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male
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writes: Ok, I'm an 18 year old male, I starting masturbating when I was around 9 or 10, for a few years my orgasm stayed pretty much the same, but in the lsat few years my orgasm has been diminishing and getting worse and a couple of months ago it got to the stage where I don't have an orgasm at all. I still ejaculate, and the build up to orgasm is mostly the same, but when it actually comes to the end, no feeling whatsoever. I've looked it up on the internet, and I mostly just find articles about female orgasms. I've tried masturbating over many different things and I'm fairly sure it's not a psychological problem... just, can anyone help? it's making me really depressed and it's been ruining my sex life for a long time, I tried to tell my girlfriend and she thought it was her fault so it's ruining my relationship as well, any answers PLEASE?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 September 2010):
I've heard of this happening when you orgasm so much that you're just kind of not horny anymore, so try cutting back to make sure lack of desire isn't to blame.
If the problem persists though, you should definitely go to a sex therapist.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (22 September 2010):
Ejaculation without orgasm is known as anorgasmic ejaculation. The exact cause is not usually known but stress, anxiety or certain medications such as antidepressants are associated with it.
If the problem persists, then you should consult a sex therapist or a urologist for an examination.
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