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writes:im 15 years and my boyfrend is 20 years. i broke up with him some months before and we again joined. during that time i had another Bf . i didnt know how end the relationship with him .. When i wanted to break up with him my first Boyfriend didnt allow me to do so .. And now he 's not believing when i told that im not having any affair with him .. i dunno how to prove it to him ? we almost argue everyday about it and he's away from town for a week
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): As people are probobly saying..the age doesnt matter! seriously it doesnt! You have nothing to prove to him and if he doesnt believe you show him where the door is. Your only young you dont want all this crap on your shoulders. put it straight that your NOT having an affair if he still doesnt believe you GET RID! :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): No offense but there is nothing a 15 year old and a 20 year old have in common. There is a reason why he isn't dating a girl his own age and its because he is a loser. And he sounds like one because you don't owe him anything, if you didn't cheat then he needs to trust you. I'm 20 now and i would never hang out a 15 year old because we have nothing in common. Trust me when i was 15 i had a relationship with someone that was 20 and i thought it was because i was mature, but no i wasn't. And do you think i stay with him? Hell no! If there is no trust there is no relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUr answers are really helpful for me !
THanks !
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 You dont need to prove anything to him. If he cant believe and trust you then he doesnt love you.
Relationships do have arguments but they are not every day thats not helthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do agree with it but he really means a lot to me .
its kinda difficult . i have tried it many times. he brings me back to his life , promising dat he ' ll nt do such a thing ..
its really difficult for me !
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 If he can not believe you then he does not trust you. And if he does not trust you there are no foundations for a relationship. Bottom line is that if he does not trust you you need to end the relationship with him. This is NOT about you proving anything to him, because you never cheated. This is about him learning how to trust, which is a problem he has. There is nothing you can or should do to earn his trust, because you never proved you were unworthy of his trust. Hence, he is the one with the problem, and he is the only one who can fix it.
If he needs proof then you need a different relationship. He is not the guy for you. If he argues about this every day then you should end the relationship.
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