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41-50,
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writes: I have started a new relationship with an ex colleague. I told a few of my closest friends at work and asked them to keep it to themselves. One of them has spread the news all over the office. My new partner has mentioned coming back into work to see old colleagues. Should I tell my new partner that people know? We had never said it was meant to be a secret by new partner is quite private and I don't want them to think that I have told every man and his dog - although he said he doesn't mind if people know when they ask him upon his visit
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2010):
I think it would be a good idea to say that they know. You don't want him to arrive and not know anything only to have to face questions all the time. Just relax and tell him. I'm sure he won't mind.
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