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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Friends are ditching me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently started high school, and my best girl friends have found a few new friends. And I know we'll still be friends, but they've been kind of ignoring me now. For example, they went to the movies and didn't invite me. And instead of carpooling with me to go somewhere as we ... (107 words)

I thought she liked me...now shes flaking? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There's a girl I work with that I'm crazy about. She's 25, a single mother, and 9 months out of a 6 year relationship with the father of her child, whom she insists she is done with (she tried staying with him for the sake of the baby but said forcing it just didn't work, so ... (935 words)

Birth control pills make me moody and sick to my stomach

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ive been on birth control for almost a week and this is my first time. i havent gotten my period for 2 months and not preg. (negative preg. test and ultrasound shows nothing) the BC pills make me sick to my stomach. Is this normal? i have irregular periods so they told me ... (75 words)

Am I being used or does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice! I've been "talking" to this guy for a little over a month now. He's the biggest sweetheart and I really like him but I don't know how he feels. He always makes sure he's the last person I talk to at night by waking me up EVERY NIGHT...which I think is ... (134 words)

The sex is great but that's not all I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi again i have a question about bondage sex the thing is my boyfriend loves to tie me up and stuff and i love it as well but sometimes i am scared that this is what he wants from me and nothing else hes loveing kind and since moveing out here as u know most of my family h... (186 words)

He's the only one keeping me sane, but I don't want to drag him down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, well ive been with my boyfriend 4 months and i know its not long but he's the only one who makes me happy. i had a bad year and im still dealing with everything for the last 10 months. somehow my boyfriend made things better and i swear i think i would be dead if he didnt ... (149 words)

I just want to cry and move away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

- Ive had the worst week of my life this week. Firstly, im a single mum to a 5 month old boy. Im finding it very hard to bring him up at the moment. His dad is around and sees him as often as he can but im still finding it very hard. Then I had a huge row with my whole family ... (172 words)

I know what I want and it's him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - iv been wonderin whether i should even ask this question... met my boyfrend bout 5 mths ago. and i cnt even say in words how madly in love we were. we met every single night and just clung together for the whole night. i finally thought i found the 1. the connection i felt was ... (255 words)

What are the best lesbian dating websites in your opinion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, What are the best dating websites or communities for lesbians or F/F relationships in your opinion? The only dating website I've ever joined was okcupid, however I've had bad experiences there because I always get unwanted attention from males. Thank Y... (52 words)

I think she likes me! what do you guys think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl in my English class and I think she might like me. You see on the first day of school the teacher made us do this thing where we have contact buddies and she was mine. A contact buddy is someone who you give your number to just in case you miss school. Anyhow ... (150 words)

Whirlwind courtship and now he's backing off. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy 6 weeks ago on an aeroplane (it feels longer for both of u). we were both going to different destinations and i was ending up where he was on his last night so we arranged to meet - i text him but wasn't expecting a reply but was pleasantly surprised when i ... (464 words)

How do I get boyfriend to be more flirty and tender?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known my bf for three years. He is a quiet guy but funny and outgoing around ther right people. We love eachother and stuff but I dnt rele feel the love. -in an ldr- like when we talk txt or I'm he never calls me a pet name or is really descriptive. And he never looks at ... (116 words)

5 weeks since he walked out without a word. Do I contact him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age - boyfriend of 8 years is verbally abusive to me and when he drinks it worse he is all about himself doesnt have a job hasnt in 3 years moved in with his mommy mind you hes 47 ii did everything and anything for him and i feel used i own my home work 2 jobs and he does nothing ... (366 words)

Fell for straight friend who said "hell no"..how do I keep his friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 25 and in the closet. i have fallen for a straight guy who had become a good friend. i told him that i wanted to mess around. his answer was hell no. he has agreed to sit down and talk this out. what do i say to him so as not to lose him as a friend?... (60 words)

We love each other but are getting bored

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heya, well me nd my bf have beeen together for about 4 months but we have been on and off for around 3 years. we love each other very much but we are both getting a bit bored. i feel it and i know he feels it too. its seems tht we r trying to have fun instead of it just com... (176 words)

I still love him...how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...I've got a problem... It is this guy...we've been togheter for 4 months but last week we broke up... after the break-up we said that we hated each other and alot of mean things... but after 3 days...he called me and he apologized for what he did, he said he wants me back, ... (186 words)

Is coworker interested in me? or just flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been working with him for nearly one 1 year. We are at the same age, at the same department, sit next to each other, and his job is designer, while my job is content writer. At first I don't have any feeling about him, just like a normal worker, but then rumor about... (883 words)

Pain as the other woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age - I became the other woman quite by chance. My lover pursued me for many months. I did the right thing and sent him back to his wife and family. Now, I am the only one in agony. I just want to have contact with him as I did before, but he is very cool to me. He broke my ... (111 words)

Should I stay because of love or get out because of conditions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i love my husband and he is actually loving to me but we live in a difficult condition always one problem or the other.these conditions make me unhappy.i dont know what to do.should i stay in this marriage just because of love or should i get seperated because these conditions ... (53 words)

My boyfriend is misinformed about birth control!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a slight problem right now. My boyfriend is a little bit miss informed about how easy it is to get pregnant. I am on birth control, soo because of this he thinks we don;t need to use condom's since we both know there's no STD's or anything to worry bout there. But I ... (77 words)

Will she be satisfied with my size after having a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody, thnx for spendin some time to read my question, i ve been with my girlfriend for ages and our sex life seems to be great. im average size around 6 inches , and so far im really satisfied with my size and so is my partner since she really enjoys sex as im able to ... (139 words)

Should I walk out of this mess even though I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationship with a married man about 20yrs older than i am.at first he always condem his wife he alway told me that im d only that can make him happy hes just wit her because of the kids.eventually i moved in with him but in a different apartment and we took a kind ... (128 words)

"Guy Friends" and shady behavior

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'm sure a million people have been in this situation or something similar, but I've been pretty upset lately to the point of losing significant sleep and having nightmares over this. My girlfriend has lots of "guy friends." The only interaction I am aware of between... (446 words)

How do I start this conversation with him?? I like him alot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been getting to know this guy.. he thinks am not your everyday girl theres something different about me and that i amuse him:) hes always complimenting me and really caring. we talk about everything except sex and love. we are always talking and never run ou... (192 words)

Should I ask her out? or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... I'm asking to see if anyone else thinks theres an opening here for me to become friends and then something more with this girl, I'm just really going to summarize what I think shows a chance and shows a lack there of: * I can swear that I've seen her looking at me an... (292 words)

Is there any hope for this man being any better than he's shown himself to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there any hope for this man being any better than he's shown himself to be? I was with him for five years- where he lied/cheated/manipulated me repeatedly. Last time we spoke (a week back), he admitted he never 'dweels' on things. He doesn't think back or ponder over things, ... (133 words)

G/f such a natural flirt that I'm wondering if its worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was reading my girlfriends facebook comments when i noticed she has something going on with another guy..they talk a ton and she keeps telling him how much she misses him. It's pretty flirty and he tells her he loves her? I'm sure it's meant to be friendly but still..its ... (159 words)

I love them both! Best friend? Or his lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age - ive falling in love with my best friends partner i have know her for 9 years and we have always been very close with unspoken feelings a few year ago we kissed and we never spoke about it but we grew closer 9months ago we started a relationship . and she tells me she loves me ... (205 words)

Boyfriend lasts for hours in bed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend loads, but there is one problem, he lasts ages in bed. Anything up to 2 hours! The sex itself should be great; we vary positions and really do enjoy ourselves. Its not like I just lie there or anything :P But, I'm no athelete! And after such a long time... (122 words)

Guys: How beautiful would a girl have to be for you to cheat with her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - They say that a guy may not purposely go out to find someone to cheat with, but that if someone latches on to THEM, they would be willing to cheat. Guys, how beautiful would a girl have to be in order to get you to cheat on your significant other with her? Let's say that you ... (113 words)

I can't tell if my guy is having orgasm or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little confused. I've never been able to feel when my guy comes inside of me. With my ex-bf, I always knew he came because it'd be dripping out and when I went to clean up, the ejaculate was always pearl-ish white, so I always assumed that was how you could tell. With my ... (106 words)

What is going on with my relationship? Is my bf Inexperienced or just not in to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i have been dating this guy for 2 months. Everything was great the first 2 weeks. He defiantly plays head games with me. To start we meet though friends. My best friend is one of his best friends. She told me right off the bat that he is very picky about girls he dates... (351 words)

Is it true that a guy won't ever turn down sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. we r very happy together. i have a problem though, i have been influenced by people so much in the past that you cannot trust any man ever. an i have been told this so many times that i dont trust men now. i cant imagine... (120 words)

I was a good girl and now I'm wondering why I didn't do the bad things that others do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was a virgin when I got married. I will admit to heavy petting and finger penetration. But no complete sex penetration. I was saving myself for marriage. I was a good girl. I was married for 26 years when my husband past away suddenly. I thought we were soul mates... (475 words)

My boyfriend ignores me, and it doesn't make sense!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im really confused , and wondering if anyone can help me. i met my bf few month a go online, we talked on the phone and then decided to go on a date and it was great ! we both liked eachother so much and he was so sweet and carying; sex was also great. a month later the ... (327 words)

Why is he taking me where other women he dates hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So this turkish guy that goes where i go listen to music stares at me alot which i dont find creepy. He ask for my number after a long while of this. Then he calls alot and i say okay we can do womething. So he tells me he is seeing two other women. I am not upset because i ... (239 words)

He doesn't love me the way that I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i went out with a guy for 3.5 yrs.. love of our lives (to each other)..we had a long distance relationship..i lived over there with him for 1.5 yrs.. msot amazing time. got to see how we are really face to face instad of over the phone etc...we broke up cuz he cudnt move here ... (237 words)

My boyfriends has commitment issues after 4 1/2 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, for the last 4 1/2 years Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend. I cannot tell you how wonderful it has been. There's no doubt in my mind that he loves me very much. Although our personalities are quite different we have always kept a very honest relationship, at... (503 words)

How can I date someone that works so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, a few months ago my boyfriend got a job. The problems we were having in our relationship were finally getting resolved, but then once he started to work, things got so much worse. He works so much-especially on weekends, which is usually the only time we can hang out. We ... (226 words)

She acts different around me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So there is this girl I told I liked on facebook (i know it was stupid...) so she said she was flattered and she told me that she doesnt like me that way ever since then, i noticed she looks at me and when i catch her looking, she looks away i figured that she just ... (692 words)

Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age - Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people? As in 30 years later? Can you not remember the pleasure only the pain as you "hit the wall"? A sexual past (as a teenager) one incident with 5 guys and 1 girl, another tw... (323 words)

Are these reasons enough to leave someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are these reaosns acceptable enough to leave somone: 1. He lives far away during term time so I can only see him during half term. 2. He has ADD and mild autism. 3. He is often not very affectionate and i have to make all the first moves. 4. He is boring to talk to, as al... (184 words)

I found out too late that my friend for many years just used me for sex. How do I cope?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In October, I will have known this guy for four years. We were always really good friends, I thought. It seemed like we were always spending time with each other and able to talk about things. He would have girlfriends and I would date other people as well. I've only had sex ... (540 words)

Is it ok to tell him that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy that I've know for a couple of months and it's so far so good and I really like him. I want to tell him that I like him because I do feel that there is a connection but it's too soon to be having a full on relationship. I just want to tell him that I like ... (91 words)

my parents are opportunists, that jumped on the money wagon once I started making good money

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My parents want to take advantage of me, what do you think? This is a huge problem that I have with my parents. They want to take advantage of me financially. They supported my education, and they want their money back. However, in my country this is not legal, to ask a daught... (424 words)

My younger sister is running with the wrong people and is going to get into a bad mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - The thing is... my sister is getting in the wrong croud of people, she getting drunk and doing all the stuff she shouldnt be doing shes only 13 (just turned it) and shes turning into a waste of space. everybodys giving up on her but i dont want to because i love her to bits and ... (243 words)

My ex was so sweet and turned so cold, I don't think I'll trust anyone again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend very late last year, but I am struggling to move on. We were together for 2 1/2 years, and we had been hoping to move in together. He started working all the hours God sends to try to save enough for a deposit which I was so grateful for, but I ... (502 words)

I jumped to conclusions, broke up with him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy and I have been seeing eachother off and on all summer. The other day I had 3 girls tell me that he was cheating on me. One of the girls like brought up her brother like he was interested in me or something. I'm not interested in him. Anyway it made me angry with what ... (313 words)

How can I make him notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fourteen years old and I just started highschool a week ago. I love and I know alot of people..freshman through seniors..im in four honors classes and in my biology class I sit near this really cute guy...were friends on facebook but we never really talk...it says he's ... (66 words)

I gave my daughter the wrong advice and don't know how to make things right

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

11 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Three girls on the bus the other day told my daughter that her boyfriend was cheating on her. One of the girls has a brother that I think he is a little bit interested in my daughter and I think that she was trying to see if maybe my daughter was interested in him or not or ... (598 words)

Long distance relationship with older woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a 25 yr old male dating this 37 yr old woman with 3 kids this is a long distance relationship it is hard for us to see each other due to financial reasons i really love this woman and i wanna be with her its just everyday her kids be rude and disrespectful towards i cant ... (250 words)

I didn't get Plan B this time and now worried about being pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for around 8 1/2 months and he is trying to get me pregnant. we dont use protection and i kno its stupid but it just doesnt happen. usually when we have sex he pulls out nd cums on my stomach but there have been a couple occasions when he didnt do ... (104 words)

Teacher nice? Or he has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had feelings towards a teacher for a long time, im 15 and he is 24. I didn't realise he liked me back but here are some of the things that have happened He has asked me if i have a boyfriend and when i said no he said 'that's good' He stares at me during lessons and ... (174 words)

He says he likes me but doesn't show it anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing this one guy for a long while now, im crazy about him, but the problem is when he said he was crazy about me im thinking second thoughts about whether he is or not. When ever we made plans he was always ther on time treated me so well; incredibly sweet, and ... (125 words)

Confused and heartbroken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I hav been good friends with a doctor for over 3 years. We hav a special relationship infact people that we work with think that there is something going on between us. He is realy sweet, pays a lot of attention to me, notices a lot about me. Infact we will sit for hours ... (205 words)

How much does appearance matter to men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How much does appearance matter to men? For example, I don't put in any effort into my appearance except that my clothes are clean (I usually wear t-shirts and jeans). My boyfriend says that the clothing I wear either makes me look really young (hello kitty or cutsey variet... (219 words)

Something is missing in the marriage I feel like I need something else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I married my husband in 98. I was 19 he was 24. After 6 years and 2 kids I wasn't happy. We had some problems in the bedroom. I always felt like he didn't want me. I never cheated and I was a stay at home mom. My husband worked and did everything to try to make me ... (311 words)

How do you know when you've found Mr. Right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all. How do you know when you've found Mr Right? I've been with my guy for years now. Things aren't perfect, but we love each other unconditionally and we can always make each other laugh. We wake up each day, looking forward to being at each other's side. We don't cu... (302 words)

I know I did the right thing but my friends are making fun of me about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to start of by saying I know what I did was right BUT I hate the fact that my friends are still making fun of me for it. A few weeks ago my gf (of a 3 months) and I were at a end of summer party with a bunch of our friends, she was REALLY DRUNK, the most drunk I hav... (391 words)

Took pill, got sick, now pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm worried im pregnant,made love a few times this month,was a day behind with my pill so last day took was weds rather than tues usually i get period on the friday but havent had it yet. the night after i had sex i went out got drunk and threw up,could that have meant the pill ... (81 words)

My boyfriend hits me every time we argue

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years this year and during the 2nd year we was together he started hitting me everytime we argued. The thing is...He said i go on and on and thats what makes him hit me. And he carried on until i cry or until he has hurt me alot then wal... (366 words)

I don't know how to be social

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, real quick- I am not antisocial, just don't know how to be social? I guess, it takes a certain kind of person to vibe with that doesn't make me feel like im playing along in a game to be apart of a conversation. So it is my sophomore year in college and I am more stress... (638 words)

I want to go to Paris with a friend but boyfriend wants me to wait and go with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My question might sound stupid but i'm just asking people's opinions b/c i'm not sure anymore of my own. I'm going on a vacation with my best fried to london next week (i've known her since high school)and now weve decided that maybe we might want to go to paris for a f... (355 words)

Why doesn't boyfriend ever invite me to parties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i see each other everyweekend, fri sat and sun. every once in 4 weeks or so he will say he is going out to a party with friends etc. i dont mind this but the fact that he never ever invites me to come to parties with him or clubs makes me really upset and sad.... (199 words)

Does my teacher have feelings for me or is he joking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had strong feelings for one of my teachers for a long time...lets call him Mr.W and i didn't think he was even slightly interested in me but now i'm really not sure. Im 15 and he's 24, he teaches me Science. Since he started a couple of years ago, i've thought the worl... (294 words)

Whilst I was on holiday a random boy tried to split me and my boyfriend up. I'm so angry.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone some adivce would be greatly appreciated. Im 18 and my boyfriends 19, ive been with him for a year and a half, im going to say i would like to think where the perfect match and that we will be together for a very long time, but these days you just cant be sur... (1046 words)

Don't want to lose my friend but we both like the same guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - help my friend and i both like the same guy i havent told her yet and i dont want to loose her friendship what do i do ?... (28 words)

Girlfriend is thinking of leaving me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend has told me tonight that she has been thinking about our relationship the past few days. she is thinking about leaving me. we got drunk tonight and i accidentally slipped my ex's name when i was getting frustrated with her. maybe built up emotion from the... (225 words)

The more he tries to pull away, the more I push

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age - All the answers to my previous question make sense given the info I provided but I'm not convinced it is the full story. To recap, I met a guy 8 weeks ago and we became intimate and intense very quickly. When we are together he is very loving and I feel secure but he then tries ... (415 words)

Unsettling memories from 14-15 years ago are making me wonder what really happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so I'm 26 now and at the time I must of been bout 11 to 12 Maybe almost 12 years old and I spent the night at a friend from schools house one night, it was the first and last time I slept over her house, I kinda remember drinken a little_ Maybe a 40 oz. of beer"Old English ... (366 words)

Divorce angst killing our friendship

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11 September 2010 (M)

age - My marriage fell apart due to a huge disconnect between my wife and I over many years. We decided to divorce last year, but it is taking very long because of the fact we cant divide assets, mainly because the house has been up for sale forever and wont sell. To make things ... (769 words)

Why would a guy suddenly ask his friend if she's on the pill?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Its just a very quick question really but id appreciate answers all the same :) I was talking to one of my friends last night via text and we talking about a holiday we've just booked together with some other friends. We're both in our mid twenties and we've always been very... (140 words)

19 Nearly 20 and still a virgin

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11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im going to be 20 in 6 months or so and im still a virgin. And the thought of it (and still being a virgin at 19 for that matter) is absolutely killing me. I hate myself so much and i cant stop with feeling negative, even though i know thats just going to make everything a ... (281 words)

Should I settle with a girl who claims she's pregnant with my baby?

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11 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i falld in love with two girl and dated them both.my first girlfriend discoverd that i was seen another girl she conflanted me and i admited.my second girlfrind also discoverd and i admited but i cheated sayaying that it was over and she was now my best friends.because of this ... (235 words)

Bad news--best friend and I like the same guy

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basicly, I like this guy but so does my bestfriend. She gets extremely jealous whenever he talks or looks at me and espeacaly if he writes on my fb wall. She always tries to make me jealous my telling me in depth what hes said to her and how he looks at her but whenever I s... (507 words)

Guys--once they get you the game is over?!

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why does some guys tell you everything so sweet that you want to hear and than when they finally get you, its like game over and their not the same person you had grown to like.... (36 words)

How can I make it more clear that I like him?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy and i know he would probably never like me back but i stareat him in class and sometimes he looks back what dose that men how do you tell if a guy likes you. how can i make it more clear that i like him ifen thought he knows?... (53 words)

Left and right sides of brain do not agree!

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. my left side of the brain is telling me he just used me for sex. He would never take agirl like me seriously, he would never like somebody like me, he is so much better than me, he can have anyone he wants, why would he choose me? My right side of the brai... (727 words)

Long Distance Relationship and GF having guyfreind who she use to sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a Long Distant relationship with a woman I love dearly. Its been two years and I have finally sold my home and am looking for employment where she lives. I fly down to se her at least once a month to see her. In the beginning and up until a year into it, we had a ... (1632 words)

I'm scared of being pregnant even though we still had clothes on

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 16 and about 3 days ago I went to my bf's house...I don't know if im making a bit of a fuss about this but when we went to his room..we started kissing and stuff like that..i climbed on top of him and he was in his boxers and I was in my skirt and panties still..Im really ... (91 words)

Would he not date me because I don't have money or a house yet?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice with regards to a man.. I met him last week in a club with friends, I was in my local bar and he was there and we got chatting. Straight away I liked him and it has been ages since I have liked anyone (Had few ex's still floating around) everyone... (616 words)

I feel too old to be uprooting my life!

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Thanks for reading this, hope you can help. Basically mine is two parts but related. The first is the fact that I am moving 260 miles away TODAY! and feeling awful/scared about it, I am 30 years old and live in a big city and I LOVE MY LIFE here, I was born and raised ... (435 words)

Why won't he say 'I Love You'?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend won't say "I love you". We've been together almost 2 years now. He's 20 and I'm 18. We're even planning on moving in together next summer. When we started going out he just got out of a long relationship about a year ago. This one lasted 2 years and he g... (149 words)

I want my past lover my husband cannot fulfill my needs

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - HELP!!! I am a 38 yr old wife for 13 years and mother of 4. I have a good guy for a husband that loves me to death. We have had several sex issues and I have had several affairs. We are now on a good path for working our marriage out, but we are still having a problem in the ... (336 words)

He's still stuck on his ex and can't be with me and its breaking my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy through my friend who had been dating him for over a year. She’s a maneater, plays a role and then is onto the next best thing. As a couple, they were practically married, basically living together and showering together just about every morning. She began ... (798 words)

Dry run when ejaculating?

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11 September 2010 (M)

age - I am 65 years old male. When I ejaculate nothing comes out or if it comes it is only afew drops. What can be the reason? please help.... (28 words)

Are we doing the wrong thing here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age - I have a married friend i have been seeing for 7yrs.i am not married myself or do i wish to be so i don't wish to marry this man or ask him to leave his wife either.or has he ever said a bad word about his wife. We have an extreamly good relationship and yes sex is involved... (264 words)

Drunken girlfriend kissed another guy for 20 minutes blaming it on the alcohol

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf Drunk alcohol with boy on the beach. and allowed a boy to put his hands on her breast and other parts. And she kissed that boy for more than 20 minutes on his lips, It hurt me a lot, but she said she dont know what happened to her bcoz he was drunk Should i forgi... (105 words)

It's over! He told me to stop calling him

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - its been a month in in a half and my x wont talk to me at all he says he got a girlfrenid but i still love him and i dont wont nobody but him but he told me to stop calling his phone its over what can i do.... (50 words)

I'm too shy to ask anyone out!

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11 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I need serious help! I am so shy that I never ask any one out. I've never been in a relationship and I want to start now. How do I do it?... (32 words)

Friend changing himself because of his broken heart

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys AND girls I need both of your opinions. I'm 16 and this I've known this guy for years who is 17 and amazing. We're like brother and sister. He helps me a lot and now he needs it. He is a gentlemen. He isn't perverted, respects girls, kind-hearted, has mannners, is loyal, ... (319 words)

My girlfriend hugs other guys

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11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so basically my girlfriend hugs other guys. And quite frankly i wouldn't care as long as she didnt do it in front of me or told me about. But there's the problem, she does just that. I have told her numerous times that i don't like it,but she continues to openly disregard ... (91 words)

I want to be a chic geek!

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11 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I want to be a chic geek. I admit, I am a nerd but I want to be a cooler one though. I need tips on 1) how to buy money to buy the clothes I want and 2) incorporate my nerdyness into a fashion sense. Please and thank you. :)... (51 words)

Is friendship and companionship enough?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship for 9 years. During the first 2 years we had really amazing sex and it was an important part of our relationship. Then in the 3rd year we had sex less often until it finally stopped all together. I didn't want it to stop and when I asked why it had ... (312 words)

Girlfriends first relationship, Not sure if I'm the one.

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11 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is about my girlfriend thinking of cheating on me. Now it sounds strange but hear me out. We have been dating for a while and I realize that she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. I know this because from past experience of other women, i know ... (350 words)

Tough being a teen mom with dreams!

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyways, I was always the type of girl to get straight A's in school. I worked really hard throughout high school and graduated with high honors of 4.0 with the thought that i would go to college and be successful. Turns out i got pregnant, i started working and its hard for ... (198 words)

How do I prove to him that things will be ok?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, lately I've been really depressed and it's getting really bad, and I don't mean to or want to, but I end up hurting my boyfriend so much. It's almost as if something else is taking over me, and he understands and believes that. He keeps insisting I talk to a counsellor, ... (173 words)

What's love to him?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do younger guys see relationships? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 year old guy over the internet. I know, it's silly, and to some, disgusting. But I used to LDR date a LONG time ago, and I quit after I realized how much trust you need to have, and to put simply: I'm absolute... (707 words)

I haven't had my period for almost a year

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i'm a 14 year old virgin and it has been 2 years since i had my first period. The last time i remember having it was in october or november or 2009. i don't have any money or health insurance to go see a gyneacologist but i wonder if my symptons are serious and if there are ... (74 words)

After two years he contacts me! what would you do??

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 4yrs ago (I was 18 and he was 20) We started "talking" for a while (3months) getting to know each other. I let him kmow I was/am a virgin waiting for marriage. He said he respected me for that and he was fine with it. For the first month he acted like he liked... (481 words)

How do I kiss my boyfriend right?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How do i kiss my boyfriend right? like if i was to french kiss is there anyway to stop a lot of saliva? cuz that sounds like a major turn off...... (31 words)

Is this a mid life crisis or should I leave my wife for her?

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11 September 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I have been married to a wonderful woman for 20 years who I still think I love. Back in January I reconnected with an old girlfriend (who is unhappily married) on Facebook. We've been emailing one another and even have met for lunch a couple of times (but nothing has happ... (126 words)

I am having thoughts of having a one night stand! I'm not a cheater! why am I thinking this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend satisfies me very much in bed but for some stupid reason, I want a one night stand. But, I don't even have anyone in mind! I've only ever slept with my boyfriend and it makes me feel so bad that I think about this! Then, I think I want my bf to spank me or ... (107 words)

How soon is too soon to get over someone?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How soon is too soon to get over someone? I *just* got out of my first serious relationship (and we almost made it to our 1 year anniversary). Right now I'm feeling hurt and confused, but I'm wondering how long is it okay to be mopey? And when is it time to pick yourself back ... (102 words)

Why did it take so long to figure out my sexuality?

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11 September 2010 (M)

age - I often wondered why my m/f love life was not working. Then I had an affair with another man and gave my self completely to him, it was wonderful. My only question is why it took so long? Could I have known any sooner or what might have been a tip off to me? Thanks Dave ... (57 words)

I'm having trouble having an orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I really need some help with this because quite frankly its driving me nuts :( i have been having sex for a good number of years, and never really bothered much to consider my own pleasure. Sex has always been pretty standard for me, have had problems with it emotionally ... (257 words)

How can I stop obsessing over his ex's?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't help but still feel insecure when it comes to my boyfriend's ex-flings. I Facebook them often, and have even made fake profiles to try to friend them (which haven't work) so I can keep tabs on them. My boyfriend has had a problem with lying in the past before we were ... (88 words)

Why does he act as if we never existed?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for three years. We had a beautiful child together and overnight he broke it off. I am so confused one week we were fine he said he loved me i told him i felt him slipping away and he said he loved me and his feeling has not changed then the next week he ... (153 words)

I want my friend back!

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im stuck in such a heartbreaking situation. Afew of us go out at the weekends we all used to be great mates but recently one of thems changed. Its heartbreaking because i once was and still am in love with him although i know nothing will ever happen between us. I cant exactlly ... (295 words)

I'm going insane! Am I depressed?

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11 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I feel so alone. I feel unloved. Sometimes I dont know why im here. I never give, I only receive. In school, and everywhere else I have NO friends what-so-ever. At lunch and in class, I dont know where to sit. Because if I sit alone people think im weird, but if I sit with ... (499 words)

Is he spending to much time playing video games? or am I being needy?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what I want to ask... so I'll just type... I am confused and unhappy in my relationship of over 2 years. I love him and he loves me. I just feel really lonely when I'm with him often, because he likes to spend as much time as he possibly can, when he isn't at work,... (785 words)

Does role play have to lead to sex?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does roleplaying have to lead to sex? I'm asking because me and my bf were disagreeing about it. He thinks that if i were to roleplay with someone it'll be cheating because he says it'll lead to having sex. I disagree, i mean i'm sure you can come up with a role play wit... (117 words)

Broke up with my boyfriend because of my best friend

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am so confused, despite the fact i can help others with problems i just can't seem to sort my own problem. About a year ago i meet this lad on a night out, i really liked him but he didn't feel the say way. I later became best friends with him because he was one of my best f... (280 words)

How can I get this relationship back on track?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, the last few months have been hard with us falling out and seemingly making up. Most recently we fell out and decided that splitting up was the way forward. It seems that over the last 4 months he had felt undervalued in the ... (216 words)

Am I being foolish by helping her?

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11 September 2010 (M)

age - I broke up with my ex girl friend 3 months ago. I believe she my have borderline personalty disorder. I have seen many of the symptoms over the past two years and have described them to a professional therapist and she believes this is the case. We still communicate by... (193 words)

How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship?

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11 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship? ~~~~~~ In detail: She's the average, silent, "I am keeping to my work, and putting it first above all else" kind of girl. I know that she likes me, and her aunt has told me that "She really ado... (470 words)

How much bigger than average is my vagina? serious help please!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband says I have a large vagina. There are humongous jealousy issues on his end that threaten to end our marriage, because of this. (But, despite what he thinks, I've never been with another man - actually ever - he's the only one I've been with). I need help, I need ... (283 words)

Blood on my "toy" is this normal?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, lately when im masterbateing i notice blood on the toy is that normal to happen? At first i thought it was me starting my period but i found it wasnt that, so then i thought it was cause im a virgin but i dont think its that any more cause it keeps happening now for some ... (65 words)

He was insecure about his size and I think I have made it worse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sat here feeling terrible - okay so I met a guy on a dating site three months ago we have been talking every day.Just last week he confided in me that he was embarrassed about the size of his manhood tonight we met and later in the evening we started getting very intimate we ... (180 words)

I kissed another woman, It ment nothing, should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. the first year we where on and off and dating other people. We decided to be a steady couple about 2 years ago and things have been great. I love her, she is wonderful to me. through the summer we have not been together ... (247 words)

I regret what I did to my boyfriend, I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

My husband and I hardly have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have a long history of me not trusting him. Early in our marriage he was doing some stuff and he lied all the time about where he was etc. After 22 years I still go thru times of not trusting him. Sex has also not been a priority for him. Very seldom do ... (408 words)

Love, Friendly or Flirting?

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11 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well there's this amazing guy I know. Seriously, he's the entire package; brains, cutie, plays percussion, super nice, etc. I was helping him fix his uniform one day because I noticed he couldn't get his collar hooked on right (they are the stupidest things ever!!!! lol) ... (263 words)

I am having trouble trusting my husband, he lies to much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is always lying, years ago he lied about our finances, lied about credit cards, lied about not having the mail box keys, making me go crazy looking for it, meanwhile he is secretly going to get mail. What is this...after confronting all this he states didn't want to ... (280 words)

Does he want to get married or is he just stalling? I am wondering if I should walk away.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

11 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've searched online for an answer for a while, but nothing ever seems to fit just right so I need to go ahead and ask this myself...is it time for me to leave? I want to get married. My BF of 4 years keeps saying, "yeah, lets just go do it" or "i can't afford a ring right no... (253 words)