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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Maybe this is the end for me and my dad..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have some anger problems and when I get mad I black out and say things I regret alot. Well me and my dad are close, but when me and him get in fights which is often we get into it. Well me and my dad got into a fight about my grades last week and he ended up taking all ... (296 words)

I'm 21 and terrified of intimacy and relationships!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I could really do with some advice as I don't really know who else to talk to. I'm a confident 21 (nearly 22) year old training to be a lawyer. I have my own interests, am comfortable with who I am, have lovely friends and a wonderful family. I have been told I'm attractive a... (695 words)

He slept with his abusive ex wife while we were seperated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age - my love of my life and i recently got back together ater 3 months of being apart as we realised we are still deeply inlove and want to be together,he was married and got divorced years before i knew him.now after having zero contact with the ex for years her choice she contacts ... (310 words)

How do I pursue her without screwing it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this really hot girl in my class that I check out all the time. Well, the other day in study hall she was sitting alone so I sat down at her table and started a conversation with her. We pretty much chatted nonstop for 2 hours until class started. I made her laugh a ... (137 words)

How should I tell him I want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and this boy have been talking for a while now.I like him and everything and i think he likes me.We have hung out a lot just the two of us. We kissed held hands and stuff but he never really told me or anything.And i want to tell him that i want to be in a relationship ... (70 words)

Do they consider me a little sister ro do they actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! I really hope you can help...i'm a freshman in high school, and currently in the marching band. I love marching band, and i've been in it since late may, so i pretty much know everybody there. One problem that i've been having recently is crushing on two senior drummers. I ... (158 words)

I think my boyfriend is gay!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About two months ago I discovered on my boyfriends laptop that he had pictures of himself. I thought this was a bit strange and went on to his email and went through his sent items. I then discovered he was sending pictures of himself to other men last year but had stopped in ... (164 words)

I cheated on my wife and I feel horrible about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i need help... so i just got married to a beautiful women named Jo Beth. well. a couple weekends ago, we were argueing about how i dont do anything around the house (shes four months pregnant . weve also lived to gether for the past couple of years) things got so bad that i ... (285 words)

Do straight women get turned on by making out with other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - At my urging, my wife will sometimes make out with her female friend (nothing happens below the neck) in my presence as a way of revving up my engine. My wife needs a little coaxing but then seems to get into it. The visual effect for me is very erotic and we (my wife and I) ... (110 words)

I don't want her talking to my old bestfriend but she does anyways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she wants to see me and i make ... (748 words)

How can I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - how do i tell my girlfriend that i love wearing womans underwear and bra`s, plus i have had thoughts about having sex with guys or she-males. what should i do??... (30 words)

7 months later and I still haven't gotten over her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend broke up about 7 months ago, and since them I haven't been able to forget her. I've been telling most my friends I've been over her, but know things took another proportion and I just don't know what to do any more.. I'll start from the beginning, we br... (431 words)

Should I cut my losses and run?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I kissed an old friend a few months ago and since then we've been meeting up whenever he is passing through my city. He said that he wanted us to have a relationship, to be a couple, and I said that we would talk about it the next time we saw each other. But until he got back, ... (269 words)

I'll never be the "wild ride" she had with others!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

24 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I just can't get over my girlfriends past. It's not that I have an issue with the fact she's had sexual partners before me, or even that she had great sex with them. It's the fact that those relationships were almost purely sexual, and the sex was pretty intense from the ... (349 words)

She said I insulted her and she felt cheap after we had sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I will try to make this as short as possible :-) I am 27 she's 19. We've been dating for about year and a half. I love her very much but... in the last couple of months she had become distant toward me and we have been fighting a lot. A week ago during one of the fights I... (232 words)

We will never work but I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if you can give me some advice on how to get over someone. I have this friend who comes over and helps me with my homework, he is kind of my tutor. I know things would never work we talked about it for a while and he has another friend that is a girl that he ... (98 words)

What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I got dumped just about a month ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationship, we got on very well and he did not dump me because of a bad relationship, but because he felt we were very different. He still loves me and meant everything he said. He is very complicated and ... (207 words)

What do you do when you get into a fight with someone special to you and you have tried almost everyting?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you do when you get into a fight with someone special to you and you have tried almost everyting? I have asked with question to many people. And I have gotten many answers, and they were good answers. After a month I talked to him a little bit about the fight. ... (322 words)

I've loved her for years, been there to console her, but she wants to stay "just friends"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so here's the story. I've know this girls since we were in high school. I'm 25 now and she's 23. I've always thought she was cute and we've flirted back and forth for years. We never ended up hooking up because she was always dating one of my friends and I'm not a douche. A... (693 words)

I found hidden in the closet sex video with wife and her boyfriends...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help! So my wife told me I needed to do more around the house. Help her clean mostly. I had never really done it and I felt I should help...wish I never had. I started cleaning out our bedroom. Under the bed, behind dressers, etc...so I came to our closet. Started ... (407 words)

Should I try and help a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have made a conclusion about a friend of mine, and I see that he has some problems, stemmed from a trauma earlier in his life. 20 years earlier.. I can just see its ruining his life and happiness. Just all the things he talks about past and present, and experiences and ... (147 words)

A strange thing happened while watching the movie

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, um last night I and my cousin were watching a movie called "The Runaways" which is my favorite movie so far. There a scene where Kristen kissed to Dakota we'd give a try, we kissed, and we both felt so nice when we kissed, we enjoyed it. But after the day, means today, I ... (119 words)

How do I talk him into having another baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, Men: tell me this: how do you persuade, coax, or otherwise make a man want to have another baby with you if he is totally against it? I am open to all suggestions. How do I get him to change from thinking it is the last thing he wants, to it being his greatest desire ... (71 words)

How do I stop his cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a problem with my boy friend he is cheating i dont know what should i do to stop this thing... (22 words)

Why do people asks the question "Are you a virgin"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Are they just extremely nosy or are they hoping for a certain answer? I've been asked that question by people I barely even know in the past, but I don't care about them cuz I don't know them. My concern is about my friend. She asks her boyfriend a few weeks after they... (229 words)

How do I talk about new things to try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'm 19 and my boyfriend and I have engaged in everything besides the obvious. One of which is sex and we are waiting for the right time. The other one was the one I had a question about. Is there a specific name for when the guys slides his penis in between the ... (122 words)

How can I make him understand I'd like him to contact me when he's not working?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well after I did not contact my boyfriend for about 20 hrs he called me telling me he's been working and apologized for not responding. He now works 2pm-10pm. I texted him around 11 pm that night to say goodnight, no response. I called him this morning no response. I had my ... (383 words)

I appreciate that this girl is reaching out to me but I don't know what to talk about without sounding stupid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have anorexia and this girl about a year older than me (who I vaguely know) knows. She used to have something similar, and she said I could talk to her about it. She invited me to have a chat with her and another older girl who's having similar problems. I really want to ... (135 words)

Online dating slump!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have begun to use online dating again and It seems like every time I meet a guy I get attached to quickly. The last guy even lead me on so much to believe he was attached and really interested then told me out of nowhere I was too clingy and not to contact him. The thing is I ... (95 words)

My husband has a lot of charges against him from my family, how do I be fair about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My story goes like this: I'm married for 10 years and is blessed with 3 kids (2 boys and a girl). My husband has no job so I am the breadwinner of the family. I have a nice paying job that I can even support the vices of my husband which is gambling every weekend and sometimes ... (490 words)

Is he acting this way because we had a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with him for 4 years and have a son who is 10 mths, he now seem so different in everything, he arrives latw from work, always fighting, excuses in bed and I am worried dat I am gonna lose him and I lv him so much, sometimes I wonder if having the baby is ... (80 words)

Why does it bother me that my mate smokes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why does it bother me tht my mate smokes? Ok i was once in love with him, still kinda am but i know that will never happen and i;ve got my own life to lead. Either way we;re still good friends and im happy for it. Thing is its upseeting me how hes becoming, just little things ... (212 words)

Should I say something to him or just let it go like nothing happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 4 months. We've had many up's and down's in the past and my friends think that I could do better but when they see that I am happy or I tell them that I am happy, they are fine with it and don't interfere. For a very long ... (588 words)

I love her so much but I don't think I can deal with her new rules about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have only been dating for two months. i am 16 but a romancer all the same. i lost my virginity to this girl and i love her. its not about the sex and i dont think she realizes it. in two months we have only dont it three times. and she says im really good. ... (129 words)

My boyfriend keeps asking me if I want to kiss him! Help me and my boyfriend, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, I started with my boyfriend on the 22nd of september 2010 and he keeps asking me i wanna kiss him but i dunno what to do. I`m scared if i say i`ll loss him and if i say yes i dunno what will happen because i`ve never kissed a boy befor because i`m only 15.... (60 words)

Ex-boyfriend inviting me to a party out of the blue

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So this ex-bf of mine broke up with me about 7 months ago. I was mad and i didn't talk to him for a while and even deleted him off FB. Recently, about two weeks ago we re-connected on skype. He asked how my vacation was and told me some things about his life. ... (208 words)

Gold earrings in his flat and not seeing me, strange texts...cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, wondering if i can get some advice before i confront my partner. weve been in a relationship for 3 years but we live separatly Last feb we split for a while,getting back together at the end of march. the problem is this - late last year,around october ti... (208 words)

I think he's flirting with me, should I look for more signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I got a question that involves my friend. Im bi (but no one knows lol) and his straight. Im not sure if this is all in my head but im starting to think that his flirting with me a little bit. He keeps touching me, and, like, keeps hinting things to me :/. And by that I ... (104 words)

I still have love for her but the physical attraction is gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, I met the woman of my dreams two years ago. We have been on and off ever since we met, we lived together up until work forced me to move away. I came home, we decided to give things another round. I still have love for her, but the physical attraction is long gone... (121 words)

He worries about his performance in bed but can happily masturbate in front of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know this......I have been hanging out with this guy for sometime now...we have slept in the same bed together and he put my hand on his hard penis then took it away real fast....since then we got together and he masturbated in front of me...he claims he dont think he ... (113 words)

Why does my teacher act so weird around me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this relief teacher who has just been accepted into my school and i know for a fact that she is only 19. I'm 16, a girl, and i'm the senior in my school. When i first saw her, i was blown away because she was really quite attractive. She had the coolest fashion ... (349 words)

Her mixed signals are confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Girlfriend said she wanted to break up then changed her mind. For roughly two weeks we were talking daily and taking it slow. She even said things were good between us. Then she wanted to visit me last weekend and didn't show up last minute. After that, I then went no con... (334 words)

Should I still trust my instincts this time or should I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met this guy who is in his early 40s in a dinner arranged by a friend. As we are both single, we were asked to sit together. The guy has showed his interest throughout the night. It ended with him telling me that he hopes to invite me over coffee or lunch. I w... (607 words)

Advise on online dating, what could be going through his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I could really use some advice from people who have tried online dating. I'm new to it so perhaps I'm not too familiar with the standard way of doing things. Like I said, I met him online a while ago actually, and since then we have talked online almost every night. Yet... (217 words)

I don't think I should stay with my girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - We've been dating a year and a half or thereabouts, and recently she's moved to a different city, and I'm supposed to move with her but I don't know if I should. She's recently made her facebook completely private, so I can't see photos or comments or anything, and sh... (504 words)

I have a boyfriend and I think another guy likes me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii :) This is not the hardest question to answer and may sound a bit silly, but your answers make a difference :) I have a boyfriend and i think another guy's actions towards me indicate that he likes me( and my friends think there's a chance he may likes me). The boy k... (215 words)

What can I do to mend our relationship before he leaves for europe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age - My bf and I dated only 6 months and he asked me to move in with him. I lived 135 miles away so quit my job,and gave up almost all my furniture (because he had everything in his house). Within 2 months we started to argue because I wanted him to set up something to protect me in ... (319 words)

After a mistake

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes Married for 18 years. 7 years ago I had an affaire ( Yes, I think i was in love not just sex). wife found out 5 years ago after it was over. Never had one before or since. Still married coming up on 19th year. But, She can't let in go after 5 years. No question,I ... (191 words)

Should I stay single and try getting over my ex first or should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts and uncles, i really need your help on this one... There's a guy (lets call him Adam) who i used to go out with years ago when i did a performing arts course at college. We ended up breaking up because we were both so young. I didn't really have much contact wit... (408 words)

What do US guys think about asian girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i'm a japanese girl and my family's moving to US in a few weeks. i have a lot of friends here in japan so i guess my personality's not bad, so i hope to make lots of friends in the states. and hopefully i would like to have a boyfriend too. but one of my friend who lived ... (323 words)

Is a 24 year age gap too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being unrealistic? Is a 24 year age gap to much? I am 26, he is 50. I've always said to people, age doesn't matter. But that's when I was offering advice to my friends. Now it is a situation that has arisen for me, and I have my doubts! What do you all think?... (65 words)

How should I tell my guy best friend I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm bi-curios and I'm in love with my guy best friend. We treat each other as brothers. I'm 2 years older that him. The 2 of us get really close to each other, we even wrestle and tickle each other almost all the time. we like holding each others hand while walking and he ... (146 words)

Is my thinking far too possessive or do I have a good point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I have a bunch of friends, well they're not really close friends as some of them are a bit untrustworthy and have been known to 'shit' on their mates by sleeping with their exes etc. I also have a boyfriend who I love very much. We been together 7 months. Sometimes th... (400 words)

How do I make things more interesting before we meet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 6-7weeks ago. I met a wonderful guy online im 23yo and his 34yo, we have established a good friendship we sms each other on a daily basis, and he calls me +- 3 times a week where our conversations end up being 30minutes long. My question however is, how do i make things ... (66 words)

My boyfriend has gone away for a few weeks and I'm worried I'm going to stop loving him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey My boyfreind went away a few days ago and hes coming back in 2 weeks i was missing him the 1st few days, i was thinking about him everyday and i was dreaming about him every night... but theres something about me if the person i love goes away and i dont make any contact ... (147 words)

I love this woman so much yet I can’t let go of the suspicions and it’s killing the relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I’m in a three and a half year relationship with L. We’ve both been married three times before. We met shortly after an 8 year relationship and a 4 month marriage with another woman, T. My ex was constantly flirting with other men and eventually caused us to divor... (400 words)

My partner is friends with a former lover, and I just cant get my head around this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age - I asked my girlfriend to stop talking about former boyfriends because it felt icky to hear and know about them. She thought it would help me to know her better and did it a few more times until she finally stopped. I think it kills emotional intimacy and I know way more than I ... (191 words)

Does my brother need help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my brother says people are talking about him and that there are cameras everywhere and saying people are recording him does this mean he is ill and needs help... (29 words)

How do I tell him he's not giving me enough affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i started staying with my husband actually four months ago im 23 he is 35,everything else is fine except our sexual life problem is we rarely make love at most 3times a week .He doesnt touch or kiss for the past 2months when we make love he doesnt as well imagine my body ... (80 words)

We have been seeing each other for 3 years without ever defining our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing this guy for nearly 3 years but he goes for ages at a time without seeing me or ringing or txting. We are not offically together can't define our relationship. When we are together i really feel a connection, that he has feelings for me but the next minute he ... (116 words)

My huband always talks down to me in front of his friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband ALWAYS talks down to me when he's with his mates. Even to the point where he starts fights over nothing just so he can yell abuse at me. what the hell is the deal?? maybe his mates don't like me and he's proving himself somehow? im sooo over it! ... (52 words)

We were so much in love but had a bad breakup, he's messaged me now. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear people, I'm angel, currently 23 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years during my engineering graduation. we had a very cute kind of a rapport, we were very good friends to start with as he was my batch mate and then fell in love with time. he is a very ... (716 words)

Wait for him? Or move in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

My wife won't help around the house!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I am in the military and work full time on active duty however I also work full time at home, I cannot get my wife to do anything around the house to help! I am not the kind of guy to say she should do 100% at the house but she don't do anything but watch tv and read books; ... (259 words)

He keeps me around but I watch from the distance as he is still dating others!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm really screwed up. I'm in love with my best friend, and he claims to love me too, but I'm not sure what to do. Because we stay in two separate states, we haven't made anything official, until I move closer in around a month or two. We met online two years ago, and ... (289 words)

Friend going into the military and I'm worried about him dying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just learned that my boy friend might be going into the air force for college money (he is on a bad pridicument so don't ask). I have no issue at all about it but the one thing that seems to worry me the most is my question: "what are the risks of him dieing?" now I know ... (101 words)

Changing her mind about having an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - We found out at monday that my girlfriend is 3 weeks pregnant. She wants a abortion how can i change her mind not to do that? ... (27 words)

Why won't he cuddle or hold me after sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - a guy I'm just friends with will never cuddle with me after we sex..we talk everyday, chill and stuff,but I've known him 5 months,so why not hold me? ... (28 words)

I'm 14 my friends think I'm absolutely nuts Is it actually normal to love a 46 yr old teacher ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and head for heels for this 46 yr old teacher and i've never felt this way about any guy before and hes the head teacher of science so i love going to science haha :P i had him for yr8 science last year and thats how i developed my feelings for him , hes not enti... (372 words)

Why does he explain to me about guys and talk about other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend that everyone teases me about..they call him my "boyfriend"...we talk everyday for hrs. at a time..usually,and see him about 3 times a week at least. we have been intimate before but not all the time,we usually just hang out. he will ask questions about ... (62 words)

He doesn't understand me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been together with this boy for 1 and half years. I love him truly with all my heart. However, I feel so hurt at times because I feel that nowadays, his friends are more important than me. He misses me a lot only when he is alone. I refer to this as convenience love. ... (479 words)

Am I being over sensitive and paranoid?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i moved from England to Australia a year ago to live with my partner, who is english, but has worked here for several years and is already established. I gave up a good job, apartment and an independant life to start a new life here. i can hear people already thinking... (315 words)

Pain during sex and unable to reach an orgasm.....what is wrong with me?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a lady aged 28 and am having problems with my boyfriend when it come to sex. when having sex i feel pain on penetration and i dont reach my orgasm. what can i do because i am not sexually active and i dont even think of having sex when i am alone. please help if there is ... (63 words)

My boyfriend wants to wait 5 or 10 years until we have a family but I am desperate to have children now!

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there! I need my own famaliy but my bf doesn't want children now, he says he want them when his 30 or 35 yrs and now we are both 25 and we have been together for 3yrs,this things its really kiling me,and ther is no one who is proposing me,can you plz help, or its because we ... (63 words)

I still have feelings for him but I'm struggling to get over his sleeping around while we were not together

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all thank you for any advice you can give me. I have a 3mth old baby and her dad and i arent together.but recently we started talking again after sooooo many downs and i think were cool now. But he told me he slept with different girls all this time 6 to be exact. And ... (165 words)

What does it mean when a girl says this during sex?

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone i just have a little bit unusual question mostly for females but i dont mind having different opinons :D , i just wanna know what girls mean when they say during sex F**k me harder or when they are like ' harder harder ' Does that mean that the guy is not doin... (78 words)

Having sex for the second time but I'm worried I'm not going to be able to get it up!

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 18 and i lost my virginity to some girl a month ago. tomorrow night im going to do it again and i had a hard time getting getting up my first time , tomorrow night will be my second time and i just want a good erection any tips on how to get hard if im nervous idk what ... (78 words)

How can you convince your girlfriend to give you oral?

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Do most women like giving BJs? How can you convince your girlfriend to give them to you?... (17 words)

Do I need to confront the married friend that keeps calling my wife every night?

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been together for 12 years now but she asked me to leave for a while, She said she needed space, Time alone, Wanted me to keep in touch with her. She started having a thing for one of her work friends, It's a guy who is married and has two kids. He calls ... (204 words)

How can I tell my dad about my long distance relationship?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About 5 years ago, I met this guy online on a social networking site. We e been speaking to each other for, like I said, 5 years and we confessed that we love eachother last October. He's like my Kherson half! We have so much in common and his personality is AMAZING! There's ... (141 words)

Sex in a pool?

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - If l have sex in a pool will water enter into my girlfriend and if it does can it affect her vagina.... (22 words)

Why do I have crushes on these girls when I am 42 and married?

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have these crushes on pretty girls, just because they are nice to me or give me a quick smile. Why? I feel like a kid in a candy store, but I should know better. I am 42, married. ... (39 words)

Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ... (52 words)

I'm starting to resent my mum......

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24 September 2010 (F) - I am starting to resent my mom. I am in my mid twenties and still live at home in my tiny room. I just feel suffocated at times and i know she loves me and wants me to be happy but sometimes i think she must want me to be alone and just live in that room forever due to the ... (772 words)

I was trying to change but he's not listening

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help getting over my ex. He just broke up with me. He was my first everything. But its my fault because I was stupid and constantly accused him of cheating when I had no reason to. I didn't clean or cook cause I didn't know how to and I wasn't getting up with my 5 month ... (214 words)

I think she's the one for me ...

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it has been tough. The hardest part is knowing that I think she's the one for me. I know that she loves me too, is there anything I can do to convince her that she and I belong together?... (47 words)

Liking two people at once?

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Good evening everyone: I seem to ponder this question from time to time. Is it alright to LIKE two people at once? Now, this is not to be confused with the validity to DATE two people at once. Is it alright to LIKE two people at once? It seems like no one can help it. How can ... (107 words)

Will he ever make this official?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 18 and I met this 38 year old at my cousin's job. Age in relationships never bothers me to begin with and after we hung out for the first time I already started to see that I liked him. We've been "together" for about a month and a half. We talk everyday and see ... (124 words)

My b/f is great, but so is flirting

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old and i have been dating my boyfriend, 18 for almost 2 and a half years. our relationship is fun. we go out alot and try new things but there is a part of me that misses the feeling you get when you talk to someone new. over the course of our relationship guy... (308 words)

She said she was 18, I developed feelings, but it turns out she's 16

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a month younger than myself. ... (573 words)

I actually meant it when I said those three words

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Aw man, I got myself in a bit of a pickle here. About a week ago, my best friend (a girl) and I both got drunk and had sex. Before we did it, though, she told me she's the kind of girl who needs to hear those three special words to make it feel "right". Well, I looked down as... (141 words)

Is it legal?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so my boyfriend is 19 an im only 15...an im not telling my parents that hes my boyfriend..but we are not having any sexual contact...is it legal?... (27 words)

Was I right to send him to his ex?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age - i met a guy that lives 8 hours away. we clicked fast. i went to visit him for a week and we had a great time. his ex girlfriend decided to come back and she waqnted him back. he became confused and sad he did not know what he wanted. i told him to go back to her.. because ... (113 words)

Why must you ignore me?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My crush finally asked me out.. We are trying to keep it a secret for now because we don't want are friends getting in the way. I am super busy so it is difficult for me to go out with him no matter how much I want to. We were suppost to go to the movies this past Friday but it ... (172 words)

Been together for 10 years, and now this?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In need of some advice..before I make a fool of myself. I left home over a month ago. My Boyfriend was upset but accepted it since it was for school. We've been together fr 10yrs and through a lot. He was upset and hurt I left but I wanted to finish school and get my d... (340 words)

He can be the sweetest guy ...

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He puts his friends first an has mood swings worse than a girl he can be the most sweetest guy when he wants an other times he can be a jerk an not care about anything. Why does he do that?... (41 words)

I like this girl, but her brother is a good friend

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old and I like this girl that is also 25 years old. I would like to ask her out but there is one problem. Her brother, who is 21 years, is one of my best friends. We played football in high school (I was a senior and he was a freshman) and that how we met.... (105 words)

There's some history, but I want to talk to him

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been single for almost ten months because I went through a hard break-up with my boyfriend. We were dating for one year and got serious. We broke up because he cheated on me several times. I have had secret and humble feelings for a guy that I now re... (393 words)

We love each other but we are not in love cause of bad times

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been going on and off for 3 years with a long distance relationship, at the beginning everything was sweet and nice even and we found ways to feel like we were face to face even though we were miles away. But fights happened and lots of misunderstandings and ... (255 words)

How could he be engaged so soon after our break up?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age - What are the chances that my ex fiance's new relationship will survive? He left me after 7 yrs. 5 mths. ago and became engaged to her after only 3 mths. I know it seems like they were seeing each other before he left me but, that is not the case. I'm sure he had his eye on ... (378 words)

Why is he avoiding me? Seriously, what gives?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in college, and I've developed a crush on a freshman. We're in band together, and play the saxophone. Last week, I invited him to a party at a friend's apartment, and he said that he'd come. When the weekend arrived, and I had been at the party for a littl... (521 words)

I want to be there for her despite the break up

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24 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex just had a break up. She says that she still loves me and we talk online here and there. she even calls me some nights when shes feeling down and at the end of the convo says "i love u baby". i dont want to always be there to talk or force convo because i dont ... (101 words)

I'm still in love with him, but I'm unhappy. Should I break up with him?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like it would take me a long time to go into the specifics, so I'm going to try to ask this as simply as possible. What do you do when you're in love with a person, but you're unhappy? I still love my boyfriend, and he still loves me, but I'm starting to develop depre... (235 words)

How deceptive is he, can I trust him?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age - I am a divorced 54 year old woman dating a 53 year old divorced man for the past 5 years. Recently I read his e-mail that he sent to his ex-girlfriend who he had an internet relationship with before me but who was married and not going to leave her husband. She had contacted ... (272 words)

I love my older sister. Her boyfriend is nice. I just don't like them together!

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I love my older sister. Her boyfriend is nice. I just don't like them together! My relationship becomes strained with my sister when she gets into a relationship. Towards me she becomes more bossy, manipulative, arrogant, and insecure. She doesn't do it to... (118 words)

Not quite working yet with my b/f

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We love each other very much. That's not my problem though. I get turned on by him but when it comes to sex, I do get turned on but it's very weird. It's not consistent. I've always thought some women are very sexy. I never wo... (246 words)

How can I get the dude I want?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get the dood i want??? He's really attractive and he plays sports but he's cocky and tends to be selfish. i really like him and he can really be so good to me .... (37 words)

If I had sex with him would we still be together?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i have been in love with the same guy for over a year now. he is 16 now, and i am 15. about a year ago i went over to his house to hang out with his sister and things between me and him became really close when we text each other day and night every day for about 4 ... (226 words)

Why do I bite and scratch during intercourse?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - During sex, I tend to bite my boyfriend's neck and dig my nails into his back. Is there a deeper meaning into what we do to our partners during intercourse, or is it just us reacting to being caught up in the moment?... (43 words)

Is thick and yellow normal for cum?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - When I perform oral sex on my man, I noticed when he cum in my mouth, it is thick and yellowish. When I go to spit it out, I gag every time. Have any male experienced this? Can anyone tell me what this could be? It looks like old mucus.... (50 words)

We want to spice things up! any ideas?

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to spice up our sex life. Im not very good at inventing or imagining things so I cant think of anything to do that he would really love. We are also kind of broke so I dont have a lot of money to buy stuff. Anyone have any ideas on how we could spice our sex ... (64 words)

My husbands touch makes me nauseous!

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24 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 22 years. I have remained pretty close to the way I looked when I married my husband. I work very hard at keeping myself fit and looking good. I eat right and workout on a regular basis. My husband is a good man, he works very hard and loves me very ... (149 words)

He would rather be out than with me!!

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in my relationship with my husband for 12 years. We have no children. The problems I am having are really crushing this relationship and I simply do not know what to do. He likes to drink for one thing, and alot more than I would like. He even ... (252 words)

I think I'm bi..and I have feelings for my cousins wife!

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24 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and in college..I'm a Muslim so being bi is frowned upon by everyone..it's hard enough having to keep sucha big secret from my friends and family but now I'm having feelings for my cousins wife, they've been married for 3 years now no children..she's a lovely girl..I ... (212 words)