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reader, Jynns  +, writes (30 April 2017):
Despite laws and western beliefs it's actually better for the human race to have sex and have children with your cousins. Yeah people believe it's the cause of birth defects but it actually only increases the chance of those by 3-4% what it really does is increases our immunity to certain diseases and reinforces certain traits useful for us.
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reader, onyman18 +, writes (23 November 2016):
bro i just want to say this she is 15 you're 16 at the very least if you decide to have sex wait because the age of consent is 16 that gives you plenty of time to work things out. you may find a girlfriend and want to have sex with her or you may talk and decide you don't want to have sex with your cousin. But if you end up deciding to, please use every protection you can.
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reader, athena546 +, writes (25 October 2010):
she is youre cousin! You shouldn't be thinking about that for goddness sakes! Find a girlfriend that is not related to you and have sex with her. Make sure she is as hot as youre cousin is that will make you crazy sex and don't dump her after you have sex.
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reader, Gorirra  +, writes (6 October 2010):
Gorirra is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanx people ill try get ova it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): i agree with chigirl, dnt do ur cuz
ull regret it. trust me......
my advice is, if u find urself really horny and jst cant hold it around her, go to a private place and do ur buisness, this will put the right head in charge of ur body
and like many others said, go find urslef another girl, not family, get some1 from school perhaps?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 You have to understand my point now. I get yours. But heres the facts: you are a horny teenage boy. All you want is sex. Teenage girls do NOT want to have one night stands. You said you only want her ONCE and thats it. If you get it on with her she will want a RELATIONSHIP, NOT SEX.
Have some self respect and don't give in to your hormones. It is only your hormones that want you to sleep around and have sex. But it will do you no good. What if you catch an STD, what if you make her pregnant and become a father at such a young age?
Mature and be an adult before you do what is for adults. Sex is not for children, and you are not near mature enough to understand all the consequences. Sex is never just sex. There is always a lot more involved, especially feelings. And I promise you your cousin, the only way she will have sex with you is if you promise to marry her. Sadly, many men use that excuse just to get into a girls pants. Don't sink that low please, don't disrespect yourself just so you can get sex.
And last but not least, she is your family. Family is out of reach when it comes to sex and relationships. Stay clear. You will find someone else much more appropriate. Probably many of the future girls you meet will think it is disgusting that you had sex with your cousin, so save yourself the embarrassment. Take pride in yourself. Your body is not made just to have sex, and your bran is more important than your penis. Don't let the penis make the big decisions in your life.
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (26 September 2010):
I don't know about where you live, but here in the US it's illegal to marry your cousin.
I'm sorry but it's kinda gross that you want to have sex with her. That's family! Your parents siblings kid. Which is just as good as sister and I really hope you wouldn't have sex with your sister.
I say try to pursue another girl.
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reader, Gorirra +, writes (26 September 2010):
Gorirra is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I can understand all of you points and the risk is big yes and she is like a sister to me but the only last thing is I am willing to take the risk i mean she always used to talk about sex but she stoped now but ja i saw her this weekend and she was reali not so happy with me for i dont know what reason! I talk to her she just walk on and i touch her she just laughs and walks away but she is forever looking at me and just i cant get her out of my mind i mean i got way hotter cousins that this girl but i just want her i dont know why its just that the animal with in me wants to jump out and go crazy every time i see her im happy once i leave and dnt see her for like one year or so then i get so sad and depresed and its just i realy like her i cant explain it its just i dnt know its a very weard feeling with her and i mean please just give me a sign or something just so that i can do it once with her then thats it i realy think she wants to just i dont know how to ask her or what to do??? now you might under stand my point!!
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reader, B13  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 You are 16 and you want to have sex. I can understand that but if you had sex with your cousin now then when you are much mature, you will feel bad and disturbed by thinking that you had sex with your cousin which is more likely a sister to you. I bet you will get a better girl other than your cousin. You just have to be patient.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Keep it in your pants. And never try and force the issue.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 I don't know if cousins count as being too close for compfort to not worry over mutations of offspring but iwouldn't take a chance
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Your feeling is just lust. Do yourself a favour and try and forget about her. Find yourself a girlfriend (not your cousin) and develop a relationship.
A loving relationship is not just sex and remember sex is not love.
Your at that age where your becoming sexually aware and your own mind will be racing with thoughts of doing it. Stick with masturbation its safer!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Do you have cold showers in South Africa? I hope so. I recommend taking numerous ones.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (22 September 2010):
I don't think she is interested. Do yourself a favour and find a proper girlfriend before you have sex at all. I don't think your cousin is interested in being your girlfriend, so maybe you need to look elsewhere.
You can not demand that anyone has sex with you just because they are hot. And women don't even think that way about guys. Women have sex with men they care about and have feelings for, feel comfortable with and know they can trust. And women want a relationship and a boyfriend who will not cheat. If you can give a woman that, then maybe she will be your girlfriend and you can have sex with her.
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reader, xX_Kitty_Xx +, writes (22 September 2010):
Firstly you really shouldn't have sex with her as she is your cousin and she may not want to have sex with you because you are related. Secondly you can't make her have sex with you she has to want it as well. Thirdly it's a big risk the only way to try and get her to have sex with you is to make a move on her (when your alone obviously) but it's a big risk she could either pull away and possibly ruin her trust between you or one thing could lead to another.... But it's a 50/50 situation... Hope this helps (: x x
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