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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I used to be friends with this girl for about 6 years, we always went out shopping, clubbing, she helped me pick clothes and how to style my hair and wear make up. We spoke about boys and bla bla bla, things girls do.I have introduced my other friend to her, and they got so close to each other I kept on feeling like I was being left behind and not liked as much. Now they completely don't speak to me. I have tried patching up. but they have both hurt me so much, now when I look at their pictures together on facebook I feel really sad, even thou I know they in the end weren't the best of friends. I keep on faulting myself, that maybe am stupid and ugly and I don't belong with such fun loving, pretty girls.What could I do to get over this experience?I dont have any other good friends but I really would love to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): First off, you're NOT stupid nor ugly. Friends come and go. I know how you feel because i've been in similar situations. Don't blame yourself though. Have you tried talking to any of them?
Also, try making new friends.
Go shopping with anybody you know. (Cousins your age, people at school/work)they will connect you with others. If these two girls keep ignoring you, then its their loss. If this girl doesn't seem to be hurt.. at all then maybe she was never a real friend.
Good luck!
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