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writes: Ok so ive been with my boyfriend almost a year now and its been up and down. When we first got together it seemed like i was chasing someone out of my leaugue but he did things for me that let me know he was interested. We moved 2 hours away to a town the next state over which shows some commitment since before we stayed at his moms.. But a few months later he changed up. For about 6 months he wldnt have sex with me. I kept catching him n lies and whenevr i tried to talk about our many problems he wld ignre me like i wasnt there. On a couple occaisions he told me i had to move out so w.o. Hesitation i went back to my hometown only to be blown up the next day with him begging me to come back. I was slowly loosin feelings for him then i met up with him at his,for the nite, hotel room and an escort came knockin on the door. I was upset and left and he didnt come chasing. The next week he blew me up like crazy. bein dumb i went back and since then these last 2 months have been great. whats with this guy?
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
I don't have all the information, but from your post I would think he is either using you or suffers from severe mood swings. Either way, I recommend moving back home and telling him that he needs the time and space to get his life sorted out.
On a personal note: if it was me, I would have been gone the second that escort showed up looking for him.
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