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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I wish he could be more jealous

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really wish my bf was more possessive. Not in the creepy "he needs help"-sort of way, but a balanced way. I don't think he's ever jealous although when my friends text me a lot when with him, he jokes that it's my man on the side. I get a little jealous ... (157 words)

Why does he like to have his hands around my neck?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my boyfriend like to have his hands around my neck during sex?? no tight enough to choke me.. But still :/... (23 words)

Flirting with a co-worker who is involved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A coworker and I have been flirting for 3 months and I really like him. I'm not sure how he feels about me but he's mentioned to a few of our mutual friends that he's into me. Now here's the twist, he has a girlfriend he's been with for 2 years, he tells me they have nothing in ... (92 words)

Why would he do this? I love him so much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my ex was together 2 years, we always had a good loving relationship. Im 19 and hes 22. However last year our elationship fell apart when i fell pregnant. He comes most of the time to see our son and over the past 2 months we have been getting closer, if we are on our ... (293 words)

Is this boy normal, and should he date my daughter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age - I am worried about my daughters new relatonship. My daughter is 17, she is a great kid , we are very lucky that we have never really had any trouble with her. Normally I don"t judge the people she chooses to date but I am a little concerned with her recent boy friend. We liv... (411 words)

Is 4 months after a divorce too soon to start dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been apart from my husband for four months and our divorce will be final the end of next month. I miss him when I think of the good times and I cry. Then I reassure myself that I made the right decision by leaving (abusive relationship). After being together for 8 years ... (121 words)

How do you trust a cheater?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How long does it take to get over and trust the person you are with if they cheated on you? My bf told me he cheated in the first and second month of our relationship. I told him things arnt gonna get better over night even though he wants it to. When are you supposed to get ... (65 words)

Boyfriend thinks I'm sleeping around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, were taking things at a fairly relaxed pace and we both have really busy schedules so time together is limited at times but in all honesty I do like doing my own thing and im not a needy or clingy type of person. I saw him earlier ... (163 words)

Divorced or bereaved dad - or is it the same thing? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - As a divorced dad - now with a new lady partner (NB: I live alone) - seeing my children home (they are 50 miles away) - and saying goodbye to my partner hurts me so much I do not know what to do for the best. I feel that I am living a real bereavement week-in, week-ou... (305 words)

I want to surprise my boyfriend but the surprise might be on me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to sprise my boyfriend .. we are going abroad and i got my vagina pierced this afternoon and we are going abroad tommorow night will it beep going through the metal detectors? i want to suprise him i dont want him to find out this way.. i can't change it yet i will b... (74 words)

My boyfriend playfully slapped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been together eight months. I am 22, and he is 21. We were at a party last night. Parties are not my thing at all, but I went so that we could spend time together, as we are both very busy with school during the week. I thought we were both having fun. We had just ... (426 words)

I'm baffled... Why did he leave me hanging?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About two weeks ago, I got a friend request from this guy I went to high school with. Same grade as me, but we never talked in school. So anyway I added him, and then a few days later he sent me a message. He said "hey I know this is outta the blue, but I was just wondering why ... (537 words)

Help!!! Is it wrong for me to want her to need me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just today my girlfriend received a text message, that told her someone she used to be friends with commited suicide, I want to be there for her, help her through this, but for some reason she won't let me. She wants to do it alone. I feel kind of bummed, is it wrong for me to ... (61 words)

How honest do women like guys to be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - How honest should you be with someone that was once your sould mate?.... even if it means hurting her?... (19 words)

Should we go our seperate ways or will this pass??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. About a month ago I broke up with him because I was curious about other guys and just wasnt sure if he was "the one". Well that didnt work out too well and I missed him a lot and came back to him about 2 weeks after. ... (200 words)

Would it work... a lesbian getting with a gay guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi World! I am an lady with a hidden lifestyle, am a lesbian. I am going 40 and never been married, this makes my conservative christian family so not get me. Our traditions do not get or accept this kind of lifestyle. I would really want to have a gay guy who is in the ... (96 words)

Are they right??? Should we look for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a guy of 23 years of age in a relationship with a girl of 23 as well but she is 3 days older than me. We both have been pressurized by friends, relatives and people generally that the relationship can't work, they say it will be better if I look for someone younger than i ... (85 words)

Flirting advice please???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need some flirting advice. a good friend of mine, i think, was flirting with me yesterday. we were talking a lot, and he was asking me to rub his back because it was sore, and to feel his feet because his calises have gone (we both do aikido, and normally you get... (241 words)

Should I go out with him as my boyfriend is away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Well my boyfriend has gone away and since he has gone this guy keeps flirting with me and he just asked me out and im kind of falling for him, hes so sweet and funny and good looking but i love my boyfriend and i am so confused Please help me!!!!! :(... (54 words)

I don't know if he wants to sort things out or just wants me to shut up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im stuck and dont understand guys behaviour. I have previously wrote up if any of you remember that my friend was barely speaking to me, he would never make any effort with me to make converstaion but he was fine with everyone else. It got stupid to the point where he acted ... (449 words)

How do we get out of this rought patch we've hit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for almost five months. Before her i was in an abusive relationship with someone else who constantly put me down and made me the most insecure person in the world. My current girlfriend and i have just recently been fighting. we never fought before. ... (257 words)

After a break up, how much time until we move back to the friends stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of a year recently decided to call it quits about 2 weeks ago. When we were together we would talk and text constantly, and after the breakup we decided to stay very close friends. In our new relationship I text her maybe once or twice a day and call her at least ... (78 words)

Husband and I got into big fight and he got arrested!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i got in the biggest fight i would say we have ever had and the nieghbors called the cops. Well he got arrest ( well i was change our daughters diaper, infront of our son) for a warrnet. he got 10 days no bail no 2 for 1. our son hasnt stop crying, and... (186 words)

Older men like me, but Freshmen are repelled by me! What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! Okay, so i am fourteen, almost fifteen years old. I've never had a boy my age ask me out, ever. I seem to be attracting the older guys. I'm friends with a lot of people, from age 12 to 25, and most of the guys who like me are in their 18-20's. My friends tell me I'm ... (125 words)

My family adopted an 11 year old boy who is attracted to me and won't leave me alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, I'm feeling really awkward right now, and it's been going on for quite some time. My family adopted an eleven year old boy (who resembles Dominic Scott Kay to me) and he's just gotten into 6th grade. He's sweet and smart, and definitely cool but there's one part of ... (166 words)

Don't men sometimes lose their erection because of the girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend is in his late forties, I am a few years younger. He sometimes loses his erection, and today he lost it as soon as I removed my clothes. We had already been doing it and then bam, it was gone. The timing made me feel like it was definitely me. I'm overweight and ... (116 words)

Do guys not like me because I'm not stick thin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm confused about myself right now! I'm a freshman in high school, and i'm 5'6" weighing 160 pounds. i'm not obese, but im not stick thin and i would say that muscles make up most of my body. The thing is, i cant seem to get a boyfriend just by face to face interaction. ... (126 words)

My boyfriend is like 2 different people and I don't know which one I'm getting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey. my bf of 3 years wants to move out. he says he needs space from me and he's miserable living in our home. i've been paying the rent, bills, buying the groceries, doing the cleaning and taking care of his dogs. he spent this past summer sleeping all day and playing video ... (196 words)

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with my friends last night and i saw ... (262 words)

Something keeps stopping me from having sex, why do I keep saying no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 16 and i am a virgin! peaple always say ohh you dont seem like your a virgin? what the hell does that mean really. Anyway i have done everything apart from sex because when it nearly happens something always stops me and i dont know what then i just say ohh shit im ... (183 words)

Gay teacher in love with a student.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 27 year old male teacher. I work in a Catholic school. I have been looking for love for quite some time. The problem is that I always end up with the wrong person. The people I choose are either straight, deep into the closet, or simply way below my standards. I have been ... (315 words)

Single mom wants to date only casually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mom. Been in 3 serious relationships (basically my whole adult life). Now I want to date. Nothing serious. I do not want a boyfriend. My poor children have suffered enough watching the last 3 guys leave. ( I was married twice. Had 2 children with my first and a ... (182 words)

He says, how can someone who loves me so much run away so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with a married man. We have been seeing each other for over a year now. I love him more than anything in the world. I want to be with him forever, but this is killing me. When I try to break it off, he makes me feel guilty. He says, how can someone who loves ... (77 words)

The first few months were awesome but lately she seems to be treating me differently.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been going out for about five months now. The first few months were awesome but lately she seems to be treating me different. She gets agitated by the stupid little things i do or say..the ones that used to make her laugh. Its as if she doesnt feel ... (143 words)

My mom won't let me take this test!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this really isnt a relationship question but i really need help ok im in 8th grade but i take geomerty i've been given the chance to take a PSAT test with 34 other student in my school for free i told my mom cause all i need is a parent permission but she said no cause my ... (72 words)

How can my dad leave and show he doesn't care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago a bad thing happened on my dads side of the family. My older cousin killed himself. My parents are divorced and my dads family lives in flordia, so my dad started going down there for months and months at a time, i couldnt believe my own father would even ... (186 words)

Guys are so confusing! Come on now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So it's been about 3 weeks that weLve been broken up. My ex and I and He's stating that "I'm glad we're friends, It's better than nothing at the moment"....WTF?? I know, I like being his friend to but why does he continue to flirt with me, have sex with, and tell me he still ... (200 words)

How do you tell someone you don't like them anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this guy. I admitted to him that I liked him around August, and he said he liked me too. Thing is, I don't like him like that anymore, and I don't know how to tell him. I want to tell him face-to-face, because I think I have the confidence to do that... (153 words)

Should I be worried about pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night me and my boyfriend were having sex and he pulled out when he felt he was going to cum, which is what he always does but this time when he looked at his penis there was already a white liquid on the tip of hos penis and 2 seconds later he began to cum so should ... (68 words)

Why is "Slumdog Millionaire" a "feel good film"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this isn't a sex or daiting question..(well it kind of is i guess..) But why is slumdog millionaire a 'feel good film' when it's about three orphaned kids, an evil man who takes children's eyes out for more money, a brother who threatens his brother, and a girl who is ... (72 words)

Should I try to apologize or talk to him after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is right place to ask. He was a really good friend of mine. I was really having a bad day at that time, I lost my job, he said something that really bringing me down, not an insult, but nothing positive. I was stupid enough to blow a fit over a text ... (122 words)

I'm not sure what to do now that my feelings for him seem to have changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

26 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - For the past couple of weeks, my boyfriend and I have been having disagreements. He thinks I'm being hypocritical, and I think a lot of things he says to me come off as condescending and rude. We've been together for more than a year and a half, and we live together, but I ... (164 words)

Any advice for an average ugly plain jane?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not beautiful or thin, I'm just an average ugly plain jane, compares to the society. I finding it very hard to land a good guy. I really want to get married, I guess I'm pushing it, after all, I'm 33. I went out with the last guy, who lied and knocked me up in the process ... (97 words)

Her alcoholism and depression are making me sad and confused. What's her deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up four months after her dad died. She told me she had severe depression. She also told me she's an alcoholic and used to be a cutter and that the day we split she really felt the old urges to cut herself again. Naturally this concerned me as I still care for ... (465 words)

He hurt me so bad before I don't know if I can trust him to not hurt me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up from my boyfriend at the start of June. We went out for 6 months during which me and my friends think he treated me badly, it was both our first relationship and we had been building up to it for years and are both 16 years old. we had been friends for years and had ... (881 words)

Why would he ask if I thought what we did was bad? Of course it was!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - To cut a long story short, a few months ago i did a very stupid and selfish thing and ended up sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend. Recently this friend and me were talking about what happened and he asked me if he thought what we did was bad. I said i did think it was ... (126 words)

Girls, what would make you fall in love with a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a romancer. my three favorite things to do are paint, cook, and sing (write, play music. unfortunately i am sensitive too. I am 18 and i treat my girls amazing. I met a girl over the summer and i knew right when i started talking to her that i liked her. Ive been dating ... (206 words)

I'm confused, does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does he like me? I have been on three dates with the same man. We always have loads of fun and good chats. I then do not hear from him for a few months even if i try to text him he doesn't reply. He gets back in touch a couple of months later and we go out again. Does he like ... (71 words)

Why is my boyfriend so angry and why did he stop responding to my messages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - know it sounds childish but Need advice to handle this prickly situation...wid my bf..? ok my bf and me have been dating for 10 months...and yes he has some trust issues cos he has been cheated on before.He is pretty quick tempered..and moody at times.. For the past week my... (391 words)

Should I meet up with him? My old F buddy has a girlfriend now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and a guy friend used to be "F buddies" a while back, now he has a girlfriend so obviously that's not the case anymore. Now, during the past few months when we've been chatting online he has been maybe a bit too friendly e.g. We were saying something the other day about him ... (147 words)

He puts the qualification before me now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is training for a new career [4yr qualification] and it means he is very busy. I accept this and am being very understanding. But the problem is that he's never there when I need him cos he puts the qualification before me now. I don't know what to do/think. ... (51 words)

How can I get our friendship back on track after I told him I didn't really like his sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told someone that i didnt enjoy his sex now hes ignoring me but he's really sweet and i miss him we were friends before anything..how can i get our friendship back on track? ...please help! :(... (37 words)

Not sure about anal sex but want to try!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am interested in having anal sex with my girlfriend of a year and im not really sure on whats safe or what we should do... is it safe not to use a condom and cum inside of her or can i get an infection or something? and is there a way to clean the butt thourghly, like s... (68 words)

Why is he saying these hateful and hurtful things about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

- Hey all, well this is my problem. My now ex, who I was with for 9 months, suddenly dumped me out of the blue, gave me no reason (not a real reason anyway - something like Im not ready to be committed) - then 2 weeks later has a new girlfriend, is being a complete pig to me and ... (365 words)

When will he be a man and not a little boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 22. Unmotivated, lacks any discipline and has absolutely no direction in life. My boyfriend has four crazy sisters. His mother and sister never finished high school. That same sister will have two kids before the age of twenty-one. One is a stripper with tw... (448 words)

I'm interested in a 13 year old girl who lives 2 hours away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok i got a problem. Im 15 and ive been talking to this girl. She is only 13. We both have feeling for each other. i just dont know if that age difference at this time is right. She also lives 2 hours away so it would be a kinda long distance relationship. im just kinda confused ... (67 words)

Am I being ridiculous for asking him to never stop in on the "boys" after work and just come straight home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for almost 10 years. For the most part we get along really well. I consider us being very close friends. I always find it important that we make sure that our needs are being met in our relationship, but I wonder sometimes if I a... (206 words)

I'm confused and dying inside, please help me save my marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 17 years (we've been best friends for 26) and have 2 teen children. For the most part, we are very close. He seems to have issues though about hiding things from me and lying about them. We used to fight almost all the time when it came to ... (809 words)

I don't like my family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My father has 4 elder brothers - 1 brother and 3 sisters. They've always been united and got along excellent. They're really supportive when one of them has problems, they're always THERE, "one for all and all for one". I honestly appreciate this, because they have a strong ... (708 words)

Help me plan a wonderful surprise party for my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people I want some help here. 23rd september was my girlfriend's birthday. I had planned a surprise party for her in which I had called our friends. When I was arranging, one of our friend's boyfriend spoiled the arrangement by telling me that he won't let her come bec... (292 words)

Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and nothing happened. She is ... (346 words)

Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guys who refuses to talk about ma... (222 words)

He says we are just mates but I want more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid I found this website on being noisey on advice things and now its my turn lol Basically ive got a f**k Buddie and recently we have gotton on really well, basically i prob see him most days and have a little kiss and thats it, Anyway i havent slep with hi... (286 words)

Two weeks before our wedding day she left!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So my partner of 6 years left me 2 weeks before our wedding day because she decided she doesn't love me anymore and needs time to sort out her feelings. I know the reasons why she doesn't love me anymore, and I've talked to her about it a few times and she has confirme... (153 words)

She just doesn't seem interested so what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 19 yrs old and i told a 18yr girl ive known for years that i was into her, that i was attracted to her and that i thought she was beautiful. ( she's single,never had a boyfriend ) i told her this when i was on vacation through e-mail. When i came back from vacation i ... (231 words)

Online guy wants to meet and I'm not sure how I feel about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone I joined a website plenty of fish(dating website) anyway found a guy havent met yet, only spoken on the phone but he wants 2 meet Basically we do txt but when hes texts me he says things like my hunni bunnie lover of mine, and how he could be my future lov... (179 words)

Love just may not be enough anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my partner of 6 years walked out on me 5 weeks ago he said its because we arent close any more we have been drifting apart but i was trying my hardest to work through our problems. Now he is saying he wants to get back together. I dont know what to do. He has never put me ... (128 words)

I'm in the military and bisexual...big problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

26 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have gotten myself into a grave situation. I was one of the suckers that fell for serving my country in the military and I am currently carrying out my enlistment. I am about a year from my end of active obligated service and have ran across something during ... (466 words)

I finally got a nice boyfriend so why do I think about somebody else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I finally got a bf and he is the nicest,sweetest,awesomest bf but for some reason i keep thinking about this guy i had a crush on before we got together!... (30 words)

Co-worker was friendly but now distant, and I like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at work last January and I really like him. We would always talk and joke around, and he seemed to definitely like me as a person. One night after work he asked me what I was going to do now. I told him I was probably going to go back to my dorm room to try ... (640 words)

Why is my ex acting this way, what does she want from me and what should I do?

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with a girl about 9 months ago and during this time I met another girl. Me and this girl are always together in school and we both laugh at our jokes a lot. Me and the girl who is always with me are only friends and we both know about this. But the girl who bro... (246 words)

My partner has been of no help to me, despite all my help and support of him!

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i've been with my partner for 4yrs. in that time i've helped him doing jobs for his family, helped renovate his flat and spend my free time chasing around doing the things he wants to do, all of which i enjoyed. the problem is that i've had a rather hard time and lost my home ... (237 words)

What do men think about women with deep vaginas?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do men think about women with deep vaginas?... (9 words)

I need to "man up" I don't feel like a man!

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I'm feeling love sick and blue. I don't feel like a man. I don't know where to start. On friday night, after I had a couple of drinks with my work colleagues, a friend of mine called saying she was in my area with her friends and invited me along. I like this girl a... (230 words)

Does having a low IQ affect people's ability to have sex?

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got to be honest...I scored below average on an IQ test, and I have made a lot of bad decisions with my life. But the question is...Does having a low IQ affect people's ability to have sex? I mean, it would obviously cloud their judgement. Right? I hope the question is ... (65 words)

When is the right time to get married? Does a lot of planning go into a wedding?

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! its been awhile. anyways heres the thing, over the summer i met this one girl at a anime event and we kinda hit it off on the first day and we hd our first kiss the same day we officially met. (we met over FB) and I deeply believe she is the one and she feels the ... (113 words)

He thinks the every day stuff is special but I want more!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a great relationship, with someone who wants the same as me and has all the same values, but we can't seem to get the romantic side of our relationship right. I feel as though he doesn't make an effort to make things special, and he thinks the everyday is special. When I ... (141 words)

Wife resentful because she is breadwinner now but I was for 7 years!

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I'm not gonna sit here and try to talk myself up when I tell you all about my situation, but if it turns out that way, then well... its all from my point of view. But first to get this out of the way before I forget. I am sometimes a selfish person, but only when it comes ... (742 words)

Husband resents to advance income

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony aunts, I dont know what to say, i feel so frustrated, to sum it up, i will refer my husband to the quote , "he talks the talk but never walks the walk," .. he always says lets invest in this, lets do that, lets move to another house, lets lets lets..... i get so e... (206 words)

I'm too scared to lose my virginity.

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 14 and i want to lose my virginity. But I'm also extremely scared. I don't really know what I'm scared of but I am. So I just wanted to know if there is any tips people can give me on this. Like why am I so nervous and scared to lose my virginity? That kinda stuff. ... (111 words)

I really like this guy, only I'm 28 and he's 23!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a predicament, I really like this guy but I'm 28 and his 23! We have so much in common and get on really well together, but I'm scared to confront him, I know he likes me but maybe his holding back for the same reasons. I don't know what to do, we've been in contact for ... (73 words)

Can she really be this evil?

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need your help. I had a relationship with a woman from work and it ended a few months ago. Since then she's kept her distance from me at work and has had a string of bad relationships (sometimes two or three at a time). In the last couple of weeks we've had to wor... (341 words)

How to trust again and move on?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I learn to trust someone again, when I got dumped by my ex completely out of the blue and when things were going well? It makes me feel insecure now, that it could happen again... (37 words)

10 years, 2 kids, is my boyfriend gay?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is my boyffriend gay? im in 10 years deep with kids. am i paranoid or is my gut feeling right? is my boyfriend gay? we met at a rave 10 yrs ago, he seems straight with all the hetero porns and magazines in his room and all the sex we had, however, i did find out that he made... (161 words)

I need to do something to get the spark back in our relationship!

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey hieee, I am Kaustav from India.I m in Love with this girl for almost 2 years now.Recently I had gone for a Trip to Nepal with my male friends for almost a month.We were in in constant touch with her on the phone though.But as soon as I returned things s... (277 words)

Okay, what is wrong with me that I can't stop thinking about this guy?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okay what is wrong with me? I just got out of a very bad long relationship. ran into an guy i knew in high school. went out on a 2 dates with him and then i suggested we b friends bcus im not ready for a sexual relationship yet and he wanted to sleep with me right away. th... (199 words)

Dumped out of the blue, should I contact him?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and was dating my bf for nearly a year and everything was going well. Then one day he calls me out of the blue and says he wants to breakup. I was in shock, we hadn't been fighting at all. He said tat he wasn't attracted to me anymore and didn't know why. It was so ... (185 words)

Going on 2 years and still not over the ex

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my daughters father for five years off and on, we ve broke up but always manage to get back together. Now its been a year and a half and we have not gotten back together. He's been dating the same person ever since we broke up. I've meet wonderful people but always seem ... (292 words)

I wouldn't give him naked pictures but he's getting them from other girls!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so I have been in a relationship with a guy like for 1 month, he have been really nice with me, seems like he cares about me and everything. One time he offered me to exchange naked pictures, I refused and he didn't pushed me or anything, I thought it was kinda ... (149 words)

Is sex better with a bigger penis

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - For the females to answer: Does sex feel better with a bigger penis? Which matters more, length or thickness?... (20 words)

What to talk on phone with your bf?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and my bf is 21. we met online he is really sweet,caring,loving guy he loves me alot we knw eachother from one year.now we started talking on phone. but i am not that type of girl. i like to talk with him but i dont know what to talk about..i dont like long ... (63 words)

My boyfriend cheated, both women are pregnant now!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old and been in my relationship for 3 years. Anyway he ends up getting drunk and having a one night stand with a girl from college and gets her pregnant. The sad part is I found out through an email she sent which says she's 7 months. What makes it even worse is im ... (142 words)

We haven't had sex in 7 years!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age - My husband and I haven't had sex in 7 or so years. He's the one not interested. I have tried everything. Porno, sexy clothes, perfumes, romance, getting him to the doc and trying cialis, Viagra. His "equipment" works fine, he just doesn't want to use it in conjunction with ... (171 words)

I don't love or even like my husband and need to get out!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age - I am tired of all the mental abuse from my husband and nobody will help me,I have asked my dad and he did just take me on a trip this week to Wendover to give me a break but as soon as I got back home same shit.I need to get out of my house bad since my husband wont leave,he ... (195 words)

I heard him tell a woman he loved her, but couldn't move or get up!

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26 September 2010 (M)

age - How do you believe a man that you have heard talk to another women and heard him tell her he loves her, and for some reason hearing all this I COULDN'T get up so when I told him what I heard he denies it of course that I was dreaming but I HEARD them more then once and he ... (121 words)

What were you like as a teenager?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently have been thinking about my teenage years since now I am a young adult and I have been thinking about what I expected when I turned 16. I live in a small town but the teens here were weird. They were the party girls who slept with six guys a week, smoked cigs ... (120 words)

Could he have meant it when he said "I love you"?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm with this gorgeous, intelligent, and delicious latino man and everything's been good for eight months. We have 14yrs between us but we get along well (if he doesn't play 80s music and I don't try to show him the loveliness of Il Divo haha!). So we're making love the ... (178 words)

Pregnancy pains that wont go away

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 7mths pregnant and noticing I can't sleep at all at night and when I do I wake up with severe leg cramps. Now I'm noticing I'm getting them throught out the day too. I have pain in my butt and pain in my back. My doctor said its the baby sitting on a nerve. I tried doing ... (136 words)

I don't deserve to be treated like this!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I been together for 4 years now, but most of it was while he was incarerasted. Weve been only married for almost 2 years now. He got out a few months ago and we been only living together just under 2 months and weve been fighting like cats and dogs, and one day ... (287 words)

Why does it matter if I feel sorry for her or not I slept with her husband!

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I never experienced the crazy baby mother drama but I have experienced the crazy wife drama. I started seeing this married man for 3yrs. We had a lovely relationship, lived 2gather and everything. My cousious got the best of me and we decided to break it off. I dealt with the ... (249 words)

Have I done something wrong.. I am not able to decide for myself...Please help

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had a good relationship with my ex-gf(that's what I always thought) but when I started my new job, I was unable to spend the same amount of time with her as I previously did. Meanwhile, she got close to my best friend(Mr. A). She used to jokingly tell me that I now sp... (879 words)

Social problems affecting dating.

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a young looking 32 year old single male who has never dated. I have lived independently for almost 10 years. Recently my mother has taken an interest in my love life and asked why I haven't found someone yet. I guess this reopens the personal demons I have been battl... (244 words)

Can a relationship with a big age difference really work or its just impossible.

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I always liked older men atleast 3 to 8 yrs older than me. I never picture myself messing with someone 2x my age expecially someone around my mother age. In the beginning it didn't matter but to him it did because like he's was my first oldest man I have dealt with so was me ... (170 words)

Why can't I orgasm with him?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 17. How come when my boyfriend fingers me and eats me out it feels sooo good, but i can never orgasm? When i masturbate i can always make myself orgasm, but with him i cant. We havent tried sex yet by the way. Why cant i orgasm ?... (52 words)

Thought I had a cyst ...

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so the other day (2 days ago I think) I found a lump in my vagina, and it didn't hurt or anything when I touched it or pressed it, I don't know how long I had it, but it really scared me, it wasn't like attached though, like it moved up a little, so I looked it up, and it ... (187 words)

Ow do I cope with the fact that he's back with his wife and I'm having his child.

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 yrs old and I condon in seein a married man. He is 2x my age, been married for 17yrs and has 3 children. I met him by walkin home one day and we exchange #'s. Our intentions were never to seriously to get involve but somehow we did. We moved in 2gather and everything. He ... (399 words)

Labor and birth stories?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I'm pregnant for the very first time and I was wondering if any of you lovely aunts would feel like sharing your labour and birth stories? I would very much like to know as much as I can about other peoples experiences so I have a good idea on all the possibilities :) and ... (104 words)

He was in a relationship with my friend, I don't want her to hate us

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been in tutoring for chemistry.And ive known the guy thats tutoring me for a little ovver a year.we have been flirting with each other alot!and i really like him.and we are secretly seeing each other. the reason we feel that we have to be secret is prior to tutoring me h... (114 words)

Do I stay and hope it works out?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 4 months pregnant, and have been with my boyfriend/fiance for almost a year now. We get into these horrible arguments and will call me some really hurtful names, names that he knows kills me inside. I tell him how I feel and how depressed I am and he goes on about how it ... (151 words)

Should he have told me about these past things?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for nearly 2 years and just found out something that has brought up a few issues for me, and I'm not sure what to think. Basically when I went to use facebook, he'd left his account logged in, and I saw an interesting message. He'd messaged an ex o... (661 words)

To threesome or not to threesome...

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok everyone i need help so my boyfriend told me he wanted to spice up our sex life and try new things. I thought he ment to try new positions. Come to find out he wants to have a threesome. I dont mind the whole girl on girl thing or another girl giving him head but, I dont ... (126 words)

How can I get my head around this?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I haven't done this before but have decided it might be just the answer to getting myself out of a emotional turmoil. I am 35 with 5 children, divorced twice but 3 years ago got together with a 28 yr old friend who lived opposite me for 15 years so my children knew him well... (960 words)

Still obsessed after 13 years

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 24 years or age and i really need help and advice. i have been in love with a teacher i had in my junior school since i was 11. he left the school the same year i moved to high school but even so i cannot shift my feelings for him and the pain is unbearable. i have not ... (109 words)

I know she's not ready to date but I like her

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26 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of nights ago I was visiting the workplace of this girl that I'm friends with and a couple sitting across from the table I was at asked her if I was her boyfriend. This was kind of a awkward moment for us because while we do really enjoy each other's company we ... (306 words)

Other than fingers, what can I use?

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26 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and I know im a bit young but I don't have anything to masturbate with and i started off by rubbing myself and then I got bored of using my fingers, any ideas on what I could use?... (43 words)