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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girl took a really impulsive decision and I wonder if I should take her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Do you think that girls sometimes go and look for other male contact to try and figure out if what they have right now is what they really want? We dated for roughly 4+ years and we stared out very young. We where so in love that we would drink poison if something shou... (282 words)

Question for the guys about middle-aged women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I'm just wondering... With all the young, hot, semi-nude, perfect female bodies constantly paraded on TV, ads, etc.(not even considering porn... let's not go there), can a middle-aged, post menopausal women still look attractive to a middle aged man? I seriously want to kn... (126 words)

How can I remind myself to take my birth control pill?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some ways to remind your self to take your birthcontrol? so far I have an alarm on my laptop and an alarm on my phone and my Ipod dock and Ipod it's self and sometimes I STILL forget. What are some other ways incase I am not around any of those items. ? What do... (65 words)

I have hair in places that I don't want it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - um well this is awkward but i've been getting ALOT of hair in places it shouldnt be and where it should be but theres alot of it. i use nair, veet, or i shave but it grows back the next daay. Is there anyway i can get rid of it or when i shave it or what not it doesnt grow back ... (65 words)

Possible psychic connection? Are we meant to meet one another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so, a few weeks ago a guy started talking to me on msn asking if we knew each other. I then realsied that I had added him a few months back but deleted him as I didn't actually know the guy. However, he explained that he doesn't use msn very often, which is why he was ... (393 words)

Why does he cum so fast?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for a year. we were both virgins before we met. when we have sex he cums within the first few minutes. so i dont have a chance to even start enjoying it really. why does this happen? thanks for the advise xx... (61 words)

After just 2 months I feel alone and trapped in this marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello my name is tinker and i have a question i am married im young and i dont think i am in love with my husband any more sorry i no it sounds bad and i feel bad but at the same time idk what to do about my feelings i cant stand the way he treats me i feel i can do better for ... (209 words)

I'm in love with my BFF's ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a guy friend named 'Nick'. We have been friends for 6 months. In that time, we have been throughso much together, and he is now one of my closest friends. Until a month ago, he was also going out with my BFF. They had a nasty breakup, but she is now dating someone e... (131 words)

How to Have No-Contact when I run into her often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's a link to my situation if you need background... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-just-left-me-and-i-want.html It's been a little over 2 weeks since we broke up. Last Wed night, she came by we proceeded to talk about the relationship, (before th... (955 words)

I told myself I would never let a man hit me.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend (also 15 years old) of 8 months hit me Friday for the very first time. He is bipolar and sometimes his mood swings are off the charts and his thought process is irrational at times. I stayed the night with him on Friday and Saturday and ... (311 words)

Is it ok for a teen to take a multivitamin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Is it okay for a teen to take a multivitamin? I've heard with women it can cause all sorts of things such as breast cancer etc. But I feel weak and I might not be getting enough vitamins/minerals. So is it safe for me to take one? (I'm 16) I've heard good things and bad things ... (60 words)

He's bored and wants a break

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half, and he wants a break. He feels bored in the relationship, like we are just "going around in circles". He says all the things that we used to find exciting together are no longer fun and it just feels like the same ... (146 words)

Afraid that not being physical will weaken the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To start out I should tell you my boyfriend and I are both college sophomores. Although I am not a virgin, he is. We both feel as though we want to wait until marriage to have sex...meaning for him to lose his virginity and me to have sex again. Most of our close mutual friends ... (120 words)

Has anyone heard of macrolane for your breast enlargement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm thinking of having macrolane injections (boob jab) to increase the size of my breasts before my new bf gets to see me naked-does anyone have experience of macrolane? does it hurt? i'm 32B, wear a padded bra and don't want him to be disappointed. have not had children ... (83 words)

Why doesn't his brother like me...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I would really appreciate some insight on what is happening in my relationship. I've been dating one of my best friends for about 6 months now, and I'm very close to his mom and dad, as he is close to mine. He is also close to my -much- older sister (I say 'much' as to not ... (398 words)

I don't know how to get a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - question dear cupid, will i ever find love i've been lonely all my life. i just can't attract women doesn't matter what i try. i've run out of ideas my life lonely and empty. even when i was at school girls avoid me they never talked to me. all my classmates had girlfriends but ... (67 words)

How can I be intimate with my wife without being selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has been battling vaginal issues for about a year. First, they thought it was yeast, now they think it is bacterial vaginosis, the dr's think she may be allergic to her own estrogen, etc. It's very complicated - and I have read the doctor reports and know she isn't ... (330 words)

Did she lie about being pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago. A few weeks later she told me she was pregnant. I was shocked but happy at the same time and we decided to give things another go. At the time I did think it was a bit convenient for her to be pregnant a few weeks after I dumped her. I ... (218 words)

Boyfriend doing drugs, I know I can do better..but I still don't walk away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current boyfriend for one year and 8 months.. and I'm at a point where I realize I'm too good for him.. but when I'm with him, I'm so happy, until we try to have a conversation.. like a serious conversation. He shuts down. He doesn't know how to have a ... (285 words)

Should I wear necklace ex gave me when I see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been broken up for about a month now. We were together for 2 years and we talked a couple days ago and we're meeting up for lunch next week. he gave me a expensive necklace about a year ago and ive worn it everyday since the day he put it on me. I still havent ... (73 words)

Is he just dragging me along till he finds someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - k so my boyfriend broke up with me.. but i really just can't get over him. he told me he loved me every night but then he went me a message saying he's getting burnt out and that he needs to mature more before having a serious relationship and that he likes to be single.. the ... (95 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to perform oral sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I really want my girlfriend to suck me off. She used to do it a few times when she was drunk but now she won't do it at all. I am the soul pleasure giver and go out of my way to please her every time, sometimes spending hours at a time performing oral sex and penetration. I... (96 words)

Girlfriend got some single guys number at the bar

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it ok for my girlfriend to get some single dudes phone number at a bar? My GF went out with her single girlfriend last night an they were approached by two single guys. Apparently, these guys sat there and hung out with them until close. My GF said she told the guy who... (761 words)

Does what happened mean that I'm straight? CONFUSED

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I’m virgin and was confused all my entire life about my sexuality because I like boys and sometimes I like girls I feel both of them can be sexy but I’m more toward guys, so I’ve decided to date a guy for the first time to try and discover myself. It was only one nigh... (201 words)

What do you think he has in mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've met a wonderful guy after being single for 9 months following a messy split with an ex I was with for 8 years...we've met up a couple of times (movie and dinner, kiss on the cheek at the end), and I think he's lovely! He's officially asked if he can take me out for a ... (111 words)

Why does he ignore me sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i'm 15 and i have a friend who i have a crush on. i've been told by one of my other friends that him and his friends think i'm pretty and have a bit of a thing for me, and we were getting quite close before the summer holidays, we'd talk nearly every day. he would pull me ... (162 words)

We've broke up so why does my ex want to see photos of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my ex boyfriend called me, we've been apart for almost a month and we've been in touch and we still have feelings for each other but he has some past issues, so we cant be together until he solve that issues, but I dont understand him, last night he told me that he ... (190 words)

My girlfriend doesn't feel that I do enough for the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 1 year and 9 months and everything was going smoothly until recently... We are having a long distance relationship at the moment as she still has another year of uni left and I have finished my uni and I am back ... (935 words)

Ugly band fights!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya I've been having some ugly fights. And I want somebody to give me advice or just comment. I'm the drummer for a band and at first everything was fine.They all agreed that I should be bandleader because I started the band and I tell them wat to play(I write the songs) ... (481 words)

Dating one boy but in love with another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - For 7 months this boy has been in love with me and when i found out 4 months later he loved me i found myself in love with him. we could never go out though as i was afraid of what people thought(as he isn't the most popular boy or the best looking). I am now in a deep ... (83 words)

After 3 years of dating, he still can't say he loves me. Should I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After 3 years of dating, my boyfriend has never said I love you. The couple of times I told him (I was terrified of saying it out loud because I thought I might scare him away) he didn't even say he felt the same. I don't need those exact 3 little words, just for him to say ... (272 words)

I like this boy and so does my enemy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do i have been out with this boy about 4 times and ive liked him ever since, he dumped me because we argued but it wasnt like argueing to be honest, it was about stupid things he dont really take things seriously and i have told him that i like him, how do i ... (125 words)

I was going to propose, but not if her "friend" is gonna keep this up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of one year has a guy best friend. They've been friends for years but ever since she and I started the flirting phase (about a week before we got together), he's been a real d-bag to me. Of course, I know he wants her himself but she's with me, ya know? I've ... (340 words)

I want boyfriend's daughter to be an adult and live her life elsewhere!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I recently moved in with him 3 months ago. His 21 year old daughter still lives at home. I am a very laid back person and thought I could deal with her still living at home. For a little bit more info I have 3 ... (285 words)

Should I be worried about my ex's insecure girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have remained friends with my ex who sees our girls every second weekend. He has begun dating someone who is very insecure. He says she's just insecure about me (although I have remarried and have another child, and as I said, he and I ended on a really good note.) However, ... (174 words)

Is my bf cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating or seeing this guy for 4 months. We were seriously dating August 2010 and things were going find. He asked me to be his gf. He text me almost everyday, we say goodnight, mornings and we spent time with each other a couple of times a week. But after his birthday... (472 words)

I'd like to tell my aunt that I want her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So my aunt is single. has been for a few years now. She's not directly related to me, only through marriage. She's 44 or 45, im not to sure, and im 28. I didn't always have a thing for her, but as Ive always had a fancy for women older then myself, it has now developed in... (252 words)

Friends deserted me when I got breast cancer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was diagnosed with breast cancer early this year, i was previously having issues with my closest mate distancing herself from me when she got a boyfriend,before that we saw each other every week(her choice)but she seem to ignore anything i tried saying to her, but when i ... (377 words)

My husband says that I am not his love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - my hubby says i am not his love...1 he used to say that he has fallen in love not physicaly but virt:ualy but now he says he does not know who is love but i am not his love.... 2:he remained conected his collegue;..long cals...e.mails...live chating;..obviouly it was disturbi... (323 words)

My LDR boyfriend is so close to another guy, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut a long story short, I met my boyfriend he's 23 and I'm 19 end of last year. We were both exchange students and met in another country. We've been going out for seven months now. He's a lovely guy, perfect, I've met his parents everything. He was a bit shy at first, still ... (292 words)

Distance broke up our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I went out with a girl for 3 years. I am 29 and she's 23. The first couple of years were great, we were both very much in love with each other, then she went to Spain to finish her studies for a year. At first it was ok, we managed to see each other every month or every ... (481 words)

Is my sensei hitting on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my training. theres another s... (317 words)

My girlfriend isn't comfortable with our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am a 28 year old divorced women with a 6 year old son, i left my husband 3 years ago and have since been in a relationship with another women for 2 years, a had been with other women before her but this is my first gay relationship, she is 23 and this is her fisrt and only ... (249 words)

My boyfriend parties hard and it bothers me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I avoid feeling so bothered and upset when my boyfriend drinks? I don't have a problem with drinking. I do have a problem when the girls at these parties take off their clothes or he starts doing something stupid. I'm not a party person, and I'm not a drinker. So when ... (128 words)

I got caught by my manager kissing a co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help I just got caught by my manager kissing a work mate of mine we been together for just under 3months omg I have no idea what to do! i'm so embarrassed. does anyone know any laws or anything that state we can't do this? I don't know... He not a manager or anything ... (58 words)

Is he ever going to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [MOD NOTE: OP's own title] I met a guy online who seems really normal. We started talking on AIM every night for several hours and we seem to have a lot in common. But he won't ask me out. He did one time, even picking a place, but this hasn't ever been suggested again (du... (181 words)

What can I do to surprise him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I wanted to give him a surprize on our 7th month anniversary. But I am a boring person was wondering what should I do to give him a pleasant surprize. Really wish to do something nice for him? Any ideas please?... (52 words)

I want to be more than FWB! how can I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this guy have been friends for about a yr. but recently this past week and a half we have decided to be fwb. this all started during the trip with some of his family and i told him we couldn't talk to each other when we got back to school since all we are going to be ... (178 words)

I caught my dad on some sites and I don't want to be the cause for divorce!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i realized a few months ago that on my dad's computer there were sites for affairs in the top sites, but the history was cleared. i didn't say anything about it but cried about it and one day he caught me and i mentioned what i saw. he played it off like there were weird vi... (363 words)

I was disgusted by the way my friends party!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - recently I went to a party where I saw some troubling things. I saw some girls and guys that I had respect for do things that really bothered me. I like to have fun and I will drink on occasion but I know where to draw the line. what bothered me at this party was that people ... (501 words)

He cheated on his fiance with me and she doesn't know !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy cheat on his girlfriend, propose to her, vow to never tell her that he cheated on her, and continue talking with the woman that he cheated with, as if everything is fine??? It's a really messed up situation. I'm the woman that he cheated with. We are work ... (338 words)

His mom caught us having oral sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so, me and my ex havent been dating for two years, and we havent really talked either, were teenagers, and his moms psycho, and becuz i got caught giving him oral sex, she dosent want him to talk to me, she practically has the people at our school making sure it dosent ... (285 words)

My boyfriend is so negative about life and I don't know how to help him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure where to start with this, and I'm not sure if I'm worrying over nothing but here's the low down.. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 31 years old. Ever since we were first going out, I picked up on very paranoid parts of his personality which at the ... (973 words)

How can I meet people my own age? I've run out of idea's!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at a total loss as to where to meet decent, single men in their 30's (or even meet women of my age that I could be friends with, preferably who are able to go out once in a while!). Any ideas? I have tried almost everywhere I can possibly think of to meet men of my ... (677 words)

Should I add my cousin on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if my cousin fancies me or not. I know it would sort of be wrong if he did, since we're related, but i'm from the U.K and it is legal to go out with, and even marry a cousin , here. We were at a family party last night, and we danced together. While we were ... (313 words)

I don't want to leave her but I'm fed up of being treated like excrement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, not quite sure where to start as i'm usually the one giving advice never asking. Key points: *My girlfriend is 20 (21 in a week), and i am 20. *We have been together for 4 years 10 months. *We had a very active sex life for the first year and a half as to be ... (479 words)

I have feelings for him but he treats me like his big brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm bi-curios and I love this guy who just treats me as his Big Brother, He still doesn't know that I have this feeling for him, what do I do? Please I need help.... (34 words)

We got into a fight and now best friend doesn't want to be friends anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so I got into a fight with one of my best friends, and now he doesn't want to be friends anymore. The first time I tried saying sorry it was lame, I didn't really express my feelings. The didn't even look at me and when he finally said something his words were cold. I ... (173 words)

Has anyone ever had to cut ties with a close family member?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

- I have to cut all ties with my father. Basically, he is an emotional bully and because of him my whole life I have not had any confidence or self-esteem. Im 27 now and because of how he has made me feel, I am unable to deal with conflicts and arguements with other people ... (270 words)

I want a steady boyfriend and excitement on the side!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I have one of those boyfriends that everyone says is a 'great guy'. And he is. He's generous, good-looking, absolutely adores me and has never betrayed my trust and I don't think ever wants to. I lost my virginity to him at 13 and we've been dating for seven months. ... (421 words)

She's not into her orgasms as much as mine

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My girl seems to like getting me off more than herself during sex. She sometimes pulls my hand or mouth away when I try to give her an orgasm, and begs me to F#ck her instead...but she does not have orgasms from penetration. But penetration is her favorite thing...she says ... (184 words)

I was aroused after being punished by my mom. Freaked out by my feelings!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm embarassed and ashamed but I felt aroused after being smacked by my mom. I got in some trouble at school after being caught lying about why I'd been hadn't been at school. The associate principle gave me a note to take home to my folks. I knew I was gonna be in ... (228 words)

Best friends for 5 years we kissed and now its all weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. Lately my best guy friend of 5 years and I have been getting romantically close and tonight I went over to his place and we ended up cuddling a lot while watching tv. We were cuddling for a good couple hours and I decided to finally lean in and give him a ... (169 words)

Are orgasms stronger from a big one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I've heard that women often experience more intense orgasms when they are with a guy who is very large. I've read about the T-spot, and how only a large penis can reach it, and it is proven to increase wetness and the intensity of orgasms when stimulated. Some women here have ... (127 words)

Just found out I am pregnant, I was doing drugs and drinking and now I'm worried about the baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just found out i'm about 4 weeks pregnant. i got drunk last night and i have drank heavily another 2 times in the past four weeks. i also tried cocaine for the first time when i must have been 3 weeks pregnant. i had about 3 lines and i'm really scared i've done so much ... (141 words)

Cheating Alcoholic BF thinks he can toss us to the street I completely remodeled our home without him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age - I have lived with a bad alcoholic for over 5 years I completely remodeled our home while he worked out of town I caught him cheating for the second time now he says he wants a change because he will not quit drinking and says we are not compatable I do not want to move and I ... (201 words)

My overwhelming jealousy is killing this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always been a very jealous person. But in this relationship I'm in now, I've never been so insanely jealous. My man and I have been together 3 years, he is 31 and I am 22. I used to cheat on my ex with him, and now that we're together, I can't help but pick out all the... (405 words)

I don't know if he is stalling for time or really wants to work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is the story i have been in this LDR for past 10 months . we both love each other but i used to fight alot cause of my insecurities and used to clingy, pouty and even snooped around and over these months we had small break ups and used to get back in a day. but i always ... (330 words)

I feel like boyfriend has sex with me like its a favor!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know for a fact that I am quite attractive and sexy. I love dressing up and showing myself off. I love wearing sexy lingerie and am not afraid to go all-out and adventurous in the bedroom (and OUTSIDE the bedroom). I'm not afraid to put on a wee bit of a show for my boyfriend ... (251 words)

Why did my best guy friend stop talking to me? ...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So..it's been a month. He's acting so different, I feel so useless just waiting for him to go online, but I don't talk to him. I really want to talk but I'm afraid to. He hinted me on about his feelings. it seemed like he was trying to tell me that he likes me...(IM NOT SUR... (410 words)

Is it possible for a guy to remain in love without experiencing "what else is out there"?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same guy for 18 months now and he is a great guy. Before this relationship I had been in several others (although not as long) and had been sexually active, but my boyfriend was a virgin when I started seeing him and I have been the only person he has ... (175 words)

Feelings for my cousin are getting stronger, what do I do?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I understand that we are cousins but that means nothing to me. I only played with her when we were little, and i don't remember a lot from back then. A decade and a half later I found a job that required me to move, and she lives in the area so I moved in. we became best ... (74 words)

I Told my cousin I like her. She said no but we're still good friends.

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - For about a week or two now I have been tormented with a realization. I fell in love with my first cousin. The more I tried to ignore it, and pretend it wasn't there (I live with her and her brothers) the more obvious it became that something was up. (I only hang out with her ... (411 words)

I'm scared I'm pregnant and I'm not with the potential father

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 (nearly 16) and i went to a party where one of my best friend(male) was aand we all got really drunk and then we had sex... i thought nothing else of it because i knew we used protection. about a month later i ate my breakfast and then suddenly felt really il and stated ... (127 words)

Steps to having oral sex?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a virgi nand don't want to lose it.But i plan to have oral sex with a girl...i want to make her feel special....can anybody please tell me the way or steps...actually i m a beginner.... (37 words)

She lied to me about having sex with someone else!

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend dated for 2 yrs and have a kid together..and on the firt day we broke up she had sex with another guy..we got back together and she lied to me for 8 months that she didn't do anything with him and all I do is think about her havin sex with that guy how do ... (66 words)

Virgin and totally freaked out!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I really need some answers. 2 days ago me and my boyfriend were hanging out. I was topless, he wasnt, and i had my underwear and jeans on and he had his boxers and shorts on. He was on top of my and his penis was pretty much on my vagina, but like i said we had our clot... (98 words)

She doesn't love me she says? But I beg to differ.

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (Yes, i know,move on ,many fishes in the sea. I'm a picky person, im not really into relationship nor do i go of and look for one,Take this into consideration. I know im young but its now that counts.) Over her one month vacation she tells me and says '' Where over,i don't want ... (1143 words)

Its so hard to find someone!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 22 going on 23 this March. While that doesn't seem old at all, just this summer I had my first boyfriend. We lasted only 2 months, though it was an experience I guess. He dumped me because we rushed it and he went from crazy about me the first month to wanting nothing ... (477 words)

I like him but I turned down sex and eating out and I'm afraid he feels rejected.

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll go ahead and say up front that I am inexperienced in dating, and take physical intimacy very slowly. Well, I went out dancing with this guy, and when he drew me aside for kissing, his hands started exploring and I was friendly about telling him to stop. Afterwards, he ... (248 words)

My ex is dating my best friend--he promised he wouldn't do that!

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just found out that my ex-girlfriend of a month, who im still crazy in love with, just began a relationship with my bestfriend. i am beyond severly angry at both of them and also feel betrayed, especially since my ex and i agreed we wouldnt date eachothers friends. what ... (53 words)

Will I still be able to satisfy my GF after she has our baby?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody, thnx for spendin some time to read my question, i ve been with my girlfriend for ages and our sex life seems to be great. im average size around 6 inches , and so far im really satisfied with my size and so is my partner since she really enjoys sex as i... (156 words)

My family treated us very badly in the past. I've made amends, but my wife can't get over it!

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 22years, till recently my wife and I were having a fantastic life together. but now there are signs of breaking up and it hurts me. I think my wife is going trough some psychological problem. in the past in the year 1993, my brother and my family ... (164 words)

My GF claims that I don't love her as much as she loves me!

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - just recently i am my girlfriend have been having problems. we meet in school and we are still schooling together. i love my girl friend but i got the feeling that she loves me more and she shows it more than do because i usually have more self control than her when it comes to ... (237 words)

We made love, and then he tells me that he's moving overseas!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have admired this guy for years and recently we got closer and made love. Now he tells me he is going to live overseas next May, the day after we make love. I would never have made love if I knew this. I don't know how to feel or what to say. I don't want to not see him, ... (91 words)

I don't feel anything for my BF anymore!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't feel anything for my bf anymore.. like no spark, no shiver nothing. we've been together for 3 months.. i know its not long but this is my first serious relationship. at first i was COMPLETELY in love with him.. everything about him made me crazy. and now i don't feel.. ... (135 words)

Help! My husband is visiting online singles dating sites!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was talking to my husband and walking into our "home" office and approaching his back as he was sitting at the computer avidly staring at a young, single woman advertising herself as available on match.com. Above the video of her self-interview/monologue was the heading: ... (233 words)

I don't like her choice of sticking with the children's daddy just because he is their daddy!

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have an interesting situation here and it confuses me. I reconnected with a woman i grew up with, and we always had mutual feeling towards each other that never really came out to what we wanted. Ten years pass, then we meet again. We started off just on a platon... (272 words)

How likely is it for a 40 year old to get pregnant?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman who is 40, never been pregnant, and wants to have children. So do I. I'd prefer to be married first, but we are both aware of her biological clock ticking, and marriage may be a while off due to several reasons. My question is... (115 words)

Does he like me, or do I want to believe he does?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started high school a week ago and I like this guy... But I don't know if he likes me or if he has a boyfriend and he's completley mysterious and its so hard to read him... I used to sit by him and he would always smile when I look at him and sometimes seemed so comforta... (84 words)

Was my girlfriend a virgin?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my question about my girlfriend virginity 2 question give me a both answers n help me my girlfriend is 23 yrs old when i put my finger her virgina means her pussy i can easily put my one or two fingers n she didnt feel any pain n my girlfriend said im virgin te... (151 words)

We have nothing to talk about!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have nothing to talk about even when we talk about the day it goes no where help plz... (22 words)

Do guys compare sex with their lovers?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Silly question I have to ask. Well, do guys tend to compare the sex with different partners... I mean.. having a new girlfriend would they wish she would make love as his ex? And is a virgin more appealing than some woman who has had some experience in sex?... (53 words)

He can't take my virginity until he breaks up with his girlfriend!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this boy ive known for years likes eachother problem is that he has a girl,see im a virgin and i wana lose my virginty to him. i really like him. we have fun and everything. i told him he cant take it til he breaks up with her but its tempting because i want him bad. he ... (130 words)

It irks me that I have to initiate sex now!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am way too horny. I shouldn't be this way. I don't orgasm and I only started having sex three months ago. But every time I see my boyfriend, I want him. Tonight we went fishing, he dropped me home and I groped and kissed him like mad in the car. I would have done ... (162 words)

He's hurt me so much, but I still love him!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been with my ex four years. He have hurt me soo much pain but I still love him. He knows the fact that I love him and he take advantage of that. We have been broke up for 5 months and my feelings keeping getting stronger. I think about him every minute but if i go back i am ... (102 words)

Just had unprotected sex, and got my period today. Could I still get pregnant?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well this is a common teen sex question but im looking for an answer but i dont see any that fit my question so here it is. plus a little 2 it. My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex last night, and he used the pull out method. ( i hadnt gotten my period this month yet) ... (175 words)

My sex drive is a lot higher than my husband's

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 year old women. I have been married for 5 years and my sex drive is A LOT higher than my husbands. I think about sex all day everyday. I stay so horny that my lower stomach cramps because i want to have sex with my husband so bad. I could have sex up to 10x a day and ... (127 words)

I'm so paranoid that he's going to cheat on me!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to begin with this really, or even if it's going to turn out as a question.. But I think I'm really doing my own head in here, and it's horrible! I'm engaged and have a baby on the way, me and my man have got our own house, the relationship couldn't be ... (378 words)

Why did my ex call me up last night?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so my ex called me up last night. And I have not heard from her at all today.? Why did she call me last night in not at all today like I dont understan why she would just call me up in say hey and not call me again and yeah she fell a sleep on the phone to with me on it wtf ... (73 words)

I've never had an orgasm EVER! help!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I just turned 40 this year and have never had an orgasim. Nope, not a virgin and have had two children but I don't want to go on without having ever had had one. Please help! ... (37 words)

How do I get my husband to enjoy showing off his sexy wife?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all some advice please, so thanks to good genes and hard work I have a good body and I love showing it off. I like the looks I get and it gives me a lot of confidence. Some people might say I dress like a slut but that's their opinion and I don't care - for the most par... (179 words)

How can I make my teacher aware of my feelings without others knowing?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok So I live in the UK and the the law on having sex is 16 here. So im 18 in December 2010 and i have this major crush on my college teacher, ive been having like 'wet dreams' about him and ive NEVER crushed on a teacher before but hes 26 and hes not married. How can i make it ... (118 words)

I don't think I like my husband anymore!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't think I like my husband anymore. It's a sad thing to say out loud, but I just don't know what else to say. We have been married 10 years (just had our anniversary) we've been together for 17. We have 2 beautiful boys 7 and 5. We,ve always had our ups and downs, but this ... (420 words)

He says he hates his ex, but he still talks and texts her!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, ok so this guy that i like has been with his gf for 8 months and while they were going out, me and him would act like a couple(kissing, flirting, hugging, holding hands,etc.)I thought he would develop feelings for me that way, stupid idea i know. Anyways, he ... (201 words)

I can't stop talking about my exes!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 29 y.o. female. Before I met my boyfriend of 1.5+ years, I had 3 long term boyfriends, a bunch of short term relationships, and a ton of casual dates- in search of finding the guy i could really love. I had my first bf when I was 13 so that is 16 years of dating. On t... (537 words)

I asked him to marry me and he dumped me!

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been going out with my fella for years so i asked him to marry me and his response was to dump me and saying he wasn't in love with me.. will he ever come back... why are men so afaird to commited ?... (51 words)

Is a bit of nervousness in a guy unattractive to girls?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is a bit of nervousness in a guy unattractive to girls (better make that women)? If a guy is a bit nervous when he's talking, isn't it like you can just verbally run over him? Isn't the inability to stay solid/unbeaten kind of the definition of male unattractiveness... (89 words)

Will my boyfriend ever open up to me emotionally?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost three months. We have been intimate for six weeks. I really like him alot and admittedly, feel that I may be falling in love with him. He calls every other day and will send me a couple of emails on the days that we don't ... (219 words)

Was this wrong of me?

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12 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. i started hanging out with this girl [lets call her lola] um so she introduced me to her friends. and then one that i hadnt met, she started going out with him [lets call him bob] so the first time i saw him i was with friends in our town but not with lola. and i saw him, ... (292 words)

I want to travel during the summer!

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12 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I was wondering if there are programs in the summer to go to a country (for example in Paris) not to study just go with a group and learn about the culture/tour it etc. I am a junior in high school too...So do you know if their wicked expensive? Also, if you know of any could ... (61 words)

Does this sound like a friction burn?

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12 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can someone help me i have a sore penis the side and under the head is red and sore. I had unprotected sex with my gf. In the middle I of the session I could keep her stubble rub against my penis it kind of hurt but I didnt think anything of it at the time. The session lasted ... (162 words)