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writes:This is not a relationship question... But I need some advice. I'm 22 years old, not going to school, working but not somewhere I want to be long term. I'm seriously considering joining the navy. The only thing that's holding me back is fear of the unknown I guess. I've never really been on my own, and I'm scared. But at the same time, I know it will help me grow up. I've always wanted to be a part of something bigger than myself and make a difference. But I don't know what to expect or how to prepare myself mentally for even making the decision to actually do it let alone being there. Any advice, encouragement, discouragement? Feedback is much needed and appreciated! Thanks...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): I'm actually going through a similar situation...I graduated and have a job but it's part-time...I want to join some type law enforcement branch..but I'm just not sure...I grew up in it and love the idea of helping people etc...and being a strong woman are very appealing but my creative and independant side are very important to me as well as not knowing what the heck I'm getting into. It's a lifestyle change and it deserves a great deal of consideration. I more or less sit at the computer and read the jobs over and over and contemplate, but now I'm looking into getting training before I go into it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): I'm in the Coast Guard, not the Navy, but I have a lot of Navy friends. It's not something to do because you don't know what else to do. It;s a good choice, but you need to be a bit prepared for it...mentally more than physically really. Has anyone in your family served? If not, it's unlikely you have any idea what you'd be in store for. It is life changing, but life building.
If you want to PM me, we can discuss more.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2010):
I attempted to get into the British Royal Navy when I was 18, rather unfortunately failing a medical for health reasons (and I always thought I was very healthy!).
The first thing you need to do is check out a careers orientation that the navy holds. Check it out and see whether it really is something you want to do. You can usually speak to people who are already in the navy at an orientation.
Then you'll need to make sure you're healthy. That means getting checked out by a doctor and keeping seriously healthy. The physical tests are hard work.
Thirdly, remember that you most definitely won't be alone. AT all. You'll be with a load of other people who probably feel the same way as you.
I say go for it, but do your homework first.
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reader, rivi +, writes (17 October 2010):
I'm only guessing but I would be surprised if the Navy do not have orientation sessions either before or during the selection procedure to see whether applicants are indeed suited to Navy life.
They are not going to take people whom psychological and other testing shows up as unsuited.
So I would think you have zero to lose by enquiring and applying. Even if you do not get in, or yourself decide during the process, against going thru with it you will still have learnt some useful things.
So go for it - and report back on your findings.....
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