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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband is so distant since I've had the baby...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when my husband is so distant after we just had a baby? He doesn't want do anything with me anymore and that he works all the time from 8 until 9 at night. I think he does that so he wont spend time with me. That we dont even have sex anymore, I try with ... (81 words)

Brother in law's ex fling is psycho, poor baby sis!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so this is for my sister. She and her now fiance (great guy, love him to death!) are in a rough spot. Before they got together they were seeing other people pretty regularly, and when they decided to commit to each other, they respectfully agreed to inform any and all ... (294 words)

Need your help! How do I get him to notice and talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii!! Well i am 16 years old and i have just started college :) anyway i am just like any other teenager even though i do drink and go out into town (clubbing) but thats just who i am! My mum doesnt let me do any of this but i do it all the time and i always make sure i am... (328 words)

My head is melted with a decision that I have to make, Can you you help me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Any answers will be deeply appreciated from the bottom of my heart. Dear Cupid, I am with my girl for 3 years. We had a lil break up about 2 months back and she started texting a "friend" right away. She sent him pictures and videos and whatever, I felt very sad because I ... (386 words)

He has gotten distant after I asked him if we were in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What if I texted a guy and said "just saw you"...and he replyed... "yea."... so i replyed .. "yeah"... then that was it.. then two days later... he saw me and said "just saw you what you doing"... so I said "yeah" and he said "yea lol".... Is he into me? Keep in mind we had ... (122 words)

Friends? Or hope for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so this guy and i are friends. but just saturday he danced with me held my hand held my hips held me when we were gust sitting down. and when a bouncer said he had frisk me this guy said 'no thats my job'! do i take it as were just friends? or do i hope for a relationship? ... (59 words)

I'm confused about my relationship with my boss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 and single and my boss is 47 and single. I do like him alot, but wonder about his feelngs for me. I started to notice him looking at me intensely in the staffroom or in a crowded room, and we still seem to be in the staffroom together alone alot at lunchtimes. I was s... (465 words)

What should I do this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been friends wit this girl for over 2 year and for the last year i am so clear on how i feel about her . she is all i seem to think about. I have told her i care about her deeply as more than a friend her response to this was i have been hurt so many times and dose not ... (261 words)

I've never had a girlfriend, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old (nearly 26) and I've never had a girlfriend at all. Is there something wrong with me? I have been on dating sites (got rejected on those), I get rejected by women a lot (I never said anything nasty, disrespectful and so on to anyone), I see overweight guys, un... (189 words)

My self esteem is shattered because my friend gets all the attention!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive searched this site and cannot find any relevant advice for the dilema that i am in. I really love my best friend shes a really nice girl and very supportive and very pretty. When we go out to parties and clubs all the guys are interested in and want to talk to her and i'm ... (258 words)

Should they proceed or postpone the wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A family member is planning to be maried in 2 months. The couple have been living together for almost 2 years - and have been engaged for about 10 months. The bride recently discovered by accident several large loans which the groom has amassed over the pass 10 years. ... (299 words)

All I want is him, I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was in year 10, i fell pretty much head over heels with this guy in the year above. he told me i was beautiful, that he'd never hurt me. but a month or so later after saying how much he liked me, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. it hit me hard, and i was s... (164 words)

I rebounded and now how do I tell him I am not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up my boyfriend of 10 and a half months about 2 months ago. I was totally in love with him and it broke my heart. I've been trying to get over it, but it's been really hard. Last night I went out with a guy I knew from before and it started out really fun...we just ... (198 words)

How to stay in love, when my wife isn't in love with me anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - how can i do it? after all is said and done, it is my fault, i never cheated, hit her. i wasn't there for her emotionally, didn't support her when she needed to be supported. she fell out of love with me. now how can i stay in love with her, knowing that she isn't in l... (200 words)

I want to be his girlfriend someday, whats the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know its a typical start to a story, but: Theres this guy at school that I really really like. I've liked him for quite a while now and I did tell him that I liked him but then he apologised and said he was in a complicated realtionship. He never said he didnt like me in... (297 words)

I'm not interested in sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm in need of a bit of help. i'm 18 nearly 19 yrs old and i know it sounds stupid but i'm not interested in sex at all and its that bad i'm worried eventually my relationship of two yrs is gonna go down hill. he says he isnt bothered but i am, i dont enjoy sex at all and if ... (135 words)

Good man, but not in love...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, so I'm 36 so in theory should be old enough to know what I want. But, I'm wracked with self-doubt and indecision. I have a 6 year relationship with a good (if dull) man. We are engaged and have one lovely gorgeous daughter. But I don't love him, and we haven't had sex ... (164 words)

Is it normal that this turns me on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for several months now on the DL; we're just friends with benefits and have agreed that there's no strings attached. I'm 19 and he's 34. Well, today is my birthday and last night I went by his place for some fun and ended up staying the night. This ... (340 words)

Is he playing me? should I trust my gut feeling and avoid him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry for the long post, I am trying to figure out my friend. I am 29 and my male friend is 23. I had a secret crush on him. We were best friends for a long long time. He became friends with another guy and he started treating me badly. I have gut feeling they regularly m... (283 words)

She thinks I cheated on her and she broke up with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been accused of cheating for the past 4 days and well someone had gotten on my facebook account and said something to this girl that my girlfriend didnt like..well it ended up as that i gave my phone number to her and said well call me when and ur bf broke up..but the ... (91 words)

Is it a good idea to initiate another kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Two nights ago I went to a small kickback at my best friend's house. He has been my best friend since high school and he had had a big crush on me back then. We are now in college and we hang out every weekend with our whole crew. At the kickback, we had both gotten a little ... (235 words)

My girlfriends period was short! could she be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My Girlfriends period is very short however in saying that what are the chances of her falling pregnant in the middle of her period? She told me that her period did not end as it normaly does, Could this mean that she is pregnant?... when can she do a pregnancy test? ... (73 words)

Wife on dating website

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my wife was on a dating website for like 10 mins. should i be concerned? we're going through some problems right now, but are still working it through. was she just seeing what is out there? we have two youngs kids. the reason that i know that it was... (121 words)

I'm afraid to talk to him incase I was wrong about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! okay, so i'll set the scene here: i'm a freshman in highschool, and we're 2 weeks into the school year. i'm in marching band with a boy who i really like. i've been practicing night and day in marching band for 3 months now, and i know what he likes, doesnt like, and his ... (135 words)

I don't know if our baby is mine! we were so in love yet she cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i was in a 2 and a half year relationship and ive been madly in love with her until i started getting gut feelings about getting cheated on. i asked several times and she sweared she would never or has never done that. but the feelings were so strong i had 2 bluff her into ... (286 words)

How can I get her trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So this is all my fault, but my girlfriend and I have been having huge trust issues cause i lied about talking to and old friend who was a girl, and she asked me not to talk to another girl but her. Kinda weird for my age? We've been dating for 6 months and I don't know how to ... (72 words)

She is married and had an affair with me, I've fallen for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I got into an intimate relationship with a collegue of mine. She is a quite the full package: attractive, intelligent and amiable. The problem in our relationship (I should probably put that word into brackets) and why it eventually ended was that she's ... (406 words)

When someone says they are thinking of you, opinions please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - When someone says they are or have been thinking of you is it considered: 1) friendly 2) relationship material or 3) quit making a big deal of it? I don't want to go into details in my case, I want to see other people's opinions and their relationship experience to s... (80 words)

My girlfriend tries to ignore me kissing her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so, I'm kinda paranoid - everytime I kiss my girlfriend, she just don't really respond and trys to ignore it but she loves me? I don't know what it means, she ain't ready? I would appreciate someone to set me straight on this, thanks in advance.... (47 words)

Does my father need time to accept he will be a grand dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old. My husband and I been happily married for 1 year now and the other day I found out I am pregnant with our first baby. We told our families and they are so happy and thrilled, except my dad I felt he wasn't very happy. My husband says my father is happy but ... (86 words)

Does he just have problems showing that he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently started having sex with my boyfriend at first it felt good but since that i have been very emotional and confused i really love him but it feels like he doesnt feel the same because he doesnt say he loves me and when we go out with mates his always more interseted in ... (87 words)

Should I confess my guilt? or forget the accident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - More than a year ago when I was 19, I was playing cricket with my younger brother who was 17. He got me out and I got angry and jealous at his celebration and threw the heavy cricket bat with great force towards him. LUCKILY the bat missed him. At that time we didn't narrate ... (220 words)

Do you think my body type will attract guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im a little fat.... but im shapely and i have a close to flat tummy and 40 C boobs. i am worried everyone will just think im a fat lard lol. my middle skewl friends say thee are alot of REALLY fat people. im starting middle school tommorow and im worried. Do you think my body ... (98 words)

Is it normal to feel as though you're not going to find a good person to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 and I feel as thought i'm not going to find a good guy to be with. I know you're probably thinking that i'm young and i shouldnt be worrying about boys right now because i should just be having fun with my friends and enjoying myself, but it's pretty ... (533 words)

Is he truly sorry or does he just want to use me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please people help i dont seem to be communicating with myself well. I feel manipulating myself with my decisions am not sure about my decision. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3yrs 1yr ago. Now just recently we have started talking again. He is kinda changed and very apologet... (235 words)

My sister is being betrayed by her husband and our other sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age - I have got two older sisters and both are married. The husband of the older sister starts to flirts with the younger sister all the time. My older sister suspects they are having an affair behind her back. She talks to her husband and the younger sister separately. They ... (150 words)

Should I settle with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently just left a 10 year relationship to a man I was engaged to. We've had our ups and downs and I think I should have left earlier, I was just too comfortable and scared to do so. We now have this new house that we've both committed to and to throw it all away would be ... (420 words)

He has a girlfriend but tells my friends he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im so confused. ive known this guy for about a year now, weve slowly become better friends, hung out in groups of friends alot, never alone. over the past couple of months things between us got a lil more flirty, all innocent though, then i found out he got a gf, but everyones ... (242 words)

My boyfriend does not let me see my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - THis isn't really a relationship question but I really need some help and guidance right now. I have a friend whom I met in Uni, (a girl) - lets call her Lola. She is wonderful. I have such a great time with her and over the years I have come to love her as a sister. After ... (283 words)

Should he pay for the trip? is he using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the only way out, even though I ... (161 words)

Does he want more than just sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy on a dating site.. we emailed me we've been talking on BlackBerry chat for about 6weeks now. hes different from any other guy ive met. hes sensitive, smart, caring, funny and handsome. we talk about everything and anything apart from sex. last nig... (157 words)

How do I get him to be serious about his decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex starting dating some girl when we broke up. And now he wants to get back together, not just rush back into things but he says he wants to be by himself and work towards us at the same time. We've already talked about it and agreed that he wouldnt be floating around. ... (315 words)

Did I deserve to be slapped in the face?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok where to start ... Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 and a half years and last weekend (4th september) we went out with friends for my birthday. There was 3 of my friends and one of his. We had all drunk far too much and my boyfriend kicked off because me and my frien... (352 words)

Could taking plan b caused my late period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a question me and my boyfriend had sex last month and it wasnt planned so we didnt use anything even though he didnt cum inside of me and i washed my slef right away i decided to take plan B on the third day i got my period a couple of days later, however i havent ... (138 words)

Anger issues...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age - I seem to get angry very quickly and instead of being patient and standing for my beliefs and insisting on my views, I seem to withdraw and run away from any cofrontation. Also I seem to be unable to accept orders from anyone. This is affecting my chances to hold on to a job. ... (68 words)

My ex was emotionally abusive, how do I get over this and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling really distraught at the moment. I broke up with my ex a year ago now, and I still can't get over him. I even went to see a psychiatrist for 4 months after the break up because I was a complete mess. I feel like I still get upset about him every single day. How can ... (394 words)

In love with my best mate...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im in love with my best mate, weve been friends for 3 years now i wood do anything for him im gay and hes confused i fink , once ive got to know him hes told me he had a relashionship with a guy before thats the only one hes been in others with girls hes also got a kidd to ... (235 words)

Trouble in the trenches of drinking/love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, Is being drunk an excuse? Is using it as an excuse a cop out or proof that someone else has less feelings for you. If you were in a situation that merited action or confronting someone about it and they used it as an excuse what would you do? eg. I went out to a ... (352 words)

How long can a man stay mad? Will he ever call me back or is it his way to say it's over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I love (dating for 3 months..) isn't talking to me anymore since Wednesday because of an argument over the phone. This argument shouldn't have taken place at all. It was stupid and I should have realized he was going through a lot of stress at the time and not continue ... (129 words)

I am so divided between work and children.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I need to seek your advice. I know my issue is not about relationships but this is about my children. I am from the Philippines and I work abroad for the last 4 yrs but for the past 2 yrs, my children and I are suffering from the emotional abu... (364 words)

Help! How can I stop becoming so wet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year, before anyone starts going all judgemental on me- I've had my hands down his pants, he's had his hands down mine. No biggie... Just lately, he's been commenting on how wet I am down there, and how he's not sure how he feels ab... (111 words)

I'm 14 with an 8 inch penis but I'm worried that it might get too big!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14... I have an 8 inch penis. I'm worried that eventually it's going to to be too big. Does anybody think this may be an issue?... (27 words)

I hate being a virgin!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate being a virgin, no woman will come near me when they find out about it. when they find out i'm a virgin they make exsuess to leave me. why do they always leave me i can't work it out. i'm 51 and never had sex, it's so off putting that I may never find out what it like.... (60 words)

It is infatuation? Or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am writing to you with hope that you will reply me because i am in real emotional pain. Actually few months ago i started to have a voice chat with a guy who is living in India and we have developed feelings for each other.We haven't seen each other yet but i have a... (1013 words)

Manager at work going behind my back and giving my work to others

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone help with a work situation. I was bullied for nearly 2 years by 3 older women in my office, I was moved into my own room because my work load changed and because of them. They always had a real problem with me and my manager never done anything about it because... (318 words)

Breaking up because of self-anger issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am (or was) dating a guy for last 7 months, and last 2 we have not seen each other due to reasons, but stayed in contact and had in plan to meet soon. However he changed his mind...I do not know what is really going on. He is sensitive guy and over 30, lets say mature a... (270 words)

Why is my husband risking everything by visiting prostitutes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age - Why is my husband risking everything by continually spending hundreds of pounds visiting prostitutes, he has put is in debt and I keep trying to hold the family together but I seem to be the only one trying or suffering.... (40 words)

Experimenting, how many guys have done it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

6 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hey I have a question, I have the opportunity to sexually experiment with a friend of mine. We are both males, and in the 9th grade. I basically have already made my choice, I think I'm going to do it. But I want some input from you guys. How many of you have experimented, ... (87 words)

My fiance insults my appearance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My Fiancee often insults mt appearance, telling me that i have a double chin, and he likes thin girls. he also tells me i look fat in certain clothes. he will give me backhanded comliments like" you look so nice today i wish you'd look like this everyday" im not sure what to do... (54 words)

Now I find out he's straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age - ive been dating this young guy for overa year and yesterday i found out from his own mouth that he wasn't gay but straight. How do i make love to him now that he claims he is straight?... (38 words)

I said no when he asked me out... now I regret it. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really bad right now because this guy asked me out before and i said no because i was with my family and lately i have been thinking about him and yesterday i saw him out. just wondering what should i do? i feel like a bitch for being mean and saying no cause i am sure ... (89 words)

How do I get it through to my sister that he does not want her and that she should get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is a retard! She got involved with a guy who is completely crazy. last year they went out for a while then broke up cause he was possesive and six months later they met up and one thing led to another and she got pregnant. since then during her pregnancy he got ... (453 words)

How can I make out that I don't like him romantically any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, a few months ago my friend told me he liked me when we were both drunk. We got off a lot at different times but didnt go any further because I wasn't sure if he did actually liked me because he only told me when he was drunk and never when he was sober. Things got a ... (229 words)

The memory of this other guy and what could have been is killing me slowly, how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy last year for a few weeks and he dumped me, saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. I thought this was a bs excuse. But I fell hard for him and still think about him even though I have a boyfriend now. I found out the other day that a friend of a friend know... (266 words)

I don't know if I can copy with his strange fetishes!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and i dont know what to do. we have what you could say a healthy sex life as we have it every day, at least once but he is also into a lot of sexual fetishes which confuses me. he has a serious foot fetish where he ... (215 words)

12 years together, am I just wasting my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,I last wrote moaning that my boyfriend ignored my birthday. Here I am again. We've been together 12 years and have a son.I am down 'cos Christmas is coming and I know it'll be another disappointment, not the fact that I wont get any presents, but it has become a non entity. ... (226 words)

POP Pill... could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am on the p.o.p pill but i keep missing it, about a month ago i missed it two days in a row but still had unprotected sex a few days later. now i keep getting dull aching pains around my left ovary, sharp pains when i make sudden movements and my boobs are really sore, could ... (60 words)

Online trouble!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... Is it right to love a person without seeing.? I mean we both are chatting for a quite a while. And we both love each other. We've planned to meet each other after some months.. But am really scared whether it will succeed. Please give me some suggestions. ... (57 words)

Do people who are meant to be together always find their way back to each other?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

- Do you guys on DearCupid belive that people that are meant to be together always find their way back in the end? x x x... (29 words)

Coould he possibly love me after all the time we've been together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys: Why would you not love someone after one year of liking them and 7 months of dating. For the first 6 months we only made out it never went further. He wasn't 100% for it but respected my wishes. But all he can still say is I really like you too. I told him once that I ... (87 words)

Why does he still flirt with me so much when we've broken up?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i dated this guys for a couple months and i knew him for a couple months before we started dating to. we broke up about a year ago but still talk after that and we are still friends. when he texts me he always says he misses me and when i hang out with him he still acts like ... (147 words)

I feel I need to go through with this test!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm still friends with a guy i started to have a relationship with back some time ago now! But we never actually meet to catch up anymore because i'm married! He says its cause he doesn't trust himself not to do anything even though i know he wont! He's not that sorta guy! ... (152 words)

They're not his condoms!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of 2 years recently traveled for about a wk.i was with him for the first 2 days and had to return, while he stayed. when he got back i did laundry and found a washed part of a condom box, that he swore he knew nothing about and that must have dropped into his clothes by ... (250 words)

Is there a chance at all that she'll genuinely come to trust and love me the way she used to...?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been working on trying to get back together a week or so after a breakup. During the breakup we decided it'd be best if we stayed friends, but we started missing each other a lot so we started giving it another try. But the problem is that I don't kn... (171 words)

Help! Should I believe him when he says he loves me?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a guy who i am in a long distance relationship with he says he loves me but he doesn't call me, i always call him. recently i asked him to come to Kenya because i was hornie and never wanted to cheat on him he refused not practically but that's what i could read in ... (75 words)

Is it weird to ask him if he's interested in me???

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it weird to ask him if he's interested in me? I met this guy - we like a lot of the same things, both play guitar, both have a weird love for zombies, play video games, movies, are nerdy etc.. We met from online and before meeting he told me that we should take walks (he h... (348 words)

Would the age gap affect our relationship if we were to get closer?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and have known this guy for about 2 years. I only see him when I go into the shop he works at but he's really chatty, very sweet, super hot and sends me flirty texts (he gave me his number because he gave me a job application and told me to text him if I needed help ... (107 words)

The age difference is huge and I'm pretty sure I'm just using him.

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 13 year old girl. The guy I like is 18. I know it sounds bad, but I also know he only jokes around when he's flirting with me. I understand the age difference is rather big and quite frankly it's illegal, but it still bothers me. I've always been attracted to older guys ... (184 words)

How can I get her to initiate sex more?

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6 September 2010 (M)

- Hi - I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months. When we first started our relationship we had sex frequently, however, recently we only have it once a week. This is partly due to me working away during the week, however, my girlfriend doesnt really seem bothered about it. ... (176 words)

Any ideas on how to save the vacation?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have the fortune that our school year starts later so we decided to go on vacation later than the masses. Anyway, I'm currently in Dublin, in our hotel room while she's taking a shower. She's driving me crazy and I don't know what to do. For those that ... (265 words)

Mother and brother in law's girlfriend are not treating me right!!!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, im pregnant and very happy, im about 14 weeks pregnant, now the other kid is also pregnant and she were always treated like a queen. Whell its my brother in law's girlfriend susan , she found out she is pregnant about 4weeks now. Now everything is about them, if we ... (309 words)

Rude women at the office...

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so to make a long story short. My boss told the two ladies Samantha and Cindy which i use to do all there filing and queries ect. So on Secretary day my boss told them they should also give something so that all three off them buy me something for my hard work. Then they ... (380 words)

My gay friend...

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is gay. She told me she wanted to change and asked me what she should do. I wasn't able to give her any good advice because I haven't been in that situation before so I don't know how she feels about it. I'm always here for her, but I want to help her more. I wish I ... (74 words)

No one has cared about me the way he does... I am in love with my cousin...

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my cousin. I know that it's one of the most horrible things to do. We made out and almost had sex, but I stopped it. I think he feels the same way because there's just this heat between us. I know that this is very wrong, but I can't seem to stop what I feel. ... (102 words)

How can I get my parents to let me stay over at this party?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and he is havin a party at his house in january for his 19th birthday. his parents will be there and all his family and only a few friends so there wont be any drunk people everywhere. My boyfriend really wants me to go but we live around 4 hours ... (212 words)

Do you think my ex might change when our baby is born?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im 22 weeks pregnant , i was seeing a guy for a year and a half and then we brok up, I got messages from him saying he missed me and so we ended up tgether , i fell pregnant , when i told him he was so happy , always texting me and ringing and wanting to meet he said he wanted ... (612 words)

Need to know how to get him back!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii. I am in my third year of graduation. my classmate proposed me in my first year, but i rejected. we talked to each other for one and half years. I dont know what happened he stopped talking to me but i realise that i love him. i am sure he is not with another girl. i ... (88 words)

Woman is trying to steal my partner

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a relationship problem with an interfering woman. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now. Things are great between us, although he has slipped up twice, never cheated on me (once was a dating website with a guest profile and once was sharing a bed nake... (615 words)

I made out with a guy I'm trying to get over!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a big mistake yesterday, I made out with a guy I was trying to get over, I realize that he was recording me on his fone then he lied saying he was just texting. He then said to me that his friend wants me too, I said I'm not that type of girl. This guy knows that I'm in ... (116 words)

She gave off signals like she was single but the whole time she had a boyfriend

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so betrayed and being used, my world fell apart from one moment to another and my heart is in pain. Not a long while ago i met this girl we had excellent eye contact and i got into a conversation with her in a really good way , then we became friends and i was hanging ... (496 words)

I want to fix things but don't know how to approach my ex

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I broke up 3 weeks ago. I guess he wanted it more than I did so you can say he broke up with me. It wasnt a bad break up but we were together for 2 years! I have been doing fine without him except these past couple of days have been really rough for me. I miss him so ... (196 words)

I don't know how to act around this guy I like

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on how to act around this guy that I really really like. We know each other a little through work. He asked me out last week, went out, he was sweet, attentive, polite, held my hand in the film, kissed me on the cheek at the end. I would love to get to ... (107 words)

A player vs a non player?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you tell if a guy is a player? I've been out with a guy from work, and he seems almost too good to be true, handsome, funny, intelligent and sooo sweet. The kinda guy where you can't understand why he is single (which he is). But I know his friends at work are ... (145 words)

I think I might love someone far away, should I go over and see him?

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6 September 2010 (F)

I can't stand that my boyfriend smokes marijuana. what do I do?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this summer my boyfriend of over a year has recently started trying drugs and partying, etc. He's a year older than me, so he's off at college and doing more stuff. This really really bugs me, as an understatement. I can't even describe how much i loathe the idea of him ... (425 words)

It was all a game and I fell for it?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I cant talk to friends or family about this or i will never live it down. Just a little background. I am 44 single mom of 2 kids, when they were younger i got burned bad in a relationship and vowed to wait until they were out of the house to avoid the revolving door of ... (1243 words)

Separated wife is now dating a woman???

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my wife split up recently and now i hear she is dating a women. she has two bi siblings and has always talked down about them and said she could never be with another women. she does suffer from depression. she is 37 years old and has never done this before that i know ... (129 words)

Masturbation side effects?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the side effects of masturbation?... (7 words)

Should I be friend with my ex on facebook?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am attached now. And the previous guy who have betrayed me in a relationship broke up now and wanted to be just friends with me. I don't know if I should be forgiving and accept him as a friend in my facebook again?... (44 words)

Needs advice on how to get over an abusive relationship

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. everyone. So here it goes.. I have been broken up with my ex for almost about a yr now but I can't stop thinking of what happened and how mad I am for putting myself in those shoes. I always told myself I would never date a guy who was abusive in any form but I was wron... (197 words)

Did my fear of intimacy ruin the relationship...how do I fix this??

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So any thoughts, opinions, and advice would be greatly appreciated. I recently turned 27, and have never been in a REAL relationship, so I am very immature when it comes to certain communications and how to relate to someone else. So...I've been talking to this guy all day ... (1115 words)

Some guy kissed her

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break.but she didnt kiss him back she said it all happened in 1 second!! they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what to do. i didnt even shout a... (157 words)

I need to always have attention from men

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a need to always have attention from men. No matter what I am doing, or who I am with I feel like I must be the center of every man's attention in the room. It could be guys I know or complete strangers. I don't even care what they look like, as long as they are ... (202 words)

Do I continue with a relationship that will never fully develop?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. We both have children that live with us. So far the relationship has been smooth, no fighting, no drama etc. I went to have my tarot read a few months ago and i was told that we were both guarded, as we did not want to get ... (401 words)

Commitment vs. having your space

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has brought up us moving in together a few times now and each time I'm not sure what to say. It makes sense because we're both students with low incomes and we spend almost every night together anyway... but on the other hand, I"m someone who usually feels trapped ... (183 words)

Do Women See Penises As Men Do Breasts?

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6 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - When a man sees a nice pair of boobs, they usually get turned on. But when a woman sees a penis does she get turned on like a man would by boobs? I was reading a post on here earlier and a woman said she doesnt find them attractive at all. If a woman doesnt like a penis then ... (95 words)

How do I come across as being more gay?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is going to sound weird. I'm gay. Unfortunately I just learned that i don't come across as such at all. One kid had to finally ask me. So my question is, how do I come across "gayer" I know it sounds insane, but I'd rather not hide it.... (59 words)

We should still be in our honeymoon stage but we aren't!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. In the first month and a half of our relationship things were wonderful. He wanted to see me all the time, he told me he was crazy about me, sweet talked me and showed me lots of affection. But then all of a sudden the frequent ... (308 words)

Is there something I can do to make my period happen faster?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16; and haven't had my period, I'm worried because my boyfriend and i had sex 2 weeks ago and it didn't feel like he pulled up in in time and some of 'it' was inside of me; My period was only meant to come yesterday but i was just wondering if anyone can tell me how to make ... (119 words)

Is she going to resent me for going against her parent's will?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I dated for about 5 months, then got into a really bad involving my trust issues and we broke up because we both decided that's what'd be best. A couple weeks later we both realized we weren't even slightly over each other because we didn't WANT to be. I'm... (276 words)

Should I give things one more try? Or just stay away from him?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advise.I'm married for 3.5 years.My marriage did not go well right from the start.My husband was verbally and emotionally abusive.My in-laws played their part too in making my life miserable.I could not take it any more. So i just walked out of the house packing my ... (200 words)

Help!! Flirting with a friend/coworker/ex's friend

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is gonna be long, i want to try my best to give both sides. A year ago for about 8 months i was dating this guy that was all wrong for me, a total whore. I saw the best in him and tried to give him the benefit of the doubt at every turn. However, it got to the point wer... (526 words)

Do guys like girls that act like they aren't into them?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys like the nice girls or do guys like the ones who will say no and wait and hour to text them back or just pretend that they arent really that into them?... (34 words)

Is it wrong to read his text messages?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - First off, I know it's wrong to spy on your partners phone records and/or email account, but I have done both. I hacked into the email account and can see text records from phone account, but unfortunately cant read texts. I notice an occasional 4 or 5 back and forth text with ... (123 words)

Did he like the bj?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've given my boyfriend a blowjob a couple of times before but a couple of days ago I noticed that while i was doing that he had his eyes closed and he seemed relax.could this mean that he liked it? how can i give him a good blowjob?... (48 words)

Should I tell her how I feel? The last time I did she treated me like crap

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this friend that I've been in love with for a while now and I think she may be developing feelings for me also. I notice every now and then she's sorta staring at me. I think that i would have a fair chance I guess if I asked her out but one huge thing is stopping me. I ... (108 words)

Is she showing me what she's got?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this female friend that I think has been kinda showing me what she's got. I see her everyday and the past couple days she's been wearing these short shorts and when she sits down you can see up her shorts. I've noticed lately that when ever she notices I'm looking she ... (91 words)

He left me then why he did not disconnect the phone?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my fionce told me he dont want to be with me any more. also he told me he dont love me any more and i have to follow my life. after that he did not called me , email me . even i did not see him online. may be he deleted my id. i could no see him online even if he is online. my ... (112 words)

All I can think about is my ex and not my boyfriend

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really really REALLY need help..I've a boyfriend of 6 months right now, (we're both 19 and in college) and i really do love him. my family loves him and im always in his house. hes great to me and treats me like a princess. then i have this ex, we went out also for 6 months i ... (305 words)

How is it that a guy can be enough, yet he should still improve himself?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What I don't understand is when women tell you to accept yourself, that you're enough, and then they say to keep trying to improve yourself. That doesn't make sense to me. If you truly believed you were enough, then you wouldn't bother improving because it would feel like such ... (131 words)

Unhappy stomach!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I sometimes wake up with a random stomach ache. Not really nausia just a flip flop feeling like you were spinning or something but without the dizzyness (if that makes any sense) today I woke up with a pretty bad one and its been going off an on during the day. I am expe... (194 words)

I'm not sure if he cares anymore

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are together for 7 years now, and the first 4 of those were a fairy tale. Everything was wonderful! Then, I got a little too drunk and kissed another guy and told him about it (from start we decided to be open about stuff and tell each other everything). ... (274 words)

How do I let go of him...?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get over my ex boyfriend? He has made it clear that he doesn't want to be with me due to issues we've had in the past but everytime he looks at me, I know he still has strong feelings for me. And this is making it hard for me to let go. I don't want to let him go but ... (133 words)

Low sex drive... help!

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 35 year old man my sex drive is low. I love my wife, but i don't want it every day whereas she does! she is 46. What do I do?... (32 words)

I'm in love and confused...

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, so how can this man I love so much, hold me and at his own will profess all his love and caring and say how happy we are together and couldnt imagine life without me, suddenly just a little bit later same day insult me? Help, I am confused!... (51 words)

How do you trust again after you've been used?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Having come out of an LTR at the beginning of the year I felt ready to date again. I've recently moved and so everything was a new start. I went online dating and was messaged by someone very unlike my previous girlfriends and after lots of emails and online chats we met ... (655 words)

What is it is he trying to say?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I babysit and tutor arounnd the neighbourhood. There's this one family that I usually babysit. I would usually take care of their five year old daughter and tutor their 15 year old son. After some time, I got to know them better and they suddenly feel like ... (230 words)

How do I start a same sex relationship???

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am clear about my sexual orientation, i am bi, yes, it finally hit me; hard. I've had many boyfriends, i know how the system works, but around a year ago i found out i was attracted to girls. naturally i assumed this was just part of teenage development and decided to keep ... (143 words)

How do I know if he sees me as more than just a friend?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend has a girlfriend but alway wants me around, he ask every time we talk if i can come over hes even asked me to be his room mate or nieghbor and I have two kids whtch are his god kids. today his girlfriend was upset and he had the radio on after church in the car ... (123 words)

We want to have a baby but he's not interested in sex

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has ms and is not interseted in sex at all, we have only been married a couple of years, we were hoping things would change, neither of us wants to be with anyone else. he will shortly be starting chemo and we are both desperate for a baby, how do we go about this ... (57 words)