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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where is this relationship going to lead?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im dating this guy. We've been together for about seven months but I dont really trust him with other girls because i found out he may have grinded with other girls at a dance a while ago. I had 6 friends come to me and argue whether he did or not but that was months ago and ... (137 words)

Is this girl worth pursuing or is it a dead cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there! There was/is this really kool girl who quite evidently was very into me, despite her being 3 years older than me (im 20). Anyway as we work on a project together once every week or so (yes its a working relationship) and althought we wouldnt speak much during the ... (328 words)

I can't decide between 2 guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't decide between 2 guys. The first guy i dated for about 3 months then he left me for another girl who was pregnant with someone else's baby. Then he broke up with her and came back to me where he continued to sleep with her behind my back. He's a really sweet guy... (348 words)

Should I confront her on calling me a loser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Today was not a good day. First of all, I horribly failed a test in my best subject. Now, my friend is telling me that a girl that I am mutual friends with calls me a loser. I have never called her a mean name in my life. She is a social drifter that can't fit with a group of ... (131 words)

Nervous when I need to speak out in class! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I get really nervous when I have to speak out in front of the class and because I've started new courses I've got to do alot of presentations. I'm 17 and go to college. I enjoy the courses I have taken but I HATE doing presentations or even having to speak out in front of... (333 words)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So Ive been with my bf for 1 year. Ive just finished school and got a job but am living with my parents for a bit to save up some $$. I want to get an apartment in about 4-5months. I was telling my bf this (we live 1hr. apart) and he was like "gee if I didnt work such long ... (372 words)

Problem dad!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need help. I am a freshman in highschool, and my crush asked me out today. I said yes but, my dad is super overprotctive. So how do i tell my dad that i want to go out with this guy?... (42 words)

I wanna end it with him and shouldn't have to keep pretending.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Iv'e only been going out with this guy for 2 weeks and i did think he was good looking and had a great personality so he asked me out and i said yes. we've kissed and everything but for some reason i dont feel like he is my boyfriend and i dont know why... i really think i ... (122 words)

I'm happy with my boyfriend... but my mum isn't!!!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex-boyfriend got back together after a 3 month break. I told my mum and since i've told her she hasnt been the same with me and she 'isnt fond' of him. I really dont know what to do, all i want is for my mum to like my boyfriend and she doesnt. Also, she threaten... (120 words)

Need advice on asking out a coworker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been liking my coworker for awhile now and at first I really didn't think she was the type of girl I would want. I judged her by how she acted at work where she would be loud and obnoxious playing the strong women role. A mistake in my part because I don't like to ... (692 words)

I have officially lost faith in successful relationships.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have officially lost faith in successful relationships. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 months (not long at all). My best friend and his best friend actually introduced my boyfriend and I to each other about five years ago. I was involved with someone else and ... (170 words)

I feel sick in my belly... advice appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I am 29 years old and was with my boyfriend for a few months he is in the military, we had our disagreements before he got deployed, he was the perfect guy at the beginning, then all changed, he started getting upset every time i want to talk about something that is ... (328 words)

My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, he's that bad). He knows she ... (162 words)

I love him but hate hearing about his past lovers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am sure that this is a popular question, however I just can't seem to find posts about it. I am dating a guy that is devoted to me, but has a huge history of dating and ex's. He has told me that he is committed to me and that I am the only one, and that he wants to s... (305 words)

An ode to me... what does he mean by this poem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so this guy ive been seeing i think... we kiss and stuff and act like a couple but we r not exactly :S he wrote me a poem thingy the other day but i didnt kno what this ment? now i feel so free n relaxd cos even tho im with u we're not committed which makes our freedom n... (95 words)

Imaginary lover!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been married for three years. He is my second husband and I adore him. I’m 35 and he’s 39. I’m still very attracted to him. I'm an attractive woman with a not so bad figure, but my confidence is at an all time low. My husband is turned on by the idea of my having sex ... (206 words)

Just found out my friend is going out with my ex!!! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a nice relationship with this girl but later we split up because she did a lot of things to hurt me including kissing another guy in front of me. After about a year of having moved out of town because of school, i came back and was hoping to see her again and possibly... (374 words)

They should NEVER be together!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age - I have a 21 year old son, he has been dating his girl friend for 2 years, she is 19. They are both great kids.... when they are not together. Together as a couple they are poison. They think they love each other but both my wife and I and her parents agree that they are ruining ... (179 words)

Help needed!!! What can I do to overcome these feelings, or is it just a matter of accepting them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a year. (we are friends in uni). At one point I was very attracted to her, but she didn't reciprocate, or I blew my chances on what may or may not have been our first date... ... (424 words)

Can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this guy over the summer while we were both working away on a cruise ship. I'm 22 from Canada and graduating from University in May 2011. I have always been an adventurous person who wanted to travel after graduation for a bit and then focus on my career goals. ... (271 words)

Dry ear problem...

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16 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - hi i have lots of dry scales in my ears, doctor gave me drops but no success, any idea why is it forming, i used to go to the ear doctor every six months to remove excessive wax, even then there is too much dry skin in my ears sometimes bleeding, while peeling the scales. ... (92 words)

Why do some people look at single women as weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why Do People Look At SINGLE Women as Weird? I am in my early 20's (23) but I feel like I'm still 19 years old. Time has gone by so fast but I dont feel like my age yet. Guys are always complimenting me and asking me out but I politely turn down the offers because they usu... (469 words)

I'm finding it difficult to climax and it's doing my head in!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm really embarrassed about this but i need some peace of mind. the problem is that i find it really difficult to orgasm during sex. i know it's not impossible because it has happened, but it's when i've been doing all the work and i feel guilty because my first ... (109 words)

I have a boyfriend but I feel I'm missing out on being single and all that it entails...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hellooo. I have a small issue that i don't know how to handle. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now (not including the recent breakup) and in the break up, i realised 2 things. 1. i love the attention i get and the freedom from being single 2. i love and wa... (150 words)

A weighty issue...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How much should you weigh if your 5'4 and 15? I'm a little under 100 pounds and want to know if guys would think im where i should be because my bf says I'm real skinny.... (36 words)

20 and ready to have a baby...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and I am ready to have a baby. My fiance is 24 and he says that I am to young. I know that it would possibly be better if I wait but I want one now. I have always been around kids and now that I'm moved out of the house and everything I feel lonely. I always ... (170 words)

Online dating - First date cancelled when he asked me out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I signed up for online dating about 3 weeks ago, i started to chat to a guy online for a week texting/msn and speaking on the phone for about 3 hours a day, he asked if we could meet for a drink, i said yes but wanted to get to know him a bit more before we met and he was fine ... (210 words)

Finally asking the question after 7 years of silence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am 26 and have been married for 7 years, I have a great husband and recently i had been reading a lot about masturbating, I had never really wanted to try it because i do like sex but i had never had an orgasm. Well, about 3 months ago i decided to try and ... (139 words)

How do you mend a broken heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's the age old question really. I guess many people have come on here to ask for help regarding this but hi everyone. How do you mend a broken heart? My boyfriend of two years and I split last week and well... I'm really not coping well I guess. This was the first man th... (270 words)

How old were you when you started dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok. im 14. i have never had a proper boyfriend before and i have never been on a date. some of my friends are starting to date and get bfs and im not. when did you start dating?? what can i do to get guys to ask me out?? please help!... (51 words)

Even although I'm now married I still can't stop thinking about her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 36. 10 years back I fell in love with a girl. I expressed myself but unfortunately, she said she is already involved wth someone. I thought then its not my case and I should simply leave it. But it didnt happen. I'm not able to forget at all. I wanted to lead a normal life ... (98 words)

My husband promised not to watch porn, but ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone.Im glad i found this site.Im really depressed and angry that my husband watches porn every chance he gets behind my back.we have been maried for 6 years.we used to atch porn together but suddenly he told me he does not feel comfortable watching with me anymore.i ... (124 words)

I feel like his heart is not 100% into our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling totally confused with everything at the moment. Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months, things have been moving at a fairly slow pace which i dont mind but over the past few months i feel like hes half in the relationship and is half not. He's useless at communic... (240 words)

Wedding already paid for but I'm not attracted to her and don't think I love her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im a 25 yrs old man. I find very difficult for me to say no to other people or to tell anything that will make anybody feel bad. I been almost all my life a strong christian, trying to save myself to my wife. in until i was 23 i had never been in a relationship. around 3 ... (376 words)

Got drunk, flipped out and now my guy doesn't want to be with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. Wev'e had some problems in the past with me drinking hard liquor which made me crazy and flip out. Plus I've lost my job almost a year ago so I am stressed to the max. So we broke up got back together in the past maby ... (238 words)

I feel like I have to be around when he drinks so he wont do anything stupid.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don’t feel comfortable with him going out without me. In the start of our relationship he did some things to loose my trust. Now over a year and a half later, we have been doing really good (had our up's and downs) but have really came a long way, I have not caught him of ... (248 words)

I'm always told that I look like a guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i could do with some advice on how to either boost my confidence or how to ignore everyones snide comments. i regularly get comments about how i look like a guy. i don't think i do, i'm a size 12, with definate breasts and i have a fairly slim waist, you know, a typical ... (264 words)

"Good dance moves" and good night kisses, does my cousin like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm not sure if my cousin fancies me or not. we were at a family party recently, and i asked him to dance with me. while we were dancing he said " do you have a man in your life ? " and i said " no " , then he said " no ?! " and sounded surprised when he said it. he also said i ... (178 words)

Our height differences seem to be creating an issue in our relationship! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy at school who I really like and I know that he likes me too. He is a foot taller then me though. You can laugh. But I've been told its cute... Bearing in mind hes very tall for our age and Im pretty short for our age. This was never a problem when we were just ... (202 words)

If he loved me, then why does he still display flirtatious and suspicious behaviors?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost a year and i can honestly say that i love him now and that he loves me but i am 5 and a half months pregnant and I did not love him at the beginning. my question is if he loved me as much as he wants me to believe why does he still have ... (89 words)

How do I trust my wife again, after the many lies she has told me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't cope with Lies I've been married to my wife for 4 years, we have been together for 7 we have two children between us, my daughter is a toddler and my stepson is nearly a teenager, I want the best for both of them as the priority here, but I'm worried about our Marria... (1076 words)

He tolerates my bad attitude...so should I rethink about breaking up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this nice guy online last year. we have not met as of yet because of my blowing up. I guess I blow up because I am not understanding of what is going on. and when I blow up he does not know the reason why I did that. so we have had some bad times because of this. since I ... (404 words)

Should I fight for my abusive relationship with the man I love, or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I met the love of my life when i was 15, and we got married as soon as i turned 18. We had separated because he had cheated on me. Soon after we got back together, our marriage became abusive, everything between name calling to every-other-day full on fist fights(never around ... (297 words)

Guys: Hot and cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - one minute hes soo sweet,considerate and perfect gives you all his attention and then hes a total idiot who doesn't care if you exist. why would he behave like that?? thnx..xx... (41 words)

Is he coming around because he's lonely? Or guilty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 27yrs, am in a 8yr relationship. My relationship is a happy one. No kids. Im not the cheating type. Never have been. Am not stupid, crazy, but not stupid. So, here we go... Ive known Brock since i was 12yrs. Brock is 3yrs older than me. He lives 5mins from my parents house... (1378 words)

She constantly accuses me of cheating

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl and I have been together for over two years lived together two yrs this month. In that two years, she has cheated once, we were broken up for a bit. Has failed to find/keep a job, doesn't clean w/ being told, doesn't wake up with our 5mo old son w/o being told, doesn't ... (227 words)

Funny or flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) - Over the last few weeks since telling a guy that I liked him his private conversations with me (which have only been 2 or 3) have been littered with innuendo or double entendres. For example I rang him to ask if I could borrow his ladder regarding some fruit trees and he said ... (234 words)

This email made me suspicious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - where do i start, my partner of 3 years works away so only see him every 3 months which is hard we get on really really well we never argue. but suddenly i got an email of a girl saying oh i know ur boyfriend we got out for drinks together when im over in saudi. Then i find ... (140 words)

I feel he's pushing me to the side when all I want is to help him!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Sooo my guy and I are in a long distance relationship just until the end of the year when I graduate college. He just got his DREAM job three days ago at a stressful law firm he has to quit is crappy job and start his new job right away. He's been in a strange, quiet, depressed ... (321 words)

Girlfriend says "its him or me" in reference to my friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i told my girlfriend of a year and four months that my friend, one of my best friends, want to come visit me at my college for a day. she goes here to but she hates him. the only reason she hates him is because she thinks he got me to break up with her which isnt true and ... (149 words)

Can anybody tell my why your vagina feels different from one day to the next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his "stuff". I'm NOT cheating on him. Can anybody tell my why your vag... (68 words)

Why does it feel different every time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and abd the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his stuff. I'm not cheating on him. Can anybody tell my why your vagina ... (66 words)

Should I apologise to a girl that thinks I'm a stalker???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl really hurt my feelings when she called me a stalker... but I was not stalking her - or harrassing her. I just sent her messages on myspace saying 'hi' and that I hoped she had a good day... and then I left her alone. She then came into the place I worked at with her ... (217 words)

Just the thought of it excites her that much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a rather large dick, 9 1/4 inches long and about as big around as the bottom of a beer bottle. Is it normal for my girlfriend to orgasm JUST by me dangling it over her crotch when naked? She says its just the thought of the size that excites her. Is that possible? ... (70 words)

So why is my ex acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - First he tells me to not talk about him and I said okay.. he then goes I'm not kidding, I reply I'm not saying anything bad about you and why would it bother you anyway? he goes i don't care I just don't want you to say bad things because it would bother you if I did that to ... (100 words)

Why is my wife talking about this guy in her sleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok here is my dilema. I am happily married for 18 years now. I have never cheated on my wife or has she ever cheated on me. I have no intentions on cheating on her. I love her more than life itself. She is a very kind hearted and sweet person. She met a guy at work. They ... (225 words)

Potential to date? Or time to move on?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy that I've known for a couple of months now and I'm pretty sure that he has been giving me signs that he likes me. We've spoken a lot, spent some time together alone and with others, we've had sex and he is on my mind non stop. However, I feel that it is too s... (169 words)

I can't stop eating! Pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Ok here goes; recently I have been feeling a little strange. For starters I cannot stop eating! I am always hungry. I had no idea why, i'm quite a small girl and I dont usually eat a lot, but right now I literally cannot seem to fill myself up. It wasn't untill m... (298 words)

Help!!! What does it mean when a guy "blows hot and cold" towards you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One minute hes soo sweet, considerate and perfect gives you all his attention and then hes a total idiot who doesn't care if you exist. why would he behave like that?? thnx..xx... (38 words)

She needs to get her life together before she can give me her whole heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Last night my girlfriend and I had a talk. She is still going through a divorce (has been since February, but it's just taking a long time for one reason or another), she says she feels a little suffocated, and she says she needs to get her life together before she can give me ... (226 words)

Friend flirting too much with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, and we are really happy with each other, everything between us is perfect. But our friend, who flirts around a LOT, has many guys like her and who has liked my boyfriend before, keeps flirting majorly with him, so much so ... (141 words)

My husband doesn't shower or brush his teeth as often as he should, what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband very much but lately, there are some things I just can oversee. I mean is there a nice way to tell the man you love that he always has very bad breath... he could forget to brush his teeth for a couple of days, and showers are the same with him..,it... (423 words)

If someone ignores you does that mean that they like you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Apparently a method of telling someone you like them without saying anything is by ignoring/not talking to them. To what extent is this true and is this a popular method to use when you like someone? And is there any way at all if you can tell if someone is ignoring you ... (67 words)

Should I stay in contact with him, even though he's married?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 21 y.o who recently met this gorgeous 41 y.o guy in a band when they played live, after we briefly met, i got in touch with him through myspace and he replied saying that he really liked me though he was married. Anyway, a few weeks passed and we ended up at the same ... (217 words)

Why do I feel so depressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 19 and just started college cos been working the last few years. this past year i havent been working much an i have been at home most of the time not knowing what to do with my life. this has made me fall into getting depressed. i thought when i start college i w... (129 words)

My boyfriend's dad fancies me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am in a right pickle, I have been with my partner for 2 years now, we have lost 2 babies and we live together. Lately it has been hard for us and we didn't no whether we should end the relationship, but I dot want to just stay in the relationship because o... (173 words)

What does anal sex feel like, from a guy's perspective?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what does anal sex feel like? Does it feel like the vagina? Similar to oral sex? can you give a better detail if you are a guy? Please dont say "it feels like pooping" because i want to know what the guy is feeling. ... (44 words)

I'm a 23 year old virgin female who has never been in a relationship or even kissed. What is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old girl who recently really started feeling depressed and I know it is linked to me still being a virgin. It was always something in the back of my mind that I would just think about when I saw a romance movie or something, but as of lately it's a daily thought ... (182 words)

Online romance and fake pictures?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend started dating online we've been together for 2 months now and he has faked many pics, i have asked him before if he was lying to me but he has said that his friends just put them on the internet. how do i know if he's lying to me or not? i really ne... (68 words)

My fiance has terrible mood swings, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. so me and my fiancee have been together around 15 months, engaged since march.. i have a 21 month old child from a previous relationship, who sees my other half completely as her father, the biological one has no involvment at all. I am also 22 weeks pregnant, due in ... (280 words)

My boyfriend's mother dislikes me!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im stuck in an awful situation and really dont know what to do. iv been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and i love him more than anything, but his mother has taken a disliking to me for no reason. she has never really liked me ever since me and my boyfriend started ... (195 words)

Is this situation hopeless?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive met a guy a man of my dreams and we are seeing each other for almost 5 months now. We see each other almost everyday, I know he has a GF ( 9 years relationship ) working overseas and I agreed to the set-up of no expectations. I am falling for him, everyday romance... (135 words)

How should I tell her I like her?

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, So I've gotten to know this girl more then a year ago, in the first month we've seemed to get really close but nothing ever happened. Never even kissed her. Because of this we have just become best friends. I often get to stay over at her college room for the night, ... (361 words)

Should we get married?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi there! I am a Fifty two year old business women who has been living with a great guy for 9 months now but I still do not seem to be comfortable with the idea. He lived 2 hours away when we met and ended up starting a business up and because funds were short he moved in with ... (330 words)

I tingle so much after sex

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After having long sex with my husband I usually cum multiple times and when we are done it tingled so bad I can't control it y does this happen it's only happened with my husband ... (35 words)

Will I regret cutting off contact with him?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I recently deleted my ex and blocked him off a social networking site. I also deleted all the pictures I had of him and threw away some things. He hadn't responded to a happy birthday I sent him and did not send back some of my possessions like i asked and quite frankly, he ... (119 words)

Lockdown Love That I Cant Set Free

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids, My story started April 30 2010, that's when i met her, that's when everything changed. After a drunken college "knight" out i woke up to find the soon to be love of my life in my bed. What did i do?? Apparently i was to drunk that night to do anything. But there ... (491 words)

I had sex on the first day of my period, could I be pregnant?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I had sex on the first day of my period. Me and my fiance had sex like 3 or 4 times that day. And he didn't pull out or wear a condom at all. Is there a possibility that I am pregnant? Like for sure for sure? Cause I'm 17 about to be 18 and I'm a little worried that I am. ... (90 words)

I feel like we don't have anything in common, what should I do?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a little problem. i got married young and we been togeather for 5 years and married for 2, we have 2 kids togeather.well lately ive been questioning my relationship with my husband and i feel like we are not meant for eachother i felt this way for quite awhile but ... (123 words)

Boyfriend has a teeth fetish?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a "teeth" fetish. Or maybe it's a cavity fetish. He always wants to look inside my mouth at fillings I've had done, or any dental work, he likes to feel my teeth with his tongue while we're kissing, and he's even asked if he could see copies of my dental ... (138 words)

Many of my girlfriend's friends were or are sex workers, should I be concerned?

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm generally a solitary person, my girlfriend isn't. I've got no problems with that, and neither does she... but what does concern me is that a big percentage of her friends are or were sex workers. Is this a red flag even if she isn't one herself? ... (47 words)

My girlfriend was distant, so I broke up with her. Will she come back? Help!

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, and had a great summer living together, but once we got back to our normal school routine, and she got a new place with new roomates, she started to seem really distant. We started having way less sex, and she would sometimes ... (501 words)

My fiance wants me to change!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It feels like my fiance wants to change me to fit his life. It wasn't like this before, in fact he used to embrace our differences. Now it's like he wants to keep putting down my quirks until I change. In my line of work I see a lot of things and it's not really for the weak ... (318 words)

He says he'll call, but doesn't!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for a month and 16 days. He is 21, and I am 19. So, we met over the summer because we both were in a world class marching band. We spent 3 months on tour with band together, and we got to know each other, and ... (433 words)

He doesn't want a relationship, I'm confused!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need someone to answer my questions and give me some advice on thurday my boyfriend and i had some awesome sex i have never had sex like dat with him before he is my first. that night he never called until sunday i knew some thing was wrong.when we spoke he said he don't ... (220 words)

Ex-boyfriend says he wants to be my friend, but he's being a jerk!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for over 6 months. I think that our break-up was for the best, as we may not have been the best for each other. We used to live together, but he moved out when he decided to end the relationship. I was hurt at first, because I had tried ... (533 words)

Daughter is having an affair/baby with a married man...

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16 September 2010 (F)

age - Hello. My 24 year old daughter is having an affair with a 30 year old married man. It has been going on, correspondence/physical since the end of 2008. Before he was deployed to Iraq, she got pregnant and soon will be giving birth to his son. She has distanced herself from our ... (295 words)

What about clubbing?

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Clubbing Question.. Where do you stand on clubbing? My significant other likes to go out and club every couple of months. I told her Im ok with anything she does that she would be comfortable doing if I was in the room. Well.. She got wasted one night and was dead set on club... (172 words)

Not sure what to do with a coworker that I'm interested in.

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16 September 2010 (M)

Hookup for two years, but he hasn't asked me to be his g/f

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been hooking up for about 2 years now. Im falling in love with him and he tells me that he loves me but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. This leads me to believe that hes just using me for hook ups and that hes keeping his options open just in case ... (109 words)

My boyfriend not working right now it's driving me crazy!

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i work and my boyfriend doesnt is it okay for me to expect him to do more around the house? he sits here all day with his friends and chills while im at work then when i come home the house is always untidy.(even if it was clean when i left) i get very frustrated and take it ... (110 words)

Gay guy with a crush on a confused guy

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16 September 2010 (M)

age - Ok, I know... I am CREEP I'm a WEIRD-Oooo I don't belong here. I am 49 years old now, and I grew up on a Mission Field. I a 'missionary kid' but I'm a gay, male and I have a crush on a married male who is confused, I'd say, about their sexuality. He has kids too.... (150 words)

Should I put up a front???

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why in the World do i like older guys?! I mean, not much older, but the age difference could be from 4 to 11 years, which is not that much to me considering my relatives but my friends all think its so weird. They always think I'm hiding something because I'd rather hang out ... (160 words)

How do I prepare for my first period?

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16 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi I know I ask a lot of questions but hear me out. I haven't had a period ever. I am 13 and at a bigger than average weight. Lots of girls at my school have started theirs. Even some of the ones younger than me. I started having frequent stomach cramps and thought it was time ... (81 words)

Any input from other same-sex "cougars"?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age - well for starts,my question involves the so called "cougar question".I have been involved with a woman 30 years my junior,who lives in another country(canada),we had met on line, and she was definitley into me,a lot.We have visited with each other 2x,we are lovers, and so far, ... (151 words)

Depressed by my husband's sexual disfunction

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16 September 2010 (F) age - I feel very depressed from my husband sexual dysfunction. We are married 25 years ago.. He is very nice man, and good father. I love him, we used to be very sexual. But sadly something happened nobody knows what, as he has no physical problems,based on very careful medical ... (174 words)

Is it too soon to have my online bf move in with me?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my bf online January of this year. We talked for a while and he finally asked if i was willing to have a long distance relationship with him at the end of June. I want him to move in with me and he wants to move in with me as well. The thing is I was wondering if this is ... (219 words)

12 year old boy caught "in the act"

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, im a single father and i have a question is it ok is my 12 year old son jacks off. I caught him in"the act" yesterday.i need help please help me.... (32 words)

Why is my girlfriend always so jealous of other girls?

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl is jealous of girls I talk to sometimes. The first day I get a web cam she's asking me if I'm gonna have live chats with other girls. She's jealous about anything stupid that involves another girl. I don't understand why. I've never been a flirt even before I met her... (277 words)

I am wanting to know if my son's father and I will ever get back together???

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wanting to know if my son's father and I will ever get back together. Last year we had a physical altercation and he is now being charged with agravated menancing. I am not looking to press charges against him, the state is pressing charges. They wont let me drop the case... (135 words)

Should I take a pregnancy test or not be too concerned?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on the Evra patch for about 10 months now and my period has come on the last wednesday of every month for about 8 months now, never a day sooner or later. But today I noticed some unexpected spotting, and I'm wondering what this could be? Stress? Side-effect? ... (180 words)

Marriage scares me... is it the right way to go?

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16 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay I have met a girl that I know my brother has slept with it was about three to four months before I met her. I decided that it was okay. I will just forgive and try to move on. After we dated for a little while I began to feel a love for her and it scared me. I didn't know ... (458 words)

How do you get over someone who was so good to you?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my partner for 5 years. We talked about marriage and spending our lives together. However, over the last year we noticed that we wanted different things. I wanted to wait to get married, did not want to rush, I wanted to do a phd, become a lecturer and basically ... (321 words)

How can I stop him from being so possessive?

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16 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. I am in the 10th and he is in the 11th, (but I'm graduating early)... Well he doesn't like when other guys talk to me. At all. I can't sit with guys or talk to them and he does the same about girls. Except I didn't ... (105 words)