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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could this be a sign of a mental illness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married to a man that can never see his own flaws, but yet he can always point out my flaws. It's like he has to be right because he is the head of the household. I am aware that he may know he is wrong, and just have so much pride to actually admit it. Do anyone know if ... (70 words)

I'm baffled why he didn't want to have sex with me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm looking for a male perspective really, but women feel free to answer too. I'm 21 and out clubbing every weekend, my eldest brother too does exactly the same and we regularly end the night together. He always brings his best mate out with him, which i met about a mo... (296 words)

Advice on love handles?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a love question but im just curious. I'm 16 years old, weight isnt an issue for me, my figure is normal, but i have this fat belly that really bothers me, like when i wear clothes without a jumper to hide it basicaly! I would like some advice on somethings i can... (92 words)

How to achieve orgasm with a long thin penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I have two men. One of them turns me on because he knows how to make sex and plus his penis is the right size and it's thick, but with him all is about sex. My other man is very romantic and he takes all the time kissing and touching me, but he has a long penis, but it's ... (105 words)

My heart is smashed into a million little pieces...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, my heart has literally been smashed into a million tiny pieces and it hurts so much. It hurts this much mainly because it was a sudden breakup and that I wasn't expecting it. What's even worse is that she's been dating someone ... (121 words)

Failing at school and love... help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I am failing at school and love. I want to be a muscian, im not too bothered about financial success, and the fact is that I'd rather ride my moped down to the beach and jam with my friends than go to school. But everyone thinks that i don't have a future, and also ... (88 words)

I really want to speak to my ex... it ended badly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me for her ex after she went to see him in hospital after he got beaten up. I had done nothing wrong to deserve this. The last time we spoke was when I told her that I had been threatened by him (he sent me emails telling me to stay well away or hed beat... (132 words)

I am an idiot!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently engaged to a beautiful woman with 2 kids, the story is as follows. Beautiful woman was with self centered and controlling man that liked to see her bang other guys, she did not like this went though 10 years of this to stay married. We fell in love (1 year a... (354 words)

How did she manage to get over me so quickly???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend for the last year dumped me on Saturday, and we had a good relationship, and i really loved her. But she left me because she "didn't have any time for me" I was ok with this, until she got a new boyfriend today. How did she get over our relationship so quickly? ... (63 words)

Should I shave to have my first pap smear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I know this is a really stupid question but I'm going for my first pap smear soon and I was wondering if I should be clean shaven or neatly trimmed down there. Any advice? I'm kind of nervous about this..... (41 words)

Should I move into my girlfriend's parents' house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

- I'm 22 and still live at home (and dont pay rent). My parents broke up a year ago, and i live with my dad. My dad started seeing another women about 10 months ago, and he hasnt introduced us yet. Sometimes she'll stay overnight, but my dad will pretend that she isnt there, ... (300 words)

Horny for my brother in law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I recently I have started to ... (295 words)

Dry ejaculation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Help!!, Last night I had an erection and I held it in with my PC muscle. I know it was kind of stupid to do this. So in essence I had a dry ejaculation. I've never really tried it before but I had a sharp pain in my lower stomach. Now the day after I now have numbness in... (94 words)

This isn't just another pupil/teacher crush!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll start from the beginning. I'm 16 years old and completely in love with my 33 year old teacher. I know what you're all thinking. "Oh it's just a crush you silly girl!" and it's not, trust me, it's really not. I've experienced crushes and this really isn't one. I've now ... (280 words)

Embarrassed by my new boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for two weeks now, he's smart, cute, funny, sensitive and romantic, but there are two disadvantages: he's still in high school, but graduates this year and he's only three months younger than me, but he's still 18 (so he should be more mature) and he has ... (236 words)

What do you think about my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years, and my dream and wish is for us to move into our own home together, i have a job and some money behind me and he doesnt have a job or any savings, i feel so upset and i feel he doesnt want want me anymore ... (391 words)

Confused about why fiance needs to go OUT without me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone me and my partner are engaged and have been together for almost two years. we do have lots of fun together and our sex life is usually pretty good. the problem starts when he declares he wants to go out drinking and to the clubs in the local town. i've often asked... (276 words)

Straight? Gay? All These mixed signals...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I have this friend, who insists he is straight, but something, a gut feeling maybe, is telling me he isn't completely. He knows I am gay, he played a gay role in a film that I wrote for a festival - he's fine with me. Actually we are quite close, but I always feel an ... (271 words)

Signs that he's interested???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If i start talking to a guy how do i know if hes interested or not what are some signs i can look for? keep in mind he might be working so idk if it will be different. and how can i start a convo i dont really know him that well. thanks!... (53 words)

Embarrassed by my older boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy who is 16 years older than me for over a year, but I feel really ashamed. I dont want him to meet any of my family because I'm embarrassed of him, and the few people we have told are wondering why I am with him. It's making me doubt if I actually like ... (87 words)

He has to choose... the parents, or me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, and we really love each other, but his parents have suddenly decided i'm not welcome at their house anymore and they really hate me. I thought all along that they didn't like me cos they think i'm taking their son away, it's ... (110 words)

Should I send him the gifts after his cold response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I like is in Afghanistan and he's coming home for Xmas. I asked him if I could send him a box with things before he comes home. By his reply that it was a cold one, I decided not to, but I told him I would anyway. Read the conversation: Me: XXXXX, Thanksgiving is ... (174 words)

I want someone that I have a deeper connection with.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in this relationship for almost 2 years. And we have been living together for almost 1 1/2 years. He is a great guy; loyal, caring, trusting, respectful, same values, kind, and I know he would make a good husband and father. He will always stand by me, love me a... (454 words)

I feel so torn...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so torn, I know I should walk away from this guy but I really like him. We have known each other for about 4 years and for the past 2 years we have been getting really close, and over the past 6 months things have turned sexual. I have just heard that he is with a girl ... (154 words)

An old flame and I hooked up again after 7 years but I'm married now... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 7 years ago I was dating a guy and we lost touch and now I am married. But just recently we hooked back up. Should I just forget about him or keep in touch with him? ... (40 words)

Why can't he just treat me like the woman I am???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old but my cousin, who is 42, treats me like a child. He never discusses any serious issues with me, about the family or anything else. I am often surprised when my mother tells me interesting things that he has told her. A few years ago I was unemployed and I ... (194 words)

My husband has a problem with sexting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a problem with sexting... This is the 3rd time I've found out. It's heart breaking. Some argue it's not cheating, but to me it is. And after 3 times I see it's not gonna stop, and it will lead to something else if it hasn't already? We have 3 kids together ... (247 words)

The person I love is jealous of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I really have feelings for my colleague, I hardly know him but I'm so attracted to him; he's good looking, intelligent, we potentially have loads in common, and I have no doubt he is aware that we could be great friends if nothing more. He only recently re-joined our ... (308 words)

Has my lover replaced me for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 7 years. Not in love any more! I have recently being seeing a married man for 3 months, neither one of us plan on leaving our spouses for the other. Even though I am trying to figure out how to get out of my marriage. My questions is why is the ... (165 words)

His ex is coming between us... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi :) I'd REALLY appreciate any advice anyone could give me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I am very happy. We have a great relationship and it's very healthy and happy in every way :) There is a problem though.. his ex girlfriend. They have bee... (251 words)

He left me for my cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for quite a while. But we recently broke up because he left me for my cousin! turns out he heard rumors of me and he believed them so as a "revenge" he dated my cousin. he swears he loves me and will never do that again. Now we are back together and ... (93 words)

Why am I always dumped for someone else? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right now my self esteem is a little low. I've been in a few long term relationships and every time I have ended up the one being dumped, and always for another girl. It's really getting me down. I feel as though everything is going fine, I totally fall for them and then I'm ... (81 words)

I've done everything I can to make him happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and half years and we have 2 kids together. i recently found out he cheated on me with his ex not too long ago, he tells me he was drunk and it didnt mean anything but he slept there also so i dont know if thats all he did was ... (180 words)

How to know if you're gay, bi, bi-curious, confused or straight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a 21 years old male I'm here for help with some issues that I'm trying to deal with but don't know so please take your time to read my story and help me or give me some advice. This is me, a straight male who had never been or slept with a man before; I have been ... (456 words)

He said I love you... without being prompted!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We love each other and have talked regularly about marriage. However he remains in contact with his ex-girlfriend (who lives in another country). He was with her for 6 years and they only split up because his m... (502 words)

Will he lose trust in me because I lied?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I lied about how old I was when I first met someone, because I was a year younger than what he said his 'limit' of age gap was, I hadn't expected it to go anywhere and now it is. I know I have to tell him, and have a pretty good idea of how I'll do it. but it's been ... (161 words)

The difference between the sexes, or getting over a break-up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, last Saturday (9/25/10)I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt he wasn't fulfilling my sexual needs. He was my first love and we were together for three years. Because we have been together for so long, we are also best friends. Therefore we agreed to remain friends and ... (486 words)

What should I do with this ex who said we can't be friends? He keeps looking at me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a great relationship with a guy i met through friends. He dumped me after 9 months due to our 'differences' although he still loved me and meant all the nice things he had said. I handled the break up quite well and despite feeling sad at the loss have been generally ... (144 words)

Any tips for first time sex for a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I suffer from premature ejaculation and me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the first time in a few weeks so i was wondered if you all could help. I was wondered with the stop start technique how long should i wait inbetween intervals and has anyo... (72 words)

Need advice on dating a cop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been officially dating a cop for about 6 months, but we met 9 months ago. He is a loving, thoughtful, and easy going guy. We have a pretty good relationship the only problem is my trust issues that I have, and it's mainly because I have heard so many negative things a... (190 words)

Relationship confusion ... Is it normal for me to question our relationship after 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There are so many "views" and comments out there that makes me more confused; "you'll know when you meet the right guy", "love is all you need", "there is more to a relationship than love", "soulmate", etc. I am in a 2 year relationship. We have lived together for 1 1... (766 words)

Bored with the relationship and want to break up, but she'd be devestated

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with a girl 5 months and I'm beginning to get bored. We slept together after a week, have been on holiday together, and have also been on family meals with each others families. Our sex life is really good, but everything else is boring. My past girlfriend and I used ... (192 words)

Conflicting advice on how to deal with my addict children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) age - Im in a great confusion about my part as a parent in my 2 addicted sons life. It is becoming a turmoil to me.The story started 10 years ago, when they both were teenagers. And the confusions too.So long story short, they were good kids, but some still not clear causes ,why they ... (280 words)

Seeing a married man but love my partner too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I wanted people's advice. I have been involved with a married man for about 4 years on and off, though we haven't had sex for 2. We get on so well, and have recently got back in contact again after a break. We get on so well, and we are both able to talk to ... (290 words)

I'm willing to change to get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago. We had been dating a little over a year. The reason we broke up is I would start arguments with him and I admit I was a little too pushy. When we were together, we did have a lot of fun and really enjoyed each others' ... (256 words)

I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am really honest, I think I'm not ... (463 words)

Ashamed and disgusted that I lied about being pregnant twice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

- When I was younger (Im now 27), I had really low self esteem and a drug problem. When I started a relationship with a guy, it would always end badly because I would become clingy or too much for them. I could not deal with this rejection and on 2 occasions with 2 separate guys ... (262 words)

I cant deal with the fact all my ex's have new girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

- In the past couple of days Ive come to realise that all my exes (4) have got new girlfriends and for some reason it really bothers me. Apart from one (the love of my life am still not over him), the other 3 I dont even have feelings for anymore so why do I feel so eaten up with ... (216 words)

I feel incredibly disrespected and am not sure how or if to move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't shake what happened between my ex bf and I over the summer and am unsure of what to do. The month of March was really rocky for my boyfriend and I. We had been dating for 4 years and a lot of stress was coming to a head. I was graduating school in May and was work... (816 words)

My parents think the sooner I'm gone the better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my parents seem to hate me. i mean some times are really good and i really love them but others they just seem to hate me. i always argue with my mum and she always gets me down. according to her i can't do anything right. 'i'm fat, i am stupid' etc. its always my faults which ... (204 words)

I still miss my ex, and am thinking of contacting her on her birthday

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I contact my ex on her birthday? She text/called me and even took me out, but that was about three months after our 3 year relationship ended. It's been closer to 5 months since we last spoke now (in may) and 10 months since we broke up. I still think about her and miss ... (83 words)

Another baby with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i have a son from a previous 4 year relationship. My son's dad and i are no longer together but he has regular contact with my son and we are both on good terms. He has now asked me to have another baby with him. I was completely thrown by the suggestion but have found ... (105 words)

Christmas gift for my country boy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im wandering what to get my boyfriend for christmas. i'm 18 and he's 21, and by christmas we will have been together for 5 months and he already means the world to me. but i have no idea what to get him. he's a bit of a country boy if that helps ya'll any. please help!... (57 words)

Why cant I seem to leave this guy behind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been texting with a guy I met at uni years ago. The thing is we ended up having cybersex, I didn't really have fun but I thought maybe we could date sometime go put or something, the thing is he is not willling to and appears and disappears in time wanting to have cyber ... (211 words)

We seem to be fighting every day.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. He's 5 years older then me and works full time while I go to college. We used to never fight but lately it seems everyday he starts a fight with me because if I don't answer his text messages right away he gets ... (160 words)

He wants a break, but what if he doesn't have any answers by the end of the week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am looking for some guidance and maybe some encouragement during the hardest week of my life. My bf and I have been together for almost a year and 8 months and just recently he has decided he needs time to think and we are taking a break for a week, possibly more. H... (316 words)

Relationship with a third cousin.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - can you have kids with your third cousin? is it alright to date your third cousin?... (17 words)

Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the closing my boyfriend had errands ... (110 words)

If a guy does not ejaculate inside you does that mean you are free from any chance of getting pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I ask, if a guy penetrates in a girl but did not ejaculate inside the vagina. Does that means that the girl will be free from chances of getting herself pregnant?... (32 words)

Should I meet up with my holiday fling? The whole situation is so complicated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I worked for some friends abroad for a year. and while I was there i got involved with my mothers friends husband (Im 18, he's 34) The affair was short and I expected to go home at the end of my work and forget all about it. Problem is I just cant!! I cant stop thinking... (176 words)

Stuck between my boyfriend and my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys I am feeling horrible at the moment. I just talk bad about my good friend. Ok maybe I should let you guys know a bit of what happen before seeking for your advice. About one month ago, my boyfriend and my good friend (A) and me plus another guy (4 of us) went to holiday ... (308 words)

The man I love has HIV, how can I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, There is guy I work with. He is such a great guy and I've really started to get on really well with him. But he said to me we could never go out because we work with each other. I kind of accepted this and moved on. He then got a boyfriend and I was so happy for him... (383 words)

He said we are on a break, what does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together before giving me what I deserve ... (259 words)

Fiancee and confusion! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hey guys this is long story but ill try to make it as small possibleee i could do well with some ''outside'' advice so im going out with this girl... its been 11 months.. but in the beggining it was really difficult because i knew some... (743 words)

He lies to me about smoking pot, do I have the right to be upset or am I just making a big deal about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A few years ago, my husband hid the fact that he smoked pot from me once in while. I found it and that's when he admitted to it. I know a lot of people think this is not a big deal, but when you have children and are married, I think it's time to give it up. If you can drink ... (213 words)

Falling in love with my brother in law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing through a divorce, the problem ... (132 words)

Why does he look at porn? Am I not good enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband looks at pictures of hot girls in Maxim. He used to look at porn and it made me sick to think he was doing this behind my back. It wouldn't have been as big of deal if he included me in on it. I was a very attractive girl, but now I'm getting older and have gained ... (128 words)

Men and orgasms.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - just a question about men and orgams, when a women orgasms i describe it you get a lovely feeling inside, its like a sneeze that i wish would last a lot longer than it does, usually a few seconds and in that few seconds is a real realease feeling, is it the same with a man, ... (109 words)

Should I approach him saying I saw it and ask if that was the first and last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've posted previously about finding pictures of my bf and some other guy on my bf's spare phone that I needed to use, and came across that.. when my bf gave me the phone he commented saying enjoying snooping around where your nose doesn't belong. We have been dating sinc... (272 words)

Obsessed with my best friend - need some help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm new to the forum so not sure whether this is the right place. Hope so! I'm currently a student and feeling pretty low at the moment. I'm a 19yr guy and bisexual. Even though I feel "safe" behind a computer screen it feels hard to even write that. Whenever I... (802 words)

Does this guy like me or is this just a game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So theres this guy who comes to the same gym i attend. Everytime hes there ,i catch him looking at me a lot and he makes sure i see him looking so i can return his gaze. I think i have a crush on him although i have never even spoken to him,im too shy to approach him and im not ... (279 words)

Why do family members and relatives interrogate me just because I don't want kids?

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I've noticed that when someone does not want to have kids, everyone interrogates them. They demand answers. But when someone does want to have kids, no-one interrogates them! How does that work? It sounds like discrimination to me. My mum once hinted that s... (116 words)

How a crush destroyed my marriage.....what is your opinion?

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28 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - The excerpt below is a series of narratives I wrote 2 years ago after I developed a life-changing crush on a woman. Since then, this woman moved away, I lost touch with her, I fell away from my wife and had an affair (with a different woman), my marriage has disintegrated and ... (1516 words)

We are thinking about marriage but I have a few problems, can anyone advise me?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello to all, this story is quite long. but please read it and advice. i am 16 currently. i am in a relation with someone. the problem is that i feel he is opposing too much on me though he loves me very much. am actually the 3rd girl in his life. he got some physical relatio... (508 words)

How do I find the strength to leave him?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so being the snoop that I am ... (528 words)

Should I keep holding out until I've worked out his intentions a little better? Or should I sleep with him?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice, esp. from any male readers, about sex in a new relationship. I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks, he's arranged a few amazing dates for us and seems really nice. BUT his friends are players, and despite him telling me he's not, part of me is ... (165 words)

I'm struggling to accept this relationship because of her passionate kiss with another man before she met me!

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, My mind is in total confusion. So please Can any one help regarding this. One girl is in love with me. Even me also just started loving her. Actually she was loving a another guy before in college days. They were friends from 8 months and finally it had turned into ... (209 words)

I want to be close to him without telling him I like him as more than a friend. How do I do this?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i like this guy hes a family friend of ours, we get along in a amazing way, that we even think the same way.My question is i want to be close to him, without telling him i like him more than a friend yet.So should i tell him lets be friends.... (52 words)

In love or just in a crush?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OK. I like a certain Mr. X. I asked him once to check out my thesis and was unhappy he didn't get back to me. But when I asked him he said I had checked it out that day itself and it was good! He is extremely friendly and nice whenever we have talked alone. A patient listener... (313 words)

Does he like me as more than just a friend?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I think my male friend likes me as more than a friend if he always wants to know whats up with me and other guys,and will always act like he never touches any other female. We hang out all the time and talk everyday..Am I reading too much into it? ... (53 words)

I cheated on him with his brother, then he found a new girlfriend but came back to me.....and now he it seems he is cheating on me with his ex! Where does this leave me?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearcupid,i had a lover of one year and i cheated on him with his brother and he dump me,after a year i found that he has a girlfriend of nine moths,they had a misundrstood and she dumped him,and i startd dating him again.they have been separated for 6month,and i found out ... (78 words)

Is a second chance possible?

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl have known each other for 8 years now through contact over the internet. Earlier this year we found out our mutual love for each other, we were in regular contact and loved just taking to each other. After I graduated I decided to spend my summer in America ... (702 words)

My husband can't decide if he loves me or not

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When i met my husband six years ago, he was the love of my life, and I knew it right away. In our first conversation, he told me he would marry me. I thought he was crazy, but he was right. Except, two weeks after the beginning of our whilrwind/tumultuous romance, he tried to ... (518 words)

How I can get rid of unwanted desire?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How I can get rid of unwanted desire? I am female married in my 50s. Maybe when I was 16 and had never seen an erect penis desire developed to see. From early till now I never desired for intercourse sex. I married and have a good husband, first time in my life I saw his ... (153 words)

I lied about my age when we first started talking, and now I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how....

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old, I've been meeting up with someone who I like very much for about a year now, and it's just been meeting and hanging out a bit in the past but now it's starting to be more like it could really go somewhere despite obstacles. which leads me to my problem: He has ... (231 words)

I'm horrified I have let it get this far when we are both in relationships, but part of me loves feeling cared for again. What should I do?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm... In a bit of a pickle. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of about 8 months, and thought everything was cool. I even went out and joined a local community group. There, I met this guy. He's kind, caring, likes giving hugs, compliments me, etc. Meanwhile, my bf ... (512 words)

Am I being taken for granted?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Am i being taken for granted. I feel that my partner of 3 years are taking me for granted. His has two kids living with us, twin 15 (boy and girl) and they are great children but very lazy. Never help with cooking, giving a chore results in moodiness, never done laundry, et... (376 words)

My fiancee wont tell me about her past and it depresses me whenever I think about it....

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, there's been some things eating at me recently, I am 20 years old, engaged with a baby, my fiancé is 25. She won't tell me how Many people she's been with becuase it'd make her feel like a "slut" she told me it was over 15, but was married for 5 years, so either she had ... (92 words)

We are not having sex and she doesn't seem to want to resolve the situation!

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - After 3 years, my woman now says she is too tired or has a headache, etc...something always to put off sex. It used to be off the hook. We used to do it twice a day.... Now she takes trips without me, works late everyday, won't hang with me on the weekends, and travels home... (759 words)

Does he like me?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i like this really shy guy and i've never talked to him. we had a pep assembly that had a kiss and tell game. the football boys would line up and were supposed to guess which volleyball girl kissed them, when actually it was their moms. the guy i like guessed my name and i ... (226 words)

Everything has gone downhill since we got married!

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice on communicating. I'm married for the 2nd time. To me I didn't think there where problems with talking about anything. But, ever since we got married I feel like it has just gone downhill. I have depression its been better before but, its gotten to be more of a ... (193 words)

My kids hope their father will come back; how do I introduce the new guy?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Been living with my live in partner for more than 6 yrs, we have 2 kids.He works abroad and i found out that he has other woman there.We separated for only a year and i start moving on.I have a boyfriend and he wants to meet my kids.Is it ok if i let him meet my kids w/o ... (75 words)

I have an amazing boyfriend, but can't get this Spanish guy out of my mind

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need help on this. Last year I was on a trip to Europe (for work) and I met this amazing Spanish guy. He was smart and good looking and i was head over heels in love with him. We spent a bit of time together and it was amazing! Nothing sexual...just generally as ... (271 words)

Can you date a guy who does coke if you're not into drugs?!

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I already know the answer to this one, but I'll ask anyway. I've been dating/sleeping with this guy for 2 months now. He is fun, not jealous type, and we have a great time together. He tells me he really likes me and I really like him. We haven't had "the talk" y... (232 words)

I want this to work, but in person he didn't seem sorry

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been dating this guy for about a month and at first things were good. he was very sweet, he always wanted to hang out, he would compliment me all the time, he would make me feel wanted. however, this week things seemed to change. we got into a huge fight when he got ... (221 words)

Does this guy like me as more than a friend?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am trying not to read into this, but I have some questions that need some outside input. I have this guy friend who I think has been flirting with me. He always gives me a high five when we see each other. He gave me a nickname and he always approaches me in our group of ... (297 words)

Ugly duckling

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy well im 13 gunna be 14 years old and well i feel sooo ugly. ive always been the "ugly duckling" i was always teased about my hair and weight.. my friends say im ugly and wen my family say im pretty i think theyre on sumthing.. i fear i will never get a bf.. wenever guys ... (130 words)

What to do when you feel burned out?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at a point in my life where I have no clue what to do and I literally have no inspiration whatsoever. I compensated for being a fluke in high school by trying extra hard in college. Right now I'm getting my bachelor, but lately it just seems so hard to get the assignme... (207 words)

He says she's just a friend!

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been sending texts to his "friend" at work that says things like - only if you caddy for me while topless and nice ass! He says that she is just a friend and that he's sorry and didn't mean to disrespect me, but what should I think?... (51 words)

He disrespects me, should I leave him?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 9 yrs and have 2 children. We've had many issues in the past with his dishonesty and our sexless marriage. I am the one who always wanted sex, but after a few years of not getting it, I became numb and pretty much gave up. I am an ... (129 words)

Is it healthy for her to stay in this relationship?

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Her relationship is going to hit 5 years being with her bf. She claims he is a possessive guy. She broke up so many times with him but then ended up patching back. She has went through so much of emotional hurt in this relationship. Cried before too. 2 years ago, her guy ... (138 words)

Would it be bad to date someone younger than you??

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im a freshman(bday:5/30/96) hes a seventh grader(bday:9/3/97) would it be bad to date him? i told him it might be smart to wait until hes a sophomore and im a senior or when hes an eighth grader and im a sophomore or when hes a freshman and im a junior. what would be best??... (54 words)

He smokes weed every day and I hate it

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf smokes weed every day and im really starting to hate it. i recently decided to show him a few articles about the effects of weed and he just laughed and said he already knows what hes getting himself into. i dont know if i should break up with him because im concerned ... (57 words)

How do I organize the household chores with my live-in boyfriend?

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28 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I live with my boyfriend. As of late, we've been having issues splitting chores around the apartment. It's become a pretty big issue with us. I feel like he doesn't do anything as far as cleaning up when things are dirty, but he thinks if he makes the mess he cleans it up (yet ... (135 words)

Why wouldn't she add me on Facebook?

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - All right I've got one that I am way lost on folks! So I went out to the bars with some friends and we eventually met up some gals at the bar. (we didnt know each other prior) One gal inparticular caught my eye and well we seemed to hit it off. A lot of good conversa... (280 words)

Is this a sign he likes me?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found a guy on facebook I really like. We knew each other growing up and have gotten back in contact. He's single as am I. He likes almost every post I submit, usually in 1 minute and comments on most. He also befriended my bff who he doesn't know. How do I know if ... (126 words)

I can't cope with my wife's mood swings!

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i've been married for a month. its so very very hard. She is on medication for depression and she sometimes has described her self as bi-polar - in which case, if that is the case, is the prozac she is on appropriate? How things go is that things are normal, then she will... (258 words)

Does this girl like me or was she just being polite?

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met her last night and we were kind of drunk but hung out for most of the time. She gave me her number. She asked me to sit on a couch next to her and she was pointing to where there was little room and I put my arm around her. Then I texted her later that night saying "Sa... (171 words)

How long can you be without sex and be happy in the relationship?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So with me and my partner it is him who isnt up for sex as much as me (he can go up to three weeks without sex and be happy) So i was wondering, in your relationship is it the female or male that doesnt want sex as much as the other? Whats the longest they have gone w... (79 words)

What can I do to get over this?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey My partner and I have been together for almost three years now, but after our first year together he cheated. He broke it off wth me long after he did this but didnt actually tell me had done it untill a friend of his told me. We got back together after a month apart and ... (170 words)

I'm freaking out on my b/f for things my ex was hung up on

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I freaked out the other night on my boyfriend. He and I are usually very affectionate and when we go to bed (if we're not having sex) we'll hold each other for a while before going to sleep... but the other night he didn't touch me at all. I tried telling myself he was surely ... (258 words)

She says we're not having enough fun

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - help, my GF is considering leaving me, she thinks we are incompatable because i dont do enough fun things with her and do enough nice things for her....i feel shes borderline taking me for granted. shes been out to see her ex and came home and called me saying that she ... (547 words)

Trouble getting pregnant

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why cant i get pregnant? I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 29. We are trying for a baby and have been for the past year. I am healthy and i know we are both fertile as i have got pregnant twice before however i was only 14 the first time so i had a abortion and the second time i h... (151 words)

I'm tired of being alone ...

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having, well depending on how you look at it, good or bad luck. Maybe good and bad. Either way, I'm confused. I had written earlier in the month about 4 guys. One was my ex, the other was a serious prospect, one was my actual bf, and the third a hookup buddy. ... (407 words)

I'm friends with her best friend but ...

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this friend who we have never been close before. I'm best friends with her bestfriend so her name is always mentioned. So I tried to be friends with her and were always up and down. She always seems to give me dirty looks and she tells people the things I tell her so ... (146 words)

Blood after anal sex??

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - {Moderator note: two questions combined} I had anal sex with my girlfriend, is it normal it hurts a lot..? And I peed blood afterwards..is that normal? And am I still a virgin?... (34 words)

How do I deal with this emotional pain?

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend recently left me for another guy and I just realized how alone and pain I'm in. The worst part is that I don't have a lot of friends either. Is there anything I can do to alleviate my severe emotional pain?... (43 words)

I need to console my ex without pressure

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend left me about two months ago due to me being unfaithful. We've spoken every day since. Sometimes it's good, and other times not so much. However, we both still love each other very much. A couple of weeks ago, we ended up getting together and having sex. She main... (149 words)

I need a pick-up line!

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy is in one of my classes..and i think hes a total hottie! I saw him at the bar with my friend and he was with his. we all took shots and that was the extent of it no long convo or nothing. he works at another bar and he never IDs me so i at least know he knows that i ... (123 words)

What is this? I don't know if he likes me or just wants a FWB.

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This past summer I started talking to a guy at my college. He didn't intially say he liked me when we first meet but I knew he did. Prior to us talking he would text me all day asking me questions about myself and vice versa. So he finally asked me out on a date I agreed, the ... (448 words)

Can't I just be casual?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, with my first and only question I encountered a lot of people who didn't believe my intentions (that I just want fun, didn't say what they thought about what the guy actually said (or rather typed), and then told me that what he said was a lie when I know for a FACT it's ... (155 words)

Help me because I don't know how to get over her!

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, how do i get her off my ... (641 words)

I have two sexual fantasies that people seem to find disgusting and a turn off.

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have two sexual fantasies that people seem to find disgusting and a turn off. I see loads of evidence of them on the internet but have never met anyone who admits to liking them. Firstly I have a real love for Feet, i find them very sexually attractive. Secondly i enjoy the ... (86 words)

My parents caught us having sex!

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28 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So last night me and my boyfriend John(I'm gay) were hanging out in the lounge room at my house. We were having a great time watching one our favorite shows:Glee. Throughout the whole show he would touch me, rub my belly and do all these cutesy kind of things. And since I was ... (421 words)

Which person is the most insecure?

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28 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a question for all to answer male/female young/old,single/married.who would you say is the most insecure person the female because she has realised that after 7yrs together,45yrs old and a child the man she loves and wants to spend her life with be his wife now knows ... (169 words)