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30-35,
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writes:Dear Cupid....I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault..."she kissed him and he pulled away" well...so he says...I dont know what to believe... my friens don't really like him that much...because he is kinda of a jock..popular and all...and he parties a lot...but then I started to like my best friend!....and when me and my current bf broke up.things started 2 happen between me and my friend....he knows me better than I know myself....and I love him SO much! I broke his heart so many times..beacause whenever he thinks that things are gonna work out 4 us...I get back 2gether with my bf...and I don't wanna loose him...and I think now that I took my bf back...I kind of regret it....what should I dooooooo??/.please this is URGENT!!help!
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reader, ThatOneKid  +, writes (22 September 2010):
I'm going to have to say stop jerking your friends chain around... He loves you probably way more than that other guy .. but if you don't feel the same way .. then you need to stop ... Dating best friends can be amazing .. but it can also be just a subconscious feeling of familiarity .. You may love being around him and he may make you feel really good and here's the keyword .. Comfortable .. but that's not the same thing as Love .. Being comfortable with someone can be easily confused with liking someone .. You get used to them and miss them when they are gone ... but I miss my dog when I'm away sometimes ..
You have to work on how you feel .. Figure out what you want .. and if your friend isn't that .. TELL HIM ... Nothing is worse than leading someone on just to be let down because another Hot Jock Asshole walks into the room ..
I made a post on this site about this ... In comparison to your story .. I was the Best friend ...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-her-she-loves-me--.html#provide_answer
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Darling you are way to young to have yourself caught up in situations like these, you should be out enjoying yourself and meeting new people. Here is my advice. Dont mess these two boys around because you may lose both of them. You say your friends dont like your boyfriend but its not up to them you need to search your own head and see how you feel about him. If you are not happy with him then break all ties with him, but please dont mess around with your best friends head he obviously likes you a lot but you need to know in your heart if you think of him as more than a friend before you take your relationship to the next level. Whatever you decide please be careful not to hurt any of these guys. Let me no how you get on.
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