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writes: I'm really confused now. I just found out that my boyfriend has been talking to some men on the internet about wanted to experiencing being with another man. Okay i can say that i understand him a bit, because i have always been curious about how it would be being with another woman. But first of all i would never act on it or talk about it with another girl while I am in a relationship. But that's not all, he has always told them he had a girlfriend and he has sent them pictures of me, both normal pictures but also private pictures and that just hurts me so much!! I told him that we were through and i haven't spoke to him since then. But a part of me wants to forgive him and go back to him. I don't want to tell any of my friends about this so i was hoping that someone here could give me some advice. Thanks.
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reader, Ven  +, writes (17 October 2010):
I'm so sorry for your situation.
If he had been online with women saying he wanted to experience sex with someone besides you, we would all call that cheating and you would kick him to the curb. Just because it's a guy doesn't make it okay. If he has fantasies, they need to go through you first.
Second, when he passed off pictures of you to other guys, he became an official D-Bag.
I like the way you wrote your post, and know that you are someone who is wonderful and special enough to not deserve this kind of treatment. Be strong, and do whatever it takes to not let this scum back into your life.
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