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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a crush on my social science teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my social science teacher just got out of uni, so hes really young and hes reeally hot. The other day my friend said that id have sex with anyone for even a can of coke... And this made me cry. A lot. So my teacher came and sat next to me, asking me what was wrong. And then ... (212 words)

All of a sudden I can't stop thinking about sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I really need some advice. Im 16 and split up with my boyfriend like a year ago. Well before we split up we had sex. It was both of our first times and although it was really painful it was really nice. Well first of all when we split up i never thought about it... (104 words)

He used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but now he's dumped me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend started going out in april, we just broke up yesterday, he used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but he dumped me yesterday? and now he wont speak to me. help please.... (41 words)

Any advice on dry humping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I had a few quick questions. My boyfriend and I have done the dry humping thing before which I absolutely love but only on his end. He asked me if I could try which I did but I'm not sure if I am doing it the right way. I know that its pretty obvious how to but is ... (117 words)

Too embarrassed to have sex because I'm not very endowed. How to gain the confidence for myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Yeah, yeah. "Size doesn't matter unless " I've heard that before. My penis is just barely 4 inches long, 4 inches in circumference (around), and 1.4 inches thick (across) when hard. I get so insecure when people tell me "Oh it's okay, you're almost average" because I... (215 words)

Does having your ear suringed hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does having your ear suringed hurt? i think i need it doing because they are constantly blocking up and nothing i do lasts very long so i think its best i have them done but im scared of the pain. Does it hurt?... (43 words)

He moans when I talk to him and moans when I dont. I'm in the wrong either way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What can i do? Im stuck, hopeless, and really on the verge on loosing it. I have a friend who i thought i was good friends with, well i want to be and hes said many times he does too. The thing is when i speak to him i get no effort back, im trying to improve our friendship ... (223 words)

Why is my family so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - why is my cousin so nasty . my cousin Trudy is 40 years old with two kids . Jason, 20 and Ben 18 . well i never knew of her or my extended family untill i was about 11 . even then trudy was so stuck up and thought Jason was wonderfull as he went to grammer school a... (530 words)

He says we'll never be together again, so why does he still have photos of us kissing on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - he told me he still has feelings for me. but their mixed feelings. he still has photos of us kissing on fb but he sais we will never go out again. all i can say is wtf? yes he has been on fb since the break up and yes he has changed his about me on fb (which used to be about ... (80 words)

I think about cheating... a lot

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my first relationship. This is my boyfriend's second serious relationship and he's hooked up with a few girls. He says he loves me more than anything and wants to marry me. I do love him but I don't know if I love him as much as he loves me. I often think of che... (135 words)

How do I get over my past hurts in order to let him in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm afraid this is another one of those insecurity questions that you must get plenty of... I've been in multiple relationships now and have tried my very hardest to be a good parter to them. It's just that I always seem to be hurt in the long run... the first person, wh... (210 words)

How do I get him to look at me like he used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy in my class that i really like.we always make eye contact and he smiles.i got a new hair style and when i came back he smiled and said that he liked it alot. But now he has a girlfriend and he hasnt really made any eye contact with me but today in class he kept ... (254 words)

He is married now but wont leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - He's married now, why wont he leave me alone? ive tried and tried but i give in, i love him sooooooo much and know that he has a wife now, but he keeps coming and coming, i keep letting him, what do i do when the love is so strong for a married man, heeeeeeelp me please.... (57 words)

I used to fancie a guy who's now my best friend but I love him now what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - before you read this sorry about the amount of writng but i felt it needed explaining in full: about a year ago i had a crush on a boy who was friends with a couple of my best friends so i asked him out and he rejected me, but its been nearly 1 and a half years now and my... (188 words)

Any tips on how to communicate with your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of one year and his at collage,our problem is that we are struggling to communicate,i need a solution... (22 words)

Does she want to start things up again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl told me that we shouldn't be anything at all we went out a while back but now she's apologized for being a jerk. We've startd texting just a little. there's nothing wrong with a sex buddy but how do I know whether that's what she wants or if she wants 2 try again ... (66 words)

A guy attracted to his 2 guy cousins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - im attraced to my two guy cousins who are 27 and 30 while im 16 and a guy what should i do?... (24 words)

Partner no longer loves me.............help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - help! I was with my partner for 5 and a half years and engaged for almost 2 years! We booked our wedding and we also just had a baby, but he recently told me that he no longer feels the same way towards me as he used to. I am really confused as we never got to give our ... (120 words)

Did she actually like me? Or was it just a dare? Have I missed my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I really like this girl and I thought she liked me too but one day one of my friends who is quite close with her ( I think he likes her) told me she was going to say she likes me but it's a dare coz everyone was joking we were practically going out. So really hurt I lied and ... (141 words)

Do guys lie about not being virgins?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys lie and say theyre not virgins when they really are? and will theyre guy friends lie for them??because im a virgin and my boyfriend and his friend said he wasnt a virgin .then when we tryed to have sex he could put it in..and he told me to put it in for him.then he ... (91 words)

I've been secretly dating an older guy. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really like this older guy and we have been secretly together for the past 7 months but my sadly i am not allowed to date. should i tell my parents? how do i keep this older guy interested in only me and no other girl?... (50 words)

LDR: he's a magnet to females and I don't trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't believe I'm going to ask for help on my problem.I met a guy from My Space back on the 4th of Feb. We hit it off fast and great. When I met him he had over 1,000 females on his page and most of them wasn't the decent looking type. We started talking on the fone. The ... (483 words)

What is he getting from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 17 years ago, when I was 17, I fell in "love" with a guy that I worked with. I know it was an immature, obsessed kind of love that only a 17 year old could feel. He was Mr. Popular, with a string of girls following him; I was a gawky, nerdy teenager, so needless to say he ... (896 words)

I want lots of sex but unfortunately my partner doesnt!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want lots of sex but unfortunately my partner doesnt! I lost my virginity at 24. The first time wasn't great and neither was the second time...but then it just kept getting better and better and now I'm hooked! However, my partner who is in his mid 40s is not as keen on ... (606 words)

Living with my cousin and I think her boyfriend likes me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok am 15...and i move with one of my 20 year old cousin becuz i got in a fight with my mom. so i came to live with her and i met her bf, (sorry) but he is cute anyways and their going 2 have a baby but I've been noticing that my cousin's bf likes me cuz (idk maybe is just me) ... (166 words)

How do I give off the right vibes for my date tomorrow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice on how to create the right vibe when I meet up with a guy I like for a lunch date tomorrow. I want him to realise that I potentially like him as more than a friend. What should I wear? How should I behave? Any flirting tips please? Thanks :))... (59 words)

Injured bird syndrome...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) age 41-50 - this sounds silly but i need someone to comment because right now i feel empty and hollow. my best male friend who i met a year ago has just passed his final work assessment. ive seen him from day one when he started and he was extremely fragile as he had split with his wife... (224 words)

He keeps asking me to sleep with him but I'm underage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15. He's been asking me to sleep with him (using a condom) each time we fool around, touch and kiss. He's been asking me this every time we meet. I want to have sex with him but am having doubts about it! I LOVE him lol but What should do?!... (60 words)

Why is it taking him so long to get off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years! When we had sex he would come right away but recently when we have sex he takes a really long time to come or sometimes doesnt even come! Is he cheating, just not attracted to me anymore or what else could it be?... (54 words)

If you saw a 46 year old man and a 17 year old girl holding hands or kissing in public how would you react??

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My first love is 46, we've been seeing each other for a year now and we're both complete opposites but get on so well. We've cried together laughed together and he waited 4 months before we had sex. If you didn't know anything about the people and you saw a 46 year old man ... (114 words)

I'm scared of going into a new relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm scared of getting into a new relationship. My last one was about 6 months ago but we didnt last because i didnt like him, i had broken up a month before with my greatest "lovey"(alejandro) (: i realy liked alejandro and i still do or is it obsession? The point is that im ... (132 words)

What do I do to win back the love of my wife...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 4 years and married to her about two years. I love her with everything in me, she is the sun, moon and stars in option. But I have been stupid and lost a few jobs and took her for granted and she snapped. She doesn’t want a divorce, she says she ... (203 words)

In-laws forcing me to get pregnant for a boy child!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Readers, Please help me. I have been married for the last 5 years, I have a daughter (4 yrs old) and during my delivery I had severe heart complications and was under coma for almost a week after delivery. It took me almost 3 years to recover but still the doctors have ... (236 words)

How long do you stay with someone you love if they do not love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very lonely, don't know how I can be, I have four wonderful children... and a husband. However my husband has not told me he loved me for over a year now. We have been having trouble for quite some time. How long do you stay with someone you love if they do not love ... (103 words)

What signals do I need to give off to show him I want to be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love your opinions on whether this sounds like a date to you (I'm out of practice with all this kinda stuff; been single for 9 months after splitting with my bf of 8 years after he cheated): cute, kind, funny guy at work (not in my dept), see him from time to time, ... (216 words)

At the risk of getting pregnant...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl, well almost 17 now. I was kind of wondering if you could help me by telling me what things could actually put me at risk to get pregnant. I mean i have a bf and dont want to do anything with him that i may regret later... like is it ok to kiss him ... (82 words)

Playing long distance tug of war...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year. I've recently graduated and moved to another city. I know he loves me but We are constantly arguing, I think the distance is mostly to blame. But at the same time, whenever we fall out I feel as though I'm the only one... (235 words)

This all just seems too good to be true!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, My question might not be too clear because, truly, i'm really worried and I just want advice on what to do next. So, I'm a guy, i'm fourteen and I just started year 10 today. For a few years now I have known that i'm gay but I am still in the closet. The reason I haven't ... (877 words)

He's been done twice for being drunk under the influence yet he drove my car home DUI again!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - well my boyfriend did something really stupid - he has two dui's and he still drank and drove home last night, i got reallllly upset seeing that he was driving my car and that a third dui will land him in jail for 1 year. should i have gotten so upset... i like literally wanted ... (87 words)

Help me keep my sanity! I am still in love with my ex and can't stop thinking about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear xxx, I have a problem and i hope you can help me. I am still in love with my ex, but it is not as simple as you think. I just cant stop thinking about him. I hope you have time to read the long story below. If not, please give me tips and ideas on how to forget guy you ... (1590 words)

I'm having problems giving my boyfriend a nickname!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm having problems giving my boyfriend a nickname and I don't want it to be too common but I don't it be really weird...... (24 words)

He's totally different now that he's started college...

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and now we share a 9 month child . But now everything is different ever since he started going to college. He doesn't call me in his breaks, he ignores my text messages and his a totally different person, he yells at me and ... (111 words)

Should I... or should I not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for 2 years. Lately I've been fantasizing and having sex dreams about this guy .I think this guy is really attractive. Me and this guy have talked about hanging out but I know where that leads to but he has a girlfriend and I feel that I should hangout with ... (74 words)

What's the correct etiquette when couples go clubbing together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, What's the correct etiquette when couples go clubbing together? Like do you dance with people of the opposite sex, how far can you go? If my boyfriend was dancing very close to a girl (like bodies touching), is that acceptable? I've never went clubbing as a co... (61 words)

Am I wrong to complain about my boyfriend's daily drinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) age 51-59 - I have been going out with my BF for just over 2 years. Practically every day after work he goes to the pub soemtimes for a couple and sometimes alot more. I seem to be waiting for him to come out of the pub all the time. He says he's coming over then changes his mind - i ... (373 words)

Is my boyfriend taking me for granted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is my bf taking me for granted? Haven't seen him since tuesday (well wed morning but all i did was drop him off to work). It's friday night and i texted him asking when I can see him next. He responded with "I don't know... I have a 21st tonight... soon ". Should... (172 words)

He's changed! Why is he acting so suspicious now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I'm so confused and hope you can "help". My man, lets say is a contractor for a city agency who he is required to visit 1-2 times daily to retrieve paperwork. (He does have guy friends who work there) Well, in the last few months he has been visiting... (254 words)

Switching Up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

3 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This is a really complicated situation for me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and four months. [I'm 21 and he's 29] At a certain point in our relationship he told me that he would like to marry me one day even though we're both messy and forgetful pe... (378 words)

I'm done with the mind games so what can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok my crush and her friend are acting weird, my crush and her friend know i like my crush and shown many signs that my crush likes me too i spoken to my crush's friend alone and we had a friendly conversation and asked abt my crush whereabouts and compliment my crush and she... (341 words)

She says she loves me but I have never been in a relationship before... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There is a girl who loves me very much. She is beautiful, dedicated, loving, polite, good natured and a good person. About 6 months back I met her in a party. 2 months later she proposed me. But I rejected. The reason is that for a cause in my past I stopped believing in love ... (103 words)

After I got proof of him with another girl, he called me a psycho and broke up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend for four years, everything was going well till early this year. He quit his job and started his business. He was stressed out and start hanging out with his friends alot more. He joined church groups and start riding his motorbike. Prior to this he would ... (672 words)

Has anyone actually become pregnant after the pulling out technique?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex but he doesn't actually ejaculate inside me.. I've been hearing mixed comments about this as some people say it is very unlikely to get pregnant and some think it is very likely.. Has anyone actually got pregnant this ... (49 words)

I've moved on with another guy and I'm happy. My ex won't stop calling me and telling me he loves me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to date this kid Mike but he dumped me two weeks after we started. I was sad but had another guy Adam who was there for me. So after talking to this guy Adam who talked to me for a month. We started dating and im so happy with him. Yet mikes been calling me and begging ... (197 words)

Am I wrong thinking that he is mean watching me and my family struggle to make ends meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age - I am an unemployed single mother living with an adult daughter who is having a part time job at minimum wages. Money is really tight. I've met this wealthy man 20 years older than me. From the start he says I bring no money into this relationship so I am not sharing his ... (136 words)

Should I ask my friend if I can date his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i like a girl but im good friends with her ex. i dont know if i should ask her out or ask my friend for permisson. (she is hot, slim, fit, smart and cute... (35 words)

We've broken up and now I'm scared that he might do something with the nude photos he has of me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 19 years old girl who was in a relation with a 26 year old boy. jus 2 days back i broke up with him. v were in a physical relationship. our relation was of 3 years. i dont kno hw wud i forget him. he had my nude photos n m really scared if he does something wrong with ... (96 words)

My friend got broken into the other night. She's very shacken up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some advice please. My f friend had her home broken into last night. I live in another town, but will be going to see her tomorrow. She's been shaken up by it, but has asked me not to tell her m friend who lives, like, 10 mins away from her because he's working ... (166 words)

What is this situation? I'm so confused and feel so wrong! (sex problem)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like crap.... Okay here is the situation: I have a girlfriend and she has a brother. I love her dearly and been with her for about 10 years. Well we have been fighting a lot and her mother wanted to kick me out because of our arguing. Her brother has no knowledge of ... (312 words)

Do girls really judge how their boyfriends look even if they love them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

3 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need some really reeally really good advice here coz i need it have u ever felt that ur girlfriend is just too good for u to the point that u would even think that she may cheat on u ? im not a bad looking guy but the problem is not here, my girlfriend is ... (224 words)

Do you think he will text me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this is like a duplicate question, but I didn't get enough feedback last time I posted it. So please can it be re-posted :D Basically, me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago... I cried for hours, it basically ruined my vacation... I still feel like crap... Bas... (249 words)

Should I avoid the picnic my ex might be attending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age - I've been broken up w/my boyfriend for about a week or so and I've been invited to go to a Labor Day Picnic on Saturday. All the advise I hear is stay away and if he wants to call he will, but should I attend a party that he MIGHT be at? He has his young daughter's B'day ... (89 words)

I met a guy online and then saw him in person. Should I be upset if he's seeing others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Here’s the problem please can anyone give advice? I’m talking to a guy online for maybe 8 months, not online romantic relationship because he was with someone else but we just talked as friends. Then they split, and after a while, we make meeting up plans. We li... (251 words)

We've been together four months, he told me he loves me, but is not in love with me yet. What does this actually mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend four months we spend every day together and have moved in together,i live with him at his mothers house,all is great and im happier than ive ever been.i can see that my boyfriend cares for me and that he loves me.your probably thinking what am i ... (104 words)

I'm in a LDR and not sure if he broke up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 6 months and we were friends for an year. I am in a different country now cause of my job, would go back to my home town within 2-3 months. My bf is in my home town. I moved to this new place a month back. So for a month we a... (281 words)

Any advice on getting back into the dating scene after a twenty year marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I don't know how to get back onto the dating scene. I've been married for over 20 years (I married really young) and my husband and I are got a divorce a few months ago that I don't regret. I've found an old flame (well after the divorce) who I might meet ... (110 words)

All my friends are going to a different school than me this year. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well it's the last year for this school and I'm going to a different school but all my really close people I absolutely love are going to the school I'm there district and I'm leaving everyone... And the girl who hurt me badly will be attending my school and more people like ... (74 words)

Help please - really rocky time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age - Help please - I'm churning inside. My Partner and I are in a very difficult situation. We have been together two years, and it was a big deal for both of us to start a new relationship in our fifties. We didn't rush into it and were committed to each other from the start (we ... (1548 words)

Why did he disappear on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - oky long story short me and my boyfriend were suppost to hang out n the weekend. on a saturday then all of a sudden he told me he could only hang out for two hoours becase he had a wedding to go to. i dont believe it though bcause he would have known about that ahead of ti... (232 words)

He doesn't tell me that he loves me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating this guy for awhile now, and he seems too realli like me, cause he wants too see me everyday, n he as already presented me too all his closes friends,,, n we have already had sex. Now the problem is that he still hasnt told me he loves mee, not even when were in ... (77 words)

I have a much higher sex drive than my partner. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I want lots of sex but unfortunately my partner doesnt! I lost my virginity at 24. The first time wasn't great and neither was the second time...but then it just kept getting better and better and now I'm hooked! However, my partner who is in his mid 40s is not as keen on ... (606 words)

Will she ever leave this rocky relationship?

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years now. These 5 years wasn't smooth for her. She has frequent verbal conflicts with him, broke up but pacthed countless times. 2 years ago, she told me her bf slapped her but still remained in this relationship. She tells me she has ... (157 words)

He has an "I'm always right" attitude

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, Just wanted some opinions on my situation. My Bf and I have been together for about 5 months and when its going good its great, when its bad, its terrible! During this time he has accused me of looking at another guy when out watching a band (the bands lead ... (325 words)

Should I let go of this tidal wave relationship

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my guy off and on for last 8 years since my senior year of high school. He was my first love and I thought we were going to get married and have children one day. In recent years we break up for the smallest things, like a phone call from one of my guy friends ... (139 words)

Still have the hots for a doctor I seen 6 years ago

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound odd but I can't get my mind off it. 6 years ago my grandmother was taken ill to hospital and me and my mum stayed with her whilst all the tests were done. The doctor she had was a really nice guy and (innapropriate I know) he flirted with me and I ... (218 words)

G/f chatting with strange man every night, is she cheating?

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody, I have a serious problem that I hope I can find help with.... For the past month, I have been beating myself up thinking that my gf might be cheating on me, I have talked to her about it sometimes, and she always says that she is only ever inlove with me. But ... (261 words)

I think my cousin's boyfriend likes me what do I do?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok am 15...and i move with one of my 20 year old cousin becuz o got in a fight with my mom.so i came to live with her.and i met his bf,(sorry)but he is kute.anyways and their going 2 have a bby.but i been noticing dat my cousin bf likes me.cuz (idk maybe is just me)but he tris ... (138 words)

Why does he keep bringing up the past?

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3 September 2010 (?) age 30-35 - okay i dont know no more.. i mean my x and i dont see each other as x's ... how ever everytime were together he brings up the past i mean it doesnt bother me i just get confused by the way he looks at me and because he bring up the past.. i dont realy seee him because of his ... (148 words)

I feel double betrayed by my husband

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old, my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we have 3 children together, ages 4, 3 and 1. My husband walked out on the kids and me the day i was discharged from the hospital with our newborn babygirl (12 months ago) and he moved in with a "friend". He ... (870 words)

Fiance doesn't understand that I want to live a health life!

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So my fiance don't care much about health, diet, eating habits, etc while i do and am trying and would love to eat and be as healthy as i can be not just for myself but for my future family and my career. I currently hold a bachelor's in Alternative Medicine and want to get ... (325 words)

Why do girls never look at me?

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do girls NEVER look at me? At work, when I'm out, my mate's friends, sister's friends, whoever. No girl seems to give me a glance, or at least they don't want me to catch them glancing. Some look and when I see them they look away. Is this shyness on their part or because ... (66 words)

I like it when my cousin talks about sex but should I go along with it?

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and a male , i have liked my 21 year old female cousin for almost 2 years now and 2 months ago she start to act different around me talk about her relationships and much more sexual information , so recently i told her that i liked her and she told me that she liked me ... (152 words)

She's having a hard time should I send her flowers?

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I like just went back to college and she is having a hard time and I think I should send her some flowers to show her I care about what she is going through and I care about her wellbeing and it might send the message I like her more than a friend but I'm just a guy ... (84 words)

He's mad I smoked weed! What do I do?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i smoked weed and now my boyfriends mad at me.im 19 years old .and i said i would never do it but one day i tryed it and hated it.ill never do it agian..he didnt want me to smoke because he use to and i understand that but i was pressured into it and i feel stupid for doing ... (91 words)

Any tips for losing weight?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Need help if anyone can help me!!! I have had 4 kids and is over weight now. In 5'4" and weigh almost 210 pounds!!! I have tired to lose weight but don't ever seem to!!! If anyone could give me some excercizes that would help me out of any advise I would really apprecate it!!! ... (99 words)

How can I get him to see what I see in him?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this guy who I like and likes me, he's really nice and good looking, but he's really insecure! he's not insecure about his apearence, but more so himself as a person... how can I get him to see what I see in him?... (45 words)

I'm worried about his weed habit

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful man but he smokes weed and says he has urges to smoke often, how can I get over it and simply love him? I don't want to change him or control him but i have a bad history with weed and the men in my life, every time he's high i ... (138 words)

He's been seriously flirting with a cute bartender

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3 September 2010 (F)

age - Hey guys, I need group therapy :) My hubby is a very well educated, multi-talented, handsome guy in the building industry and has been feeling very badly about himself lately due to the poor economy especially in his field. Anyway, he is 40 and unemployed for the most par... (300 words)

Getting married next month after six years, but no sex

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for 6 and a half years. The past two years we have been engaged and are getting married next month. We just moved in together about 3 months ago, and it's not at all what I had hoped for. We tend to work opposites, which doesn't leave much ... (188 words)

Falling for my boss

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am falling for my boss! He is single and very nice. He does not know I like him and shows no interest in me but I cant get him out of my head. I want to add him on facebook but feel it may be crossing the line. I am not sure what do?... (57 words)

Trying to relate to my g/f's son

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Gonna get straight to the point here. My girlfriend has a small boy aged 2, who I think the world of, but, I'm incredibly shy around him. I have got a lot better around him but I find it very hard to talk to him when anyone else is around, I just simply go quiet. I really want ... (149 words)

I can't sleep without him, what do I do?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to live at my boyfriend's house, but his mom kicked me out, so now I have to live with my mom. We can't sleep without each other, and we want to be with each other, but at the moment, we can't. What can I do?... (47 words)

Is my guy lying to me ?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm 26 yrs old my boyfriend is 24 we have been dating for a little over 2 month now. we have definatly started out hot and heavy already in love and having great sex. But I recently found out that he has had several porn internet sites that are for not only porn but talking ... (479 words)

Violence in the marriage, wondering about another guy

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34 have been married for 10 years with 2 young children. My marriage has always had problems especially violence on occasions, husband committed more to work than family and husbands porn addiction, lots of lying for the majority of our marriage. He has no friends - just ... (172 words)

My b/f posted for men-to-men

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! My boyfriend of 4 years posted personals Men to Men on Craigslist. I was totally shocked. In addition he semed to know all the lingo and I am totally disgusted by reading it. Appears he is not new at this. I even replied to one of his personals under a fake name / ... (189 words)

He'd like to have a threesome with another girl

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said last night that he'd like to have a threesome with another woman. He's only ever said before that he'd like one with me and another guy. Personally I've always been curious about a threesome with another woman (rather than 2 men) and the thought does get me ... (170 words)

Should I ask a doctor about how my breasts are developing?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am 16 years old and my breasts have been developing weird since I first started developing. One is 2 sizes smaller then the other and they are saggy/flat and nasty looking im some what thin im 5'6 and 130 one of my boobs are a B32 and the other is a D36 and what i mean ... (96 words)

I don't like kissing, and can't see ever liking it

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Recently, I started talking to a boy who works across the street from me and I've gone on a few dates with him. He and I share a lot of the same interests and get along well, but I am not enjoying the physical part of the ... (150 words)

I have dated this girl for four months: update

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I dated this girl for four months update she texted a guy while on a date with me a month ago and lied anout it but admitted to the lie the next day. I messaged the guy last Friday and told him that I was dating her and he said he had been dating her for almost a year. She foun... (215 words)

How can I change the start day of my pack so that I have my period during the week instead?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i started my first pack of loestrin 24 this month and i take my brown pill tomorrow. i start on tuesdays which means i get my period fri sat and sun..on the weekends-- which i hate. how can i change the start day of my pack so that i have my period during the week instead? ... (57 words)

Should I tell him I'm willing to wait?

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I have been dating this guy for 4 months, things were great. We hang out on an average of 2 times a week or so. he really like me but i think i am in love with him already. i want to get into the relationship with him, but he said he is not ready for a relationship yet due ... (186 words)

He gave them oral, but not me?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age - I knew my husband well before we became an item. So, I knew a few of his girlfriends way back. I also know he gave them oral sex. I don't! Do I have the right to be upset? Why do I feel cheated? He knows I would like it. ... (49 words)

Tall woman with a shorter man?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - At 5' 11" I am a very tall woman that usually wears heels for work purposes that easily put me over 6'2. A couple of weeks ago while on my lunch break I walked over to the Book store to browse around and noticed this cute shorter guy eying the very top shelf. I could s... (255 words)

I don't want to become a single mother, how can I get him to open up?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I am back with my ex boyfriend of 3 years and the father of my child. Currently I'm living back at my parents house with my son and my partner lives on his own. Last week he asked me if I wanted to stay the weekend so I did. But since Wednesday, it feels like he is ... (223 words)

I'm in a relationship and in love with a married man!

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i been dating this married man for about a year now.. when me and him started to mess off. we both agree to no feeling and no attachment... however time have change and now i have feeling for him.. i meet him at my old high school. hes wife have seen my picture and she have ... (130 words)

What if we meet and the feels are too good to be true?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been trying to avoid these feelings because I know its way to soon to say them, and I still intend on not saying them now. I think I may be in love with my boyfriend. But that's not the bad part...we've never met, he has a daughter, only knew each other for over a month, ... (290 words)

He knows I have low self esteem yet he still continues to talk about other girls!

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend knows I have very low self estyeem, and knows how much it hurts me to hear him say how pretty he thinks another girl is. He told me he will stop, but of course like a lot of guys they don't stick to what they say unfortunetly. He continues to say what he wants to ... (154 words)

Thought we'd had a good start, but haven't heard from her

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3 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone i'm 22, here's the deal. The last girl i was involved in before now was in 2005, the less said about that the better. Anyway that's long gone, and i've been talkng to this girl who's the same age as me for a month or two now (actually met her 2 or 3 years back, ... (683 words)

I feel uncomfortable dating!

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 19, a virgin and never had a bf. i've always had small flings (if even that) that have just never kicked off the ground. i always moan about being the only single one all the time, but the moment any guy ever shows any interest in me, i for some reason feel like i do ... (109 words)

Am I just convenient for him?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel hurt by this coment but am i over reacting to it. I have been seeing this guy for over 5yrs now and while i love him dearly he does'nt love me,he's fond of me i know but i don't feel any love from him.he's always txting me everyday without fail at least 3 or 4 times,,c... (269 words)

4 guys, do I just wait for one of them to make a move?

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old. I'm in my fourth year of college and life is going pretty good right now. I feel good about the direction my life is going and I'm ready for anything. Everything feels perfect, except one thing. Well, three things that is. Three guys to be specific. Well...f... (634 words)

Guy is now talking with his ex..

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I really don't know where to turn here, so I'm hoping someone can help me. I'm 22 years old, and talking to someone who is 27. We have been talking for about 2 months or so. Its a short time, but we've bonded so fast and see each other practically every day/night. We're ... (505 words)

It never goes further than a few dates. It makes me feel so down.

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 19 and feel im going to along forever. i go on dates with boys but it never goes futher than that. i dont know whats wrong with me, or what im doing wrong. everyine around me are getting together or metting new boys/girls and making a relationship. its making me feel so ... (60 words)

I think he is mad because I confronted him about drunk dialing

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - He dumped me after 6 months. I met this man online. We started meeting in my place.We never been anywhere else.He used to come at my place every Friday and drink stay over for the night.I enjoyed his company as I am lonely woman.I work 40 hours a week have a 7 years old daug... (356 words)

My boyfriend has a crush on another girl. I have asked him not to befriend her, but he says I'm being unreasonable.

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3 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a crush on another girl. Is there anything he can do to not have the crush deepen? I asked him to remain aquaintences with her and not to become friends, but he says that is unreasonable and I have no right to tell him who to be friends with. I don't know what ... (61 words)