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writes:hi hope to get some advice as im confused about a guy i met on an internet dating site. we exchanged a few emails on the site and for 3 months have been chatting on the phone once a week, we finally met up and it was fantastic! he held my hand all night we exchanged a few kisses and i came home on cloud nine!! i text him when i got home and said what a great time i had had and he replied with had a lovely time def want to see you again ! i was so happy! the next day i felt a bit deflated cos i hadnt heard from him , i said i felt awkward , he said dont be silly . then the morning after that i text him and said have a lovely day and he replied with you too! since then i havnt heard from him and dont know whether to contact him or not because if he doesnt really like me i dont want to look desperate or silly! should i ust chill and wait to see if he gets in touch? he seemed very happy on are date and said he defo wants to see me again , if anyone has any advice that would be great , thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): He doesn't sound interested and it could be you put him off by texting so much.
Next time, let the man do the running and read 'He's not really into you'. Keep your self-respect.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Also forgot to say dont wait for this guy, if you find someone else then move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your replies , its only been 5 days but i have since sent a text saying hope you are ok miss chatting to you but he didnt reply! i have seen that hes been on the dating site too, i just cant believe how keen he seemed and he was a real gent i really thought he might be the one! now i cant believe im just getting blanked , maybe hes wasnt a gent after all maybe it was all an act who knows x
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reader, Red591  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 some guys just fade out. I don't know why. I have had this happen once and he would eventually make contact again. we would have a great time (he would hold my hand too and brush my hair from my face and all that crap) but then poof ....disappears. Its not worth worrying about. Just let him go. He will probably come back but be warned as he will probably do it again. Although you did not say how much time had passed....maybe he truely is busy with work or something. I still say he has time to text
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reader, Kenj +, writes (22 September 2010):
Dont contact him again, wait for him to contact you. He may be trying other dates first.
Dont take that as a bad sign though thats what dating is about. Its not like you have gone exclusive with him yet.
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