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writes:me and my boyfriend are in the no contact situation but we never said it wuz over. i stopped contacting him bcuz he wouldnt call me or txt me.. so i figure i would give him time to figure out wht he wants... do to his insecurity and trust issues with me.. we havnt talked for a week already.. i guess what i want to know if i still have access to his email and he has not changed his password yet.. is that a sign that there is still hope????? how long would u say it takes to figure out that is over after the no contact?? and if he wuz to have sex with someone else would that b consider cheating??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Hello!
Its important for "break" boundaries to be made prior to no contact. Id say if nothing was discussed both of you are free to do whatever. When are you gonna chat next? Id try to fix that if u wish.
IMO space in a relationship isnt a good sign. However, it could still mean anything. My experiences havent been good but that doesnt mean they apply here. Yes, if u still have access to his email chances are the guy trusts that you wont invade his privacy at least. Try to resist going thru his mail during this time if that ever comes to mind. Id say after a month of no contact, things look bleak. But again, I wouldnt assume. Discuss some things with him and see whats going on so u both can take the time not to worry or be anxious but to reflect on yourselves and see how you can improve in the relationship. Best to you :)
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