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anonymous
writes:okay my ex broke up with me over the summer and i was heartbroken but we've been talking to each other, in fact i know more about him in the last two months than in the last months months of his relationship. now i told him if he starts to see other girls let me know. we talk nearly every day and text each other always me making the first contact. It always been he would never get in contact with me until friday morning, i woke up to a text from him so i bite the bullet and asked him out. He was unsure but said yes. but hasn't talked to me since. Is he playing hard to get and why hasn't he returned my call? I kinda getting annoyed cos I don't know where I stand and when I say it to him he stares at me and says we're friends but his body language says otherwise. What do I do? Do I cut my losses and move on or be calm and wait for him?
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Men don't play hard to get, either he's interested in being with you again or he's not. Judging by his actions and the fact that he's not making much of an effort to stay in contact with you, I'd say he's not interested in dating again and probably not all that interested in being friends, either. I know it's hard to accept, but you'll have to move on. If you wait for him to come around you'll be waiting forever, why waste any more time and energy on someone like him?
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
Get yourself moved on. He may come around in the future, but for right now you need to get yourself mentally and emotionally calmed enough to where you will be able to see if he changes or if he just wants to fall back into old relationships because they are easy and he is needy.
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