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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Wife doesn't tell me her sex fantasies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Note: Askers own title: My wife has never told me her sexual fantasies. And when I ask she just kind of stares at the cieling and goes "no i havnt really had any." Now I think she is bullshitting me. Why would she do that? ... (52 words)

Is it normal to be attracted to older men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. For the record, I have a ... (98 words)

Are older men better lovers?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that older men make better lovers, due to experience?... (12 words)

I am attracted to my wife's younger, sexier sister

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married for over three years now with my wife. I met her 5 years before that. My wife was really good-looking when I met her, but a couple of months before the wedding she began to gain weight, at least 20 lbs. from what I can tell, and most of it went right to her thig... (199 words)

Should a 20 year age gap matter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I like this man who is 20 years older than me. I'm 26 and he is 46. He winks at me everytime he sees me, which, by the way, i haven't seen him do to anyone else, just me, and he always gives me a kiss. He has also said that he thinks i'm gorgeous, and ... (565 words)

What should I do if the boy I am madly in love with, dates somebody else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so depressed!! What should I do if the boy I am crazy in love with go outs with another girl he has only knew for 3 weeks?? I am not sure if he loves me as much as I love him, but I highly believe that we have a chance at being together!... (55 words)

Should I dwell on a drunken kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Sunday night I was drunk and My roommate had a girl over he has been dating and she kissed me, just friendly she was drunk too. I didn't think anything of it, but kidding he said kiss him again with some tongue, I didn't think she would actually do it, and she did and I pulled ... (103 words)

Confused about this man and unsure what to do next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote last week about my friends brother stroking my hair behind my ear and asking if it was a flirting gesture, well this week, I don't know what has happened but all of a sudden he has been mean to me and then today he has been nice to me. I just wonder what his motives... (284 words)

I am jealous of my friends moving forward when I appear to have stopped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks in advance to those that read this, I need an ear, I finished uni this summer and had to move back home with my parents, and I'm still trying to find a job. I have little in the way of friends; as many have moved on and my best friend left the country for New ... (223 words)

I really like him but now am not sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting to know this guy.. i like him and i think he likes me too.. even though he hasn't said anything. i have free minutes and we talk all the time..but i feel like am the one who's always calling him. he texts me sometimes.. last night in my dreams i saw ... (163 words)

I'm so in love with my husband's brother!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

23 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello I'm so in love with my husband's brother. We've being having a secret relationship for more than a year and a half now. I live with his parents and my husband is in jail so it makes it easy to go with him. He makes me so weak, I try to say no but I end up giving in. I kn... (119 words)

Was leaving his cell phone number for business or pleasure???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had emailed a guy at a bank (on business email account) that I thought was attractive. Thanked him for his help and that I owed him. I said "How about a drink sometime?" He wrote back (on business email) it was a pleasure doing business with me. He also left his personal cell ... (66 words)

Do emotionally unavailable men... aware they have this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do emotionally unavailable men, guys who are scared to committing in exclusive relationships, the type that always like to keep their options open.. do they know they have this problem in themselves? They know how to woo a girl, and treat them nicely, and perhaps really l... (130 words)

Am I just being an obsessive girlfriend or is he just not that into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out since january. At first we texted all the time. I swear there was hardly a text where he didn't answer me.Every e-mail was answered, he was never to busy for me and i him. We saw eachother everyday in class because thats just how it was. ... (511 words)

Do guys pay attention to how fat or skinny we are when we have sex with them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! All my life (or at least a majority of it) I've been self-conscious about my body because I have a lot of body hair, small breasts, and have a little pudge (not fat but just a little belly). Well up until just recently, I've thought of how much I hate it and have come to ... (111 words)

My girlfriend is insecure and controlling...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years now. When I met her, I was working night shift at a gas station. In the past three years I have decided to go to college, I am a junior majoring in biochemistry, and I am planning to apply for a Phd program. I am extremely busy with ... (311 words)

Work crush... how do I handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have a crush on a guy at my current work place. We are both interns and not getting paid for working, it's just work experience. The placement doesn't have a finish date, we are just working on a project and hoping to get funding which will be used to pay us from then... (423 words)

Should I mention my ex to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a break up 6 months earlier, now i had moved on and have a new boyfriend. I have not told him about my ex boyfrnd coz he loved me since we where in school. Should i tell him about that, leave the thing as going on coz everything is well and we are happy and satisfied ... (61 words)

Why oh why don't they like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - At lot of girls i know at school don't like me and call me names like 'you're weird, go away'. But the thing is they don't even know me, just my name. Why don't they like me? I play for the school A team in football, I'm one of the top 10 athletes in my year and i know, talk to ... (79 words)

He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. He is a drug addict. I used ... (209 words)

What's my next move???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok,so this guy and I have been hanging out at school and stuff and he flirts with me, he hugs me all the time. So we were talking about how I caught my boyfriend holding another girls hand and he hugged me and I said I was going to cry and he ran his finger under my eye and ... (181 words)

Moodiness from him because I won't take things further...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Would a guy who's in love with you lose interest and just simply not talk to you if you refuse to take things further with him? Or is it genuinely hard for him to do so? (Also considering the fact that the two were good friends before emotions came into play)... And also, ho... (103 words)

Since she moved away she's not paying the same attention to me... advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she wants to see me and i make ... (237 words)

I need to know how do you get a guy interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 years old and I've never had a relationship. I really need to know wat im doin wrong guys! I recently met someone, who i'm really attracted too and i felt that the feelings were mutual. I sent him a message letting him no that I'm interested, and I feel quite ... (74 words)

How do I fix things and get them back to how they used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and everything was going great up until about a month ago and then things changed drastically. He wanted me to open up and voice when I have a problem but it seems as though when I do that he shuts down as if he's ... (435 words)

What is the likelihood that their relationship will last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my husband around a year ago because he was verbally and physically abusive to me. We are still married but don't live together, even though we weren't living together we were still spending time together as a family having a sexual relationship with each other and even ... (181 words)

He claims to love me yet he slept with someone else because he needed sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am 29 years old and have been in the same realtionship for 7 years. 5 years ago my boyfriend made a move 2000 miles from me with my blessing, for work. I told him if we could survive a year apart I would move. With the economy, not being able to sell my house and my f... (436 words)

Should try and salvage whatever is left of our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I want all you guys opinions on if this 'relationship' is worth saving. Me and Jake* had the typical highs chool romance. We went out from when we were 14 until we were 16. Ok 2 years may not sounds like much, but when your in high school its an eternity, believe me. We ... (836 words)

How do I proceed in this friendship without making her annoyed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I noticed this girl who has crush on me, I showed her my interest thru her close friend who knows everything about me and her, so i got a positive response as she came to see me the next day, but after few days when i tried to talk to her, she pretended she never saw me, she ... (176 words)

My love of 3 years just moved out because she is confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - 14 days ago i received the most shocking new of my life. My girlfriend of 3 years told me that she wanted to move out and get a place of her own because she was confused about a lot of things. We were engaged two years ago but i lied to her (yes it was my fault and i admit ... (965 words)

Discomfort...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a very embarrassing question but, last night my boyfriend touched me down below for the first time and it hurt a bit so I told him to stop and today it still feels a bit uncomfortable, I don't know if this is because of him touching me or because I shaved that day? Can ... (58 words)

Ideas needed. What can I do to get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy!! well i am just your average 16 year old i like to go clubbing shopping and basically living my life to its fullest! even though my mum doesnt know i go out into town clubbing i still do it :) anyway were i live they are a group of lads that everyone knows and... (209 words)

I'm starting to feel like a doormat and don't trust her, so how do I include her in my birthday planning?

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23 September 2010 (M)

age - ive been in a close relationship with a woman for 2 yrs now. lately ive gotten to where i do not trust her and feel like im being used like a doormat. this is unacceptable, tho she shows signs of caring etc. my birthday is next wednesday. she asked me a few weeks ago what i ... (81 words)

How do I get over the devastation caused by his getting another woman pregnant and marrying her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok me and my baby daddy was together for almost 13 yrs. bout the last two yrs its was more off and on with us even tho that we didnt have the boyfriend/girlfriend title but we was still doing things as we were and a relationship. my daughter and i often go over his house but ... (229 words)

His friend told me my boyfriend 'was not an angel' the entire 3 years we've been together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - bf cheated on me and i found out after 1 month break i thought everythng would work out and here i find out that he has been seeng someone else the entire month and according to his friend was 'not an angel' the entire time we were together for 3 yrs! I dont know how but i ha... (116 words)

Feeling a bit guilty about talking to an old date, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in an amazing relationship, but I've realized that I need to make more friends in order to balance everything out. I spend almost every weekend at my boyfriend's place. We don't see each other during the week, because he works full time, I go to school, but we stay in c... (378 words)

He's gone from being a gentleman to being loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a college friend that I have known for 8 years. When we met, it was wonderful and pleasant. A real gentleman he was. Now, he is loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting. He always want to have special dinner evenings in public. When I dress up, he still has the ... (88 words)

What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i want to try new postions in bed and we both want to be pleased but we cant find any that please us both. What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?... (38 words)

Why do girls stay with cheaters?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does a girl stay with a cheater or essential give them a another chance. And then EXPECT to be treated like the only girl in the world or push something that isn't there to begin with. Often times i find that they were lacking what they wanted BEFORE a guy even cheated... (269 words)

Is it normal not to enjoy sex at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal not to enjoy sex at all? When me and my bf have sex i really dont enjoy it always seems to hurt no matter what way we do it, we've tried different types of condoms but thats not helping at all. I feel a lot of friction down there so we tried lube but that didnt ... (125 words)

How to make a decision to date the new guy or the ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just hoping someone who may have been in a similar situation could give me some advice. Im dating a guy for 2 months now and I am crazy about him. We always have a good time. Im not sure where we stand right now- havent had any discussions about being exclusive but we ... (258 words)

How bad is this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend recently confided in me that her and her husband of 6 years (they have kids too) have been having a difficult time lately. Apparently they had a very heated argument one night and he said something extremely hurtful and she (in the heat of the moment) struck him. He ... (172 words)

Only a small amount means ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Are there any other reason other than masturbating or cheating that a man will cum with only a small amount when having sex?... (23 words)

Men: Is sex a chore and not enjoyable?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you men that focus only on performance during sex take sex as being a chore instead of enjoyment?... (19 words)

Tell me to be sensible! College professor likes me and I like him too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out my uni professer likes me and I'm in turmoil. I am a mature student and I like him too. I don't know what to do, so far I have just been avoiding him. It is driving me nuts. I want to be sensible about the whole thing. He is divorced and a bit older than me. ... (171 words)

I messed up! How do I get my family back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend has finished me after 5 months she is 3 months pregnant it was my fault she left i was arguing with her she says its over and has barred me from phoning her im sorry i know it was my fault i hold my hands up . i have a little boy with a previous partner i have to ... (210 words)

His conversation really hurt me! should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This conversation put tears in my eyes but I said nothing, I just sucked it up. Now I think that as conversation was on IM so maybe I misunderstood and I had no reason to be upset. Hi I would need some honest opinions about this conversation because i am really... (329 words)

I think my straight friend is flirting with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I got a question that involves my friend. Im bi (but no one knows lol) and his straight. Im not sure if this is all in my head but im starting to think that his flirting with me a little bit. He keeps touching me, and, like, keeps hinting things to me :/. And by that I ... (104 words)

Men with low sex drive..do you think about sex less often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - To men with low sex drive: do you think about sex less than usual? do you masterbate to keep from having sex with your partner because you are not in the mood?... (32 words)

Men: why are you quiet during sex?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - To the men only: Why is it that some of you hold back from moaning or making noises during sex? Are you focusing too hard on your performance? ... (28 words)

Falling in love after losing the love of your life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - please, can i really fall in love after losing the love of my life in secondary school... (17 words)

Why is he complaining when we have sex almost every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Why does my fiancee constantly complain about our sex life when we have sex just about every day? At worst, four times a week. He constantly complains about not getting enough sexual attention. It is getting REAL annoying and I'm on the verge of leaving ... (159 words)

First True Love Never Lasts. Prove me wrong

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alrighhhtty, We'll cut to the chase. The love between my ex and I is well..confusing.So I'm asking for help, any advice, thoughts and suggestions. Help me out here! Get this, I went to middle school with my ex, totally didn't know each other til we re-met at his old j... (276 words)

Can I at least try to get my teacher to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's handsome, funny, nice.. everything anyone would want. He doesn't exactly flirt with me, but he's usually very friendly with me and has been so nice to me ever since I started that school, I know there's probably not any hope for us, so ... (119 words)

Three years and no proposal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with the same guy for 3 years now. We have a daughter together and all of our friends say they are jealous of our relationship because we never fight. We know everything about eachother. The only thing I dont have is an engagment ring or a wedding ring. My best friend ... (73 words)

I am not sure whether or not my girlfriend and I actually broke up or on a break?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am not sure whether or not my girlfriend and I actually broke up or on a break? Both terms have been used and we talked for two weeks straight and things seemed to be getting better (she said so) and she wanted to see me last weekend. She wanted me to stop telling people I ... (207 words)

Her party ways and flirting are going to doom this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok my girlfriend is in liverpool due to University so we're in a long distance relationship she's always going out partying and flirting with males (you can see in the pictures) She claims she's not cheating but honestly I think she is. How can I stop being so jealous this is ... (60 words)

I just want to laugh again..will I be able to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 25yrs. I have stopped laughing altogether for 5 years. I went to the doc today and he gave me cilift anti-depression drugs.When the meds start to work and I am on them will I be able to laugh again?I just want to laugh again. Please reply... (49 words)

Do men talk serious subjects with girls who are just their friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men talk about "serious" topics like marriage, kids and future to women who are not their girlfriends and just "friends"? When a man starts talking about marriage and kids does it mean he really is interested in you as a long term prospect? Would a man be comfortabl... (77 words)

My dad's side of the family is causing trouble for my fiance and I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the weekend, I just got engaged. We've been together for a year and a half, live together and are elated. His family is very happy, so are our friends and well as my dad (and his wife) and my brother. The problem is my dad's dad and his wife, as well as my dad's brot... (373 words)

She's not scared to lose me, is that a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend was really depressed and she was telling me how her life was all messed up and how her mum was making her feel miserable. at the end of it she said i love you don't you forget it. and then when i asked her if she's scared to lose me she said she wasn't scared of ... (69 words)

With my baby's mama but in love with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 23 yrs old. I am currently with my babys mama. I have lost the love that I had for her, and I feel obligated to stay n the relationship becuz we have a 2yr old daughter together. Idk wat to do?? I feel like I'm wasting my time with not bein happy, and I met another ... (107 words)

What does it mean when they say "do it harder"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. i have a lil bit weird question lol what do girls mean by '' F/// me harder '' or when shes like '' harder harder '' !!! does that mean that guy is not doing well in bed or maybe thats the way the girls shows that they like it thnx... (57 words)

He cheated and I just don't feel his love enough.

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a relationship for 3 years. My boyfriend *Alan cheated twice in the beginning of our relationship (ex girlfriend and a woman that goes to his gym where he works.)I didnt deal with it at the time as my mind was else where with my mum being ill. Things have ... (410 words)

Why doesn't he touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been totally crazy about this guy for years...he knows it and has shown a interest as well...he has a major problem in my eyes...he lets me rub all over his body...Yes, I have even rubbed on his crotch...but nothing has went further...but that isnt my question..my question ... (185 words)

He wanted to see me in my bra and made me cry, now doesn't want to chat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 27 yr old girl and deeply in love with my chat friend who was my colleague in previous organisation but different country...after i left for another job we kept chatting and exchanging emails and photos. He also says he loves me. recently after 3 months of chats ... (128 words)

How do they manage to sleep at night, tormenting others all day?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I need to talk to someone about this. Today I gave notice in my job and I feel utterly deflated. Having been in the job for less than a year, everyday in that office has been a living HELL - to put it mildly. Despite being qualified with honors, I am treate... (1101 words)

Should he not relieve himself in front of me even though I didn't mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i know this question isn't as serious as some on here but i just wanted to know peoples advice . ive been with my boyfriend for four months and our sex life is good and getting better we both work shifts so we had to be up early today at 4am i slept at his house ,well ... (189 words)

What is needy behavior that turns men off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all! I just got broken up with after a year plus relationship. The reasons given where that I am too demanding and most of all I am too needy. Not things a girl wants to hear but I am starting to think that maybe there is some truth in the statements as this is not the ... (127 words)

No sex...no job

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now that i have the job she still ... (127 words)

Much older man does he want to pursue a relationship with me??

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23 September 2010 (F)

When another guy wants me than he'll show he likes me

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that i knew since high school and when i went away to college which is only one state away was when he started telling me he really likes me.But he never calls though he text like every single day from day to night.He wrote me a poem describing his feelings ... (110 words)

I'm clueless about what to buy him for our first anniversary present, and it's tomorrow!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need some help. Tomorrow my boyfriend and I celebrate one year of relationship. He already got me an anniversary present, but I haven't yet. I don't know what to get him, I'm short with money at this time, so I don't know what would he appreciate. I feel bad that he... (154 words)

Jealousy and insecurity are causing major rifts in our relationship

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help - I'm scared our relationship is gonna end soon. I've been with my boyfriend nearly 8/9 months. We're both in love. But the problem is little things cause insecurities, arguments etc. He was with someone for 8 years before we got together. It has caused ... (493 words)

Any advice on how to deal with my pregnant flatmate

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My flatmate and I get on just fine, but we're not particularly close. We both work late hours and like our own space, so we mostly just stay out of each other's way. A few weeks ago, I started to sense something was wrong. She kept telling me she was fine, until she eventually ... (229 words)

Smoking at 18 and mum still doesn't know! Help!

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I guess this is a dumb situation but basically, I've been brought up knowing how bad smoking is and everything - my mum is very against it. Problem is, though, I've been smoking for the last two years and I'm yet to tell my mum. I hate being dishonest with her because we're ... (122 words)

Did my boyfriend have a midlife crisis or was it that he just couldn't keep it in his pants?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with a guy for 7yrs and we were blissfully happy up until last November. He is 3yrs older than me. We bought a house last November which he probably pushed for more than I did but we both knew it was the right decision deep down. After that everythi... (656 words)

I feel like having sex with another guy and then going back to my ex is wrong!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I hope i get some replies from this because I really need help. So I've been dating this guy(Guy A)for about 2 years. The first year was great everything was fine but there was always this girl that would cause conflicts with our relationship. So after a year my ... (380 words)

I'm 15, I lost a child and I'm still craving one!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old and I'm craving a child. I know many other people have asked about this but I feel my situation is somewhat different and would like specific advice please. 11 months ago today I had a miscarrige; I was almost 4 months pregnant, with a girl, but had only fou... (341 words)

Is he dreaming of having sex with the other woman?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again.... I have a second or shall I say third delima. Now since my husband and I are tring to work on our marriage......we dont have sex anymore like we use to. Since I found out about this affair and the possible baby we have had sexmaybe twice.... Now the hard part for ... (115 words)

He's suddenly ignoring my texts! What should I do?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi to everyone here..i had a problem..well,thereis a guy n i m having a trong crush over him.in starting,for 2-3months we jus met at work daily for 4-5mins,he use to talk to me,i thought he was interested in me.then,later,i also got interested...then,he asked me to go out with ... (148 words)

Serial cheater? 3rd relationship I've cheated in

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a good relationship for about 9 months but in these 9 months I have managed to cheat on my partner several times, he has forgiven me for this but this is the third relationship I have done this in, I never used to do this before then, I can see a future wiv my ... (102 words)

Should I tell her of my feelings or just keep them inside?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone :) So this may be a long post, for which I apologise in advance. Ok well it was late 2008 that I first met the absolute love of my young life, I shall call her L. The problem being that I was a year 9/10 student and she was my 30 something psychology teacher/... (482 words)

She's 16 but lied and told me she was 18 and now I have feelings for her!

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a month younger than myself. ... (251 words)

Annoying ex co-worker--I've started hiding from her because she always comes around

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help guys! I used to work with this girl who was very insecure and nosey. She always used to poke her nose in eveyones business, was opinionated and invited herself to everything everyone was doing. She left our company 5 months ago- thank goodness but still keeps ... (396 words)

Was I his one night stand?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello to everyone! There is this man that I have been seeing on and off since 2005. He is very affectionate and I cannot help but become shy around him. My mother told me to choose him --a week before she died! I fought hard not to be with him because I felt he deserved someone ... (107 words)

Convincing a shy girl to wear a bikini?

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how can I convince to wear a bikini. she is a shy type.... (13 words)

One week after breaking up he hasn't even tried to contact me

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me (25 yrs old) and my bf (28 yrs old) of 3 months have had a rocky relationship from the start. first few weeks he was wonderful guy but then i realised he'd been sending sexual texts to other women. I confronted him, he apologised and we stayed together. although most of the ... (360 words)

Is it his love or lust or just passing time?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a cousin who has fallen in love with me. before that we were very close to each other. he was always joking with me and me also i like him a lot.(just like a cousin) however since the past weeks while having a chat with him on the internet he says that he loves me. he ... (369 words)

I like her but she's trying to set me up with her friends!

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl a lot, shes been a close friend of mine for awhile. But I want more, over the summer we had a fling. Then it ended until school started. Now we are back to being friends the same way we were before, back when she liked me. The first time I kissed her, i fe... (286 words)

My mother emailed this friend and told him I loved him and now he's uncomfortable!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sure this sounds unusual, especially being I'm 31 yrs old and my mother's 50, but the guy I love knows I love him, because my mother told him. I'd already told him I like him, but not that I love him, until after my mother did. We were attracted to eachother the moment ... (246 words)

I'm in love with him but he's living with his pregnant girlfriend!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - currently me and my ex boyrfriend, who i have known for three years, have been seeing each other since the summer. We worked together in the summer and we were just friends. As the summer went on, we ended up having relations. The only thing is that he has a pregnant ... (196 words)

How I should keep this relationship because I want to eventually hangout

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. we met when we were kids, and now were 21. she had a huge crush on me as kids now we just started talking online as friends. we has some fun convos. and this is the ending of one of the comments she left me. im so into talking to her but im trying to keep it frien... (176 words)

I have erection problems and we have different sex drives...this is becoming a real problem

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23 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I'm 41 years old and having erection problems I just dont understand because I never had this problem before. I started my current relationship of 1 year with my sexy girlfriend on a bit of a rocky ground. I was getting over a rough divorce, lost my job and was nervous as hell ... (583 words)

Am I crazy for loving someone I've never met in real life?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and he's 22...and he lives in France. We met by chance on chat roulette in April and we talked every day on aim/facebook chat/google chat and webcam ever since then. We even send each other text messages almost everyday. We are both naturally modest and a little shy, we ... (443 words)

Bad boyfriend has me believing that no one else would want me!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well i have been with this guy for 8 years. iam 24 i was 15 when i got with him. when we first got together we was happy my mom realy liked him. well about 3 years later i found out he was doing drugs behind my back. we would fight all the time and i would leave him alot of ... (168 words)

LDR breakup so hard because I don't have friends around me

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently broke up because of the strain of a long distance relationship. The breakup has affected me greatly because of the sudden loss in attention and just being able to talk to her everyday. So I was wondering what should I do to get over her? I don't ... (82 words)

Boyfriend's family kicked him out...

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i need some help guys. My boyfriend, 19, just recently got kicked out of his house because his family doesn't want him anymore. They think he causes nothing but trouble, and misfortune for the family and that he's just a waste of space and money. He tried so hard to help ... (330 words)

My foreskin doesn't retract and it causes me pain

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - when my penis is erected, forskin will not come out to reveal my head of the penis. If i force to pull the forskin to reveal head it pains me alot. i feel becuase of this i am not able fuck my wife for long time. usually i cum very fast like 3-5 mins. pls suggest for this issue ... (68 words)

I don't feel bad for cheating on my boyfriend...

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my boyfried of 4 years. I am 22 years old and I never thought that I would do such a thing. My boyfriend is an extremely nice person. He has incredible values and he appreciates me very much. Now this is my dillema, I cheated on him 2 months ago with a guy that I ... (447 words)

I can't get wet anymore.

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] I'm 18 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. For a long time we were very sexual and I was always wet, very wet. Now, I'm never wet. Sometimes, I'll try touching myself before sex but it doesn't work. He makes me horny and i alwa... (124 words)

Should I expect to talk to her again?

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] Ive asked the question before on this site, but i feel like i didnt get much perspective on it. Anyways, ill simplify my story. Me and my girlfriend for the past year had a great relationship, i had trust issues that we worked out until the last month... (736 words)

Is it normal to have sexual thoughts just out of the blue?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to have sexual fantasies/thoughts while doing everday things? such as school or just sitting at home watching TV? It's been happening to me alot lately. No I'm not sexually active as a matter of fact I'm still a virgin - I've never had a boyfriend. Should I act on ... (59 words)

I'm very attached to my boyfriend! how can I get over this?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for taking the time to read my question! Well, there's a somewhat emotional issue I've been trying to deal with over the last couple months that has been bugging me quite a bit...and it's gotten better, but I thought maybe some of you guys could give me a word of advic... (424 words)

Should I send him pics, or should he be respectful of my decisions?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost a month wants pics but im not that comfortable about it. He is sorta mad about it because I said idk. Its also a semi long distant relationship. I really like him! Should I do it or should he be repectful of my decisions? ... (48 words)

Is he stringing me along like everyone else says?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a boyfriend over the summer but he had to go back home afterwards. (he lives VERY far away) We probably wont be able to see each other for at least a year, but we were talking/skyping everyday for a week after he left. now its getting more infrequent. we promised each ... (165 words)

Should I give it time?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just ended a bad relationship of 8 years in which i did not love this man but came out with a 4yr old daughter. I saw one of my ex bf at a wedding and he was there with his girl friend. so long story short we end up going out on a date and we had so much fun i am liking him a ... (438 words)

Super complicated relationship, should I trust her again and give her another chance?

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi well its started we met online on msn, she used to love and tell me that she loves me so much but i was with another girl so i kept blocking her and telling her that i love another girl till a day me and the other girl argued together so i went to her and in my mind i was th... (709 words)

He is talking to ladies online and won't stop!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi, My boyfriend of four years spends all his free time in chat rooms I have discovered 1o5 contacts all females . I read numerous sexual conversations he has initiated, denies he has a girlfriend , I've confronted him several times he tells me he's bored, it's just for fun and ... (169 words)

I'm feeling insecure lately and my boyfriend is making it worse!

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear aunts and uncles, i'm feeling insecure lately and my boyfriend just making it worst so about a month ago i found on his phone a picture of a naked girl it was from a magazine i was mad but we worked it out but i'm quite not over it when i think about it i feel like ... (231 words)

Personality change for the worse?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've just started my third year of high school. I havea friend I met in my first year who I'm sort of close with. At the beginning she was shy, but polite and I (recently having been through a family ordeal) was aggressive and outspoken. Being so shy, I was one of her only ... (277 words)

How do I change her demands to see me every single day without her going crazy?

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23 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a gf of 10 months who i meet daily because she wants me to. If i dont then she starts those "i know u gettin bored of me" lines. The thing is its just not possible meetin every day in her house for more than 6 hours. its almost a live in relationship which i really dont ... (99 words)

Emotionally weighed down, boyfriend not like he used to be?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I helped dye my boyfriends hair black. I did it to make him happy because he's been kinda down lately. But after that he's not like he used to be. Now he wears a dog collar, and adding a ton of black to everything. He talks really depressingly too.. and is getting ... (205 words)

Torn between my brother and the man I love

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old female. I live in the same house as my 24 year old brother, and have fallen in love with one of his closest friends. I tried talking to my brother about dating his friend, but he says its weird and stops talking about it. Actually, he stopped talking to me ... (159 words)

My ex, who says he wants to get dating other girls out of his system, wants to date girl number two. What do I do?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So 3 months ago I caught my (ex)-boyfriend of 2 years (we started dating when he was 18, now he's 20 and I am 4 years older than him and 24) flirting with another girl (let's call her Girl #1--she happens to be your atypical "hot girl"). After a month of him refusing not to ... (609 words)

Should it be an "i do" or a "i don't"

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am about to get married next yr in Apirl, everything was going good when my fiance ask me do i think we doing the right thing. I told him that if he love me the way i love him that we was. well he said that the love thing is there but he was having a lil doubt..I was a little ... (342 words)

My friend is asking me about sex? what do I say?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend thinks I know loads about sex because I know the answers to health questions she asks about sex and know words like dental dams/guards, coitus interuptus, etc. The irony is, she has way more experience! I've only had one lover and only for three months. But, she ... (172 words)

Why can't he keep it up longer than 10 mins?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my man cant keep it up longer 10 min but some times he can go longer but not that oftfen i just want to know why that is we do the same stuff we do when he goes longer so why does he some times go for 10 min ... (53 words)

Help, I can't get over this guy! Am I in love?

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23 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there was this guy i like in my year and he was sweet and funny and cute .. He always looked at me and winked and we flirted etc..I never felt like this with another guy,,Usually its like ''Oh he looks cute,lemme get to know him''But with him i felt like i was in lo... (294 words)