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If he was interested in me he wouldn't be falling asleep, would he?

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Question - (17 October 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm not very good at picking up on social cues and I have absolutely no sense as to whether this guy likes me or no.

I went on a date on the Friday night with a guy I met through a friend. We had been out the Saturday night the weekend before but in a group and he texted me the following week and asked me out for dinner. I had a great evening. We laughed all night and he came back to mine (just for coffee) but he did give me a passionate kiss, which was nice. Whilst talking on the sofa he fell asleep. This was fine, I threw a cover over him and went up to bed on my own. The next morning was fine and about an hour after he left he texted and asked me if I was free that night too. I said I was and he came over to mine and cooked me dinner. He made such an effort going to the supermarket and buying ingredients (and even a roasting tin!) I felt really swept off my feet! BUT, after dinner he fell asleep on my sofa AGAIN! So again I went up to bed and put a cover over him. He kissed me goodbye in the morning and texted me to say thanks for a nice night. He didn't suggest another date and I'm thinking if he was interested in me he wouldn't be falling asleep! Would he???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010):

Yeah I think hes clearly interested. I can be tired too and just crash cause of my job or stress or whatever. Nothin against the girl at all...he may have that going on and just doesnt have the energy for anything sexual right now. Sounds like u two make a nice pair :)

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (18 October 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony auntHe likes you A LOT.

dont mess this up by being available all the time.

take some time off,don't see him everyday.

and hes probably used to sleeping early.if u guys stayed up till 2 AM or somethin,no wonder.

plan your next date outside your house. daytime.

oh and... he saw u 2 days in a row. he cooked for u.he asked u out properly. have mercy on the poor man.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010):

He obviously finds you attractive,good company but boring the spark just aint there if it was he would be awake just gazing at you

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2010):

natasia agony auntI think he just drank too much and/or was tired after work and then all that running around/cooking/etc. However, it is a bit strange. I don't think it means he doesn't like you, though.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010):

When a man is NOT interested in a woman, he "shows" that by NOT calling her and NOT asking for her company. You know what I mean? This man is obviously very interested in you. So why did he fall asleep? Maybe he suffers from some kind of a sleep disorder. That would be my best guess. I think you should talk about it with him, though. Then you will know for sure. Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010):

Whats his job? He may actually be tired! Im sure if he wasnt interested he would just not go on dates with you so stop stressing!

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