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writes: Hey all. Am in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Its been hard since its a long distance relationship and we're both at colleges. Bt we've managed so far. Is it possible 2 end up together later in life? Coz thats what she and i want. Bt lately i've been meeting other girls and every time am with another girl its like she senses it because thats when she calls me and asks me what I am doing or to just ask how my day is going. How is this possible? Anyone with the experience of being in such a relationship and then ending up together? And no regrets later? I feel like one needs to be in several relationships before getting into a more serious relationshp like this. What do you thnk? I still love her. Am 23.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAm not cheating. Am just meeting other people. Though its hard sometimes bt i havent cheated in the time we've been together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Im afraid its guilt thats making you feel like this and if you are cheating on her then im sorry but you should feel guilty. a decient person would break up with their girlfriend instead of going behind their back.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (17 October 2010):
It's probably in your head. You meet some woman and then the next time you hear from her, you feel guilt. When you say with a woman, do you mean cheating or just being friends? If you're cheating, then no you won't be together later in life. But if that's not what you mean, if you really love each other and work at it, then yes. There's a chance of being together. Just don't get lazy, or the relationship will fall apart.
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