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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do juniors like freshman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i just started high school,... and i met this guy on the first day. he's a junior, and im a freshman. i dont have any classes with him, but every time i see him, and he sees me, he gives me this crazy-adorable smile. how do i know if he's interested in me? i really hope he is, ... (99 words)

The love of my life is moving to a different state!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend have been together for some time now. I love him to death and he loves me too. when we first got together I knew that him moving back to florida in january was an option. but he just told me a couple of days ago he's going back in less then a month. he ... (468 words)

Does he actually like me or he is just doing this to be funny?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - grrrr ok... well its my last year with "tom" been best friends for a very long time now and there has always been atraction and flirting from me and him. we sit together in quite corners and not buisy places in the school, i reaaallly like him and he seem's to be into me but s... (191 words)

Did he have feelings for her then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, thanks for reading. Straight to the point, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i love him to bits. But looking back at our relationship, he bascily got out of one relationship and into ours. And he had been with his last girlfriend for on and off ... (255 words)

How can I spice up the sex life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i dont like giving head because my gag reflexs work like crazy and itsends me into a gagging fit. What are some things i can do to spice up the sex life without that. Also im not very expierenced im 20 and just started having sex 2 years ago and havent really done much in ... (63 words)

My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our comfort level is with other ... (643 words)

I stood up to my ex, did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago. Right after we broke up I left for 2 months for my job. When I came back we started hooking up again and I was fine with everything for the time being. He does a lot of drugs and parties all the time, which is fine because everyone... (321 words)

My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her nightshirt, and seemed quite mod... (324 words)

Is he playing mind games or am I paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically iv been seeing this guy "bob" for the last few months , its a very casual thing between us , he lives in diffrent town so i never bump into him which i kind of like, im happy this thing we share is not in my face. The thing is he is the first boy i have properly... (372 words)

Why can't my family give him a chance and really get to know him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had a great relationship with my parents until now. I am 20 yrs old and they are still treating me like a child. I work part time and go to school part time. I started dating my new bf a few months ago and they dont like him only because of his age. He is 38 yrs ... (165 words)

I feel we don't see each other often enough...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well my boyfriend and i met at an algebra class over the summer. I thought he wuz cute.... and so we starting going out. I really like him. Well he is totally different than what i thought he would be... as in hes innocent. he doesnt know ANYTHING. he doesnt know what, ... (153 words)

My friends became my worst enemies in a blink of an eye!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I have to say 'my friends' betrayed me or I don't know what do you call this... I have some big issue with them, they barely talk to me, they are mean and indifferent to me. The thing is I don't know how this happened, we were so close before then suddenly th... (513 words)

How do I get him to ring me? I really like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting to know this guy. He thinks I am not your every day girl, there's something different about me and that I amuse him:) He's always complimenting me and really caring. He said if I were his girl he would be kissing me all the time. We chat on blackber... (125 words)

My wife wants another man and ok'd it. I think she may fall in love with him. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age - I need advice. My wife wants to have a real relationship with another man and I have sanctioned it. Am I crazy or a great husband? We have been married for over 20 years. I want her to have it all. I have not been perfect. Far from it. She stood by me when I cheated o... (966 words)

Do guys prefer French kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i started kissing a month ago and i noticed that the kiss tastes salty.. is this normal?? also, he likes the french kiss better than the lip kiss.. is this a guy thing? do guys prefer french kissing!! ... (48 words)

I feel like I'm just being used for her convenience and being taken for granted.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF and I have been together just over 2 years. She has a 2 and half year old daughter that i also love very much. When we started dating, we would see each other friday nights, saturdays and sundays. We both work so weekdays are kind of awkward. When we are ... (280 words)

How do you know when you are emotionally ready for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and just had a general question because I am running into this point of my life with having a wonderful boyfriend. How do you know when you are emotionally ready to have sex? Thanks for any answer!... (46 words)

Why is my teacher flirting with me does he want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay hi i am on my sisters account yet again any way Why is my teacher flirting with me does he want more? Here is what has happened over the past few days well i had science on thursday and he always stood at the door and he smiled at me when i walked into his lesson a... (314 words)

Help!!! I need your opinions on this one. Is this L.O.V.E.???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need ur opinion! My ex boyfriend and I are friends now... but I think he still likes me... cuz he acted weird... and today, he was upset and I tried to help him but he didn't want to tell me about it. he asked me why do i help him and then he said that I'm still in ... (137 words)

We need to meet secretly because of my strict family upbringing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in love with a guy. we both love each other very much. am still a student in my undergrads while he is just fresh out of college into a job. my parents are really of the strictest sort. they consider falling in love sort of somethng really bad although they themselves ... (193 words)

After 9 years, I want the same feeling as the first time we met!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married 9 years now. My husband says I lov you, only when getting off the phone, leaving, or going to bed. I know he says I love you, but is he still "IN LOVE" with me? We have 4 boys, work different shifts, hectic schedules. I've caught him watching porn, and ... (438 words)

What is my next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy and i think he likes me coz he chose to sit next to me in two lessons and chose his locker next to mine and he always smiles at me and his friends are always telling me he likes me but a few weeks ago we had this convo: me:hi him:hi Him: everyone thinks i... (179 words)

Would I be compared to other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me, 14, and my boyfriend, almost 16, have only been together for about 5months and we're not thinking of doing anything this is just simply a wonder. Basically he's had sex and i haven't, i was just wondering if we ever decided to do anything, would he compare me to th... (60 words)

I don't want to get worked up for it and then get a no!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going to ask the most common question ever probably, and know full well that the answer will be you've just got to ask/find out but i can't seem to. Basically I've started to really like a girl I work with. For the past year really we've started to hang out a bit, and this ... (171 words)

Did I screw things up with my roommate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

- Help! I have been living with a roomate for 1 week now, and while we are not a couple as of yet, she has been more happy than ever, and in fact, this week we both agree has been fantastic. She told me she isn't used to being treated so well. Here's the problem. I have an ex who ... (278 words)

I cannot hate my family because he does!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have been going through a tough time recently. For the past year my mother has been dying slowly due to cancer. Its all over her body and there isnt an "if" but a "when" in this situation. For me, being very close to my family, this has ... (716 words)

Uncomfortable in an interracial relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to feel a little uncomfortable in interracial relationships at first? I'm white and he's Chinese, and he's really sweet. It just seems kind of awkward sometimes like if he wants to kiss me in public or something or hold hands when walking somewhere... (46 words)

I don't know where I stand in her heart right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5178 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm so blur on where actually am i standing in her heart now. i like this girl but i don wanna confess to her yet. but this doesn't help because many weeks ago when she got injured on her ankle i took great care of her. a care that no normal friends would do. her friends,... (355 words)

I don't love my wife and before I die I want to be in love once more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I been with my wife for 10 years and married for 3. I love her but I'm not in love with her no more. We have a beautiful daughter together and she's the reason why I stayed this long. Here are my reasons why: I'm not attracted to her, she's not that good in bed, she want even ... (125 words)

Does he really want to be a good guy or is he a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on the internet dating site. He likes me and want to know me in a better way. Right now we are in a long distance relationship. He has been very free and open to me about the fact that he has had sex with girls in the pasts. And he finds me hot . he claims t... (383 words)

Do you think he'll come back to me if we just stay friends for awhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 3 months just broke up with me. I am seriously heartbroken because I fell hard for this guy. In the first month and a half things were wonderful. We had sex often and loved being together. Then one time when we were having sex he stopped in the middle of ... (230 words)

Girlfriend makes very little time for me. Why can't she make more time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I got back with my ex, first time around we were only togheter for 2 months, almost a year later, we grew close again. And so decided to give it another try. The first month was great, the second month all she had time for was her vacation job + babysitting. ... (169 words)

Should I walk away or try to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to know if I'm wasting my time with my boyfriend. Here is a little about us we meet online june of 08 I didn't know he was married I just broke up with my husband of 22 yrs cause of his cheating. I find out he is married and I know I should have walked away then but I ... (221 words)

When is it TOO FAR with opposite sex friends???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. my boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months. he only has friends that are girls. One of them is in love with him and finds it "hard to see him with someone else" and he thinks its still okay to go hang out with her. His other friend never used to ... (446 words)

Ex sent me a friend request

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been talking to my ex for the last few months. We have been flirting again and kinda fooled around. He says he still loves me and wants me and how much I turn him on. He sends me a friend request on facebook and I accept then today I check my facebook to send him a ... (104 words)

What should I make of this behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, well basically me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years, we r currently on nad have been for 5 months. the problem is i know it doesnt sound big but i was wondering what to make of this. we went to the cinema with a grooup of mates and i saved a place for him ... (225 words)

Now that I'm giving her space, what's next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope this isn't too lengthy, but I think all the details are needed. I've been seeing this really amazing girl for about four months now. She's been separated for almost a year, with a wonderful 2 year old daughter whom I love as if she were my own. Her divorce isn't fi... (817 words)

I'm on hold while she figures out what to do with her MM

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a non-committed relationship with a woman for the past 3 years. I asked her a few times but she said she needed time to think before committing. Which was okay with me and I waited. Recently I found out that she was going out with a married man with 3 kids. When ... (304 words)

He was so stressed about it working that he used Viagra

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A little over a month ago, I had posted a question about my boyfriend's difficulty with getting and staying hard during sex. Here's a link to the question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-help-him-no-matter-what.html I don't even know where to start with this ... (331 words)

He is married and wont break up with me, Now I think I'm in love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,i just want to ask some help about my turkish boyfriend now,he is married to a filipina like me ,,,they have two kids now,,i dont know if he really loves me,,how many many times i told him to break up with me but he dont want to,he ... (136 words)

My wife just wants oral!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife does not want intercourse or me to touch her, she only wants to do oral to me? she used to never want to do that at all? It has went on for months. I dont know what to think?... (44 words)

Long story, Am I just in the friend zone? please don't tell me to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend's name is Kevin and he is quite a bit older than me (10 years and 4 months if you will). He and I had been on and off for 2 years because the timing was never quite right with us (I was coming out of an engagement and he is VERY independent and does not hang... (1663 words)

Should be concerned if my partner meets other guys without telling me, even if it is purely friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age - Should be concerned if my partner see's other guys without telling me, even if it is purely friendship? My partner sees other guys without mentioning to me that she is doing so. This all came to a head last week when we nearly finished our five year relationship. I had to c... (595 words)

She said she wants a break but I'm terrified I'll lose her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I dated one girl for 3 and half months, and about 2 weeks ago we broke up. She said let's take time out until we both go to UK. (We are going to UK for university together). And I might go to UK by end of September. If my visa gets refused I will go to UK in January. And ... (292 words)

Should I call her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - We were in love for 10 months and we were so happy together, the problem was that i hardly got to see her so we wud spend most our time on the phone or i.m-ing each other. then one day she just started ignoring me, she wouldnt answer my calls or text. When i finaly spoke to her ... (156 words)

His sexual past really doesn't concern me, it's the "lying" that does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are living together right now, and are getting a house together in a month. Certain things bother me.. and I need help to see if they really should or not... It's mainly about his sexual history. Sometimes he tells me he's had threesomes (both with anoth... (183 words)

Who is this girl on my laptop? Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year, its going great. we have had the odd argument here and there but other then that we have been going fine. However, the other night I took my laptop with me to his house as I was staying over and he must have gone on it ... (157 words)

Childfree dating - what the hell am I supposed to do??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Genuinely trying to find some SENSIBLE advice from people. This does NOT mean I want advice that just backs me up on my point of view! The basic thing is this. I am 36. I don't want children. I never have done, never will. I have a god daughter whom I love and I enjoy... (420 words)

Does anyone have any tips for delaying my girlfriend in reaching orgasm before me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Through sexual intercourse my girlfriend often reaches orgasm a good few minutes before I ejeculate. Apart from me actually stopping. Does anyone have any tips for delaying my girlfriend in reaching orgasm before me? We have tried different positions and differen... (70 words)

I have no respect for myself after cheating on my beautiful wife... help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i am 23 years old nd really don't know from where to start. I love my wife more than myself i'd give her my sight, i tried my best make all her dreams come true, everything she has dreamt of except one thing, a faithful husband! because i cheated on her with an ... (243 words)

Is he a control freak???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 25 years and my husband leaves all the time.. he has went for like 9 years and this time 6 years before leaving then when he starts it he keeps at it.. they say he used to run off from his parents when he was a boy and go to his sisters.. when he was in ... (378 words)

Do I have the obligation to look after him in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age - I've married for twenty years. My husband is ten years older than me. Besides finanically supporting the family there isnt much make me feel like to continue this marriage. He never cares when I am not well. Finally I divorced him and found another man. This man is 16 ... (151 words)

I want to tell him it's over for good... but how!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my boyfriend, he a controlling manipulative SOB ad i just can't stand him anymore, i tried to break up with him 12 times in the last month and nothing worked! i even told that i cheated before 3 days and he still doesn't want to let me go. he makes me promise every si... (278 words)

What do you guys reckon... Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been going out for 4 months. he lives 40 miles away from me. we have met up once every 3 weeks since we been going out. when we first started going out about a week into it i found out he was still talking to other girls calling them ... (274 words)

Ex-Girlfriend threatens me after I broke up with her, she wants my parents also to suffer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just broke up with my girlfriend last week for 4 yrs relationship, she is threatening me in many ways and not letting me leave her, all she wants is to get married with her, I told her that I will get married to her one day, but she needs a date, I promised her of a lifetime ... (161 words)

We may need to break up because of his mother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for ten years with my boyfriend. we spent five years together and he travelled for five years. everything was fine until he came back and wanted to see my parents and his parents to announce the relationship. his mother stood against it with the ... (192 words)

Age taking it's toll...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age - I am about to meet up with an old friend the same age as me. He remembers me fondly, we went out once 40 years ago. I am probably fairly attractive, but I wear a hearing aid and have false teeth. I have already put him off once but am meeting this weekend. He has seen photos of ... (73 words)

I'm in a gay relationship but I would love to see what it feels like having sex with a woman.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll start from the top then. (This needs some explaining) I'm a 26 year old guy and I've been in a stable, loving relationship with another guy for 8 years now. We live together and we've been in a Civil Partnership for three years. We enjoy a rich sex life, we're com... (206 words)

Why do guys watch porn while they are in a stable relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

13 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Why do guys watch porn WHILE they are in a stable relationship? I found TEEN porn on my bf's computer. That makes me feel not good enough. Why do guys watch it, what is so interesting. I cant stand the thought that my bf is watching at other teenagers while the are getting ... (54 words)

I'm a sucker for dysfunctional relationships!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

13 September 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I had been with a guy for nearly two years and i was getting bored of him i found my self resenting him and him just clinging to me more, i like haveing my seperate time for my self and i made that clear but he become more verbally violent and sometimes physically nothing ... (123 words)

She tells me that she loves me but sure has a weird way of showing it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half and recently moved down to Las Vegas to start a life. Ever since we have been down here I have seen a 180 out of her. She holds an attitude constantly doesn't want me near her and we've had sex 3 times in 2 months. She ... (144 words)

Although I want to get over him, I can't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - The last months i haven't gone out with the man i used to date last year. As he didn't consider me as a real relationship and he didn't give me a lot of inerest, i decided to not give him any interest, we only talk very rarely at phone as he rarely calls me and i rarely call ... (147 words)

Possessiveness over my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I am being bit posssesive about a gal. She is not my gf though, just a friend. I feel very jealous when she gets well with others... is it a psychiatric problem.. please help me out? ... (39 words)

Should I ask my crush out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my crush were talking last night and he said he would probably get back with me, should i ask him out? as he dont ask people out because of rejections i think. How should i tell/ask him?... (39 words)

Is too much time together making him neglect me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been together for around 7 months for now and I am starting to feel that he no longer have that "wanting" feeling for me than last time. Is it because we are spending more time together (like 4 times per week) than before that is causing this feeling of him neglecting ... (156 words)

How do I know if shes the right one for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

- Im the type of guy who isn't in contact with alot of people. Its not something i wake up and try to accomplish. I tend to focus on things which dont seem important to most people. Being like this in my nature i dont come across many women, and when i do.. it usually ends up ... (284 words)

He friended me on facebook but no contact since. Do I make contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy in my church friended me on facebook recently. We've never talked but it looks like he's friended a number of other people at church as well. I accepted, somewhat out of curiousity and the assurance that he was already friends with people I know on there. He seems ... (152 words)

I'm falling for a girl who works for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am falling for a girl who works for me. i'm an average looking guy and she is beutiful. we used to kinda battle a little. we have awalys flirted a little and sometimes touching recently after a argument we both vowed not to fight anymore. since then its been great although we ... (243 words)

Was she serious in that relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Two months back, my girlfriend dumped and I had to accept her decision with broken heart. We had a breakup before as well but we patched up in just three months. She dumped now saying that because I was not having a good job and she didn’t think I was going to have one soon... (330 words)

Is this some sort of a game to keep me around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

13 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I am in need of some help , because male behavior confuses me. The fellow I had been dating for almost 3 years had broke up , we recently started dating again not a realtionship but going out on dates . When we go out we have a great time , but the next couple of d... (174 words)

Liking someone vs thinking that you do?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may come off as an odd question, but.. how can you tell the difference between actually liking/loving someone, verses just thinking that you like/love them? Also, there is a guy that I am sort of dating, but we aren't "official" (my choice to not be official right n... (97 words)

If a guy likes you, he'll let you know..right?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always firmly believed that if a guy likes you he will let you know. My crush (whom I met about five years ago, we have friends in common but never hung out) and I have slept together twice both times we never bothered to exchange numbers. I never bothered to give him ... (335 words)

Now single, and I feel awful about my body

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13 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm recently single. I was with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and he was my first boyfriend and the only guy I've had sex with and who has seen me completely naked. Being with him I discovered many truths of men, that I had been naive and blind to during my teenage years. ... (441 words)

Sometimes I wish I could have just one more day with my ex

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for almost 4 yrs, i broke up with him several times, i was happy one day and miserable the nxt, i was so comfortable i nvr visioned being with anyone else or ever leaving for good. i thought i was set for life with this guy.. now its been almost 7 months... (283 words)

Does this mean the pill isn't effective?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im on the first week of my second pack of loestrin 24... i keep having cervical mucus on my underwear and its always wet and whiteish/clear and stretchy. i dont know what it all is it happens often. does anyone know what it could be coming form? please help! i hope this ... (63 words)

I'm so confused. Do I go for it?

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, this is a long one. There's this girl that has been in my youth group for a couple years, but I never really got to know her. I'm the only one from my school in my youth group....the others all go to a school about 15 minutes away. We can say her name is Emma. Then, ... (973 words)

Boyfriend is still on online dating and acts weird

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 36, a marathon runner (my point is I'm in shape and not fat), and I am told that I am very attractive. I was in a relationship for 14 years, we were separated for 3, and he recently passed away from a heart attack after years of drug abuse. Other than that glaring problem, ... (1199 words)

Dating 7 years and he doesn't want sex

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My on again and off again boyfriend of almost 7 years won't have sex with me and never wants to spend time with me. I don't know what to do... (31 words)

Hurting mentally and emotionally in Ohio

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am sorry to say this, but, I am so glad there are others going through this and I'm not alone. My bf of 2 years is really bad into the porn all he wants to do is look at masturbation and not touch me, it hurts so much I cant even think straight, I feel like I'm in a downward ... (257 words)

I only see my life with him and he broke things off

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 20 weeks pregnant, the father is the love of my life for the past 6 years. We are pregnant with our second child. 5 days after finding out I was pregnant he phoned home to say " he did not want to come home anymore". We have been in therapy, we both love each other and he ... (204 words)

I don't want to eat but I have to. How to lose weight?

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13 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I want to lose weight. I exercise every day but I eat a lot. I don't want to eat but I just have to. I don't know what to do! Help!... (31 words)

Paranoia is killing my relationship. What do I do?

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So i've been doing the long distance thing for a little while now. For over a year now things have been going great. She defiantly isnt my first, but probably the first person ive ever cared about so passionately. I've been in a lot of rocky relationships in the past, and its ... (501 words)

Not on speaking terms with father

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do about my relationship with my dad. About a year ago, December 28 2009, I tried to take a flight to see my LDR girlfriend, whom I still have a strong healthy relationship with. The problem was that my parents didn't approve, even though I am (And was at ... (483 words)

I don't know where this relationship is going, if anywhere?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all Just to cut the story short, we dated 7 months and was going really well. Then we had a fight on our trip to.. and there with anger at the moment we said that we needed a break but ended up having passionate sex and back to normal. Then a week later I found out I... (659 words)

How can I resurect an old crush?

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'll try to make this as understandable as I can. Basically, I have liked a girl for some time. Back in grade 7 she asked me to dance at our schools Halloween dance, and I just fell in love. She had liked me for some time before that mostly because a lot of the other boys ... (316 words)

I'm 5'6" and she's 6'2", does it matter?

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i'm a guy and im alround 5'6 and im kinda self conscious about my height. me and this girl have been talking for a long time and were kind of a thing but not offically dating. i like her a lot and she likes me a lot and she wants to date. she just happends to be 6'2 and ... (95 words)

My two lost loves

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a very long love story about me and my two lost loves. I had a boyfriend in college for four years. We were the loves of each other's lives, even though we drove each other crazy, and I always believed that he was the one. But after we graduated we moved to differe... (652 words)

His ex wants him back and he is confused!

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I started talking with a guy that I met online in May of this year. Things progressed. We met, were very attracted to one another, but live about an hour away from each other. Things continued to progress. He was very romantic and is a writer. He told me he loved me, used ... (175 words)

Can I increase my semen?

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I know I'm basically at the height of my sexual prowess right now. I was wondering if there was any ways I could increase the size of my loads, that is semen. It would make orgasms that much more enjoyable but more importantly I just love it when I can cover a girl ... (65 words)

Now that he has been good......he has been boring!!!

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a general question.... I will actually try to make it short and sweet. Me and my fiancee have been togther for almost a year and a half now. We knew eachother for about 3 though. It feels honestly like it has been 50 years and counting. Me and him went through the ... (593 words)

This relationship lacks so much affection

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for seven years now. We live together, am engaged, and I have an eight year old son. However, this relationship lacks so much affection. He has never been the affectionate type, however I like affection. I don't need a constant reminder of if he ... (211 words)

She says all I think about is sex

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - On Wednesday, I took my girlfriend to a restaurant with a beach view, the horse races, and a Padres game which all cost $120. Keep in mind that we are both full-time college students and I don't have a job because I write for the school newspaper and am taking more units than ... (1231 words)

After the breakup I feel like I have no control over my emotions

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having such a hard time letting go. Last week I posted about my now exbf that I found responding to craigslist ads. I was angry, hurt, and all the emotions that go along with it. I cut contact with him last week and have had little contact, until today. I found myself... (358 words)

I want to be with my cousin

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13 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - first off me and my cousin both go to the same college this year. OK well last week me and my first female cousin got in a fight because i asked her not to say she loved me around school because i hate it when girls say they love you to everyone and you can never tell if they ... (179 words)

We have sex 5X a week and he still needs porn?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. My bf and I have sex about 5 times a week, but he still watches porn alone and masturbates. I have never had a problem with him watching porn, but does this reflect on me? Am I not enough?... (40 words)

I wish the perfect man would walk into my life and stay with me!

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been fighting for the past few days and he dose this thing were he says things will get better and change then two or three weeks later it all gose back to the same old thing not showing interest not doing things i want in a man i really feel like i got married to soon ... (559 words)

I want my mom to know I'm a lesbian!

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In 8th grade i came out to my mother and told her i was bisexual from that point on she just ignored the facts even tho i was open about being bi with my friends and at school..Ive never brought a girl home to my mother because i knew she didnt like me dating girls but now im ... (128 words)

Am I able to have a successful relationship with a man?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a female age 18 - 24 and I have absolutely no interest in sex what so ever! For some reason unknown to me, I find it one of the most disgusting and repelling acts known to mankind right underneath killing someone! Anyway, as emotionally jaded as I am, I would like to give ... (396 words)

He dumped me and I want him back so bad

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been about two weeks since my boyfriend of 2 years Ryan dropped me like a hot potato due to his supposed stress with school. We've talked but it always seems to turn into him telling me to 'stop being obsessive, to move on find some one here, that he doesn't need a gf ... (257 words)

How to get his ex out of our lives?

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13 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can i get rid of my boyfriend ex? She wont leave us alone. Constant texts, facebook messages, emails. Done everything we can, blocked her contacts, she just uses others. Changed our number, she finds it our from friends, so we've had to stop giving it to those we cant ... (87 words)