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writes:I need big help. I met a charming fellow on a dating site a year ago and it seemed we really hit it off but there was something about him that didn't sit quite well. One week he aadored me and the next he would unexplainedly treat me like crap and call me names that are no way indicative of my nature. I got the feeling he was either married or dating another woman so I would occassionally question him and each and everytime he'd deny it. I treated him like a diety, put him above me. He treated me like crap 90 percent of the time. The kinder I was to him the more he belittled me and distanced himself. We only met in person once. He would ask me out then fall off the end of the earth then resurface. Something just wasn't right. Come to find out he was having an affair. He inevitably told me to fk off because he only wanted to use me for sex anyway and he hasn't acknowledged me since. This happened 4 months ago and not a day passes that he doesn't check my facebook account. I'm starting to wonder if he's insane or dangerous. It's bothering me. I've moved on and am dating a real kind gentleman. I am a lost a complete lost. Why the hell is he stalking my facebook everyday since he so ridely disposed of me????
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): How do you know when someone is checking your facebook account?
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Hes probably prying because hes curious and has nothing better to do. Lets face it. With a personality like his. He probably spends alot of time bored and alone. He treated you badly and you are well rid of him. But remember you treated him like a god. That must have been nice for him. No doubt he misses that a little. Dont be tempted to contact him. Just block him everywhere. I have a hunch he has many ex friends. Let him concentrate on watching them instead! And be very particular who you add once youve blocked him. As hes probably got a few fake profiles for such occasions. Well done for finding a nice guy. Totally delete the other from your life x
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Block him on facebook, and not only will he not be able to interact with you there, he will not be able to access your pages.
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