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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

An ex of my husband wont leave us alone on facebook

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my husband and I have been married for about 3 months now. and he just recently got a FB account. about 2 weeks ago his ex (with her 4 years were engaged) friend requested him as well as all of his other close friends. so it annoyed me she friend requested my husband plus ... (234 words)

Help!!! I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. How do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so.. My boyfriend recently tried to leave me, but got back together with me. He started to act aggressively saying things like "To get away from you" when he leaves the phone(We're in a long distance relationship), but that's sort of died down. Now, today I just found out ... (109 words)

I broke things off with him because I found he was up to no good...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok... I recently broke things off with my newborn son's father. I found out he was up to no good. I'm a little uneasy because he has a very dark side to him. I am hoping that I never have to deal with him and that he will stay as far away from us as possible. I feel like I have ... (108 words)

My boyfriend seems to have the hots for his neighbour!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please help as this is driving me insane! I'm 36 and been wth my partner for 2 1/2 years, we dont live together, he lives alone and i live with my kids (not his). he has never in the 11 years at his address socialised with the neighbours - he wouldnt even open his blinds! but ... (287 words)

I don't have closure...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been seeing this really nice guy for 4 months. We always had problems as we are long distance, and he finds it difficult to communicate and is sometimes away as he is in the military. We tried to stay close by texting often. 2 weeks ago we saw each other, and it we... (249 words)

Are we soon to be more than friends? Tell me what you think...?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl as a close friend for a year at uni in the same group, and we're away from each other for the summer at the moment. We met up with some friends about 2 weeks ago and while nothing happened, afterwards we've been talking lots more. It seems too much just as ... (244 words)

Heartbroken... are we over for good?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm hearbroken - is there anything I can do? Do I still have any hope? Its been two weeks since we last saw each other. I was seeing this guy for 4 months, and though it was never perfect, as it was long distance, we had a connection, but he found it hard to open up. When he... (220 words)

Bisexual woman reveals her quite possibly most controversial relationship to her parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a bisexual woman in a year-long relationship with another bisexual woman. We are of conflicting faiths. My father passed away a few years ago so the only person living and raising me is my mother. She is extremely opposed to my homosexual AND interfaith r... (227 words)

Insecurities...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everybody: My problem is similar to some I read here. One of my best friends feels the urge to touch, come close, seduce my boyfriend. I know she's not attracted to him but she flirts. They have just seen each other only a couple of times but she holds him tight, shows he... (171 words)

It always seems to shrivel up when we make love. I need your help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever me and my significant other are being intimate he can never stay hard, does anyone have tips on how i can help him out, because i would love to have sex and not have to worry about him shrivelling up and making me feel as if i'm not good enough when he tells me over ... (77 words)

Another boy kissed me, and now my boyfriend broke up with me! Will he forgive me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a huge mistake.two nights ago I went to hang out with my friends brother. She was suppose to meet us there and so when I went over I wasn't expecting for this to go the way they did. His sister called and said she wasn't gonna make it so I stayed and chilled for a bit. ... (575 words)

What do I say to him after that kiss???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this past weekend I went to a party, got a little bit too tipsy and kissed a guy i was dancing with. The party was at a frat house at my college. Now all his frat buddies and teammates know who I am. I walked into the cafeteria yesterday and they were all joking at him and ... (89 words)

Every time I seem to put myself out there I don't get anything in return. Is there anything here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been friends with this girl for a few months now and at first thats all I really felt about her. But as I hung out with her more and more I started to become really interested in her. She always seems flirty around me but that just seems like her natural personality. ... (497 words)

Heart says yes but my head says different...

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My "ex" (not sure what to call him since we still talk) and I had a long distance relationship for a little over 8 months. I ended it because I felt that we weren't communicating enough, the one thing that I believe should be utmost importance for an LDR. We met on Twitter and ... (343 words)

Loss of sexual desire in a man

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9 September 2010 (F) age - I need as many opinions as possible. Is it true that sometimes a man can just lose his sexual desire for his wife for no apparent reason and get no erections when they have sex? Or is this just impossible? And there is always a cause? And if there is, then what are they? Thanks... (55 words)

I want to know his feelings towards me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My teacher is 43 and well don't know too much about his private life as i don't really tend to take notice, but since i've started his class which i've been in for a year and a month or something, there was sort of something there, its hard to describe and if im honest im sure ... (757 words)

I'm a virgin and considering casual sex. What if I regret it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not so sure how to place my question. I've always wondered about casual sex partly because, even though I did have a few "boyfriends", I don't seem to be able to form strong bonds with them and therefore I think of myself as incapable of loving. I'm a virgin with 18 years ... (445 words)

Fell in love with a married woman who says that God wants her to work on her marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My story started about 6 months back when I met this girl at my work. I felt an immediate attraction to her. It wasn't just a physical one either, I mean she had the perfect personality type to me. We started talking and flirting back and forth at work, and it eventually ... (447 words)

I might be gay but I'm scared to tell my family! What do I do?

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9 September 2010 (M) age 26-29 - I think i might be gay but im terrified about what my family mainly my mother would say because she has guessed it but I told her i wasent because she gets a look of disappointment and disgust until I assure her im not. Whats nearly as bad is that a friend from school i know i... (74 words)

He will not talk about the future with me! I'm scared to be alone again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and I have been dating a 27year old guy for a year now. I love him very much and he treats me well but I feel very insecure about the future. He never talks about the future with me or include me in his future plans. I think he is scared that I might ask him ... (177 words)

Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great relationship , we get along great, ... (162 words)

I told a guy I'm interested in that I like him, but he never responded! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Im a sophmore in high school. Alright, I'll just get to the point. I Like this boy very very very very much. He definetely is attracted to me because of the way he acts around me. i sent him a message (like a retard) telling him i liked him. he never replied back but were sti... (114 words)

My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals, but he says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for almost a year. We have been going out for drives and movies but he has never tried to kiss me or hold my hand till about 2 months back. Last month we made love for the first time. He says it was the first time for him(he is 37)But he never kissed ... (180 words)

Do I get this massage from my teacher or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey need some advice, my teacher has recently passed his masseuse course. And he gave out these 50% off vouchers to work mates. I was helping out in his class as I often do and I don’t know if it was in absent mindedness or not, but he gave me one. Now I quite fancy him. Not ... (292 words)

Compatible star signs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age - My question is to Sag women in relationships with Aries men. Accoding to the experts, Aries is supposed to be our most compatible sign. I've heard Aries men are short tempered, have child-like tantrums and have anger management problems. I've read they are impatient, get bored ... (75 words)

Should I just give up on her and be lonely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a girl in college. We're both in our freshmen years and same class. Anyway, I was trying to come closer her but it looks like she can't see me as anything other than a possible friend... Either way, this is not the main thing, I discovered she hung out... (172 words)

I don't want to be seen as just a friend to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

- I asked a girl out on a date and it went well, we're meeting up agaian but I would like us to be boyfriend/girlfriend. However the last 2 times I was on a date, the last just saw it as friends hanging out and the one before that had a hunch it was a date and said she wasn't ... (106 words)

I like my cousin alot-how do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid; so i like my cousin he is 14 and im 13. My family has these family picnics every 2 months and everytime i see him i cant help but smile at him he smiles back to. I know this is weird but i really really like him alot. At night when im sleeping i think about hi... (97 words)

If she marries me her parents will never see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a working professional from India.And currently living out of India for work purposes. My financial status is not so great but I do well to take care of a family.Recently, I met a gal and I have been facing a real common issue , but its killin me. I love a gal, who... (207 words)

Could he still be interested? Or should I leave it alone?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - During the summer, I met someone and things went really well between us. We would talk a lot, sometimes hang out with friends and sometimes alone. I knew he was interested in me seeing how much effort he made when talking to me. When we first met we had brief conversati... (309 words)

She was drunk and told her I'd prefer she not dance with guys but she did it anyways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Operate Conditioning Question... Hey guys and gals im having a little ruff patch with my girlfriend. Its not really bad but it started when she gave me a "drunk" call a couple of nights ago. She asked if she could dance with other guys and I told her I prefer that you not(im ... (447 words)

Girlfriend never accepts her mistakes and instead blames me!

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My Gf of 1 year never accepts her mistakes and instead blames it on me. Recently she asked me if she could go meet a guy friend who had proposed her. i let her when she said they were going to a coffee shop. But 2 days later she told me that they had been to a movie with 2 of ... (185 words)

I want my close friend to be more than friends. What do I do next?

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9 September 2010 (M)

This boy I like is making jokes about my height!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm actually 14, I don't know how to change the age. Basically, I've been with this boy for only like 4months so not very long but I'm pretty small and he's always making jokes about my height. He's 16 and always talks about me to his friends and telling them he loves me and ... (111 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend and am racked with guilt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 7 years and in the last 18 months have found myself falling apart inside. I had an affair last year and the guilt and the nature of the person I had it with has destroyed my confidence. I like being with my girlfriend but I am not sure if ... (189 words)

Ladies, how did you form your first ideas about love and romance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Question for young women out there (under 30 ideally) I would love to know where and how did you first form your ideas about love and romance? Did you read books, see movies or get your ideas from your parents or friends? How did you expect your boyfriend to act, how did ... (129 words)

My old FWB has a girlfriend but wants to mess with me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My ex "friends with benefits" has a new gf, well i say new, he's been with her nearly a year. He's always been a flirt, but lately he's been talking about what we used to do together in bed and did thinking about it turn me on. I'm pretty uncomfortable with this as he is with ... (191 words)

Just started a new school and feel ignored! How do I get into the existing cliques?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started a new school, and I was really friendly. I talk to people, but sometimes I feel ignored. I want to be friends with some other girls because they look friendly and they have more in common with me than the other few girls hanging around me. It's always really ... (167 words)

I just had unprotected sex on the first date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I met up with my boyfriend for the first time. We actually ended up having sex, and I know it was really to soon! We actually did it without a condom, and I do plan on getting checked out just to make sure. Anyways now looking back on it I kind of regret it because ... (378 words)

Is it fine for a guy to sleep over at his friend's house if we live together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend moved in with me about a month ago after 9 months of dating. Three days ago, he told me that he was going to sleep over his best friend's house, whom I have known for about 6 months. His best friend, had been to our apartment a few times and have slept over twice. ... (168 words)

My husband doesn't care about my medical problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married since highschool. I have only been with my husband for 17 yrs. I used to be happy. I used to love everything about our lives. However lately I feel so emotionally demolished inside. 2 yrs ago I suffered a major blow to my health and have been stuggling t... (268 words)

Should I let him be part of my child's life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well a few months ago my boyfriend and I were living together, happy relationship, and we find out that we're having a baby. Everything seemed to be going good (or so I thought). Then when I was 5 months pregnant I find out he had been cheating on me w/ a really close friend ... (219 words)

Should I apologise to her again personally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i had a fight with my girl in the office. our friends and other colleagues were also there. she shouted on me and i did the same thing. afterwards i realized that it was my fault. due to my guilt i apologize her by writing a note rather than personally saying sorry. she tore ... (146 words)

How do you forget about someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy a lot, but i know he doesn't like me. I need to forget about him, but i don't know how...anyone know how to forget about someone? It hurts so much to think about him, and I've literally been up crying at night. I remember just about evry single thing he's e... (90 words)

Boyfriend weird???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm have been in a committed long distance relationship for one year and two months. Me and my bf were talking on the phone and I told him that I'm going to watch movies with two of my guy friends on friday.. and then he started teasing me and i started teasing him too by ... (216 words)

My boyfriend is really starting to grate on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just moved in with my boyfriend a little over a month ago, and he's really started to grate on me. He doesn't have a job, but his parents pay for his rent and living expenses (he's in his late 20s for what it's worth). This annoys me, because I like being financially resp... (525 words)

My ex deleted me off his Facebook and it's upset me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

- Hi this is gonna sound so silly but im really upset cos ive just seen that my ex has deleted me off facebook for no reason! He split up with me 2 years ago, we never really got on after this but 3 months ago i seen him out we ended up talking and had a little snog and he added ... (145 words)

My girlfriend thinks I should "let her off" and allow her to cheat!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him after he said that he had been in "love" with ... (457 words)

I'm really worried that he's gay and doesn't know it, is that possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After going through a difficult long-term breakup I decided to join an online dating site just for fun. Surprisingly I instantly met someone really good looking and we chatted for about a month before meeting in person. He was even better in real life, gorgeous, sweet and we ... (484 words)

His Facebook status is single, but he has messages from a girl. Should I pursue him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a guy that I dated in 9th grade in high school for about a month. We were kids then and not knowledgeable of what a relationship was so we went our seperate ways but I have always felt very drawn and attracted to him...like he was the one. Two years ago, he reached out ... (161 words)

My girlfriend got pregnant to keep me in the relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in this relationship with Grace (not real name) for almost 6 years now I have been staying with her for 3 years out of the six. She tells me she intentionally got pregnant and gave birth to our beautiful 2 year old baby girl because she feared I would leave her. How ... (486 words)

I'm married but still crazy in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, im 27 years old who has been married for almost 3 years. I am however still so in love with an ex that its killing me. we dated throughout college but because i had immigration issues and he wasnt ready to get married because he felt he couldnt care or provide for ... (377 words)

Daughter's breakup is effecting the entire family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help my 16 year old daughter has just split up from her boyfriend. It was a serious relationship very quickly they were together 7 months she is devestated it is effecting the entire family what can i do?... (39 words)

Which gender of a baby will generally prefer boy or girl??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I would like to ask you people that which gender of a baby you generally prefer either a boy baby or girl baby. Because my wife is a pregnant and she wants a boy baby. For me anyone is fine. I am worried that she may upset if we get a girl baby. How to tell her that an... (97 words)

I think I'm attractive but I don't get looked at or hit on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this strange issue. I feel that I am very attractive however, I think I must be the only one as I never get hit on, no one asks me out and no one stares at me in the street. Whenever, I walk into a room I don't even get a glance from one guy, let alone many. But this is ... (137 words)

Will we ever work? Why wont he work hard for something we both want, instead of bailing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help. Im struggling from moving on from my first love even though in my brain i know i will find someone else, and that we have too much going against us. im sorry this is long, but im looking for answers from men out there who have been like my ex, or understands ... (553 words)

Would you have a problem if boyfriend was still in touch with a Fbuddy?

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9 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - OK, just a simple question. If your boyfriend stayed in touch with a girl while seeing you, who you know used to be a "f*** buddy" would you be concerned. I mean, even if he told you they were just friends etc... would you have a problem with him still contacting her?... (52 words)

We hung out but think he got freaked out when he found out I was gay, now he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) age 36-40 - i'm gay. i'm in uni first yr. i have very few friends. but then i met this guy who was a really gud friend. and i had a crush on him. we hanged out a couple of time. but i think i ruined everything now. i didnt tell him i was gay before but since he was giving me signals dat he ... (214 words)

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even after she met me. I really ... (200 words)

After 4 years she says she loves me as a friend?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it goes me and my gf have been togeather for 4 years now but lately she had been diff with me and I wert sure why. So I asked her one night Me: are we still bf and gf or are we just friends now. She started cry and saying she still loves me loads and allways... (327 words)

26 year age difference?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been chatting to a 18 year old girl on the internet for that last 4 weeks now and she now wants to meet me in person. Problem is I'm 44 years old. It started off just chatting as friends, but as we chatted more and more we realised that we both had a lot in common and ... (108 words)

Did my b/f's mom cause us to break up over facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i am back again in your website to tell or ask something about this stuff about my relationship with my ex bf.. Lately i figured out something about whats really going on. I am not really sure about it. And i don't want to think that this is really whats going on..But ... (913 words)

Is there anything that can be substituted for fruit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 19 year old female and unfortunately a bit of a picky eater. I eat vegetables but hate fruit. I'm terrified of cancers and what state my body will be in when I'm older and starting a family etc. I'm taking centrum vitamin supplements and Omega fish oils but I was ... (73 words)

He wants to marry me but how am I supposed to live with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are being a couple for a year now. A few months ago we had a little fight and I told him, in my anger and between the lines, that if he wants to leave this relationship, he's free to do it. He said that he'd be OK whether he left or not this relationshi... (762 words)

I want to have sex with the sister of my child's mother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i find myself atracted 2 the sister of my baby's mother and my desires to have sex with her are burning out of control.i used to skip the thought of me having sex with her.but know i cant even hide it.my actions are spiling out of control and am afraid soon she is gon be aware ... (98 words)

I'm offended by my boyfriends interest in celebrity, how do people feel about celebrities?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for three years now, I'm 21 and he is 31. About a year ago I stumbled across lots of naked pictures of celebrity women on his computer, no porn videos, but tons of celebrity images. I was quite hurt and told him I saw them. To this day he keeps ... (333 words)

I want to be his girlfriend, not his possession!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - On the 6th of September I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. Our anniversary was coming up and we were planning a getaway trip to colorado. He was absolutely perfect and wonderful to me but that all soon changed to extreme possessiveness. He never trusted me not one time... (122 words)

What makes a guy want to be with you?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what really makes a guy want to be with you? I have somebody who is faraway from school and I keep thinking that if he finds someone else than he won't bother to like me anymore. Can a guy just like you?... (42 words)

Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his account and read his bills, ... (910 words)

He said he didn't love me and I was just a "sex thing"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a big promblem ive been seeing a guy im in love with he's been treating me me very very poorly he used me for sex he wanted his friends to make out with me. ive told him lately that i love him he said he doesnt love me and he doesnt have feelings for me and i was just a ... (170 words)

Why can't I ejaculate wearing a condom?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 20 years i cannot ejaculate during intercourse while wearing condom i have to masturbate then i get ejaculation why so? ... (30 words)

Since the birth of our second child my husband doesn't want sex at all!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married close to 15 years. Have two adorable kids, but husband never wants intercourse. Our children are the product of me jumping on the horse and being the sex teacher. But after the birth of my second child he has absolutely no interest in intercourse at all. ... (218 words)

He's telling me everything to do and I'm sure I can't live like this all my life!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 year and 3 months and have been living together for about 8 months now. he doesn't want me to visit my friends or make new friends, he doesn't want me to talk to any guy regardless of whether i know him or now. he also believes that all ... (158 words)

Sometimes I'd rather be alone than be around him!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i have been with this guy for 3 years now, and we have had our up and down moments, but lately its like he jumps from one extream to the next.. one minute he wants to be jewish and goes full force now he wants to be christian and become a minister, and while i support ... (202 words)

I'm not attracted to his big belly!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age - I've been with this man 20 years older than me for 3 years after my divorce. I love his look even though he's got a big belly. Our sex life is good. Recently I just feel his big belly is a turn off to me. I try my best to ignore it cuz I still love him. Sex becomes a one ... (101 words)

My 14 year old daughter is having sex with a 19 year old. How to handle this?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i walked into my 14 year old step daughters room and found her having sex with her boyfriend who i later found out is 19 the age gap is really worryin me i dont think 14 year old girls would went to have sex do u think he couldve made her do it or talked her into it ive ive ... (123 words)

Dad walked in on us having sex!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - last week when i fort my mum and step dad was asleep me and my boyfriend had sex but my step dad walked in on us and went mad and said that im too young to be having sex he didnt tell my mum but now his tryin to stop me seeing my bf how can i tell him im not a child any more... (65 words)

Husband says I must accept that he has a small penis but I never have an orgasm during sex!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi every1.i have a problem with my husband when we make love he doesnt want to do foreplay unless i complain and if i do so he says i complain too much.for the past seven years of my marriage never had an orgasm the last time i had it it was with the guy b4 him,sometimes i ... (124 words)

Going to meet my half-siblings, My mom is a bit mean.

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9 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So I just got into contact with my two younger half-siblings. I've never had any contact with them and didn't even know they existed till a few years ago. These are my dad's kids (I don't have contact with my dad) We are planning to meet. Both our mothers are alright with it. ... (209 words)

Do men get PMS?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months, and have been engaged for the past five months. I have been confused by the way he acts sometimes. I had a family dinner with my parents and his parents. Earlier, or before the dinner, he sounded as though he was not ... (581 words)

I slept with him knowing he has a girlfriend

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9 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, i'm writing this as i feel lost and very confused. Me and a male friend went out for drinks and i ended up drinking a lot that evening, he was drinking also but didn't seem that drunk. We were walking home and he held my hand, i let him as i didn't think anything of it as ... (518 words)

I think our breaking up was a giant mistake

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf broke up with me a few weeks ago. I've been broken up about this all this time. I tried to ignore her, I've tried talking to her, but nothing's working. I get the feeling that years from now, she might regret what she did, and I'll regret not doing anything. I really love ... (93 words)

Dating a couple of months and want to marry soon. Rushing things?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a couple months. We are very much in love and we have great chemistry, both sexual and emotional. We have spent so much time together this summer, because we have lived together at his parents house. My problem is, we w... (145 words)

He found out I lied and now he won't respond

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy through mutual friends during a dinner. That same night he invited my friends and me to a party..that we decided to attend. Both me and this guy hit it off..we danced the night away, talking, getting to know each other, etc. Eventually he brought me home ... (528 words)

What can I do to help myself?

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9 September 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I desperately need help with this so forgive me for making it such a long essay of a statement. Before I lay my dilemma down before your eyes, I must ask that you don't judge me too harshly. Yes I know who I am, yes I have many good friends, no I do not I just cannot take my ... (1210 words)

How can I tell if my female friend is gay or likes me?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell if she's gay or likes me? Well, there's a girl that i think i have feelings for. We aren't really friends but I'm friends with her friends so I talk with her sometimes. Compared to everyone else she acts different with me kind of more nervous. Sometimes ill ca... (115 words)

Do most booty calls turn into relationships? Or not?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - do most booty calls turn into relationships?... (7 words)

I don't want to start mothering him

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do with an absent minded boyfriend? He's never forgetful about anything important or anything to do with our relationship, it's just little things - like this morning we made sandwiches to take to work because we're both really low on money and it crossed my mind ... (147 words)

How to ask a girl if she wants to be in a threesome?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is very open-minded sexually and said that we could have a threesome if I wanted. I said I did but I didn't know how we could find a partner. Fast forward a couple weeks, I met a girl who was flirty and obviously into me. Invited her to a party with me and my g... (92 words)

Been masturbating -- is this normal for my age?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So I like to masturbate. I admit it. Iv been masturbating for about a year. Is this strange for my age? Can someone help me figure out?... (27 words)

I'm falling for her, but wondering if she's just being nice because I'm helping her out

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9 September 2010 (M)

- I know a girl who is 25, and a very sweet girl, with a tough set of issues (she drinks too much and is in her own words,a "beautiful mess"). She is very kind and thoughtful also. Well, I'm older, and she and i met at a restaurant where she worked at. We went out a few times and ... (256 words)

Love hate relationship, we fight all day then go to bed loving each other?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together 4 years off and on we live together n we have love hate relationship we fight all day about who does more, leaving messes, people comming over, dishes, money, and groceries. he also thinks that i pick on him over these things cuz i work and ... (168 words)

Slapped infront of my kids!

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife i both cheated i finally came o realize this wasnt the path we both should be on for our kids sake and our as well but just when i thought it was to good to be true i was slapped in the face only this time he was around my kids it crushed me and it bothers me everyday ... (173 words)

He married my friend and now he has disappeared!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! i have a friend whose married to a black man. residing in London but he's from Gana. they get married this march 2010. after the marriage man went back to London to file the petition he promised to my friend. then while the day passing by their communication is... (139 words)

Could they really be "just friends"?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married one year and we just had twins 3 months ago my husband has a woman friend that i dislike so much. one time my husband get a phone call from her and they were on the phone for hours.but my question to you guys is that any time i erase her number out of his ... (93 words)

How should I get this guy to see me in a romantic way?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so first I want to begin with saying that I'm in high school and though I haven't had a BF yet, I have been seriously emotionally hurt by a guy I cared deeply about and have since had a series of "guys who screw me over." Anyways, there's this guy who I talk to in school- ... (162 words)

How do I get over someone I thought I would spend the rest of my life with?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for 2 years and during that time I was dealing with some drama from an ex of 6 years. My boyfriend was patient and stayed with me while working these issues out. We broke up during the summer time and I really love him. The break up was tough because we kept ... (150 words)

I don't want to get hurt!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, im dating this guy. I really like him and he says he really likes me too. and weve only dated for a week adn we already hug and junk. which might not sound fast but is for me. But see i dated his bestfriend for 3 weeks before school ended, and i never really liked him. And ... (105 words)

He's trying to get me pregnant without telling me about it!!!!

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 weeks ago my hubby and I had unprotected sex, and he came in me (w/o permission) for the first time ever while I wasn't on BC. I am now a week and a half late, but 4 preg tests in the last 5 days have said I'm not pregnant. Today during sex he came in me again without... (232 words)

How do I get over the brake up and get on with my life?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having a very hard time moving on from my last relationship. It was my first real relationship and it only lasted half a year, but it seems like it was much longer. We broke up about 3 or 4 months ago and while I have made progress I still haven't gotten over her. I'm a shy ... (584 words)

How do I know what he is thinking and how he feels?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years and have a serious crush on my (4 months) new co-worker who has also been married for a long time. Both of us have spouses with health problems and would never leave them. My relationship with my husband is pretty much okay and I do love him, ... (181 words)

Do colleges look at teachers comments?

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9 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Do colleges look at not only grades, but teachers comments too? I'm just wondering, like if you had a good grade (say a 90) but they didn't put a good comment or something..like doesn't participate or bad behavior..... (38 words)

How can I stop psychologically abusing my boyfriend?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am afraid I am destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. I am always challenging the things he says and making him feel as if he's wrong to have said them, even though they're nothing important - like him expressing that he likes a film I don't for example. After an ... (218 words)

Is it normal for a young teen girl to have feelings for their teacher?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i'm attracted to older men and most of m friends think that's pretty werid but anyways there's this teacher that i know and he was my wrestling coach for 2 years. But lately i've started to have a major crush on him because he's easy to talk to(well i think)he's nice and ... (122 words)

How do I tell the difference between flirting and genuine liking?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I tell the difference between flirting and genuine liking. My freind flirts with me, but I dont want to take it seriously if its not genuine. I do like her and I hope she is serious.... (38 words)

I keep pushing men away! What is wrong with me?

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like a mental case, I was in love and engaged to be married, i kept leaving cause i was unhappy, but now that it is all over after 4 yrs and it ended about 7 months ago...im finding it hard to get with any other guy. im okay when there is no pressure and we are just han... (129 words)

Can my girlfriend become pregnant by rubbing penis on the outside of her vagina?

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9 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I want to know whether my girlfriend can fall pregnant from me rubbing my penis against her vagina?And If I place it only in the opening of ehr vagina?If I have ejaculated already?If I have not?She is still a virgin. If I finger her?If sperm is in the area?Please ... (62 words)

I don't want to be alone, but there's no spark in this relationship

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I should break-up with my boyfriend, but im terrified of being single! We've been together since christmas and he had apparently really liked me for quite a while before that.....i had just come out of a bad relationship and was just looking for someone to treat... (310 words)

His friend wants to be more than friends

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9 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My Current boyfriend is friends with a girl whom I have issues. Upon meeting her i had the sneaking suspicion that she had feelings for him. She lives in another state, so the last time she was in town she stayed at his house. I considered that I might just be paranoid so i ... (308 words)