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writes:A couple weeks ago my best guy friend went out to a bar with one of his friends from highschool who is pretty hot I suppose (we'll call him drew). At the bar drew had asked my friend if he had a chance with me. The news got back to me and I was pretty excited about it but im just not sure how to go about it. Drew and I have never talked before and the only reason why he knows of me is because my friend and him used to be co workers and id come into their work every now and then and he'd see me standing around. I'm not really looking for a relationship... but more of a fling.... how do i start talking to him to get this started?? Im not really used to making the first move... I normally just get asked out by guys so im clueless
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): Yeah Id make sure this fella doesnt want to pull a charlie harper (ie one night stand or fling). Otherwise, both could have different intentions and youd get nothing out of it but bad relations with another. Call the guy up and formally talk, then if he says sure then youre game.
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Maybe you can suggest your friend to simplify things for him. Since drew checked with your friend if he has a chance with you, you can ask him to communicate a yes. Maybe then Drew can himself take a first move. Also, you can ask your friend to share your number with him, and tell him he can call you. He might call you then. Good that you have a common friend who can help break the ice between you two. If nothing else, the three of you can go out for lunch or dinner, ie you, drew and the common friend, which will surely break the ice for both of you and you can start talking to him.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Its simple, use your voice. Just ask him out for a drink but make sure early on you make it clear your not after a relationship as he may have other ideas.
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