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female
age
36-40,
*hinu
writes:i m 23 years old.i m bramhin girl.my boy freind neither belongs to my community nor to my caste.we both r from same profession.he is briliant nd s very gud boy.we hd a reltn of 1year.he s ready to acept me in any situation.my parents r compltely against of it.bt wn i think of my family,i think nt 2 continue reltnshp wt him.my mind s alws in dubios condition.i cnt undrstand wheather we v strong lov or nt.pls help me wt to do Reply to this Question
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reader, Princess _008  +, writes (22 September 2010):
first of all i would tell you not to think of eloping with that guy. this is because your family will dislike that guy even more then and will be more reluctant to accept you after your marriage. you certainly do not want to create a bad image of that guy in the eyes of your parent so don't elope with him.
you can try talk to your parents about how he cares for you and about his good part. you can also ask them to meet him atleast for once. and if they found that he is wrong you'll leave him. this is what you tell them. during the meeting, tell your boy to do all the things that you think your family will appreciate. you give him some tips in advance.
if even after that they refuse. then you tell them that you will not get marry to anyone except him and you will certainly not elope because he is against that. if you begin to receive marriage proposals, you just have to refuse all. after all till when they will bear that.. they will actually have to accept
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): if he is a good boy and loves u....and if you think he will remain that way....marry him....good persons are difficult to find....
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