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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When will good things start happening to me?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wanna know when will good things start happening to me? I'm a 19 year young lady and I'm not happy!! For 2 years I've been trying to get my GED, and I don't think I'm going to ever get it!! If its not one thing its another. I just feel dumb!! Its like everybody else ... (153 words)

My husband's double life of cheating and a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - Hi Hope you take the time and read my post. I have been married 22yrs together for 32yrs, just over 2yrs ago i found out my h/b had been cheating on me at frist i thought it was the only time so i forgave him after several months i found out there had been others one was a... (446 words)

What's a G-Spot and does every woman have one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ummm what's a Gspot, and does ery woman have one?? How do I find mine????... (15 words)

How do you treat it when your boyfriend wants to take a break?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When your boyfriend of 2 years asks for "space" or "a break" for a while, because he wants to do his own thing for a while (no other explanation offered by him, no matter how much I pry), how should I treat it? Should I treat it as him leaving me, and say goodbye and then... (181 words)

My husband lies about everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband lies about everything imaginable. usually I have to accept what he's saying because he gets soo wild and because I know, realistically, with 2 kids, im not going anywhere. but lately, he's been lying about everything. he came home late and slurring on the weekend ... (158 words)

It's extremely difficult to be near him. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'll have to go into a bit of background detail for this question, but here it goes. About 9 months ago, I got into a relationship with a good friend of mine. My mental health was not in the best way at the time, as I was in the early stages of recovering from ... (238 words)

Make fling want me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So like 8 months ago i had a fling with this guy from work. We were both in relationships at the time so we didn't think continuing it on would be any good. So we stopped talking and hanging out. A few months later things started to burn up again. Then my other half found out ... (202 words)

Do I even have a future with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - After Dating three years and now married 1 yr and three months, I begin to wonder, did I make a mistake? In the last year I have caught him looking at pron twice now on his computer. He knows I hate it and it was something we talked about while dating on how a felt about it. ... (316 words)

Why do girls play hard to get? Or is she playing with my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - (OP'S suggested title) so there is this i like and she knows i really like her -i told her i kind of like you over facebook, the thing is i was joking around and tried to like flirt with her, like i do to all girls but she took me seriously and told me that she dont like me... (648 words)

How do I get over caring about what people think of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother is the worst kind of person: evil, disattached, unkepted, never caring, not understanding, not loving or lovable. I for the past 10 years give or take alittle I been very self concious. From the moment I began to transition into a teen she began to treat me like cr... (298 words)

Could I potentially be one of the 5% for whom the pill didn't work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really appreciate people's advice as I am in a MASSIVE prediciment! On the 28th of August (about 3 weeks ago) I got ridiculously drunk at a party (I've since decided to become teetotal after the consequence of my actions.) Me and a guy ended up "hooking up". I rem... (330 words)

I know I'll always love my ex but I'm not sure in what way/

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for 5 years when we broke up in August of this year. It felt like a long time coming, but I never thought I'd actually do it. I felt like him and I were more friends than anything else, really. We grew to be SO comfortable with eachother and were in a ... (834 words)

I like him but I have these conflicting emotions I can get rid of!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To begin I guess I would have to say that I have never had a boyfriend or anyone in my life in that way. Recently i went to visit my uncle for his wedding. His bride to be had a son. We hung out one night late drinking. we stayed up later talking and sharing things that ... (216 words)

Do you think Bob likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i went to camp with this boy. let's say his name is bob. on the first day of camp i noticed bob was always popping up by my side. but i didn'ttalk to bob the whole summer.but ob the last week of camp my frieend tells me bob said im cute. and on the bus bob everyone around us it ... (445 words)

I can't seem to squirt... is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I recently saw a video of this girl masterbatin and she squirted really far when she had her orgasm. That's on of the hottest thang I've ever seen so I'm inspired to learn how to do it myself. I googled how to squirt when I orgasm and came up w ur website. I read about it ... (93 words)

The girl that works at subway, how do I get to know her better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a regular at this Subway close to my house. There is a girl who works there who I see quite a bit that I am just so attracted to. Not only is she beautiful, but she seems to be shy, really sweet, and has a very nice personality. There is just this kindness about her. She is ... (140 words)

Why does he not ever think of wearing a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have sex. And sometimes, okk always, he cums inside of me, and he doesnt even think abt putting a condom, and neither doo i. Bt why is he not thinking, is it bec he wants to have a baby, or is it bec, he just wants to feel more. Hes 18 n we have only been dating for ... (70 words)

I can't chose between the 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is a bit of a messy situation to say the least. i'm seeing this guy lets call him jim and we've been seeing each other for about 2 months. now me and jim are just seeing how things go so we're not in a relationship. things were fine and would spend time with me. he went ... (241 words)

Impressing a guy over a casual drink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So what advice can anyone give to a girl going for a casual drink with a guy that she quite wants to impress? Would like to encourage him to like me. Any advice would be awesome :D thanks ... (38 words)

Worried about being a new dad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2.5 months but we've known each other and been very close friends for four years before that. We've been having sex since the second day we started dating and I got her pregnant just about five weeks ago. Emotionally and physically, ... (233 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me but still calls me and treats me like his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So last month my boyfriend broke up with me, he lives out of town and his has been here since tuesday and I've seen him everyday, and last thursday we were out in a party and a friend of his, arrives and says hi and when he introduces me, he presents me as his girlfriend, I ... (214 words)

Why do I feel like "leave me alone" when I get attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my situation. Like every girl i like getting attention from the guys, but when guys actually start talking to me or generally just show interest I think, "leave me alone." Im flattered with the attention, but then i feel like they should go away. Whats the psychology ... (63 words)

I'm no longer in love with my b/f but am unable to end things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend but i haven't been in love with him for quite a while. I do care for him, i do love him, just not as a boyfriend. we've only dated for about 10 months but he's really into deep. I recently met a guy that i really really like and as it turns out he likes me ... (131 words)

Broke up with girlfriend, want her back, confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in my mid twenties and me and my girlfriend met at a mutual friends party and we ended up having class together the following semester in college and we ended up dating for two and a half years. We broke up about a month ago. Our relationship was really great, we... (1407 words)

My boyfriend is pushing me away and taking the alone time out of the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now and have known each other for 3 yrs, my question is that he doesn`t want me sleeping at his place more then maybe 1 or 2 nights a month if that, this has been happening for a couple of months now, i am upset ... (232 words)

Should I try to be friends with my boyfriend's friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend an I been together a month should I try gettin to know some of his friends who are girls shuld I send them a friend request on face book or just not even try?? ... (36 words)

Too many problems with my boyfriend and my mom wants me to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please forgive me for the length of my story. Hello DC. I am in need of some help. I normally can fight all this off but I'm to the point that it's eating me alive. I have an amazing(or I thought) boyfriend. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. We had our problems, He... (600 words)

Trying to address sexual incompatability with my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been married almost 12 years, but for various reasons (health, baby) stopped having sex with my husband for many years. I didn't realize how frustrated I was until I recently had sex with another man, which opened the universe for me. It wasn't at all planned, and it happened ... (780 words)

He will never change! How do I get over him, though?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my fiance for almost 4 years and i dumped him 2 days ago coz I was starting to change after our last break, he started doing the things that he knows I don't like. when I asked him a question he answered me with another question, became ... (120 words)

I pay for everything except his credit card bills and his hobbies. I'm starting to feel used.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - I live with my boyfriend and I pay all the bills (rent utilities groceries) I have an average paying job but work extra hours for overtime, he's self employed and pays his credit card bill, and for his hobbies...hunting fishing backpacking. I moved from a different state to be ... (93 words)

His co-dependant relationship with his daughter has me concerned. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years and have overlooked my husband's codependency all along, until now. The relationship with his daughter who is 31 is starting to make me feel even more uncomfortable. She has always been treated like the wife and I the daughter. I overlooked ... (282 words)

Is he just taunting, or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a class mate at my college. we have been studying together for nearly 2 years now. he's still a stranger to me. during pass 2 months he started acting weird.well, at least weird enough to me. suddenly he said "can i be your fan club?" i was confused as i kept my mouth ... (398 words)

He wants a 'break' for a couple months! I don't understand..help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi! i'd appreciate it if u can give me good advice.i had a boyfriend i loved very much and i believe he loves me too, at least he was. we can't make a dicision about where we live after our marriage. he and their family want us to go back their city where i don't belong. i ... (82 words)

I'm attracted to this much older woman! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK.... So I have this aunt who isnt really my aunt... she was my moms best friend since i could remember. How ever my mom and her are not friends any more but her and I have gotten closer and closer. We have grown into our own relationship and we tell each other our problems ... (305 words)

I really need him right now -- how can I get him to be more supportive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, The bf "J" and I have been together apx 9 months now - he's finishing up law school and I work for myself. Now, I've been consulting for a few years but the art market has all but dried up and I am so incredibly anxious about my financial health that I've been a... (358 words)

How do I tell everyone, that I am bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, i really dont know how to tell everyone that i'm bisexual and its killing me :( how can i tell people?... (24 words)

Can you be in love even though you have not met?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am 18 years old and i met a man for several months we do chatting and we fell in-love with each other I do not know but i am in-love or not? i break up with my bf and told my suitors i have found him, i did not meet him yet in person i feel something good in him. its like if ... (122 words)

My girlfriends super jealous of my best friend who is a girl!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything for the most part has been great (we have our wedding colors picked out lol) but i just started my senior year of college 3 weeks ago and a problem has surfaced. last year, i realized that all the friends i thought ... (594 words)

I don't think she likes me even as a friend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - this girl (who was 1 year older than me)and i were at one point...well you couold say we were somewhat enimies. then i finally had the guts to make friends. it worked. and we soon liked each other very much (but ever dated). she only talked to me either texting or when her good ... (115 words)

How can I tell him enough is enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused... I have been single for the last 2 months, I work with a lot of males on a day to day bases.. I was good friend with a elderly guy,47, but now it feels as if things are getting 'serious' I just know this is wrong his married and has two lies his son is as ... (81 words)

What does it mean when women press their boobs into you?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when girls push their breasts against you, or brush their breasts against you, when in conversation or whatever? Over the years I have met many women who do this. It is not the majority, but certainly not a small minority either. For example, when jo... (313 words)

How can I make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, im only 16 and i've had 4 boyfriends so far. Moct of them ended up breaking my heart so i decided to stay single for junior year. But me and my neighbor have been really close this summer and still to this day. He asked me to be his girlfriend on tuesday and i ... (105 words)

He played me now I work with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a gay 19 year old guy, I usually go down to the bar in city for a few drinks (its the only gay bar in the city I live). I got chatting to a bar staff that night and we hit it off instantly. About a month later we were both on a night out and I started speaking to him ... (401 words)

After finding out my partner used a prostitute, I'm wondering if he's the man I thought he was?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - My man and I have been together for almost three years now, and marriage is on the cards. We’re mature (early 50s) and have both been married and divorced, so it's inevitable we each have a past. Watching the news on TV the other night there was something about a married ... (444 words)

What to do to be sane again after long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, after 3 years of dating my ex girlfriend (1 year while we lived in the same town and 2 yrs being 3hrs away from each other because of me going off to school). My ex decided to look elsewhere for comfort when she was lonely. It all started to go downhill when I had warned ... (517 words)

He doesn't love me anymore because of my sexual past!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - He says he doesn't love me anymore because of something sexual I've done before I even knew him! How can he blame me for this and break my heart like that? How is that fair? He didn't even know me by then. How can he judge me? The sad thing is, I can't leave him and keep lying ... (88 words)

My new acting job has got me worried! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I registered to be an extra in a film, or Supporting Artist, as it's also known . They filmed some scenes yesterday in London , and they are filming some tomorrow and a week on Saturday. I registered to do the scenes a week on Saturday. The problem is, ... (226 words)

I don't want to make his parents angry but we love eachother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've known mainly on Facebook for about 6 months. He's 17 and i'm 18.His parents saw me talking to him and scolded him badly for it and forbade him to talk to me again. i don't understand why. however, he still keeps in touch with me on Facebook and now we are ... (166 words)

Girlfriend broke off with me and took off with another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im having a big problem with my girl (always guys take her off and i dnt complain but yesterday i was at {her}the house and a guy came and took her off falsely,i then re-acted to that and i said to the guy he stay away frm my pride{girl} unfortunately my girl said ,she no ... (91 words)

My husband used to make me cry but now I'm interested in a co-worker, is that right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 21year old girl.. and also married.. my husband is not so good in behavior.. he always hurts me a lot... and i always use to cry and cry and cry.... but nowadays m not thinking about that thing much also m not crying.. because I feel like i love one of my job partner ... (97 words)

When online guy found out I was having a FWBR he got cold and then ended things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok so heres my story. I started chatting to a guy who was recently separated on a dating website for a few weeks. It then progressed to texts every day. After about 3 weeks we decided to meet in person. It was a bit of uncoventional first date as he was on holiday with 2 of his ... (338 words)

I'm a natural flirt and it causes problems for the man I like!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - I'm a flirt. A natural flirt. Once I realised I was attractive to men, it became my way of relating to men. Trouble is, I am deeply in love with someone who reacts badly to other men paying me attention, and my knee-jerk response of flirting back. I mean nothing by it. I just ... (83 words)

27, a virgin and a social recluse. How can I meet women/date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am a 27 year old virgin, and to make things worse I am a social recluse and unable to ask out women or even flirt with them. I have recently decided to go back to university for a second masters degree to help me change my career direction. But this has meant leavin... (191 words)

I can't find the strength to tell the truth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help in this. i can't find the strenght to tell the truth about something. how can i do it? please help!... (27 words)

Gym teacher and "gazes"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So it's about my gym trainer. We don't talk or anything,not really and some may go ''well why are u asking this question '' but....he gives me gazes. I consider myself a pretty girl and the odd thing is he doesn't talk to me at all ( he talks to some other girls sometimes and ... (426 words)

What words can I use to express to my boyfriend how sexy his voice is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend has a really sexy voice and whenever we are talking on the phone he voice just puts me to sleep cos it feels really good to my ears.. And it takes a lot to make me sleep. So we were thinking of names for what his voice does to me. He said risky and harmonic ... (121 words)

I'm in love with my almost step-brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lived with my Mum's boyfriends family for about one year and a half now. Before that they were going out for ages and before that we knew his family just as friends. He has 3 sons and I have twin little brother and sisters. His sons are 17 16 and 14 and my little brother ... (271 words)

My boyfriend is depressed about cheating on his wife and leaving her for me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm very confused about my boyfriends feelings for me. We didn't start in an ideal way, we were both married and left our spouses because we knew after a couple of months that we wanted to be together. He is currently living with me, everything happened fast. We met, fell in ... (300 words)

Ex girlfriend being good friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of one year. We decided that due our age difference, with her being older, there wasn't a possible future in this relationship and that we would remain very good friends. We used to talk about everything and any subject wasn't off limits. ... (84 words)

I can't stop thinking of my ex but I like his friend too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i really don't no what to do :/ im still in love with my ex but we both decided to move on for the better. but now i kinda like his mate and he likes me! but i can't stop thinking about my ex. so i don't no what to do but i saw another girl on his facebook who i know and she ... (85 words)

Should I just walk away? How do you turn off your feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I posted on here a while back and got some great advice. I was seeing a co-worker, but the relationship came to an end and she went back to her ex who was abusive. She stopped having anything to do with me and it got to the point that we didn't even speak to each other. We e... (405 words)

We're long distance dating..so how do I know he's still into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there! I'm 25 yrs old and i need a baby i'm working and my bf also working,but when i tell him, he says he's not ready to have a baby now mybe 2011,i think he's says this because he is no longer interested in me,yestarday was my birth day he only send me a stupid text ... (91 words)

G/f wants ring like her previous b/f gave her. This really makes me feel like I'm not special!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I've been dating this girl for almost a year and ever since we met, we've been hooked to each other. We are truly in love and would die if anything happened to one of us. In the past, I've had many issues with coping with her past, past relationships, sexual ... (206 words)

Why does my husband only last a minute or two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has always had a problem with sex. He very seldom wants to have sex and when we do, it only last about a minute or two. We have no financial worries that could be depressing him and we get along great! We only argue whenever I bring up the issue that we do not have ... (66 words)

Trying to get my degree but found out I am pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't know what to do. I am 22 in nov. and i recently got engaged and my fiance is in the army and i live in new york state and he is stationed in washington state. I am afraid that i might be pregnant, and i don't know what to do. I'm still going to school and want to ... (98 words)

Who should I choose?! The new guy or the ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I dated this guy for a year and a half he was my first love and we had a great relationship in the start. I devoted all my time to him and did everything i possibly could to make him happy. He started to treat me like crap and started doing shady things such ... (576 words)

I'm no good at asking guys out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been flirting with this bloke at work whose really gorgeous and easy to talk to, but it hasn't actually gone beyond flirting. Although the other day, we sort of arranged a night out between us next week. Not sure if it's a date or what. What I want to know, is how can ... (81 words)

seperated with your husband but are still living under the same roof?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How can you stay sane when you've seperated with your husband but are still living under the same roof?... (19 words)

The rumors say we are dating but we aren't, but I'd like to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like a guy who is my good friend... we both go home together after schoool. So we talk about lots of stuffs and then he said me that in school lots of friends tease us saying you both( i and he) should be couple.. And in school there is all rumour that we both are dating but ... (88 words)

How do I move a mutual attraction on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age - I meet a man at my previous job. He was a senior manager. There was an instant attraction as we met. It has been growing for a year and a half now. It took a while for me to notice the attraction. Once when in a meeting with him he told me he had been off work as he had h... (538 words)

Should I be mad at him for his behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my bf and his parents. Recently I was sick for two days and my bf had those two days off. His friends came over on those days and he spent the entire time with them in the living room playing games and pool. He only came to our room to see me about seven times and ... (240 words)

How do I help raise her daughter knowing she isn't my child?

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17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, my girlfriend and I broke up when she moved away to go to college. While she was there, Her then boyfriend got her pregnant and turned out to be a deadbeat. She came back, and we're together again and engaged. Recently, she decided she didn't want to give the baby up for ... (89 words)

Where can I find birth control pills for cheaper?

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17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So after foolish stupidity, I told my boyfriend I was setting up the "no glove, no love" rule since Planned Parenthood is hella expensive with pills. His first thought, "I don't like condoms, why this all of a sudden?" Uh, cause I don't want to get pregnant? "I never come ... (154 words)

How can I start making money of my own? and how can I get rid of my acne without seeing a doctor?

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17 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hey are u ready to hear one of my many questions? If so, then pull up a chair. With the times a little rough, its hard to get some of the stuff I want and need. My mom can't always buy me the coolest brand of shoe or a funny graphic tee (my usual attire) I want to start trying ... (127 words)

Why do girls only see me as a friend? should I change my game plan?

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17 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - why do most girls i like and ask out, say they only see me as a friend? im 18 and a really funny guy and everyone loves me!!i think.. because everytime i goto a party or foot ball game or something everyones like BBBARRRYY!! and im like heyyy...whats up guys..i really wanna ... (106 words)

My friend thinks he is gay! how can I help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend (14) is afraid he's gay, when he's just bicurious i am a little and want to help how can i(15)?... (22 words)

I'm too old to get pregnant at 39, right?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I thought i already post last 2 days ago and i cant find my post so here i am again writing again. Hello to all, i just wanna ask something. I am 39 years old. 4 days after my days i took a pills. But then i realize i am already old so i stop my pills. I take it only 1... (145 words)

How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship?

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17 September 2010 (M) age 30-35 - How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship? ~~~~~~ In detail: She's the average, silent, "I am keeping to my work, and putting it first above all else" kind of girl. I know that she likes me, and her aunt has told me that "She really ador... (453 words)

He seems to be coming back -- how can I speed things up?

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17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been broken up for a month now and we were going out for 2 years. We broke up on good terms and it was because we were bickering too much; not even real fighting. We hung out Tuesday night and had a really good conversation. He poured his feelings out to ... (304 words)

Single and not happy about it

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17 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is simple really, I'm lovesick, I just don't know what to do about it, I've been single for a year now and I just don't know what to do, I know it's a long time from now but I'm sick of spending Valentines day alone, it's been 3 years since I had a girlfriend on ... (464 words)

Is it really over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

17 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So i got into an argument with my girlfriend the other day, one of many. She told me she couldnt take the stress and that she wasnt happy with the relationship right now. She told me she wanted to continue being friends because she valued our connection, but she said she just ... (558 words)

I moved five hours away after our break up -- and now he's dating someone here??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for about nine years. When we broke up (about nine months ago) it was basically mutual. The relationship had become stagnant and we both needed to move on. To make it easier on me and to cut the possibility of ever getting back together with him or ... (602 words)

Can a straight man turn gay and then turn straight again? I think were in love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

17 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Hello. I do not know who to turn to about this and am hoping someone out there can give me some advice. My best friend is a gay man. We are very close. We spend a lot of time together and we both truly love each other and have said so numerous times. I have always been ... (210 words)

Question for the ladies

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17 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How many years after becoming sexually active did it take you to achieve an unassisted orgasm, i.e. an orgasm where the only stimulation is an erect penis, nobody's hands are being used.... I'm trying to find out how normal I am to have taken me 6.5 years to reach that....... (50 words)

Any ideas on how I can tell my ex to quit contacting me!

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17 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - On saturday, my ex boyfriend is getting married to a girl he has been going out with for two years. When I found out in January I was elated, mainly because it ended badly and we were arguing a lot, and because we had many mutual friends, it came to a point where we avoided ... (442 words)

How do I play the player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get a guy back for playing games with you for months and leading you on... and then he all of a sudden stops seeing you and talking to you?... I want to get him back because I see him out all the time and i deleted him from my phone... But is there anyway to make me ... (112 words)

my boyfriend is demanding! what do I do?

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17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend is getting to be demanding and somewhat bossy. He's really good to me, has a sweet and passionate side but sometimes, he wants things exactly his way. I'm not liking it at all. I confronted him about it once and he told me to have some patience with him. ... (97 words)

Should I accept that he drinks? or should he respect me and our relationship and stop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

17 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am young around legal drinking age, my fiancee is around my age too. I am a girl and I don't party, I don't dance and I don't drink. My fiancee when I met him partied and drank at least once a week. I don't like that face that he drinks and gets drunk and wasted. He sa... (248 words)