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writes: So heres the deal. I like my cousin. I mean i LIKE LIKE my cousin. He is older than I, and he knows I like him. We have talked about having sex or kissing and such, but every time i say i want to wait cause im not ready. Ive never felt this way about a guy before, and I know itss kind of wrong since hes my cousin and all. So heres where im getting at, should we remain 'just cousins' or take it to the next level, like a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): just cousins because its illegal and totaly wrong
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reader, orange_sasquatch  +, writes (18 October 2010):
I'd say definately don't "take it to the next level" for several reasons. First, it is kinda wrong, you being cousins (although it may be legal...). Second, he sounds like all he wants is sex. he'll keep pushing you till you give in, and then you'll be in a rare situation, you had sex with your cousin, and all he did was use you for sex. neither thing is good. you'll feel like shit for being used, and you'll feel bad about talking to your family cause he's your cousin. I'd say stay away from the relationship. REMAIN COUSINS!
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reader, mister hello  +, writes (18 October 2010):
well, does your cousin love u?? I mean,really love u?? Does he behave with u the way he behaves with other girls..just bcoz hez ur cousin duznt mean that u guys cant luv each other,....do it the way u want..if he loves u and u love him,then i would suggest taking it to the next level
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): Your cousin is thinking with his penis. You're going to be hurt and used. He want sex and your is just as good. If you call having sex is the next level then tell your parents.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): I dnt think ur question shld b if u should do it because u should follow ur heart and not statistics. i think the real question is are u both ready for the reactions of fam. N friends. The plus is that fam. Does get over thngs- eventually.. But if u two stick togethr it might work.. But u mite wait til ur alittle older to say nethng so they dnt separate u 2.
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