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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he a FWB or a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend doesn't know if shes boyfriend and girlfriend with this guy shes been having sex with. she likes him alot. but every time she wants to see him, he says yes we will meet up but then when she calls him he would tell her hes busy or not around. and then text... (116 words)

I've done nothing wrong and I end up in this situation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I met this girl on a trip away when we were both still in relationships. It went really well and we both ended up breaking up with our partners to be together. Her ex ended up in hospital after being beaten up and she was asked to go visit him. She ended up kissing him..... (150 words)

Help!!! We broke up but I still love him very much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend n I still love him so much. He went back to his home town for a week he used to call me every day and when he came back ,the first thing he did was to tell me that he was back home safe after he came back, he was different he never came to see me I ... (177 words)

Wanting to sleep over at the boyfriend's house...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now, and before that we were best friends. He used to live across the street from me, so my parents know him well. I have never asked my mom if I can sleep over his house, until 5 days ago. Me and my b... (471 words)

Can't get over a break up from last year

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I can't get over an old "FWB"/casual relationship. We were "together" on and off for almost a year, and it ended about a year ago. It was emotional torture for the entire time because he would tell me how much he liked me, then back away.. over and over an... (188 words)

Who is this strange boy and what do these dreams mean?

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10 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I have been having strange dreams about a boy I do not know. He is tall with brown hair and tanned white skin. Why do I have these dreams? As I have said before I like my next door neighbor but his boy is well.... Very handsome. I don't know him and no one in school fits this ... (75 words)

We're dating but I don't know why I feel like this. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend started dated only 9 days ago. We like each other a lot. We do the normal boyfriend girlfriend stuff, hold hands, kiss, etc. Well he's my first boyfriend ever. We barely ever talk to each other when we're with each other. Usually its just quiet and we're ju... (305 words)

I need ideas! How can I make my friend feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so my best friend, sam, ALWAYS has a bf, and is always talking about her prioblems with him, and because i have never expirienced anything like it, i never know what to say, so a few weeks ago her latest boyfriend(john) had asked her to go a bit further with him, and she ... (143 words)

How do I change where we are in our relationship right now and how do I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. I am 20 years old and he is 30. He is one of the most serious relationships ive been in. i dated in school but nothing serious and i wasnt sexually active with any of them. And then when i graduated i was single and after 4 ... (1712 words)

She doesn't want me to give her oral... how can I change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year, i am her first sexual partner and we have sex often but she doesn't want me to go down on her because she says that she doesnt like the smell when i kiss her after, but i really love doing it. Is their any tips to ... (67 words)

How can I leave more of an impact on people when I first meet them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and my problem is that i dont leave much impact on people when i first meet them. i mean they dont really remember me much. I am not at all shy but i never talk much to new people. i dont know what to talk about, even with my friends i dont talk much so i dont get too ... (104 words)

Vaginal exercises???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My boyfriend and I have sex every night and every morning. He says its not enough for him. What do I do? The reason I dont want to have sex is because I get so wet that I cant feel alot of thrusting or anything but he says I'm so tight. Is there any exercises that I c... (91 words)

Why does it take people so long to get over someone and why do they hang around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why does it take people so long to get over someone and why do they hang around? Especially when they know the end isn't going to be pretty, or their isn't anything there.Nothing. I'm asking this from both prospectives. For example, there's a guy that has fallen f... (218 words)

I'm in love and I don't want to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have a problem that most of you have already come across. I think I am in love with my best friend. I don't want to be, but I can't stop thinking about her. It also limits me from the things I can do with her as the best friend, because I get embarrassed. A... (140 words)

Could my lacking in these areas be caused by the way she treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age - My ex girl friend used to criticize, put me down, feel her way was always right, from the way i drove the car to the way I made love. She would say i was not affectionate enough, did not give enough complements and that I was not romantic to her. Could my lacking in these... (69 words)

How do I go about asking this woman out on a date? No experience in this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age - i keep getting funny looks from this woman i see every day she smiles at me and i found out she's single like me and has no children, i was wondering how to approach her... i don't want her to be frightened off. i have no experience with asking women out, i've never done it ... (79 words)

How do I approach this girl? I'd love to go out with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ive just started year 9 at a new school where everyone knows each other and anyway the teacher asked this boy to show me around and he turned out to be quite popular and he introduced me to everyone including this gorgeous girl who started to flirt with me. Later at lunch time ... (207 words)

My boyfriend does not want to have sex with me anymore since I became pregnant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is not interested in having sex with me anymore since i got pregnant, my son is seven months now and its the same, he only wants to penetrate and then finish himself after like two minutes and thats it, why is this happening we have been together for two years ... (53 words)

What else can I try to get rid of these stretchmarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have really bad strech marks on the backs of my legs, thighs, hips, bum and breasts, what can i do to get rid of them? I've tried loads :( please help... (33 words)

Boyfriend has already been there, done that and it concerns me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend and I know this because seeing him happy and smiling warms my heart. I respect him as a person, a man... His flaws are a part of him and I accept them as he accepts mine. I don't look for other men and just holding his hand contents and soothes me. I haven't ... (174 words)

Husband calling chat lines all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need some advice this is driving me crazy! I just found out that my husband has been calling these chat lines they advertise on TV. This is not just once or twice; he is doing this excessively causing us to go over our minutes on our phone bill. He has done this in the ... (251 words)

I told him I was pregnant, he said he was fine but now he's not talking to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I'm losing the father of my baby to be. I told him that I was pregnant and he flipped!!! Then he said he was fine! But now he isnt talking to me? Im so confused. I want to keep the baby but would it be the best for it? I dont want to be a failure in life just because I ... (91 words)

He left me for his old g/f he found on facebook, so why is he acting this way now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my husband for 8 yrs... All of a sudden he found an old GF on Facebook... He talked to her 2 weeks and decided to ddrop everything for her, he says things are going good for them and they get along good.. house and all. It has been a full month already.. ive moved ... (160 words)

I don't want to lose her friendship, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i've just started 6th form at my school and we have quite a few new people and i have become quite good friends with two of them. One of them a girl really likes the other and told me so but i really like this guy too i havent told her so because i dont want to hurt ... (69 words)

Found out booty call guy no longer returning phone calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age - Here's the deal: A woman finds out that F Buddy/Booty Call had a GF. When the GF was told of his actions he in turn got very angry and left very nasty messages. Now the woman hasn't heard from him in several weeks. What do you make of his extended period of silence a... (76 words)

But I still have feelings for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Theres this guy I met the other night, he is so good looking, so funny and normally he would be somebody I would fall for completely. He's been messaging me a lot and I think he really likes me. But theres another guy. I used to be head over heals for him. He s... (182 words)

After 2.5 years he just wants to be friends

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10 September 2010 (F) age 30-35 - We have been with my boyfriend for two and half years. we have been arguing alot and suddenly he told me we should be friends. i wanted to be with him. I miss him .I'ts been a week and he haven't called yet. please help me . should I forget about him move on or wait for him. ... (60 words)

I want my husband to desire me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I try everything I can think of to get my husband to desire me more than he does. He masturbates everyday, but has sex with me only a few times a month. I know he's tired and having sex takes a lot, but I think the real problem is he just doesn't find me desirable anymore. ... (363 words)

Is my friend's behaviour a bit rude (non-sexual rude, I mean!)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Just wondering if this would piss anyone else off? Two weeks ago, having moved into a new flat, I invited a good friend over for lunch to see it. An hour before she was due to arrive, she texted to say she was going to the gym with X and so would be bringing X with her (who ... (315 words)

Boyfriend signed up to dating site and exchanging numbers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I an an issue. I've been with my bf for 6 months the first 4 moths were great. I fell for him and he admitted falling for me. I only saw him weekends nad ocassional sleep overs. but the last 2 monhths he started actind diff. Distant, cold and unaffectionate. He claimed feeling ... (204 words)

I don't even know for sure if he fancies me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...am 18 years old and theres this guy, he doesnt work at my workplace permanently, but he just comes in like 3 times a week for just a little while. I dont know very much about him, but i am attracted to him. We had small general conversation but nothing personal quiet a ... (162 words)

How can I be happy... I hate life just now!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi this year has been pretty messed up for me. i got suspended this year for slapping a girl in my school, my father cheats and has a child with another woman, my mum knows but just tolerates him and even defends him for our sake so that we may have a good education and live ... (290 words)

GirlFriend wants a break "Am I already to late to repair my relationship?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My Girl Friend whom ive been with for roughly 5+ years dropped the "I want a break" bomb on me.Im obviously devastated after everything we have been through over the years.She met another guy and this I know cause of the text messages etc. But she still acts really weir... (235 words)

I have feelings for my science teacher...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this is my sisters account but i really need help okay well i am 2 years younger than my sister i am in the U.K i am at the legal age of consent .. okay so dont say it is just in my head because i know it's not okay so i have feelings towards my science teach... (139 words)

He's 15, I'm 19, and I'm due to have his baby any day!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay its going to sound weird that im asking this question now being in the predicament were in...here goes im 19 (girl) and my boyfriend is only 15..the reason were together is because he lied about his age for a year and when his mom told me the truth i was way too deep into ... (138 words)

Why has this happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) age - I have a very tragic life story. Please give me some consolation,that I'm not alone. In my whole life,I tried to do my best,but the chain of partly unexplained unfortunate events,the whole thing became a nightmare. None of the things ,what happened, can be clearly traced back ... (241 words)

I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we are "made for one another"... (273 words)

He's bored with our sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now, and he expressed to me a few days ago that he's essentially bored with our sex life, after about 2 months of our frequency of having sex decreasing more and more. So I suggested that we try new things that i was completely ... (160 words)

Why didn't he introduce me to this other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5147 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! So I've been dating this guy for two months. I know that's a really short time and we have only known each other for a year and a half. But we've been through a lot together and we truly do love each other. The thing is he used to be the biggest player ever. Hes changed but ... (131 words)

What can I say to him to keep the conversation going and get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. At school, we are made to sit in register order in most of my classes and this means I end up sitting next to the guy I like in some of my lessons. He knows I like him and he likes me too. Hes pretty confident and so he'll happily flirt with me or whatever in fro... (337 words)

I keep having dreams about my ex and I don't want to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help or advice. I been broken up with my babys dad for about 2 years. He has a new family now n I have a boyfriend sumwhat u can say.anyway I knew it would take time to forget my ex not completely cuz that's inpossible but at least my love for him would be gone. I ... (167 words)

My boyfriend's female friend is rude to me and he just doesn't see it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2years. He has a female friend who is very rude and disrespectful to me. After awhile he would begin to see some of the stuff and would not allow her to interrupt me or pull him away from me while I was talking ... (600 words)

After Almost 3 Months Should I Worry That He is Losing Interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Background:I met him in mid June,he asked for my number and he called every day since he received my number, then we had our first date in mid July. We have seen each other about 10 times since then, and now the phone calls have gone from daily to once or twice a week and an ... (290 words)

Should I take my husband back or keep the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband decided one day he just didnt want to be with me anymore.....this was back in October of 2009. He accused me of having an affair and being a horrible wife when in fact he was just trying to justify his actions. Now he wants me back. But I have been casually se... (284 words)

All the drama with his ex is making him question our relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused n don't know what to do please help? Me n my boyfriend have been together for a couple months now but have had quit a bit of problems but they weren't about us. He has kids with his ex who's is now seeing someone else but always caps n texts my bf saying she still ... (177 words)

I've stuck by him despite what he did to me. Now he won't talk to me because I slapped him when I was drunk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over two years. At first ... (703 words)

I'm not a cheater

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok first off i am not a cheater i love my wife. now that thats out of the way my problem is this, for about a month ive been talkin to a girl on email dont know where she is from but we just would talk about lots of stuff. well woke up one morning to my wife at the table with ... (104 words)

Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs more than me. Well, I love h... (277 words)

I need a break from my attention seeking son, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, since i got with my fiance 2years ago, it seems like everyone is against us. we've both lost 3/4 of our mates, hes lost his because they've tried splitting us up and making up rumours. iv lost mine because my so called mate tried it on with him and everyone seem to have ... (445 words)

He said part of him wants to be with me and part of him doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have only been together a couple months but have already been through so much together. He tells me he loves me and I won't lose him but last night he told me that part of him wants to be with me and part of him don't. What does that mean? He has 2 children with ... (138 words)

I can't bring myself to trust him after his emotional affair, that he doesn't think was an affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Were do I start I have been married for 15 years with 3 smalll childern I would not say it been happy but I have learned to deal with issues. My husband for year verbablly abused and emotionally drained me after he found out c years ago that I had a gambling problem it took him ... (413 words)

I'm a bit concerned that I moved on from my ex too quickly, I don't think I'm over him.

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I had my first boyfriend 5 months ago. Our relationship had its ups and downs and we constantly fought We ended up breaking up in July due to a girl, who happens to be his current girlfriend. I recently started dating a friend of mine, 3 days ago. But i'm a bit ... (156 words)

I like being loved, but is he too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age - I've divorced my husband after 18 years together. I've met this man 20 years older than me. I dont like that big age gap. However he is a caring person and I find me attracted to him. A year on I dont find his wrinkles false teeth and big body attracted to me anymore. He ... (99 words)

Am I crazy to think we could ever recover from him secret visits to massage brothels for 'happy endings'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been together with my partner for 4 years. We recently got married and I have found out that he has visited a massage parlour/brothel for massage and "happy endings". After initially denying it, he has admitted, after I found a website of the place on his phone, that he ... (377 words)

How can I trust him if I know he is going to lie to me to keep me 'sweet'? I'm 6 months pregnant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: the title selected by the poster "should i stay or should i go??" has been previously used.] me and my partner have been together for almost a year now but have known each other as friends for about 12 years and im 6 months pregnant with his baby. i really dont know... (309 words)

I feel that we're drifting apart! I haven't seen her for 3 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear cupids, My girlfriend's birthday is on Monday and I'm not going to see her because of my parents, I haven't seen her for three weeks now due to her recent holiday and I feel we're drifting apart, what shall I do? Thanks in advance.... (52 words)

I feel I have to change myself to look like these pornstars he looks at daily......

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 25 and live with my partner of 6years,we have two children,together..we have a great sex life,we watch porn together sometimes and i know he also watches it a lot online by checking history. I dont mind him watching as I know all men do its normal..but how much is norma... (146 words)

Can anyone advise me on the pros and cons of owning your own business?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this dream of owning my own business. If anyone who does is reading this post, I'd love to hear what the advantages and disadvantages are. I have lots of options. I'm qualified with two diplomas i.e. media and computer studies. I'm looking for something that i... (485 words)

If this were your partner's past, would you be as upset as I am?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend on a popular on-line dating website. Her story was this - she had been doing on-line dating for 5 years, but had never been out on more than 2 dates with anyone she met on the internet. She is a divorced mother of one child, and told me, since the break-up ... (329 words)

What do you make of my ex's behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys! need you opinion on this... me and my boyfriend split up about 6 weeks ago.. we rushed into things and moved in together too fast and it was just too intense.. he moved out and went to stay at his nans. we didt speak for a month, then he asked to coem and get the rest... (256 words)

Time is not healing me at all! What should I do about my boy situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I’m 15, never dated and never kissed and really f**ked over. There’s this boy. Let’s call him x. I’ve been inappropriately close to him 3 times in the past year. We became tight over internet chat over the July holidays. He always made me laugh and feel wanted which help... (774 words)

My girlfriend left me suddenly, claims she wants to be alone, how do I go about getting her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've found similar break up questions on the net, but i feel the need to get some specific advice. Apologies if i trail on, but i feel its necessary. Ive been dating my gf for just over 7 months, we've known each other for 2 years. Shes a unique girl, was in a 4 year ... (873 words)

I am completely crazy about her and I can't forget her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this woman on a language exchange website. I'm a 31 y/o from England and she is a 32 y/o from Brazil. We have been talking a lot on MSN and we become really good friends. But now I have fallen completely in love with her. But she has a boyfriend. He is a 24 y/o from ... (123 words)

How do women deal with former lovers who were better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How hard, or dissapointing is it for you women to go from a guy who is very well hung and mind blowing in bed to a guy who is just average in both the size and skill departments. Let's say that the well hung guy was great in bed, and you were only after the sex, but he was a ... (212 words)

I know I should just stay away, but I'm finding that very hard to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do about this. One of my former students (we had a very close relationship) is now a teacher at the same school. I thought it would be awkward, because we haven't seen each other in a few years, but we fell right back into our friendship. She is an ... (83 words)

Am I a sucker if I take her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It is a long story but i think its important to say what happened leading up to today. My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for 4 years this past august. She came to me last week and said she needed space and and it came to a shock to me. We were in a rut an... (901 words)

I woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister and I had not even been drinking! Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister.i got no memories on how this happened.all can remember is that i was invited to her birtday party.by her sister i had two soft drinks and thats it.should i tell my girlfriend about it or should i keep quiet? ... (49 words)

How do I convince him that taking a break for few months is not a really good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My and me bf are together for an year. We are in LDR for a month and my bf says we need to take a break for couple of months and see what happens after that. i.e no Phone, Email, or IM chat anything. totally cut from each other for 2 months. I said i am not ready for th... (131 words)

Afraid of driving alone!

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I passed my driving test 2 weeks ago and my parents bought me a car but here's the problem... I'm scared of driving . I was keen to get my licence to have freedom and it took me several attempts to pass but now I have it I feel like I can't drive or be trusted alone in... (138 words)

I do not believe my girlfriend...has she cheated?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner and I have been seeing each other for about 15 months and she has lied to me on numerous occasions but denies cheating on me. I love her very much but her explanations for things that she has done leaves me doubting her. Here is a list of what has happened so f... (577 words)

Should I keep it going because I love him so much and am afraid to be without him?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - our relationship has lasted almost two months... in the beggining he was so great i thought i could find nothing better then this and this was all i ever dreamed of in a guy but then exactly after a month hit we started arguing over the silliest things....still to this day do a... (282 words)

Has he broken up with me?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am seeing this guy for the past 1 year. FOr the past 2 months we are in LDR (Long distance relationship) since i moved to different location cause of my work. Would return back after 3-4 months. For nearly 2 weeks my bf is acting really weird. We used to talk in... (285 words)

My boyfriend's father is standing in the way of us getting married and the whole situation is really hurting my boyfriend....

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating with my boyfriend for few months now and he wants us to get married. The fact is they had their onw conflict with his father before we even meet. Now he is asking his father to go to my family for marriage negotiations but his father refused and use ... (166 words)

Will he come back to me? He never responded when I told him I loved him.....

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my bf have been dating for 13 months,everything was perfect, I love him dearly and still do. But the past couple weeks we would just be arguing about stupid things, and it just continued. So last week we went out and everything was perfectly fine, than all of a ... (534 words)

My ex has tracked me down after all these years, but she is married! What should I do?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I had a wonderful/fantastic relationship with an ex (Sophie),we even talked about marriage. We were always 100% honest with each other.Anyway we split some time ago as I was working abroad and she couldnt handle a LDR. She recently tracked me down via Facebook, and we... (488 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating would someone please help me?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we've been dating over a year now, the first few months was fine, but now alot of stuff has changed, and I was wondering could anyone help me out on what to do, and here are some reason why i think she is. (1)she has a lot of gu... (844 words)

Should I give it all up to be with her?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Simply put, I starting chatting in a forum about a topic unrelated to dating, we talked, there was attraction, 7 months after chatting everyday i fly over there and spent 2.5 weeks with her, everything was magic. Its crunch time now and I have to decide whether to give ... (135 words)

We flirted, we had sex and now .... nothing!

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so this guy has been flirting with me all summer and we have this intimate connection that i cant say i have had with other people. We like mesh in a way that makes it like nobody else is in the room. He tickles me to have an excuse to hold me an we can just cuddle for hours. ... (235 words)

He says he not "100%" committed to me... should I move on?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 3 months. We're both in our late twenties, he was very into me initially and then we agreed to be exclusive to each other after we started becoming intimate. We've had a lot of problems as I had caught him twice sending flirty/sexual sms ... (368 words)

Should I walk away or just step back and wait for a bit?

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10 September 2010 (F)

I dunno, but is he interested?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy at work who I've recently developed feelings for and I'm wondering if he's starting to return them. He teases me a little bit more than the other girls at work, often in a more childish way, like knocking what I'm working on over or conversations ending in us both ... (212 words)

The question has been bugging me

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, we all know that when you have a F*** Buddy it's just about sex, there isn't much of a friendship there or whatever. So, my ex fbuddy still contacts me because he was adament he wanted to stay friends (he now has a girlfriend), to be honest i asked him why he wanted to be ... (224 words)

Can a man love 2 women at the same time?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - can a man fall in love with two women,cause there is a man who says that he's got two girlfriends,he love's them both,but he says he feels like he is in heaven when he is around the new girl.is it possible 2 love two women?... (45 words)

How do I tell boyfriend he's a little jealous and I need my space?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for like 1 and a half years. We get along great, we always have. We've only fought once. I feel safe and comfortable around him and when he kisses me there are definite sparks. We talk about getting married a lot, jokingly and seriously, and ... (484 words)

(asker's original title) The One Who Got Away ..........

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 18yrs old I started college. I met a guy who I thought was great; through mutal friends. At first he acted like he really wanted to get to know me. He would message me all the time and we would always chat online. He messaged me more online..than he called me. But, ... (666 words)

Is dating my mom's new boyfriend's son wrong (even though we started crushing before our parents hooked up)?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i sort of have the a dilemma, my mom and "step" dad were secretly dating when i started high school, well i met this guy and he was so amazing! he was cute and knew just what to say to make me laugh but one noght my dad said he was bringing his son over for my mom and sister ... (166 words)

How can I stop her making a HUGE mistake?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i finally found myself with the perfect girl for me... i'm the happiest i have ever been in my life. But there is a problem i don't know how to deal with... You see we both just graduated high school and in high school my girlfriend had plans with her best friend to move ... (232 words)

Should I shave my chest hair?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey ladies, and gentlemen if you can provide good info, should I shave my body hair? Is that something that women like or not? I know I'm over generalizing here but I would like some insight onto this. I'm not insanely hairy, but I have the standard chest and belly hair ... (61 words)

Am I crazy or is she cheating?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello me and my wife have been together 8 yrs and have 2 kids. I recently caught her in a few lies and now I'm having trust issues and thinks she is cheating on me. we have agreed social networking sites are immature and cause problems so we both said we wouldn't get into that. ... (120 words)

Could a virgin train themselves for better sex?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I may be a virgin but I don't want to be ill prepared for my first time. So I have been doing research onto sexual techniques and what could make sex better. Since I want to make my first time fun for her as well, I thought this site would be a good place for feedback. SO my ... (100 words)

How should I react to her comments?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure what to do, I have been married for over 20 years, and recently witnessed a co-worker of my husband try to hit on him. Bringing this up has led us to a huge argument, and now we are not talking. Not sure why he is mad at me for bringing it up. She actually said to ... (133 words)

Her boyfriend mistreats her, and I want her to be with me

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl I like, but she has a boyfriend. I'm always there for her when he hurts her and when she is upset with him or he isn't in the picture, my relationship with her is really close... but it seems like at the end of the day it's always him that she's going back ... (238 words)

Was this really cheap, or am I being too hard on myself?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm married and met a guy few months back at a party and we danced together while drunk.We flirted a little, he gave me compliments and said your husband is lucky man etc.Later that night we hungout with a group of people.I was drunk and asked him in front of his friends if he ... (303 words)

I feel awkward and have to excuse myself when there's sex-talk at school... any advice?

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10 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Every time I hear any thing that has to do with sex I immediately have to go to the bathroom. There is a lot of that kind of talk at my school and I like not to talk about that kind of stuff. All my friends make me feel awkward for not knowing these things and I'm embarrassed ... (76 words)

How can I stop my ex from ruining this friendship?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how can I stop my ex from ruining my friendship? The other day I was hanging out with my ex boyfriend and I mentioned this fight I had with my friend of 17 years, it was important to me and I was just venting, I want to keep that friendship and work through the issues, if a... (229 words)

She rejected me but now is texting and I don't know how to reply

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so over the summer i really liked this gurl and i thought she liked me back so i tried to kiss her and she said no because she had a boyfriend. well now she just sent me this message on facebook saying "what's up baby. i just wanted to tell you that i feel like i fuck... (143 words)

How Do I Tell Him?...or Should I?...

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 28 year old female who finds herself attracted to her 25 year old male cousin. Yes, I said it my cousin. I want him to know it too, but I'm sooo afraid. We are first cousins, my father and his father are brothers and we were raised together, so we've known one another all ... (337 words)

I want to be more than friends with her!

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am deeply in love with this girl. We dated in 5th grade and we started talking again last school year. She is the perfect girl for me, her personality is so much like mine and she is so beautiful. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a year and a half about a month ago, ... (225 words)

Am I overthinking this friend request?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and I'm a model.Recently i did a phoshoot with a guy for one of my jobs.We had a few hours together on the set so we chatted and hungout, we talked about our families, home countries etc etc.He seemed like a nice family guy and his girl friend was pregnant with ... (127 words)

Do you know when you're ready for a relationship?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. I've got a question. How do you know when you're ready for a relationship? I'm in highschool and I'm sixteen, and there's this awesome guy. We're just friends but everyone thinks he is my boyfriend. He thought I had a boyfriend, which is not true (the last t... (295 words)

Giving my g/f the best orgasm?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - how can i give my girlfriend the best orgasim... (9 words)

Should this guy be trusted?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I both recently got an iphone. After just a couple of days of getting my new iphone I used a gps tracking device (that we both had) and found that he was not at work one morning. He claims the device is faulty but since he has lied to me in the past, I don't ... (153 words)

Desperate not to be trapped again

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 years old and am engaged to be married this November. I really think I love my fiance and I'm sure he loves me, but I am terrified of getting married. For starters, I know I have a lot of baggage left over from my first marriage (I did love my ex, but married him for ... (517 words)

Why couldn't I just be happy to have someone in my life?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - All my life I've run away from relationships only to bounce back into them. I ran away from home at 17 to be with a man who ignored me. I ran away after a traumatic event with my then husband to the Army. I have been running ever since but I hurt people along the way. I hooked ... (149 words)

He's stressed out about not having a job

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man 2 months ago we met and everything was great he calls me everyday. I've noticed in the last 2 weeks he doesnt call me as much. so the other night i noticed he was upset. he hasnt had a job in a few months. He told me it has nothing to do with me he is stressed out ... (76 words)

How can I figure out what it is about me that is driving people away?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my late 20s. I have been with three men in my life, for about a year or so each. The first two I didn't even have sex with; just foreplay and oral. It has now been three years since I had any kind of intimate physical contact with anyone. I am slightly overweight ... (566 words)

I'm not sure if people are trying to set us up or he likes me?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I like this one guy who is a year younger then me. I'll call him Bob. He's in 1st hour chorus with me and everyone thinks he likes me, except me. So I was texting him, becuase we are kind of good friends and he asked me if I liked him. I said I don't know. Why do you ask? ... (136 words)

My crush--does he secretly like me?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, i need help. my crush is like my best friend, and some of his friends told me that he likes me? my crush touched me (like sexual touching) and now im wonderin if he likes me. he teases me playfully and when we played truth or dare, he ended up touching me. he acts like that ... (101 words)

He doesn't notice me because I'm a nerd!

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10 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi I am 13. There is a boy that I really like (also my next door neighbor) but he doesn't notice me. I think its because I'm a nerd. Also because we go to different schools. What can I do? ... (40 words)

Married man in love with a another woman

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10 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I’ve been married for 25 yrs I am 52 and my wife is 50 we have 2 children 18 and 21. My spouse is a great mom and friend and I love her very deeply as a friend and the mother of my children, nothing else. We have no chemistry in the bedroom (we never did), over the years, I... (513 words)

Who do I pick? The 13 year old? Or the 16 year old?

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 14 and there are 2 different girls that I like and have questions about. There is a 16 year old she has a car and she wants to have sex with me. Should I? But there is a 13 year old almost 14 and I really like her and she really likes me. We want to have sex but we are ... (109 words)

Does this make me a homewrecker? And how can I ask him....?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello; so I'm torn literally down to my nerves. So there is this guy I've known for a year and a month, and he's graced me with my first kiss. Anyway, since about April, he got a girlfriend, which I found out about due to one of our friends posting a picture of him at prom wit... (329 words)

What did he mean by that??

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10 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this one guy for over a decade now; since we were 10. We planned to go to the same college together so we would know someone when we got there and we achieved said goal. Now we're both juniors at the same college and things have... changed... between ... (224 words)

I want to go to university in Paris! How do I tell my parents?

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10 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a junior in high school and I found this really really good college in Paris, it's pretty much perfect for me. The problem is I don't know how to tell my parents, because I would be really far away from them (I live in the US) and the cost would be high. I know it won't pay ... (159 words)

How should I go about hinting that I like him?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if a guy likes me?... how should I go about hinting that I like him?... (19 words)

Doesn't get things done on time, what should I do.

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when a man says i am tired of you trying to dictate when I need to do something??? He is the worst procrastinator. I have sat back and tried to let him handle our family business. But he will lie about doing it and it never gets done in time. He says... (175 words)

Lost and might be pregnant.

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a nineteen year old girl n im worried that i mite be pregnant. I did nt get my monthly which i suppose to get at the end of last mnth/begining of this month. It is the 9th of the month already n still nothing. Im studying 4my b.com in business management and on my second ... (160 words)

Might be pregnant, scared, what should I do?

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm thirteen and on July 31,2010 we had unprotected sex after three days I started bleeding I had bad cramps and it didn't last as long as it usually does and it was extremely heavy.I'm seeing the signs of being pregnant but I haven't taken a test or anything.I had to have a ... (173 words)

How to talk to him to be friends and maybe more.

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10 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just got into an arts highschool, and I sit next to a guitarist in one of my classes and my heart started beating the moment I glanced at him. He's everything I'm attracted to, but were both very quiet. I've only recently gotten the nerve to ask him very basic questions, and ... (133 words)