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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend got a booty call last night from one of her former f-buddies. I met her f-buddy at a party about two months ago. She said they were still friends but not sexually active so I didn't worry about it.But then yesterday he sent her a booty call even though he knew she was in a committed relationship. She said she didn't want to do anything behind my back but maybe we could have a threesome. He said no way he just wanted to screw her behind my back.At this point don't you think I have a reason to be really angry at him!? I thought he was my friend but he obviously doesn't respect me at all. She cutely turned him down but in my opinion that's not enough. She should have told him to respect committed relationships instead of being a homewrecker. Instead she said "lol I don't think so" and continued to act like he didn't do anything wrong.Afterward I was really mad at her friend, and she said I shouldn't overreact. I'm also mad at her for being friends with a homewrecker and not even telling him that homewrecking is wrong. He obviously has no respect for me or my relationship with my girlfriend. I told my girlfriend she should rip him a new one but she said I'm overreacting. She said that since she didn't sleep with him I shouldn't get that angry. Do you think I'm overreacting? Should my girlfriend tell her friend that he was acting inappropriately?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2010):
To be honest, I'd get rid of her for the reasons 123 posted below.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 No you're not overreacting. Why is your girlfriend even talking to this guy? And why do you expect this guy to have any respect for you or your relationship with your girlfriend, when your girlfriend herself doesnt have any respect for the relationship! That man is not part of your relationship; dont expect anything out of him. What is surprising is that this girl has given him that amount of space, even now when she is in a committed relationship with you.
Take it from a girl...no one dare approach me in this way, unless I allow them to. Your girlfriend has not only given him ideas, she has also suggested having a threesome!! Thats GROSS!!how can you even tolerate that? Its not about whether she slept with him or not,the entire dynamics is all wrong.
You need to think about this relationship.Your concern is..."Should my girlfriend tell her friend that he was acting inappropriately?" Thats not even the issue. This girl is not in a committed relationship with you, because it takes two to make a relationship. Not one. Not THREE. Sure she has her past, she had this f-buddy, but that should have just remained in the past. Its concerning that its still a part of her present.
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