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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being played, or does he want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm very sorry that this is a bit long, I regularly go down to the gay bar where I live and theres a guy who works there. One night it was karaoke night and I went up and did a few songs (I am a terrible singer by the way) anyways, when buying a few drinks the guy started ... (358 words)

Have I started my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE; OP's own title. help, i am 14 almost 15 and have just had brown discharge for three days (on and off) i have all the signs of development and think that i should have started by now. is there anything i can do to help my period start?... (52 words)

I can't clear my mind of the images of her past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I am yet another person who has retroactive jealousy. It has bothered me for about 7 months now, on a daily basis. I broke the bank by going to therapy but it proved essentially useless. I do have OCD and am trying to remedy that with various medications. My girlfrie... (390 words)

Period cycle question!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a period cycle question. They say the "normal" period cycle is about 28 days however what i am confused about is whether that is the whole cycle or the days inbetween cycles???? So would the 28 day cycle woman have a 7 day period and then have to wait another 21 days ... (202 words)

I feel like I'm literally going nowhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - NOD NOTE: OP's own title: I'm basically stuck in the game called life. I'm 23 and I just don't know what I'm supposed to be. Basically my life is like an endless cycle of failure (on my part). After highschool I went to college, got stuck doing something I didn't like but fini... (369 words)

Why is my old Ex ignoring me? Why is he so weird with me? He disappears.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Okay so my ex is ignoring me.We talk on and off.We broke up over a yr ago.We've hung out a handful of times since then.He talks to me for awhile and then disappears. Last time We hung out - he kept talkin about how he was tired of the dating scene... (478 words)

Why do they prefer her and not me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! Im 15 years old and im with a little problem. My suposedly best friend is a girl with a big breast , brunnete and beautiful thats why every guys love her. The thing is that im a little bit tired of that , when i meet a guy and we are close to make out he knows my best fri... (289 words)

Man hater!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

1 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - [MOD NOTE: OP's OWN TITLE] I am only 13, but worried about getting married. I have never had a boyfriend. I dont even have any guys that are friends, I pretty much dont have any friends. My dad left when I was 6 and I havent seen much of him since then. My mom has never real... (404 words)

I'm thinking of ending this friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have this guy friend and I told him freshman yr that i liked him and we got in a fight during the summer about he said she said kind of stuff and so we talked and made it better I told him we should hang out or do something together and he was up for it well we never did ... (123 words)

Boyfriend says 'It's over for now'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really now how to take: 'It's over for now' and the complete drop of any kind of communication with me unless a guy talks to me over facebook. I have been dating Ryan [My boyfriend] of 2 years. Ryan basically was my first, and I've dealt with everything that has happ... (155 words)

What do I do about being desprite for a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very deseperate about not having a boyfriend still-I am very behind in the romance/boyfriend deparment (not having one's VERY FIRST date or the imporant kiss-both are suppose to happen during one teenage years). Also I don't like blood and guts-so do all guys out there ... (214 words)

I want to fake a pregnany to get back at him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

- I already know what everyone will say to this, but please say it anyway! I met a guy on an internet dating site and we have been speaking on msn for a few months, he lives about 100 miles away from me and seemed to really like me. he kept begging me to set a date to go down to ... (374 words)

How do I ask him out on a date without it being awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked a similar question before but it got overlooked so i am going to rephrase it and such. I met this guy, Im a sophomore transfer and he is a junior and we've hung out a couple of times. we've always hung out in groups (of his friends) but we tended to stick with each oth... (296 words)

He doesn't seem to be bothered that we don't have that much sex. I don't want to have to keep going after it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all my partner and i have been together for two and a half years now and over the past year or so we have been having less and less sex. I am someone who loves sex and it seems my partner doesnt. we are still young (he is 20 and i will be on sunday) so what is the problem.... (117 words)

We've been dating for a year and seven months. He wants to have sex but I don't feel ready.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearcupid , iam a 18 year old young women,i started dating last year,and m stil a virgn,i have been dating m boyfriend for over a year and 7 month,he now want to have sex with me,but iam not ready i feel like i need to talk to hm first about how i feel,and the anther thing that ... (77 words)

My boyfriend wants to join the marines. I don't want him to go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really need some help my boyfriend wants to join the marines and i really dont want him to. We were gonna get married soon but i told him i dont wanna marry him before he goes cause i dont want to be newly weds and never get to see him. We also wanted to start a family ... (165 words)

I love my new girlfriend but I miss the sex from my last relationship!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was engaged to my girlfriend and with her for 7 years. We had a real intensive sex life and a pretty good relationship. However there were things about the relationship that were bad and good. Good points: Sex, her sense of humour. Bad points, lack of compassion from her, ... (340 words)

In love with friend's son!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm a 38 year old female (but look much younger) who has been very happily married for 16 years with three beautiful children. We recently went to my home country over the summer and there met one of our family friends after a long time. Their son is 19 years old ... (228 words)

Eight years of marriage down the drain. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an 8 yr marriege... My husband met up with his ex 3 weeks ago.. We were already having problems.. but this made up his mind.. after 3 weeks he wants too sell house and completely split.. Whats going thru his head?? ... (45 words)

How can I get over this fancy for my boss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i really need some help with how i can stop fancying my boss. the thing is i keep having fantasies of sleeping with him. he's just under twice my age which makes it illegal, all the more so as i'm not old enough to give consent. also he has a girlfriend. i know in my min... (348 words)

Cheating husband says he wants me back, but still with his mistress!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, i will try not to keep this too long but its quite a story. two months ago,with a 2 month old baby and 4 year old son, i discovered my husband had been texting and chatting online to an 18 year old girl who works for him. when confronted, he told me i had got it all ... (943 words)

I've been rejected by a girl for the first time in my life. how should I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok before i tell me story, if your one of those sentimental femminist types, please dnt even bother responding cuz i dont wana hear it. So for the first time in my life one got away. So I had 3 girlfriends, and I was having a bit of trouble keeping up with them even though 2 of ... (183 words)

My ex and his girlfriend are making things so hard for me. I just want to move on. Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So Im a junior in high school now. Last year was horrible because my boyfriend of 2 years cheatd on me 8 times and left me for another girl. Him and that girl harassed me all year long. This year I was hoping for a fresh start but she still glares at rolls her eyes. I can't ... (99 words)

His soon to be ex wife says he can't have anything to do with their baby whilst I'm there. Does she have the right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im having relationship problems with my bf due to his ex causing so many problems with us. He left his wife in March and they have an 18month old daughter. She blames me for their marriage and says that he cant see his daughter if im around. we were renting somewhere together ... (132 words)

Would a woman want to know how a man feels?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age - Hi everyone, newbie here. I have feelings for a woman I work with but the problem is she's engaged to someone else. She has told me she is not going to marry him (he knows this) and I think she has feelings for me too. There's a lot of chemistry between us which colleagues... (186 words)

When should I start dating again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have just broke up with my boyfriend, of 2 years... i know we will never get back together but what i dont know is when do i start dating again? my friends say i should go out an enjoy myself and kiss other boys but i dont know if i should! will people think i didnt lo... (67 words)

Is he into me too? is be bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys, i just started my fresman year,and i fell for this guy named kevin.i am bi but only my bestfriend knows. he is older than me.hes a junior.i walked into class to sing but not to fall in love.he walked in late!bad boy! and he sings awesome.i keep looking at him in amaze... (180 words)

We've been together for three years, what does he mean by "Let's lay low"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - dating this guy for 3 years,after a 2 days getaway, he said lets lay low, no text, i will text you thursday or friday and will have lunch. what does it mean him saying lets lay low after a weekend getaway? ... (41 words)

Could I pregnant or is something seriously wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - please help! today is september 1, 2010... my last period was on july 5, 2010 and my next expect period was suppose to come on august 2 but didnt.. me and my fiance are ttc. i spotted a small amount of brownish/pinkish discharge on august 8 through 12 then stopped and spotted ... (140 words)

I want my ex back but now she is with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About my ex girl I miss her so much I cant stop thinking about her I dont know what to do with out her. She wont call me any more she blocked my phone number so I cant call her any more. In I think she meet a nother guy over back where she lives now in it sucks ... (218 words)

Should I give him a chance? or get out now while I still can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 year old woman and me and my husband have been married for nearly 2 years. We have had a wonderful marriage, he has been attentive and caring. I did notice though the last few months he had gradually started getting distant and not initiating sex. I had suspicions of ... (555 words)

I am the other person in the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am a 28 year old female. I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a married man. This relationship started off with just a simple kiss and has escalated to a lot more, including love. He has been with his wife for approximately 8 years and he has a son. He is ... (254 words)

He sometimes loses his erection during sex! Does this mean he's lost his attraction to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend sometimes looses his erection during sex. It used to be every once in a while but its happening more often. Recently its to the point where its hard for him to get an erection let alone keep one. Is this normal or could this be that he has lost his sexual ... (72 words)

I want what we had before I found out my husband went to a strip club!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I asked a question and received a few responses. Thank-you. I have been to counseling about my husband going to the strip clubs when he was working out on the road and drunk. I have had to stop going to counseling because i had surgery. I have brought up the fact that i want to ... (296 words)

I am struggling with the feeling that my husband is cheating on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am struggling with the feeling that my husband is cheating on me. I feel like just when I finally get myself to a good place where I feel reassured again, something always happens to throw me back into deep suspicion. I feel like I am crazy. He stares at women when I am ... (213 words)

How do I figure out what is 'hot' in pop culture out there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all, i have a question for the young ones out there. i do not know how to go on about this but basically i do not know what hot and what's not. i do not mean physical attraction i mean everyday things such as music and films, fashion. i know this sounds petty however it ... (73 words)

Why are some people secretive in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age - Why are people secretive in relationships? I think I know some of the answers. I have just come out of a roller coaster ride with a partner who was ridiculously secretive, preventing me from meeting a single person she knew, while I had introduced her to many of my friends and ... (247 words)

My fiance broke off with me because of my drinking and my behavior but I want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Before I start I have posted this message on a couple of sites, I could do with as much help as possible with this. I would appreciate some advice please regarding my recent relationship break-up. Please be as blunt as you like as I just don’t know where to turn with it all... (1227 words)

I'm not sure whether or not I want to stay with my boyfriend or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: OPs original title: "Should I stay or should I go?" has been used already.] I'm not sure whether or not I want to stay with my boyfriend or not. He's 37 and I'm 26 and we've been together for 2 years. About a year ago I began doubting our relationship off and... (218 words)

Tell me something great about yourself, for my sake:)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this isn't really a question. But I'll go for it anyway. As of late, I've been feeling pretty down about men. The reasons being I have somehow started to convince myself that all they want is sex and that they will lie and manipulate to get it. I've started to wonde... (282 words)

I know it sounds terrible about his past but I really want him to commit with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "Wondering" I met this guy since i came here in Macau through our common friends. It's actually my guy friend who introduce me to him since that time that certain guy was looking for a vocalist for their band. It was like a sabotage thing because at first i was kind of feel... (961 words)

My girlfriend was raped -- how can I help her with the resulting trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Help me please! My girlfriend was raped by a boy she really liked back when she was only at the age of 16. He stole her virginity(raped her and didn't stop even though she kept crying) and led her on for about 1 month only contacting her when he wanted to have sex...He even ... (126 words)

I need to drop a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age - I work with this person and we have been friends since we were 16. She has always been a bit mean but accepted my hospitality on many occasions including us taking her for holidays. She has a real problem. She leaves her purse at home by mistake, doesn’t have enough to pay, ... (273 words)

Is his anger the start of something more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some advice. I just moved to a brand new state and city to be with my boyfriend. We've been dating for over a year long distance. We have spent time each other through out that time period. But since I've moved to his home town we've been fighting a lot. ... (304 words)

I'm serving in Iraq, and My wife has cheated on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title.Sorry, i could not use the one you requested, as its already been used. Hello, I'm 31 yrs old and currently deployed in Iraq. About 1 month ago my wife told me that she had gotten drunk after work one night and ended sleeping with a co worker. She con... (200 words)

Should I start something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, and we have flirted a lot. The problem is I'm moving away for uni in 2 weeks, and I don't know if we should start something. He says he's just up for some fun, what should I do?... (42 words)

He won't talk over our problems so how can we ever get this sorted out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I broke-up and he claims he doesn't want to talk it over to see if we can come to terms with what is wrong. He has told me he wanted forever after, but is not willing to discuss our problems in the relationship. I have been just keeping myself busy and try ... (75 words)

Any successful stepdads or step mums out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is probably a long shot but prove me wrong, I'm looking for advice from 'successful' step dads out there. I'm a 29 guy dating a 27 year girl with 2 kids (2 and 5). I have found 0 success stories on the internet about being a step dad, espsecially when their ex is cau... (164 words)

Is it wrong to have sex with a prostitute? I'm married.

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I love my wife, and have never cheated on her, and have no fantasies about doing so in the future. However, what if your wife just flat out refuses to do something that you are curious about? What if you want to experience a threesome at least once in your life? Or, in ... (239 words)

Is Emilio jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm laughing so very hard right now as I write this and its from one part amusement and one part confusion. You see, my bf usually calls me right after work at 7. Yesterday, he didn't so I sent him a text. I assumed he was working late, no big. So then my friend Alex calls and ... (210 words)

Developing feelings for someone else so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have always felt happy with him. He treats me well and we love each other. I always thought we would get married and have a family. But recently i started a new job and found that i have started to develop feelings... (222 words)

What does he mean by "just friends"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years. if u can find my other posts it will explain everything. he says there is no chance of us getting back together and that he wants to move on etc. he says he doesnt love me anymore. i asked him today if we can be friends ... (120 words)

I don't feel the same any more... terrified to leave her in case she hurts herself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, and suddenly I don't feel the same anymore. I don't love her in that way any more, but she absolutely adores me. I'm the only decent thing in her life, she made suicide attempts in the past, and she still says she has to f... (127 words)

Is my younger brother curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Is it cute or is it funny if your younger brother wants to always give you a massage? My brother is 14. If I am just sitting around he likes to sit by me. It's kind of creepy. But I know boys can act weird sometimes but is it normal they he seems a little touchy feely?... (61 words)

Any chance I could be preggers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 17. A couple of weeks ago my boyfriend jerked off then about 10 mins later fingered me. he didn't cum, but there was pre-cum. and he wiped his hands but did not wash them, before fingering me. now my breasts seem to have grown a little, i have more of an apetite and i might ... (96 words)

He blames me for not being able to cum! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age - I've met this much older man after my divorce. We have sex like we were in our thirties. Four years on he is strugling to satisfy me. And I am near 50 and I am not so crazy about sex. It doesnt matter to me we have less sex. The thing that annoys me is he always blames me ... (114 words)

How can I help her make friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this isn't a love or relationship question but I love my 5 year old sister more than anything and I'm worried! She's sweet, funny, intelligent and has the kindest heart. She started kindergarden last week and all seemed fine, she loves school and learning. But this ... (138 words)

Friends taking Ex Abuser's Side

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got out of an abusive relationship about 5-6 months ago. My life has gotten better in many ways. I started dating a friend of mine (who I wasn't allowed to see)and am now pregnant with his child. However, I feel I have not fully recovered from the effects of the previous ... (209 words)

What are your opinions about teenage romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Just wondering how people view it. Doesn't matter whether your old, young, for or against it :) I myself have mixed opinions on it. Do you think people should be in relationships at the age of 15? I have been in a so called "relationship" and it only lasted two months, but if ... (127 words)

Is it normal that I sometimes have strong sexual dreams and longings for my ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Is it normal that I sometimes have strong sexual dreams and longings for my ex wife? We have no chance of getting together, and we've joked about a hook up, but I dont see it happening. And our sex life was pretty average...so why am I having these intensely erotic dreams ... (81 words)

Is it natural to NOT breathe for periods of time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this may sound a little stupid but, iv recently noticed that sometimes i dont breath at all. its not like im holding my breath with blown up cheeks or something; it tends to happen when i am deeply focused on something or im thinking deep on something, i dont have my ... (114 words)

He broke up with me because I had sex with an ex but it was BEFORE I was with him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a girl 16 years old.. i met this guy he is in my school in class 10 and im in 11... we started to talk to each other and became very good friends and love happened.. before him i had 4 boyfriends and had sex with one of them... he loves me completely and i love him too... ... (241 words)

I excel in journalism... but my heart just isn't in it... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Have you ever been in the situation where you excel at something; you show your talented in a particular thing, but you don't feel your heart is in it? Recently, I graduated the top of my class in journalism. I did the course, wanting to try something different and ch... (485 words)

I'm not ugly and have already had offers but just don't want to move on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - please help i was in a relationship four over four years. At first everything was great but after a few months she changed, kept clearing her phone insisting on checking my phone and began to hit me. Anyway we broke up and got back together quickly to which the ar... (238 words)

I don't want my sister to find out I might be gay! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ahhhhh! help needed please! okays im nearly 14 i think i might be gay or bi as i have felt this way since i was 7. well for about 3 - 4 years i have had a really good [female] friend and we were talking over msn and i thought it was time i told her i think im gay or bi and so i ... (133 words)

I don't want to get my heart broken...does this guy like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I hope this doesn't sound like I'm desperate or looking into things too much... But this is my dilemma... Basically I've known this guy for a while (I never really spoken to him much though) but not the weekend just been but the weekend before I was at a small party... (296 words)

I'm married but my ex is the love of my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: This question was posted by a woman. I am married for 9 months now but i still love my EX! he is dating my friend and I am always jealous when i see them. i cheated with him twice when i went on vacation in our home town cuz i presently live with my husband.... (224 words)

Help needed flirting!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to respond to flirty comments! I am so out of practice. Broke up with my ex bf of 8 years 9 months ago, and recently met a guy who seems pretty interested in me. He's really flirty, and I'm not sure how to flirt back. Like, for example, he was ... (96 words)

I don't have any desire to have sex with my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 26 years ,,,,, and i havent enjoyed sex with my girlfriend she wants me to do sex with her but i dont have a feeling with her to do sex..... as i am bisexual.....please help me give me some clue for which i can enjoyed sex with her or please send me some medicine name that ... (70 words)

I can be sexually turned 'on' and then can switch to 'disinterested'..what's going on here??

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have a problem, and I honestly don't know what to do about it. Well I don't understand my body at all, I love my boyfriend and I am always in the mood and so is he. But I don't understand why a lot of the time I want to have sex with him, but when we are doing it I ... (304 words)

Is my girlfriend just immature or is there something else on her mind?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So yesterday I was looking through my girlfriends email account and her post on one of these type of sites saying "how to get rid of your boyfriend" And It bothered me I didn't saying anything at first then se said it was nothing she said it out of anger. So I said alright I ... (700 words)

Dilemma...Do I tell her?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a Dilemma. I had a wonderful/fantastic relationship with an ex (Sophie),we even talked about marriage. We were always 100% honest with each other.Anyway we split some time ago as I was working abroad and she couldnt handle a LDR. She recently tracked me ... (292 words)

I thought I never wanted to have children until now, but I am in a relationship with a man who does not want kids. Is this just a case of wanting what you cannot have?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never wanted children. In fact I made a conscious choice not to have any in my late teens and now I am in my late twenties. For the past three years I have been in a relationship with a man who also doesn't want children as he has grown son from a previous relationship. ... (237 words)

I post sexy pictures of myself on Facebook! Is this bad even though it keeps me from having sex?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi so im a 15 yr old girl and i get really horny sometimes.i try to keep good for my parents but its like a naughtier me is clawing itself out.i was on facebook one day and some random chick with sexy photos sent me a friend request and i ignored it but it gave me an idea.so ... (205 words)

How can you tell the difference between a bisexual or a gay man?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell the difference between a bisexual or a gay man???? Gay men love to flirt, but when does flirting become more??? Please answer...especially if you are gay or bi... (34 words)

For the men: Do you still find your ex's attractive or ever think about them?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I just want to ask the guys if they still find thier ex's attractive? Do you still think about your ex? And also do you think about your ex during sex with your current partner? Thanks in advance for the replies. ... (45 words)

Is he gay?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So right now, my mind's been thinking about a situation that happened not too long ago. Well as it turns out I am gay, and very few people know about it. About a year ago, maybe a little more. I had a really big falling with a former friend, but before that I was almost ... (423 words)

I've met the most amazing woman, but she lives 400 miles away!

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met the most amazing woman and i cant stop thinking about her! We are really good friends and I have told her how I feel about her and I think she feels the same! Unfortunately we live 400 miles away from each other and I also work away from home for long periods of time! ... (103 words)

I have a son with my married lover and now he has cut off all communication with us since his wife found out about the affair!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age - i have had a lover for 28 years. he has 3 sons with his wife and 1 son with me. i stayed away from him for about 6 years and now he has come back into my life. i am 55 and no one ever wanted to date me. except him. Anyway his wife just found out that he is seeing me again. ... (142 words)

My girlfriend has gone cold while she has been on holiday, what should I do?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so I need advice on what is best to do - my girlfriend has gone to florida on holiday with her friends and family for two weeks, she's already been there a week so next week she will be back, hopefully. But the point is whilst she has been out there she's been so cold but ... (420 words)

How do I knock some sense into this man?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I don't know where to begin...I guess I would like some advice on how to deal with my boyfriend of 5 mths... Prior to the commencement of our relationship, I had spent a good couple of months getting to know him in fear of having my heart broken again after just co... (428 words)

Struggling with my wife’s past.....

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been married for 3 years, and been in the relationship for 5 years. Before we got married, my wife told me about her past, the number of guys she has slept with which is 4.When she told me I felt uncomfortable proceeding with the relations, but l tried to stay st... (169 words)

What can I do to repair this?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need advice...im miserable. first of all i have herpes, and i just met this guy a few weeks back. we have great chemistry and talk for hours on phone each night. but i was afraid to tell him about herpes. so i did tell him, but only day after make out session/mutual ... (204 words)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste better???? cuz I don't want to ... (60 words)

I cannot get over the bad guy.....

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy i cannot stop thinking about. i just cant seem to get over him for whatever reason and dont know what to do. the facts: -hes best friends with my manager (whom im also friends with) -he has a highly sarcastic, sometimes jerk-like personality -hes sa... (481 words)

My boyfriend has not returned my calls or texts since Monday! What should I do?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! What can you do if your bf didn't reply your call and sms, i've been caling my bf since monday and sending him sms but he didn't replay im so stressd i dont know what to do please any advice?... (41 words)

My little sister got her heart broken, how can I make it better?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay guys I need advice, my little sister just got here heart broken she is fifteen and this freakin a-hole played her they were on and off for the past year.. and he really made it seem like he really did change but hey how many of us have fallen for lies like that??? now I ... (111 words)

What should I do when she says something like that?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of a year recently said that she wished she knew me at a different point in her life. She then continue to say that she doesn't think she can ever "Fully love me or will ever have enough time for me in her current point in her life like I deserve." I know that she ... (210 words)

Trouble since I moved in with him. Can't bear to fight in front of our son!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and I have been with my fiance for almost fours years now since i was seventeen. He is 29 this year. We have a beautyful son togather thats 18 months. Well ever since we moved in with eachother in 2008 we have been having alot of problems. Me and him are comp... (327 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to talk to my sister after what she did?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive known my girlfriend for about 10 yrs but not been together for that long. We met up one day and we hit it off (originally just being friends) and have been dateing for about 6 months but known each other forever, always talking about the future of marrage and kids. Things ... (509 words)

My boyfriend says I treat him like a toy!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but he sometimes says I think of him as a toy? We seem to enjoy each other very much, when he initiates, I always engage and want to please him but when I initiate, he often turns me down and states that he needs a minute and follows with "i'm not ... (112 words)

I need his financial help but we just broke up!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just broke up with me. Before this, he promised to help me with part of my rent while i add the rest because of situation. Now we are broken up, I don't know if it's wise to still collect part of the money from him or don't. Would that let me lose my pride. Need ... (58 words)

Are we moving too fast?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok as cupid has helped me in my last relationship and im glad thats over and done with I am in a new one now and guess what? Yes I need help... Basically the woman I am with now has a rough past. We both some how met while buying a new car. She and I are not from texas and w... (1040 words)

He says he hates it that he loves me

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex has been on and off for about a year now. He says he hates that he love me.....is that good or bad?? Because im still deeply in love with him and he acts like his work is more important than me now since we seperated...should i just move on? Or Stay with him?? ... (58 words)

How do I ask him to hang out without him thinking I "like" him in that way?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and we've hung out about four times. We've always hung out in groups but we tended to stick with each other, not in like "we're together" sort of way, but more like "i feel comfortable around you and i know you the most". i want to hang out again, and he has m... (169 words)

Best place to buy a wedding dress?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - where is the best place to buy wedding dresses?i live in plant city, fl and im looking for a wedding dress for an outside wedding in october ... (30 words)

Because of my complications with the pill is there a greater chance I could be pregnant?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i just got loestrin 24 on aug 10th and started it the first day of my period. i missed my 4th pill and took 2 on day 5 but taking two pills in one day made me so sick and i vomited the pills. i called my doctor and she said to change the time i take my pill to start taking ... (158 words)

My marriage is falling apart, could he be cheating?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I don't even know how to start.my husband gets mad at his friends and i am the one that feels the outcome.why and even if he knows he did wrong he just things are ok.we don't even make love any more and if we do I feel like he is only doing it so I won't think anything is ... (104 words)

Neck kisses a turn on?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does it turn every guy on whenever a girl kisses there neck and around that area,,?... (16 words)

Should I keep trying to make thing work? Or should I let it go and move on?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my bf and I have been going through a rocky time lately. He doesn't seem as caring as he used to and that makes me a little insecure about his true feelings. I'm always the one approaching him, sending him texts, making plans, etc. Before it wasnt like that. The thing is ... (133 words)

Boys crawling back to their exs!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well it is not a big deal to me but am just curious why do some guys keep going back to their ex girlfriends?I used to date a guy about a year ago and we broke up,and we stopped communicating for some months and we came back together again.But,later that year fortunately we ... (111 words)

I need a good reason to text him!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so this is my first year at this college - im a sophomore transfer. i met this kid, who is a junior, and he is way too cool. at first i thought he liked me but im fairly certain he is just incredibly friendly. which means he knows everyone. which means he always has something ... (396 words)

Want to be on time for our flight

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1 September 2010 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have a 2 year old son and we do not live together. We are leaving for vacation in 2 days and I mentioned to her that I would like to leave for the airport at 2:30 so that we are not rushing, and that I will wait until 2:45 and then I am leaving with or ... (153 words)

My best friend or her brother?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom has recently found out who I like and he is my best friends brother. We argued over me staying the night at her house. I said nothing was gonna happen , but she thinks I'm gonna have sex or something like that. We argued for a really long time and finally she came to the ... (213 words)

Bad anger issues, can anyone help?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright well i don't think this a regularly asked question but I need help. I have a huge ubsession with fighting, i always have. Well its starting to get me in trouble with the cops. A dude from my fiance's school has been giving her some trouble so i went to his, drug him out ... (148 words)

Dating--all the girls hate me!

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey im having trouble i want a date but every hates me how do i get a least one (please aprove this)... (22 words)

What to do to get the relationship back on track?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately a great girl that a really like has become somewhat distant and extremely stressed out from her huge workload at school. She is taking advanced courses which are completely new for her. Before classes started we had a really fun relaxed relationship going and I was on ... (91 words)

I love him but he went and got married

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My, guy who i was with 15 years got married on me 3 weeks ago, HE CLAIM HE F UP, i stiil seeing him just like we are still together, but he go home every night to his wife, what should i do?, i still love him much. i truly beleive he is my soulmate still... (56 words)

Why is he doing this? it's breaking up our family!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My kids father and i have been on and off for 5 years. The past 3 we were going strong, and never broke up until a few months ago.he filled my head with empty promises of marriage and more kids one day. he has cheated on me one but it was for a few months, and i found out thru ... (429 words)

How can I make myself happy again?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel very alone .... right now like as if no one cares about me. And idk why. I think most of it has to do with I have been alone all summer. I am every summer. I don't get those wooottt hanging out with my friends all summer. And it's killing me .Even worse I just don't feel ... (232 words)

What are some signs he may like me?

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1 September 2010 (F) age 26-29 - ok i am 13 so i dont know so much ok anyway i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me back and i needed someones helpand i dont feel like talkin to anyone else so i need some help with this i need some signs that he likes me hope u write back and answer ... (59 words)

Should I ask him to put her in her place?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3months and knowing each other for 6months. This girl has been texting and calling(asking asking where he at so she can come see him and come to this hotel party.) She's been having this "crush" ever since me and him started talking. ... (188 words)

If he thinks of me as a sister why did he check me out?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well I'm totally confused my best friend and i have known each other since we were about 7 and were both about to turn 16 i used to really like him but when i told me he didn't think of me that way he thought about me like a sister and slowly i have accepted that but last ... (128 words)

Tough love

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I like this guy who my friend hates. How do I find out if he likes me? If he does how am I supposed to tell my friend without her not liking me any more? Do you think that love is hard? Have you every met that special someone you truly love?... (52 words)

Both married, does she want more than what we already have?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay to start off I don't give a crap about the morals involved that is not what I'm asking so just keep those comments to yourself. Who I want to hear from is women who are in love with a married coworker (male). Or if your just in love with a married man. I have been wo... (418 words)

Why do guys run from me?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have to know something, its driving me crazy. First of all I'm bi-polar, and I get very hyper, when I'm happy. Well I seem to have a bad habit of freaking guys out! Like they literally run from me, My friends Boyfriends, my guy friends, my brothers friends. I don't ... (367 words)

How can you make a shy guy horny?

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What are some horny things you can say to a shy guy? And how can you make a shy guy horny?... (21 words)

Looking for someone faithful

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello forum I have no where else to turn so i came here to get help. I'm 19 years old about to finish college in about 1 1/2 years and I'm single. Here's the twist...I'm going to join the Army after I finish college and go into the infantry and maybe someday Special Forces. The ... (146 words)

Feeling very uncomfortable in my own skin!

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - helo.. Im a 19year old girl. And i have a bf that loves me so much that he stil tells me i look sexy. I have been putting on alot of weight in this year. I was always a nice size. Couldd wear anything i wanted to an it would look nice. Now everything i put on is tight an ... (146 words)

What am I doing here??

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so very confused. BUT ITS INTRESTING!! NEED FEEDBACK! Been best friends with this guy for 3 years. Always hanging out and everything. Soon as we met, sparks flew, we kinda both knew we were digging each other But i got into a relationship, during this time, he was sti... (606 words)

He may want someone he can actually touch

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So.. where to begin. I'm a freshman in highschool. I got my first kiss at an overnight camp when I was 11. Not make out or anything. Last year at this same camp me and a boy, Oscar*, started to like eachother. He was my 2nd kiss, I his first. This year at camp was amazing. We ... (318 words)

My bi friend told me he loved me.. I may feel the same way

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1 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I thought my best friend was gay and he just told me that he is bi and is in love with me. I love him very much and not sure how to handle this. I am married, not happily and he is in the processes of ending a long gay relationship. I think I might be to blame. I feel bad. ... (79 words)

Said she'd call me but she never did, did she lose interest?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to get another opinion on this. There is this girl i met Saturday and get her number. we texted a bit on sunday and i made her laugh a bit. We texted Monday night and she said she was gonna go to bed and to text her tomorrow with a smilie face. She ignored my ... (141 words)

What do I need to understand about how girls choose a guy?

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1 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What do I need to understand about how girls choose a guy? When I'm talking with a girl I like in a sexual way, I'm wondering whether I'm good enough compared to my competition, other guys. Or when I see another guy talking with the same girl and she appears to be enjoying h... (152 words)