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anonymous
writes:this guy ive been 'seeing' is messing with my headhe has never said we are boyfriend n girlfriend every time he wants to link up its cos he wants to have sex or somethingand a couple months ago i was just ignoring him and started to hate him so much because he wasn't a nice person, and telling people about us and he was de-nying it, and he got angry i stopped talking to him, like proper angryand now we are back in college together, ive started to have proper feelings for him, its like ive hated him for so long i forgot i actually liked him and this sunday just gone i met up with him coz he wanted to talkso we talked everything out, he goes to me 'ur mine and always will be' but he never said he wants to go out with me still :Si dunno what to say to him to get a clear understanding of what he wantsthe way he talks to me is like he twists everything to be my fault n its so believable i believe him, then clock after hes chatting rubbishbut i still like himi just don't know what to do tbh :(((((( Reply to this Question
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reader, tblondie1826  +, writes (23 September 2010):
I've been here, he didn't say those same words but he did tell me he will always care for me and be there for me. But I'd tell people about him and he'd get mad and claim I told people we were together. But I didn't. Anyway, I got tired of his shit even though to this day I still feel something for him(I'm currently in a happy stable relationship). I basically felt like he thought I wasn't good enough to be exclusive with. Like he didn't wanna give up the chance of meeting someone else. Yes, it did hurt to break ties, but I look back now and I'm so glad I did. It's only been about 7 months, but I feel so much better. Goodluck:)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2010):
Avoid him like the plague. All he wants is control over you, which he has. He makes you feel bad like everything your fault, and you've said all he really seems interested in is sex. There's no use you saying you like him, because he's a total waste of time. This is the sort of guy who will use you and ditch you within a few weeks. Why allow yourself to be treated this way?
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