute my thoughts were purely on why I was so afraid of everything that has been happening. I mean i've been really perceptive to everything my SO has been doing. I mean little things and ... (229 words)

Will I be able to find a better guy who will love me...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone! I'm posting this with lots of hopes in my heart that somebody will definitely answer my question. I'm not able to decide who was right and who was wrong in my past relationship because the end of the story lies undecided at the bottom of my heart. I have... (452 words)

I did everything he wanted, and find out he's seeing another girl

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend sent me a text sayin that he misses me and that he loves me so i went to see him he told me he wanted to get back together so i ended up staying with him for the night and we had sex now i really wish we hadnt because the next morning i heard him on the phone ... (86 words)

What if she wants more than I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've recently been on here because I was seeking advice with a recent relationship of 4 years. It ended, it hurt but things are moving on slowly. My new question is: I have been more social now that I am single. A friend of a friend was hitting on me o... (285 words)

Am I pushing too hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here it is. I have my sights set on a legitimately busy man. He is a general contractor working on my brothers home. I asked him out, he said yes, asked me to pick a time and day. The day of, he had to cancel for confirmed business related reasons. He apologized and said ... (290 words)

Why cant I stop being used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy that has a girlfriend for nearly half a year. It all started with a drunken kiss after a night out then things started to get a little serious. I know it is wrong and I would be so hurt if someone did it to me so i dont know why i continued. We have e... (247 words)

Girlfriend's selfish traits are starting to show and it concerns me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids, I need a bit of re-assurance with regards to my gf, for a while now she has been bugging me to move out, i feel that i am now ready properly ready, not just forced, but it seems to have shocked her after she got her hopes up a couple of times and then got let... (382 words)

Mixed emotions on do I stay or go...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my situtation is simple yet it stresses me out so much sometimes. I simple feel like I've lost me and that I struggle to be my true self. I have been 10 years with a really sweet girl - she's my best friend, we look after each other and have a great life. Sometimes I'm ... (658 words)

How do I tell mom that I want to be on birth control?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I want to go on birth control, but I just don't know how to tell my mother. I want to be straight up with her but I'm scared that she will think I'm actually having sex when I'm not. I just want to be sure there aren't going to be any babies in the picture. How do I ... (71 words)

How long do I wait before she leaves her boyfriend to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey, i'm a genuine guy from Australia who fell in love with who i think is the perfect girl for me. I met her on holidays 5 weeks ago and only spent 5 days with her. She was travelling with her best friend both from Slovakia. We spoke of a future together in depth and have an ... (142 words)

3 kids and marriage is crumbling, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi ya. erm today my husband finaly decide we r gona split up, he had an affair and things have been bad for a while. i have 3 fab kids, 7-6 and 16 months, all are now my reson to breath! we rent our house i dont work, i am compleatly clueless as to what i do now??? what hap... (93 words)

Sex with me and a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife wants hav sex with me and my frind is it ok or any thing will happen plss reply meee... (21 words)

Work place is gettting rid of staff!! Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me i dont know what to do, My work place are starting to let poeple go, like working them out slowley but for sure, like finding a problem with something keep going on about it, and then fire them. So now the thing is its almost the end of the year and alot off ... (183 words)

Husband uses viagara but then relieves himself doesn't come to me

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, this is something that is really hurting me, i am married and my husband has lost all desire to have sex due to illness, he gets prescribed viagra from dr to see would they help, he takes them every week or so but instead of coming to me he goes to the bathroom to relieve ... (119 words)

After 4.5 years how do I tell my boyfriend I'm not sure hes the one?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i tell my bf of 4.5 years that i'm not sure he's the one anymore without breaking his heart at the same time? I love my bf and he's the only bf ive ever had, but lately something feels different and i dont feel that something special for him like i used to. I've noticed ... (257 words)

How to get a guy to notice you

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what are some really great things to do to get a guy to notice you?... (15 words)

Playing hard to get--how do you do that?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - theres this guy i have a little crush on and i know the key to a guys heart is to be yourself.. but how are some ways to play a little hard to get? you know keep him guessing... ... (40 words)

Sex goes from once a day to once a week. Why?

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and we were best friends before that so we match perfectly. But since the end of the 1st year the sex has decreased from several times everyday to once a week. I have asked her why and all she said is that she doesnt ... (371 words)

I don't understand some of the things he does?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating this guy, for awhile now, uu cud say, and ii kinda realli like him. But there r some things he does, that ii dnt understand what to do. For example, he hasnt told me tat he loves me, he hasnt held my hand in the street, and he hasnt made our relationship public ... (101 words)

Why do men like shorter women and shy away from tall ones?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 5'7 3/4" female. I'm proud of that quarter inch below 8, because I hate being tall. So guys, honestly, what is the real reason why you flock to short women and pass over the tall ones? Is it because they're cuter and more fragile and make you feel more like a man, or ... (70 words)

Friend wants me to spy on her ex husband

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My colleague wants me to spy on her ex husband... They are now divorced and he left her for someone else 2 years ago. I believe my colleague is very much in love with him still and doesn't accept the fact he's moved on. My colleague has 2 children with him hence ... (249 words)

I'm pregnant and he's very controlling!

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i'm about 9 months pregnant with our daughter. He doesn't trust me at all, although I have done nothing for him not to trust me. I have not had a very good past because I partied too much and always got into trouble. ... (254 words)

Being called their partner--meaning?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if you are in a long term relationship with someone, and they call you their partner, what does that mean exactly?... (21 words)

How do I handle my boyfriend and this new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi!!! I really need your help! I ma in a relationship. i am gay. I've been in this relationship for almost a year, the guy lives with me. we have a 6 year difference in age, he is younger than me, so i feel he is still a bit immature. I really love him. But we have our... (226 words)

Women was very bold right in front of my eyes toward my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a constant lier, we went to a collegue of his wedding, and there was a divorced women constantly talking right at him. It was as if we were not there, this collegue, I have heard her name mentioned numerous times in our home but very innocently. Well, she bought ... (191 words)

I think he sees me as whore

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I started a relationship with a guy that I have just meet like 2 months ago. He said that he really likes me, I don't really like him like for a boyfriend, but he's really nice with me and seems that we have some things in common si I wanted to give him a chance After ... (178 words)

How do I get the girl back and make my ex know its done?

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this is confusing but plz help.. so me and my ex where trying to work things out and after all the cheating she did and lies she did i dont want her back but its so hard to let her go when i say its over and she starts crying and begging and saying everything will be ... (379 words)

Step-Daughters destroying my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

7 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I got married 3 years ago. We were dating a year prior. She had been divorced twice and widowed once prior to us even meeting. She has 3 siblings ,6 yr son from a father involved in crime and drugs R.I.P., 18 yr daughter from a father involved in drugs and ... (657 words)

Why? What did I do wrong?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had dated this guy that was five years younger than me, he has two kids and I have two kids, I feel like I gave him my all, he has a cheating problem, around the end of december he lefted me for other chick, however came back in february, this time he proposed and seemed ... (113 words)

First I was uninterested now I'm obsessed with sex!

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This past summer I worked as a lifeguard for a water park. I'm still a virgin and wasn't to interested in having sex until I graduated college; which I did this past June. However, since mid September I can't stop thinking about getting laid! It's like going from zero to sixty ... (67 words)

How can I live and make decisions based on a present situation and forget about what happened in the past?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I like this guy, I had written in asking about him not too long ago to this site. The problem is that we're friends and I have fallen for friends in the past and I haven't had too much luck with the friends first thing. (Don't get me wrong, I don't make frien... (455 words)

We broke up and I said the most horrible things to her but I want her back!

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I hurt a girl...She was the love of my life and she is still the love of my life... I am the worst person and lover in the world... I never cheated on her or anything..but when we broke up, I said the most evil things anyone could say to someone they love and it included some ... (382 words)

I wasn't there for my friend and the guilt is consuming me

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my friend was coerced into having sex a couple of months ago and I only found out about it today. When I did, it was probably the angriest I've ever been in my life. Though we're not going out, I tried to think of a way to help her, but I guess she wants to just forget ... (173 words)

Should I just leave him alone? I don't trust him now!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - helow. Im 19 and im having problems wit my bf. He is 20 and we have been going owt 4 two n a half years nw. He always says he loves me. Bt i dnt trust him. A year ago i found porn on his phone. I confronted him abowt it n he sed he wil neva du it agen. So fine i believed him. ... (184 words)

Argument with boyfirend about marraige plans. Why was he so rude?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this post is long.plz help and thanks in advance? i am in a comitted ldr relationship..i am 17 and my bf is 18 and we really love each other and we have just completed one year and two months. lately i m still not sure that whether he really loves me because his words ar... (366 words)

Spent a wonderful day with my BF, got emotional, missing him when I got home and parents have completely misunderstood!

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone; I had a quick question for you all and I'm hoping you can help me and reassure me. This weekend was a blast. On Saturday I got to spend time with my boyfriend at nighttime. Being that it is Labor Day our family decided to go to the beach just for a day from ... (317 words)

Why did he leave me for his ex wife?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend left me for his "stupid" ex-wife. I was seeing this man for 2 months. We met online and hit it off. He is 43, a respiratory therapist, works nights, makes 75k, and divorce with 2 kids (female 19/12). Everything was great. We never argued, we laughed went out and he ... (434 words)

Wife and sex toys!

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7 September 2010 (M)

age - So I need some advice. My wife and I have been married for 18 years and have 3 kids. About a year or so ago, some of my wife’s girlfriends were all talking about vibrators and my wife admitted to being a “vibrator virgin”. Her girlfriends told her she had to get one. Th... (716 words)

Does my bestfriends brother like me too? or is it just me?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My bestfriends brother is AMAZING! :D He's super cute! the other day in school, he walked up to me and randomly gave me a huge hug. It made my stomach tingle and basically made my day. I am seriously confused. Im confused because::: I dont know what I'm confused about, and I'm ... (92 words)

I'm having a problem getting involved with him because of his kid! I adore both of them though

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I'm in a new relationship with a guy who I find just incredible! He's great, I don't think I've ever felt such a connection with someone in such a short time. My problem is that he has a son (who I also adore, he's a great little kid). I sort of have a problem ... (112 words)

My boyfriend is upset about something and wont talk to me about it!

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For about a month now, my bf has been upset over something he doesn't want to tell me. So I, being a girl, am panicking since its been this long and he only told me "I'm in a bad mood today" and then nothing after that....two days ago!!! Like what the heck!? I really like thi... (100 words)

Should I end the relationship or stay with her?

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with this sweat lovely lady almost three months long. We get along great and have fun, but recently I've become unsettled, and interested in a few people around me. I am 27 years old (she is 25 yrs old) and lives in a big city, which I’m still young and I don’t know ... (595 words)

My ex husband sent me a picture of his penis! is he feeling regret for divorcing me?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child". and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!! he said that he likes to see me wearing a tight t-shirt ... (169 words)

What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!? ... (50 words)

I'm afraid to touch my genitalia!

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7 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I have never had sex, or even masturbated. I have tried but I cant. For awhile I was scared to look at my genitalia but I am slowly getting over that fear, I still cant look at it freely. I know the body is a very beautiful gift but for some reason im afraid to "explore" down ... (114 words)

How should I tell my friend what's going on?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so we had a fair and my best friend really wanted a big stuffed animal. I won it a little later and I was about to give it to her but then she ran away and said she had to meet her mom. She texted me later and asked me if I left and I said yes. And then she says great ... (197 words)

Is she lying to me about the other girl? I need help!

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this is kinda tricky, and im in what i would call a problem. One of my friends (female) that we will call F1, gets jealous, and has admited that F2 (also female) always has guys like her more than her, even though they are "best friends". this is important for later in the ... (1386 words)

Should I contact my ex or wait for her to initiate communication?

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex girlfriend 5 and a half months ago. Realized I was an idiot, tried to get her back immediately but she started dating someone new and didn't want me back. I haven't spoken a word to her in about 2 and a half months, and I still have strong feelings for her ... (170 words)

Did I pop my cherry or is something else wrong?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind off embarassing, I was masturbating the other day using an electric toothbrush, then I hve a really great sensational feeling, but suddenly there was a sharp painful feeling and the tootbrush was bloody.... now my stomache feels like hell and I feel like I cant pee ... (69 words)

Can I stop this before it gets to deep?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - can i stop this before it gets tooo deep???? i have recently been back in touch with my uncle after my great grandmother died... he recently told me he has feelings for me he knows its worng we both do but for some reason it feels so right its hard for us because he lives in a ... (156 words)

Boyfriend said he needs to take a "break"

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 13 months. He lives in California, and I live in Maryland. We've had a long distant relationship for 13 months, and haven't seen each other once. We've never really seemed to mind it, as long as were always speaking to another. ... (330 words)

Help, my man cheated on me.. with a man!

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heres my story. I started dating my best friend of several years just about a year ago. Everything was going fine untill a few months ago when he started agruing with me over everything. He is always canceling plans and ditching me to go do drugs with his friends its a real ... (124 words)

Still not over my husband having an affair!

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7 September 2010 (F)

age - My husband of 9 years had an affair 2 years ago. The affair is over and I thought I was over it. However, my husband has an old female friend (?)that recently looked him up. She called him twice so far this month. I told him that I found it unusual that a woman would look... (111 words)

Is she giving me the run around because she wants to see what else is out there?

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a month ago. At first she said she needed time, which made me think ok no big deal. I was still sad about it and acted like a hopeless fool, but did give her time. About a week ago she says that were over for right now. We still ... (294 words)

Clueless about girls, How do I gain confidence and how do I know when the right time is?

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never really been comfortable about sex before. It's always been something I've felt extremely awkward and embarrassed about. I mean, I don't have any problem talking about it with people online, nor do I have any problem watching porn or even masturbating because I do ... (489 words)

She made out with her ex and it turned me on!

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A week ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years and I took a "break", which lasted three days. We both sort of agreed to the break after a series of little fights, though I was the main proponent of the break. We both said we love each other and want to be back together. On t... (399 words)

Should I give in to a 3some to make my boyfriend happy?

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7 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend I been with for almost 3 years now. We are very happy together we have the occasional fight mostly because I am very jealous. I don't want to share him with any one else. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone else. He just wants to fulfil certain f... (211 words)

Shy guy around girls...

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7 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - please help me out! i need your advice!! im a 21 years old guy in a good shape and often times i catch some people checking me out. the problem is when i start talking to a girl i always think she is "the one meant to be". so im too nice too her, always try to talk to he... (161 words)